/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous

Just remember, if you slip up it's not the end of the world. Just put it behind you and keep going, don't binge.

I'm back and on like day 2 maybe so let's just go with that.

I'm not going to do it this time.

>>16815

I think the mistake I made before was I got overzealous. I have to realize that It's possible to fall back into sin, no matter how far away it might seem.

"Be not righteous over much; neither make thyself over wise: why shouldest thou destroy thyself?"

(Ecclesiastes 7:16)

>>13008

Sounds like your going to fap to a ficus plant. I don't think that's a good thing.

>>13008

The real question is does she want to have phone sex or are you pushing for this? Because if she’s not and you guys start phonefapping, your first real time together will be a disappointment. It will be regardless probably, but it will be worse the more expectations you build up with either porn or phone sex.

If she’s the one asking for phone sex tell her this:

>My mind is rotting and my soul isn't mine anymore. I've realize that I need to quit porn and excessive masturbation.

If she wants to phone fap anyway, then she’s a sucubus that doesn’t care about your mental or physical health. Leave her and find a local girl.

>My mind is rotting and my soul isn't mine anymore.

This is the only important part of your post.

>>13083

>ficus

I had to replace mine with a rose bush to quit.

>>13008

You gotta dump her man. Having her is no different than jerking to sex line worker

>>13008

fapping isnt the problem, its addiction to pornography.

if you only masturbate with your gf you're good. just remember all good things in moderation.

Have some dam respect for yourself and stop masturbating, faggot

Relapsed… Day 0

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Day 4, Day 5

day 4

some really weak urges, mainly because i didn't have anything to do all day

day 5

no urges today, did some pullups, pushups and situps today so i'm feeling pretty good.

>>16592

Had a Relapse. Not proud of it but not gonna make it like it's the end of the world. Also to what >>16654 I'm gonna take it upon intervals. But next goal. 2 months.

OP here, long time no see. I relapsed a few weeks after day 100, It's been atleast a month since that. I've stopped counting days, thinking of nofap was killing me, and I still have trouble with urges, but It's not that bad. I'm not going to be posting here anymore, have lots of shit to do. Started trimming down my gun collection, quality over quantity and all that. Good luck to you all, and good luck to me. I still have a long ways to go.

>>16918

Fug, also wanted to add that this website is a shithole, so is every other one too. Even without the abundance of porn and filth this place would be shit, 4chan lite, idiots and spergs doing all they can to avoid discussing anything of worth, shit forced meme spouting retards mindlessly browsing for hours. Not even /k/ has any interesting discussion, 8chan is dead.

>>16497

Aaannd I relapsed. I made the whole little dance of moving towards it, such as using my computer too late and using it in bed, looking at shit saying I'd stop, stopping a few times and continuing because I did not physically remove myself from it. At this point, nofap is going to have to be noritual. It's unreasonable to say that I should only stop at the point of pulling out my pecker.

I suspect there are many shills on this board.

>>16503

Today was not good because I just peaked. Time for bed.

>>16510

Relapse today. Sort of non-typical because it happened around 6 rather than around 11. Just got the intention and urge to do so, did the little dance, and did it again. Getting out of this is hard.

So far my "streaks" are:

>9 days

>1 day

>3 days

Not the world's least shameful display.

>>16475

>>16503

>>16555

Faggot

Again today relapsed after 4 days sorta clean. FUCKING ANGRY because I stopped myself mid-relapse but went back on gaming computer later. All of these little justification are shit. I'm living so comfortably right now that it's hard to get myself to have discipline that I had living rougher. Once I move toward using I must be done with computers in a private setting ALL DAY. How the hell do I stop my own little bullshit? Gonna go back to actually posting here more.

>>16556

You have no reason to think otherwise.

Day 3

Nothing eventful, today. Still going strong.

>>14240

>that image

Kek'd

>>14058

Hey Anon. Good luck with your journey. Visit us on /christian/ there is purity thread.

A good thread to get encouragement to quit porn once for all.

t. Christian brother who anihilated porn addiction and fapping

OP, when you get cravings try to do something that forces you to focus on it for a while like strategy games. In my experience it can be hard to remember to go do something when you get strong cravings and it feels more instinctual to just sit there and face it head on, but it is very important to get yourself busy so the urge fades away. Remember, addiction works by breaking down your willpower and magnifying your desire, so you're fighting an uphill battle.

>>16526

Thank you for the help Anon it is certainly helpful. I will try various things to so I can shift my focus on them like Boardgames, Card games and drawing

>>16542

>The strongest most brutal urges I've ever had. I mean holy shit

Just wait till you get to a few months, you'll have been without urges for a while luring you into false conceit and then wham, suddenly you need it more than ever before

>>16431

We've already made this work for 2 years. Our situation is complicated, and we do get to see each other periodically throughout the year. I can't tell you the future so I don't know how sustainable it is until our situation changes BUT it's definitely worth it to me right now and has worked for 2 years. It just depends a lot on communication and honesty, but cumming over the internet together DOES help.

>>16432

Yeah I'm thinking something like a 10-14 day cycle. Probably gonna give it a shot. I haven't felt anything different after 40 days so.

>>16441

Fair points and you're entitled to your opinion. It's possible I'll feel that way after "a long time" but without knowing where "a long time" ends it's hard to say it's worth it for me since 40 days is a pretty fucking long time (compared to most people who can't make it 2 weeks) and I haven't felt any changes. May be some I'm not seeing, but I don't detect any.

>>16452

a) I'm not really religious, I tried Lent as an exercise in self discipline; I'm not catholic (but I do believe in Christ)

b) If by "see other people now and then if it's a year long thing" you mean just fuck around with people who are close by while I wait to see her again then no, I have zero interest in that. If she isn't worth not fucking random hoes for then why would I commit to her? I didn't even want to be in a relationship, but I loved her too much not to try it with her and it's been worth it so far. Why would I tarnish that with some random stupid sluts who mean nothing to me (and will probably just try to use sex as an inroad to steal my resources and wreck my relationship anyway)?

>>16453

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>>16457

this guy is more serious than anyone on this board

he lives in a fucking shipping container

i on day 4 and i got even more hornier by seeing 18 hot college teens…they all legal but yeah it brings me more productive into life and i ended up going outside to enjoy the weather.

It took about 2 weeks for me, but I noticed my tastes were more vanilla and I had fewer dirty thoughts. All it took was the thought of sex for me to get hard, though.

>>6548

WE literally have a thread or two up full of scientific data that states you are wrong. Benefits of nofap aren't High T, you only get a spike after 7 days and then it goes away. The biggest benefit is an axing of estrogen receptor growth and restoration or androgen receptors to proper order.

Thanks King Fedora.

adadasdada

>>3846

underrated post

>>14742

Second this. Anime is the devil and it's the only reason why it's so hard for me to give up porn completely. I can't even look at vanilla Anime without getting urges, so now I'm removing it completely from my life.

>>14991

Just don't watch fag anime, watch jojo instead.

>>14742

You haven't hit rock bottom until you fap to loli mmd porn on the daily.

>>14742

>I'm not the same guy, but honestly 2D porn, like hentai in my fap addiction was the bottom I went to.

Really? even compared to shit in 3D? Like if I asked you which would you prefer to fap to: vanilla 3D or vanilla 2D in general which would you pick?

>After getting bored of the lame videos it was my idea to browse those cartoon sites because the laws of reality don't apply to fantasy. And that is the the crucial point why it is the most life ruining, disgusting filth that a man can experience.

Depends on the fetish. Obviously women can't have octopus shit up them.

>There's barely any drawing that don't mix up multiple fetishes (that propably the artist has) that are even amplified.

Again depends on what you are looking up. Like if there's multiple fetishes, they all don't have to be extreme. But yea most artists are going to take advantage of their hedonistic mass with niches to attraction.

>Not to mention that it creates chris-chan type of people who avatarfag as underage chinks, despite being an adult man.

No shit, retards act like retards IRL if they think there's nothing wrong with it. Sure we hear normalniggers go one about how much sex they have and what they did (anal, oral, etc). Not really a porn problem as most people become submissive to society when hooked on porn due to lack of test and don't want to talk about eating shit because they're afraid of what chad or stacy may think of them. If you lack self-awareness, porn won't amplify it.

>Shit like these caused the worst relapses.

Anything will cause relapse if you're on nofap for around a week. being bored or stressed will usually cause me to fall.

>It is a highly slippery slope: You will find your favorite stuff, you like it and you just can't help your curiosity to check even more.

A trait present to all forms of porn. Solo to lesbian to straight to gay to etc.

>This may even include rape or even more and more underage looking chinks drawings wPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

Progress is not a straight line, brother. You just stopped yourself from entering a worst place. Keep going, you'll get better.

>>14169

100% this. 2 winters ago I was a heavy masturbator and alwaysgot sick 2 days after a fap from a cold day. Keep rolling.

>>14146

Day Whatever

Started looking at porn but I didn't fap. Shit, maybe I should come here more often

day 9

I had the hardest of boners yesterday, almost caved. Today's been easy. Not many urges.

I can't wait

>>4302

>part Irish

>white

Everyone here should be redpilled on Mindgeek and its near monopoly on Internet pornography. And, no surprise, it's all Khazars behind the curtain. If you've watched porn ever in your life you've likely used mainly a Mindgeek-owned website.

>>378

>jews are supposedly greedy and in love with money

>jews also operate businesses that make no profit just to vaguely hurt members of a race of people that maybe killed their great granddad a long time ago

????

>>15688

>jews also operate businesses that make no profit

Are you dumb? You seem to be trying real hard.

Making the general populace emaciated and prone to consume any shit you throw at them is the biggest and most profitable trick they have up their sleeves.

Do you even into investment? Compound profit > immediate profit.

>>1403

Unable to find the source, but I remember it being from a video about how Israeli forces started airing porn on Palestinian broadcast TV as part of their effort to subvert them.

>>4611

>Attraction is independent of "Pheromones",or sexual activities.

Hit the nail on the head. when it comes to women its money and status

>A man who loses semen daily is found likeable by many women.

Not necessarily because of ejaculating. Connecting with a woman makes it easier to read the non-verbal cues of other women.

>>4781

Status is a spook

money is paper

attraction is biological

Whats up yall

>>4611

Good luck

Day 16

I didn't want to post for the past few days since I edged myself into limbo multiple times from Day 9 to Day 15 after randomly touching my dick, but I was planning on having more infrequent check-ins anyway despite that. Somehow I've managed to keep from busting, although I paid an additional price by delaying workouts several times and other shakeups in my schedule due to all the edging, and now I have to redo my Deadlift from before at 215 since I don't trust my body to pull 225 without issue unless I was actually consistent.

I should be able to stabilize from this point on, as no previous streaks of mine have ever survived such an onslaught of edging like this, and I'm more or less back to my senses. At least I hope so.

>>15296

> I edged myself into limbo multiple times from Day 9 to Day 15

Please stop anon, you need to nip this shit in the bud.

> pull 225

Do you use a belt? Also do you have a home gym?

>>15323

>Do you use a belt? Also do you have a home gym?

I don't currently use a belt, I'm getting closer to a point where I should probably be using it. And I wish I had a home gym, but I train at a commercial gym across the street from me, yet I still manage to be inconsistent about doing my workouts, ridiculously enough.

Day 31

March passed with less workouts and more edging done than I had hoped for, so this month I'm just going to get as many workouts in as possible and get purposefully busy so I don't touch my junk. It'll be a win if I've worked out for more than 50% of the days in April, but ideally the closer to the full 30 days, the better.

Consumption of other people's creations, content, artwork, etc. needs to be minimized, and more stock and faith placed in my future ability to produce results. In other words, I need to take myself more seriously so I can actually reach my ideals, even if I don't think I'm good at any of this stuff I'm working on right now.

I have serious blueballs, I really need to stop edging. But I can't stop

Anyone know anything I can repeat in my head to stop me from edging?

>>15443

I know that having a kid sister, means you never have to fap… she keeps my balls well'n'truely drained. She's a good kid.

>>15443

/pol/ things are the greatest things.

/pol/ says the truth!

>>15443

Whats up with all the cuckchan muh /pol/ shit going around?