/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous

What if my penis is way too sensitive and losing some sensation will help me last longer? Is this recommended?

>>11178

Umm, that is a clear sign of not stimulating it enough. Exact opposite of numb penis. Good job un that nofap streak.

>>11179

Well shit, I tried fapping consistently with a death grip and an onahole too and my sensitivity never really went down. I also don't want to quit nofap because it helps keep me focused…damn. What do you suggest?

>>10939

What the hell happened in 5 days to make you do a complete 180?

>>11180

The oversensitivity phase will pass. Just keep on not fapping.

Man if you start to edge, just keep telling yourself how disgusting it is. You will very quickly have urges to stop.

>>16909

I know, I don't even want to edge (I was able to restrict touching for a good while there), but the peek is bad, and once you're hooked its hard to let go.

>>16905

And just to complement, I'm still not sold on the whole semen retention thing, and to be honest I don't even think I could do it. Though for sure I've seen positive aspects, so I'm looking forward to reading a book on the subject soon.

Reporting in, I think I failed last just after my last comment, however somehow I managed to completely get over it for the last week, so day 7.

It was relatively easy, but today I got really irritated and grumpy, without realizing why, I've guess I'm starting to suffer a bit of a withdrawal, hopefully tomorrow will be better.

There is one thing though, I really didn't enjoy the last time, I'm getting into that frame of mind where I really don't enjoy it anymore, deeply I just want real intimacy and love with a woman, and now I have a real reason to stay away from the shit.

So pray for me brothers, since I know it will still get a bit harder before I can come back stronger. Godbless and stay strong.

>>16974

Time is flying by. Another week, another day, and here I was wondering why I am feeling so last lately, guess it's another flat line, no joy, no horniness, to the point that it makes me want to check up porn just so I can get the feeling of being aroused again. But it's being good though, over clearer mind I even got rid of the filth porn I got during my relapse.

I'm holding on strong, though I'm extremely demotivated about everything else. As usual just reporting in, and a memo to keep strong for any struggling brothers out there, to day 14 and beyond.

No really feeling much like writing, but I feel the need to report back.

I failed last Saturday, which will already make 6 days today. I was the one that posted on the 2019 thread about cumming without even fapping, I was pretty confused on that one, but since my arousal was high, I couldn't help but fap later that same day.

I felt really bad and lazy afterwards, about my own weakness, and specifically spiral of feelings that led me to that, I was horny of course, a strong urge right after coming back from a flatline, very confused, because I managed to cum from pelvic movement alone and that pretty strong, but also frightening that perhaps I got too sensitive, and finally I was really depressed because I was feeling extremely letdown from a girl.

Still in shame I confess my sin, so that I may be stronger.

>>16771

>when i get urges, i watch the nz shooting video

Good idea. I watch Hitler speeches and the urges go away at once.

>>14859

I will tell you what helped me for 50 days before I was dispatched. It may work wonders in your case.

Physical conditioning is best when it comes to enforcing a habit or removing it. So, I suggest that whenever the urge hits that you have a belt at hand, take off your shirt, and hit yourself on the back as many times as it is necessary to make your brain associate the urge with immense pain. It will work; hell, I'll retry it myself.

Take care not to engage in the lashing when in presence of others or even in their earshot as they'll think you crazy. Personally, I used to go to garage and hit myself.

>>14859

I'm not riduculing you by this suggestion as I am infected with this disease as well.

As time passes, youre mind will have an unwelcome premonition of the habit and will help you overcome it instead of just promote it like it normally does.

>>15446

>Jill it

Hey, I learned something new today.

Anyway, the main problem for porn addiction is too much free time, which is based on hedonism, and is self destructive. The jewish "globalism" agenda creates a world catering to the hedonistic urges of humanity, mainly materialism in form of capitalism. Religions were the first step towards this, because they hid the natural laws and exchanged them with the laws of men, who are all against nature. Furthermore the natural quest for knowledge (based on adaptation) was replace with unquestionable believe.

Next they created weaponized mantle terms like atheist, infidel and goy to catch everyone that didn't fell for their religious doctrine. If you argue against being an atheist, you thereby accept religious believe as real and rebel against it. That's how they got you.

Religion is based on the exploitation of the natural traits (blind) faith an morality. The atheists have that to but nothing to direct it on, so they fell right into the next trap…materialism in form of capitalism, the jewish lies of "freedom of choice" and "individuality"… for a price.

That's pure hedonism and created the mindless drones that follow the doctrine of self service, while paying the jews for all the tools of self destruction. This is where "sexual freedom" destroyed your life. What you need to do is find something real to work towards, and while you do this you need endless chores to keep you occupied. Life demands struggle, death lures with temptation. Get off your ass and build a family, anon.

26m here. started fapping when I was 6 without porn. found porn around 12 and have been on 2 faps a day since. I've known it was a problem in my teen years but I never really looked into it. it has ruined my relationships, be it romantic to platonic friendship, my confidence, my looks (less test, and bigger appetite).

currently on day 2. this site is really helping me curb the desire. the longest i've gone without fapping was 4 days during a camping trip where on the last day, I found a spot in the forest where I could get a slight connection and beat off to 40kb of tiddies

>>16976

Are you still continuing anon?

>>16987

relapsed like a fuck head and now i'm back at day 2.

woke up early, did some yard work, lifted weights, walked my dog, now i'm just fighting the urge and thinking something to do with the rest of my day. it's 11am for me right now lmao.

on a side note, how long does it take to start busting in your sleep? i'm going on a trip soon and i'd like to avoid that.

>>13898

The Cum Can (seminal vesicle) does not judge. Every man has one. It is a battery whose charge nourishes body and brain, a battery which resists becoming fully charged.

The Cum Can is at once the hero and the villain of our cause.

Cum Can Cum Can be at rest

ready for a greater quest!

>>13850

OP here

I should start playing that. I’ve heard good things

>>13911

The gameplay is good and some bosses are 100% shitwrecking fun, but it has attractive female characters that may make your nofap difficult.

Basically, play it when you will have complete control over yourself. When you will be 100% free from the PMO. Than should gurantee that you won't fail.

This is the water and this is the well.

Drink full and descend.

The horse is the white of the eyes and black within.

I'm inclined to believe it's in the same boat as the (((studies))) that prove trannies are real women. Modern people worship science so much that they take the word of scholars over basic logic and common sense. I don't need a study to know that breaking an addiction is objectively beneficial on its own merits.

>>16836

IM PISSED OFF YOUR ACCEPTING THAT THERE ARE STUDIES SHOWING MASTURBATING IS HEALTHY.

ALL THE SCIENCY ARTICLES STATING IT IS USE RANDOM LIBERAL FAGGITS OPINIONS AS BASIS NOT ACTUAL FACTS. REAL STUDIES SHOW IT IS NOT GOOD FOR U.

"1. Masturbation doesn't have the health benefits that sex does.

"It appears that not all orgasms are created equally," says Tobias S. Köhler, MD, MPH, an associate professor at Southern Illinois University School of Medicine in Springfield.

Study after study shows that intercourse has all sorts of benefits for men – for your blood pressure, heart and prostate health, pain, and more. You'd think that masturbation would, too. But it doesn't."

YOUR BODY KNOWS DIFFERENCE

>>16840

There are plenty of (((peer-reviewed studies))) proving many things. That doesn't mean they're scientific or factual, the problem is the peers are all sitting in a circle and they've each got the next guy's cock in their right hands.

>>16716

Imagine being this fucking stupid

Personal decision of mine to do this. I used to think a lot like you, but recently I really felt like it was a problem. My fetishes kept getting more and more degenerate and I always felt disgusting afterwards. I want to end it, and I will end it.

>>16726

>I only believe what others are saying because I'm a mindless sheep incapable of independent thought and will insult free thinkers.

I like nofap because I like the way it feels when I abstain from porn. There is no self-flagellation or puritanism in that.

Its like when people get mad about dieting, "why deprive yourself, why not be happy and eat all you want?" I don't have to think food is evil to say that some restriction of food-desire is necessary for my well-being. Eating a healthy, balanced diet in this example is like sex or porn-free fapping, not prone to being abused by most because of availability and strength of the sensations being limited naturally. Sweeteners are like porn in that they are used with the goal of making more money by getting people hooked on stronger and newer flavors so that they have a hard time enjoying food without them. If you can manage to indulge them often without any issues fine, but for many that is not the case and some deprivation leads to a feeling of freedom and balance.

>>16825

Masturbating too much won't raise the risk of cancer, heart disease and an overall lower life expectancy. It's not nearly the same. That freedom and balance only exist because of expectations you place upon yourself.

Just remember, if you slip up it's not the end of the world. Just put it behind you and keep going, don't binge.

I'm back and on like day 2 maybe so let's just go with that.

I'm not going to do it this time.

>>16815

I think the mistake I made before was I got overzealous. I have to realize that It's possible to fall back into sin, no matter how far away it might seem.

"Be not righteous over much; neither make thyself over wise: why shouldest thou destroy thyself?"

(Ecclesiastes 7:16)

>>13008

Sounds like your going to fap to a ficus plant. I don't think that's a good thing.

>>13008

The real question is does she want to have phone sex or are you pushing for this? Because if she’s not and you guys start phonefapping, your first real time together will be a disappointment. It will be regardless probably, but it will be worse the more expectations you build up with either porn or phone sex.

If she’s the one asking for phone sex tell her this:

>My mind is rotting and my soul isn't mine anymore. I've realize that I need to quit porn and excessive masturbation.

If she wants to phone fap anyway, then she’s a sucubus that doesn’t care about your mental or physical health. Leave her and find a local girl.

>My mind is rotting and my soul isn't mine anymore.

This is the only important part of your post.

>>13083

>ficus

I had to replace mine with a rose bush to quit.

>>13008

You gotta dump her man. Having her is no different than jerking to sex line worker

>>13008

fapping isnt the problem, its addiction to pornography.

if you only masturbate with your gf you're good. just remember all good things in moderation.

Have some dam respect for yourself and stop masturbating, faggot

Relapsed… Day 0

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Day 4, Day 5

day 4

some really weak urges, mainly because i didn't have anything to do all day

day 5

no urges today, did some pullups, pushups and situps today so i'm feeling pretty good.

>>16592

Had a Relapse. Not proud of it but not gonna make it like it's the end of the world. Also to what >>16654 I'm gonna take it upon intervals. But next goal. 2 months.

OP here, long time no see. I relapsed a few weeks after day 100, It's been atleast a month since that. I've stopped counting days, thinking of nofap was killing me, and I still have trouble with urges, but It's not that bad. I'm not going to be posting here anymore, have lots of shit to do. Started trimming down my gun collection, quality over quantity and all that. Good luck to you all, and good luck to me. I still have a long ways to go.

>>16918

Fug, also wanted to add that this website is a shithole, so is every other one too. Even without the abundance of porn and filth this place would be shit, 4chan lite, idiots and spergs doing all they can to avoid discussing anything of worth, shit forced meme spouting retards mindlessly browsing for hours. Not even /k/ has any interesting discussion, 8chan is dead.

>>16497

Aaannd I relapsed. I made the whole little dance of moving towards it, such as using my computer too late and using it in bed, looking at shit saying I'd stop, stopping a few times and continuing because I did not physically remove myself from it. At this point, nofap is going to have to be noritual. It's unreasonable to say that I should only stop at the point of pulling out my pecker.

I suspect there are many shills on this board.

>>16503

Today was not good because I just peaked. Time for bed.

>>16510

Relapse today. Sort of non-typical because it happened around 6 rather than around 11. Just got the intention and urge to do so, did the little dance, and did it again. Getting out of this is hard.

So far my "streaks" are:

>9 days

>1 day

>3 days

Not the world's least shameful display.

>>16475

>>16503

>>16555

Faggot

Again today relapsed after 4 days sorta clean. FUCKING ANGRY because I stopped myself mid-relapse but went back on gaming computer later. All of these little justification are shit. I'm living so comfortably right now that it's hard to get myself to have discipline that I had living rougher. Once I move toward using I must be done with computers in a private setting ALL DAY. How the hell do I stop my own little bullshit? Gonna go back to actually posting here more.

>>16556

You have no reason to think otherwise.

Day 3

Nothing eventful, today. Still going strong.

>>14240

>that image

Kek'd

>>14058

Hey Anon. Good luck with your journey. Visit us on /christian/ there is purity thread.

A good thread to get encouragement to quit porn once for all.

t. Christian brother who anihilated porn addiction and fapping

OP, when you get cravings try to do something that forces you to focus on it for a while like strategy games. In my experience it can be hard to remember to go do something when you get strong cravings and it feels more instinctual to just sit there and face it head on, but it is very important to get yourself busy so the urge fades away. Remember, addiction works by breaking down your willpower and magnifying your desire, so you're fighting an uphill battle.

>>16526

Thank you for the help Anon it is certainly helpful. I will try various things to so I can shift my focus on them like Boardgames, Card games and drawing

>>16542

>The strongest most brutal urges I've ever had. I mean holy shit

Just wait till you get to a few months, you'll have been without urges for a while luring you into false conceit and then wham, suddenly you need it more than ever before

>>16431

We've already made this work for 2 years. Our situation is complicated, and we do get to see each other periodically throughout the year. I can't tell you the future so I don't know how sustainable it is until our situation changes BUT it's definitely worth it to me right now and has worked for 2 years. It just depends a lot on communication and honesty, but cumming over the internet together DOES help.

>>16432

Yeah I'm thinking something like a 10-14 day cycle. Probably gonna give it a shot. I haven't felt anything different after 40 days so.

>>16441

Fair points and you're entitled to your opinion. It's possible I'll feel that way after "a long time" but without knowing where "a long time" ends it's hard to say it's worth it for me since 40 days is a pretty fucking long time (compared to most people who can't make it 2 weeks) and I haven't felt any changes. May be some I'm not seeing, but I don't detect any.

>>16452

a) I'm not really religious, I tried Lent as an exercise in self discipline; I'm not catholic (but I do believe in Christ)

b) If by "see other people now and then if it's a year long thing" you mean just fuck around with people who are close by while I wait to see her again then no, I have zero interest in that. If she isn't worth not fucking random hoes for then why would I commit to her? I didn't even want to be in a relationship, but I loved her too much not to try it with her and it's been worth it so far. Why would I tarnish that with some random stupid sluts who mean nothing to me (and will probably just try to use sex as an inroad to steal my resources and wreck my relationship anyway)?

>>16453

Can't tell if joking or serious butPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>16457

this guy is more serious than anyone on this board

he lives in a fucking shipping container

i on day 4 and i got even more hornier by seeing 18 hot college teens…they all legal but yeah it brings me more productive into life and i ended up going outside to enjoy the weather.

It took about 2 weeks for me, but I noticed my tastes were more vanilla and I had fewer dirty thoughts. All it took was the thought of sex for me to get hard, though.