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 No.13476

Parkour Edition

Let's bring this board back to life.

Does anyone else have a problem with getting over-active, or physical activity leading to relapse? I used to go to the gym a lot, and I found that for some reason, after I worked out, I always failed hard. There was almost a direct correlation: The longer my workout and the more intense it was the more I thought about nothing but women for hours after I got home.

There's probably some deep biological reason for this, so I can't turn it off, but what can I do to minimize it's effects?

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 No.13645

>>13476

I used to jerk after lifting. Nearly all the time. For me, it was a trained behavior. I find reading a book between sets or listening to a interesting podcast helps.

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 No.13650

I always thought that it had something to do with the testosterone or whatever other chemicals get released after a high-stress workout. This is one of tht things that worries me about my current streak whenever it goes a little longer.

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 No.13731

>>13476

this pic annoys the fuck out of me

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 No.13737

I don't work out at a gym but I go for very long walks. For me there seems to be no correlation between that and masturbating, but if I exert myself one day I often wake up the next with a painfully hard erection. Not the typical morning wood but a fucking brick that hurts.

To me it seems to be connected to drinking. When I'm sober I almost never masturbate. When I'm drinking I usually beat it twice in the morning, once in bed and again in the shower (I sit when I shower), and often again in the afternoon. I love shooting jizz onto myself, or straight into my other hand. That's something I never did until I got involved in a phone sex relationship with a woman I never met. I used to shoot it into the toilet or into a sock. Since talking with her the way we did I don't care where it goes, as long as it doesn't shoot into my mouth, which it sometimes does.

How old are people here? I am 53, been fapping since I was 12 or 13, except for the years I've been in relationships with women. During those years I virtually never masturbated, except for one woman who liked to watch.

I'm on day 4, btw.

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 No.13766

File: 5235f3116cdc933⋯.jpg (25.9 KB,666x500,333:250,Dqmq2CyWoAAmCK7.jpg)

I don't know how or where to go with this, so here

I have ejaculated exactly 7 times in the past WHILE doing deadlifts

I have ejaculated exactly 4 times in the past while doing pullups/chinups

I have ejaculated numerous while running (I started going for runs early in the morning so nobody sees me)

I have pre-cummed in multiple life threatening/near death experience situations

most recent one being a few days ago while on a night walk, I have pre-cummed when a group of people who mistaken me for someone else shot in my general direction with intent to intimidate (they apologized and drove off).

I don't know anymore

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 No.13769

>>13766

Yeah I don't know either, have you tried nofap?

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 No.13770

>>13737

I'm 18, started when I was about 10, from then on everything went downhill. I can directly fault my unhealthy relationship with pornography with my social isolation throughout my school years.

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 No.13774

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>>13769

I have tried it a few times in the past, wither I go for months without jacking off or normal, (jacking off once a week) has little to do with it. tho jacking off first thing in the morning would lower the chances of me shooting a stray one, but I'll have to deal with the low self-esteem and agitation which isn't worth it.

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 No.13775

>>13774

Have you tried sex? I heard it's pretty good but I wouldn't know.

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 No.13782

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>>13775

Sexual intimacy could probably kill self-gratification impulse, but I wouldn't know either

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 No.13794

My longest streak is 39 days. The reason I keep failing is that I will wake up in the middle of the night with my heart racing and being super horny. Anyone else experience this or anything like it? If so, how did you deal with it?

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 No.13803

i shot about as big a load as i'm capable of today, ending a 6 day nofap streak.

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 No.13815

>>13803

I'm sorry anon. What was the trigger?

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 No.13824

one of the other boards here, /pol/ maybe, had an ad for a sex toys site. that's what started it. i ended up ordering a plastic vagina and fellatio simulator but not from whatever that site was, from amazon.

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 No.13830

>>13824

>not using adblock on 8chan

Jim used to run a porn site, you know?

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 No.14048

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 No.14079

I'm not sure if this is a question, exactly, but I'm going to get it off my chest.

My biggest problem with fapping is that I justify myself. I don't look at any 3D/real-person porn. It's all drawings or writing, and even then, none of it is hardcore or violent. It's mostly just girls with extremely impossible measurements or features. So I don't feel guilty about the characters because none of it is real and none of it portrays violence or a bad situation. I still accomplish things I need to accomplish throughout the day, but a few days ago I relapsed after I decided to be more religious a few days earlier. I know masturbation is a sin, but my mind keeps saying 'no one is being hurt, I'm sure He will understand' when I know that is not the case.

So does anyone have any recommendations on how to turn it around?

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 No.14082

How hard is an erection supposed to be? And how long should it last?

I'm a 24yo incel who's been tugging it to porn since 13. If I go half a week without doing it I can stay up for a while even without looking at porn.

But if i do fap after that, my dick will go sloppy in seconds as long as i am not looking at porn when i take my eyes off porn, and it takes a few days to reset.

I feel like shit. I think I have permanently damaged my dick. Not that I am gonna get together with someone anytime soon (ever), but even though I don't have to fear disappointing someone else in bed it feels like a waste to have neutered myself like this.

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 No.14173

>>14079

>but my mind keeps saying 'no one is being hurt, I'm sure He will understand' when I know that is not the case.

YOU are the one being hurt, and you were God’s perfect creation. Your body is temple never forget. Think of it in those terms.

>>14082

It’s not permanent. You have to stop thinking about what your dick should be/do in order to have a streak long enough to fix it. And by that time the streak will be long enough that you don’t want to use you repaired dick.

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 No.14200

Whats /nofap/ relationship with womyn?

I get that some prefer to MGTOW, while some advocate for the never fap but having a gf to release with.

But I'm curious, how are relationships for you, what the deceiving nature of women, and what about feeling overly dependent on the pussy?

>>13476

Same here, being healthy and relaxed after a good workout, you feel the blood pumping and power in your dick.

Its a hard habit as well, and probably even harder to hold on after more days.

Maybe drop the porn from the equation?

>>13737

What an weird story mate, I'm 32 (how much hope on life?)

>>13766

What the actual hell? Is it some kind of overly nervous condition or what? Are you chad or puny male? Kinda reminded me of that Binkan Salaryman clip.

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 No.15050

Is my PIED ever going to go away? I'm approaching 60 days since my last relapse and I don't get any boners anymore. Am I hopeless?

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 No.15077

>>14200

Woman is for reproduction.

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 No.15092

>>15050

It should go away in time, no telling how long it will take.

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 No.15093

>>14200

I'm partially doing nofap/semen retention for mental, physical, and spiritual gains like clarity and wisdom, a longer life, and union with god. There will be no release for me ever, or dependance. If someone isn't doing this then they should have sex within a marriage to a virtuous woman (ideally) to either balance each other or make a new life, not often though (maybe twice a month).

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 No.15171

>>15050

It likely gone away for a good time more, if you haven't been getting porn withdraws. But the question is, is there anything you should even be getting boners to? Like have you been getting close to any females?

>>15093

> I'm partially doing nofap/semen retention for …

You know that's bait and just isn't going to work, if you even mean you've been edging to porn while but cumming. It will just drive you insane until you fully relapse.

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 No.15174

>>15171

No edging or watching porn, by SR I mean abstinence from sexual thoughts and all related activities of the body. Edging is a relapse and so is porn.

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 No.16764

Okay, you refrain from fapping. Then what?

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 No.16765

The point is to have a lot of sexual energy and direct or else where sherlock. Eating soy amd being a vegetable does not accomplish this. Pls stop and make better posts.

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 No.16954

>>13731

It's a good picture anon. Some day you will have that. Believe it.

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 No.16956

I binged really really hard after a long streak. It went on for like… weeks. How do I not do this? How do I break myself out of the ol' "I'll start tomorrow… what's one more day?"

Any advice, trite, bad, generic, anything fellows.

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 No.16958

>>16764

You live your life?

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 No.16973

File: ee92ddc63ba490f⋯.jpg (52.22 KB,514x499,514:499,FB_IMG_1539806385068.jpg)

Is casually tweaking your soft dick masturbation? I dunno what this means for me, but it's a fairly regular habit of mine to just have my hand down my pants while scrolling on my phone in bed for example.

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 No.17154

How do I motivate myself to acquire helpful, useful hobbies (sticking with them, primarily) and cut down on useless computer time? I have implemented some light exercise since I'm just starting out, and that's been pleasant. I'll take up some book reading as well. Largely I'm just doing my best to avoid mindless video games, those seem to do a massive number on me.

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