/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous

Besides your dignity and countless hours of your time what else have you lost because of your fap addiction? I've just been scammed out of a couple of dollars on the promise of a video call, nothing taxing, can't really justify my actions though, money is money and is better used elsewhere, but of course blinded by my fap addiction I allowed myself to be silly like that, so it was a hit on my wallet, my dignity and my time, been one day clean, what about you guys?

Psalm 13 (How Long O Lord) music !….!!..!

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If I am able to, I will be able to create a board on this site which will be called /pure20s/ and will be even broader than nofap. It will be discussion of nofap hardmode, combined with discussion of education, etc. that will make the 2020s the most pure and amazing decade so far. We have had decades like the 60's and 70's which have had hippies, and we have had decades like the 80's and 90's which have had various types of music dominating culture, and we have had the 1920's which were dominated by people getting around the alcohol ban. It is time to have a decade that is dominated by the opposite culture, a culture that both brings the good aspects of ancient times and combines it with the great knowledge of modern times. If the board is able to be created, I will update this thread. I am happy about the existence of this board, /nofap/.

quit for about 4 months now but because of leaf restrictions, cant really see anyone, and i never had any woman attracted to me before the fake pandemic anyways, how can i release any urges without anything to release it into?

inb4 gym(already do), hobbies(most of hobbies got killed by covid), work for your goals(pretty well off now)

Is this board dead? Is anyone still here?

This is my honest perspective on it and I'm open to having a discussion about it. I really believe the whole thing is a trap to get people to stop thinking clearly so it ruins their life. If my thread gets deleted I'm not sure what I will think, but I will probably believe that my concerns are confirmed.

Here I will present my perspective:

nofap was created by hyper leftist self hating anorexic OR obese roastie hyper-feminist misandrist social justice warrior outrage mob women with pointy glasses, too much make up, heels that are wayyyyy too high and exaggerated, and blue/green/pink dyed hair.

They created nofap so that men would hate their own bodies and themselves as much as women hate their own bodies and themselves. It's basically an MK ultra psychological warfare mindfuck like the things women say at the very end of arguments that just fucks your head for a whole week.

Meanwhile they contradict themselves by glorifying female sexuality, but demonizing male sexuality.

These people believe that men don't have the right to enjoy the freedom of brining themselves to orgasm by natural and safe and risk free means in the privacy of their own home, and seek to shame men and make them feel depressed and miserable for doing a healthy and happy natural thing that can't result in STD's or Pregnancy. Masturbation.

The end goal is that they know men are horny no matter what, so they convince them they can't fap, and then mens minds automatically rationalize that if they can't fap they must fuck, and then they bombard us with the incel insults to use peer pressure and bullying to push us into getting into a relationship and getting married to one of these "WOMYN" (not any of the unicorn rare nice ones) in order to achieve sex, because coomming in a womyn is totally different than coomming with your hand right? wrong, both ways you coomed. But then guess what, you're trapped! She's pregnant! Or maybe not, but both ways she divorce rapes you RIGHT in the fucking bank account and takes over half of all your shit, takes your healthy happy dog that you'vPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

Rolled 35 (1d90)

Post some noFap memes and general funny pics to distract yourself from fapping.

The dice roll is how long I will last this streak( I am currently on day 3)

I hate to see everyone hurting. I understand your desire to break an addiction, I have my own of different kind but overpowering none the less. But please give yourself a break about the things that are turning you on. They are just thoughts, in most cases. And the more you try to repress them the more they will own you.

These a hard times for people. Things are bleak and there seems to be nothing to look forward to. But you are a human and have a brain that needs to be stimulated (I mean mentally not sexually!). So it starts to think of things that are out of the norm for yourself. How boring would life be if it was all the same all the time. I hate to see people beating themselves up so much. There are plenty of people to put you down, don’t do it yourself!

But I do know for a fact that the more you try to stop thinking of something the more your brain will want to think about it. Kinda like “don’t push this button”, what’s the next thing you do? Exactly. Then if you add tons of idle time and the layer of self inflicted shame and guilt and you have yourself a Fetish my friends. It’s kinda like the zen thing, just let the thoughts come and go and that’s all they are, thoughts. Some people it may be more then just thoughts, but I know guilt and shame make everything harder everything worse. Just take it easy on yourself, we are all good people. I hope this helps, truly.

What are some foods that can procure manhood? What is the best way to attain a JoJo physique? How do I make it past the first big urge? etc.

I was/is a pretty bad addict. So I have been on nofap for 4-5 months now, occasionally peeking at porn, but mostly just encountered some softcore on the chans and thats all. Not full monk mode but I only jacked off 2 times without porn.

I have this female friend who knows about my situation and is ready and willing when I'm ready. She has agreed to help me "test". My only problem is I don't know if I could at the moment. She's cool and all, and of course knows about all of this, but I don't want to fuck this up. I'm probably flatlining, I'm not even horny for the past 1-2 months. What do?

It's 25/01/21, I'm aiming initially for three months without watching porn, jerking off or ejaculating, but time and effort will tell if I get further from there.

I want to purify my soul, I want to meditate and exercise, breath clean air and heal myself. I've been poisoned for a long time now.

Fuck you porn industry, fuck you demons on earth.

How does one keep from getting aroused by mundane things like tile patterns, doorknobs and the state of Ohio? If you find those things titillating, they will be very hard to avoid, no matter how committed you are.

For example, I get turned on by the thought of women fainting. I used to collect images and videos of it happening, even though I never had a normal porn collection.

Now days I have my habit mostly under control, but I still get the urge to fap whenever I find a reference to a woman fainting. This doesn't happen often, but when it does I'm turned on right away, especially if it was unexpected.

How do I deal with this fetish? Is there a way to "un-kink" myself? Do I just have to live with it as best I can?

Feels like I'm in pure hell. I'm suffering in fake pleasure. I've sank so low.

My self esteem was already low and because of constant fails, it went even lower.

And I fetishized it all. It all starts with some femdom and now I'm looking out for newest futa on male crap.

I'm disgusted with myself. Everything is shit and loathsome. I hate myself even writing this because it's all just useless blackpilling whining into the void.

I used to write a diary but the amount of failed promises there made it too embarassing and pointless to continue. Oh, the countless "This is it", "Now, I'll be clean for good", etc.

I even became somewhat religious because of this all but I can't help but think that it's over for me, I'm going to hell for sure because of how much I sinned and continue to sin daily. I ask God to give me strength to defeat this addiction but I don't know. Nothing's working out lately.

Starting to seriously consider ending it all anons.

I don't know how to get myself out of this hole, never felt so low in my life.

I've tried and failed many times in the past, but this time something is different. I'm currently about 3 weeks in and I didn't even plan on doing nofap, I only decided to stick to it about 7 days in once I realized what I can do.

Before I had a problem that I believe plagues 99.9% of nofapers and 100% of the failed nofapers. It is the build up of the sexual energy in the lower chakras which can only result in inevitable explosion, unless you learn how to pull it through the spine to the upper chakras. Now I'm using the term "chakras" here because it's the most popular term for energetic centers of human body, I'm not well versed in teachings that the term comes from. By opening the 2 lowermost chakras, you can instantly transmutate the sexual urge into power which can be used in any of the upper chakras depending on how far you pull it. I used to get very strong sexual urges several times a day and by focusing awareness to the pathway between root and sacral and then pulling it further up the spine to solar I learned that I can make the sexual urge die within 10 seconds after which I feel energized which can on a downside make it hard to sleep unless you learn how to direct it through the crown. With time, this process started happening by itself.

The problem is that attaining such ability is not easy and I really can't offer a concrete guide, only some guidelines. Meditate. A lot. Reach the state of perfect stillness. This is where the magic happens. Learn to control your awareness. Don't force it, the key is in the opposite - learn to let go. Awareness is like a magnet for energy and by focusing it on root you hook the energy which you can then drive wherever you want. But again and I can't stress this enough - don't force it. Working with awareness is opposite from working with muscles. You don't make it work, you let it work. I'd compare it to playing with a shy cat.

Also check out this clip: I know you'll find it cringe but it actually contains very useful advice, especially the part about water chakra which is a major concern for all of you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cH-HT9WCtiQ

How can I control my genital disturbing me to do it? Anyone here had this problem too?