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 No.17305[Reply]

2020 NOFAP DECADE

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2020 HERE WE GOOOOO, WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

/nofap/ Has come a long way since it's inception by PLAGUE_DOCTOR all the way back in 2015. We went from an obscure board among many, to a top 50 board, to getting the entire website deleted, but even despite it all, we are still here, the way of nofap and self improvement lives on no matter the platform.

Today is the start of a new year, that means the rare chance to get the honor of completing a year of nofap, both to you who has only just begin on the journey towards self improvement, and a fresh chance for the people that have been struggling for years.

Sleep right, eat right, read and learn, work out, hang out with the right people, stop being a slave to lust or other vices, so many areas were we can move forwards so don't miss the chance to do so.

I wish everyone, both beginners and veterans strength and the best of luck in yet another year of self improvement. Make this year yours, make this new decade yours.

And remember:

>It only gets easier the longer you do it.

>Half of the essence of nofap is not to DO something, but precisely to do NOTHING.Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

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 No.17433

>>17430

Well I do, I've been trying to quit for years probablly since 2017. One time I reached one month streak without PMO and Internet and it was godlike, seriously it really is worth it.

However as you know, mind gets foggy the long you struggle, your own organism is demanding new portion of drug and will try to trick you into fapping. I've failed countless of times, so maybe I don't really want to quit. It's really easy to forget what are you going for so it's really crucial to stay focused. So it'd be wise to stay away from internet, and try to keep oneself busy

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 No.2[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

Welcome to /nofap/

This board is for the discussion of nofap, noporn, and the societal implications of fapping and porn.

RULES AND FAQ

http://8kun.top/nofap/rules.html

>1. Stay on topic. The topic is pretty loosely defined here so use some common sense.

>2. Don't post porn. NSFW images will be deleted. Posting NSFW material as a shitty troll attempt will result in a comically long ban. This board is SFW, so keep it that way.

>3. Non-/nofap/pers are welcome to come and question the premise of nofap and to argue against nofap. That said, shitposts, flames, bait, spam, and trolls are not allowed and such threads will be locked or deleted.

Just those three.

If anyone needs to get a hold of me try my e-mail at plaguedoctor@memeware.net.

And because I don't want to clutter the board with excess stickies:

ITT: dump /nofap/ infographs, videos, links, banners and other such things

/nofap/ bunker is at https://anon.cafe/nofap/ , the board will be here if 8kun goes down again.

If you're having trouble getting the 24 hour captcha to load, try going directly to https://8kun.top/dnsbls_bypass.php

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 No.17290

>>17289

>we're all gonna make it.

I'm not, I've jerked off so much there's now a painful wound on my cock that bleeds, and I still can't stop

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 No.17437[Reply]

Been fapping a lot since my 12's, and now at my mid 26's my hair is falling very quickly, tho this process started way earlier on my 18's

Yes, all that time I fapped almost every day, now I feel like trash.. is fapping a cause for quick balding or something?

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 No.17434[Reply]

>start watching porn at 12 years old

>fap almost everyday

>today is birthday, 17, decide to try not to fap today and quit

>gets late

>faps

>ah shit.

I cant fucking stop, this shit is going to be the death of me i swear. Is there some kind of secret to this?

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 No.17435

>>17434

You find that you do these things (porn, masturbation) mindlessly and out of habit. What breaks the mindless habit is frustration at failing repeatedly, so keep trying and you'll succeed.

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 No.13457[Reply]

Cant bring myself to delete the porn I collected always go to folder look around and go

>hmm this is rare

>this scene is nice

etc.

Whats even worse that when I deleted it before I brought it back in no time. seems the fap and collecting this stuff became part of my life and I cant let go.

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 No.17396

I also have struggled with deleting my porn folder collection and my porn bookmarks along with my pornhub account where I made a playlist of over 1100 videos I like. The only compromise I can come to mentally do it is keeping shit I actually paid money for and I have been working on a master list of every pornstar and a short list of videos or common types of videos from them I like in a word document. Could take a while though.

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 No.17424

>>17396

Update: Have 1700+ browser bookmarks, tons of downloaded porn still plus my 1100+ pornhub playlist. Its a huge undertaking to put all the names into the archive I created and now I am jacking off more than I ever have in the last 6 months

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 No.17425

>>17424

I guess the problem is that you just don't care to change? A man can ask himself "am I going to regret not jacking off today?" and the answer is obviously "no". No one in the history of mankind has ever regretted not jacking off. A doomer can ask himself the same question, and the answer is neither yes or no because he has no goals and no hope for the future, to the point where he's even repulsed by the notion of caring about his own life. He has no shame or pride, because the system has rendered him helpless and inert between the teeth of its gears, and so he actively directs his energy into degenerate behavior.

>1700+ browser bookmarks

Because on some level you believe that if you had spent that time and energy on something worthwhile, there'd have been no result. You'd have encountered rejection, frustration, and probably a lot of unfairness and hypocrisy.

A giant porn stash, though— that you have control over.

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 No.17426

>>17383

You're right, but there is no need to say it so harshly. Fap addiction is fucking serious, I dont think you are encouraging them.

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 No.17431

Delete "your" porn. It's time to move on. Those are dead images and moments in time long gone…

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 No.17323[Reply]

Hello,

I wanted to make this thread in reddit, but I didn't have the time to make an account.

I have fapped to porn since my teenage years. I never had a real sexual fantasy involving people. Since my dick wasn't working during sex, I thought that the problem was porn.

After many years of beating myself up, involving several months of no PMO, over one year of no P with MO, PMO-streaks, I didn't really notice a difference in anything aside from a short-term increased libido after abstaining. Then I found the asexual community.

I just wanted to let u guys know that asexuality is a real thing, and the problem isn't necessarily porn. If you are an asexual, no amount of abstaining from PMO will "heal you". Since then, I have accepted myself and luckily got an asexual gf. I hope that people like me will find some use from this post.

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 No.17353

NIGGA is this bait? You really need to stop watching porn if you have zero sexual drive for living creatures, yet can get off to virtual content.

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 No.17423

>>17323

well done you are a genetic deadend

plebbit formatting with the spaces inbetween every line of your post

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 No.17427

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 No.17428

>>17323

good for you owo

reddit is shit tho

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 No.17429

>>17423

>well done you are a genetic deadend

I think you mean genetic saved :^)

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 No.17365[Reply]

This is my honest perspective on it and I'm open to having a discussion about it. I really believe the whole thing is a trap to get people to stop thinking clearly so it ruins their life. If my thread gets deleted I'm not sure what I will think, but I will probably believe that my concerns are confirmed.

Here I will present my perspective:

nofap was created by hyper leftist self hating anorexic OR obese roastie hyper-feminist misandrist social justice warrior outrage mob women with pointy glasses, too much make up, heels that are wayyyyy too high and exaggerated, and blue/green/pink dyed hair.

They created nofap so that men would hate their own bodies and themselves as much as women hate their own bodies and themselves. It's basically an MK ultra psychological warfare mindfuck like the things women say at the very end of arguments that just fucks your head for a whole week.

Meanwhile they contradict themselves by glorifying female sexuality, but demonizing male sexuality.

These people believe that men don't have the right to enjoy the freedom of brining themselves to orgasm by natural and safe and risk free means in the privacy of their own home, and seek to shame men and make them feel depressed and miserable for doing a healthy and happy natural thing that can't result in STD's or Pregnancy. Masturbation.

The end goal is that they know men are horny no matter what, so they convince them they can't fap, and then mens minds automatically rationalize that if they can't fap they must fuck, and then they bombard us with the incel insults to use peer pressure and bullying to push us into getting into a relationship and getting married to one of these "WOMYN" (not any of the unicorn rare nice ones) in order to achieve sex, because coomming in a womyn is totally different than coomming with your hand right? wrong, both ways you coomed. But then guess what, you're trapped! She's pregnant! Or maybe not, but both ways she divorce rapes you RIGHT in the fucking bank account and takes over half of all your shit, takes your healthy happy dog that you'vPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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 No.17384

shove it down your ass nigger.

Keep not fapping fellas

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 No.17388

>>17381

>Nofap wasn't created by feminists

I've got bad news for you… he's actually right about that one. Take a jog on down to the r/nofap subleddit and look at all of the proud soyboys giving up masturbation to "correct their male gaze and stop looking at women as sex objects".

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 No.17400

>>17388

>r/nofap

Fuck that place, it doesnt help the cause of nofap at all. Nofap has history and philosophy behind it before the internet.

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 No.17408

Well to put it simply: I think you are wrong based on my own experiences. I feel generally more well and vital when I do Nofap and I think your views on the reasoning behind doing it in the first place are completely misplaced. Due to this, your argument are built upon a false premise and the only way you were able to "support" that was through the use of several strawmen.

You are too focused on women and what they want. That's not the point of nofap and while I understand that it is a motivator for some that do it, I'm inclined to believe that those individuals are missing the point, much like yourself.

You also claim that proponents of nofap go out of their way to "think about other men's penises all the time" but in my experience, the opposite is true. It usually goes: someone posts information of nofap, people against it come out of the woodwork to use shaming tactics to imply that advocates are crazy/stupid/faggots/incels/etc with the same vitriol you'll see out of a coke addict when you say, "hey man, that stuff seems to be fucking with your head lately. You alright?"

I just don't see any of your arguments describing the reality of what I've seen, so o wholeheartedly disagree with you. Have a nice day.

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 No.17422

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>>17365

>Using faulty (((Pyschology))) to justify your position.

>Uses the exact same logic as the people you disagree with

>Reddit spacer

I'll suppose I'll try to get to root of the matter

>These people believe that men don't have the right to enjoy the freedom of brining themselves to orgasm by natural and safe and risk free means in the privacy of their own home, and seek to shame men and make them feel depressed and miserable for doing a healthy and happy natural thing that can't result in STD's or Pregnancy. Masturbation.

OP is missing the point to a comical extent. Overcoming lust is both possible and necessary. Because ultimately all pleasure is received in vain, thus should not be sought after. If pleasure seeking is allowed to followed unabated then it only natural that you see the sexual slavery that men who follow this (((logic))) sells them into. To become a full man and not a brain-dead coomer means rejecting this Hedonistic pleasure seeking.

>They created nofap so that men would hate their own bodies and themselves as much as women hate their own bodies and themselves. It's basically an MK ultra psychological warfare mindfuck like the things women say at the very end of arguments that just fucks your head for a whole week.

Ignoring entirely the fact that masturbation has been historically and currently been pushed as a means of controlling the masses by taking away their ability to control themselves. Because if you look back to who is pushing this, it traces back to degenerates like (((Wilhelm Reich))) and Alfred Kinsey, both of whom had this agenda in mind.

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 No.13392[Reply]

You keep relapsing because you like being horny.

You like sexual fantasies. You like checking out girls asses on the street and thinking about them. When you read that last sentence, you enjoyed the sexual suggestiveness of the idea of looking at girl's asses. You try to force yourself to nofap, but you wallow in your lust. You 'accidentally' see porn, going to /b/ for 'no reason', clicking on lewd images on the chans 'out of curiosity'.

Then you think well, I'll just look at some softcore images because I'm bored. Then some softcore videos, then hardcore… and it's over. You're no longer in a state where you can control yourself, so, overtaken by the lust you've built up, you resign yourself to fapping and starting again. You feel terrible afterwards, but in the moment, it seems like you HAVE to fap. You don't really have a choice. You feel trapped in a cycle.

The key is to not begin the cycle. DON'T FEED THE LUST. These shitty line graphs are here to illustrate how to never fap again. Every upward movement is you getting hornier, every downward movement is you cooling off.

Pic 1 is a cycle leading up to fapping. It could be over a day, week, month etc. You have a horny thought when you wake up. You go to work and can't help but fantasise over your hot coworker, or a hot girl at the coffee place. You wallow in mental pictures of asses and blowjobs. You get home and can't help but look at porn… and then you fail.

Pic 2 is how to control it. We're men and we will always be horny and fantasise about sex to some degree. But the KEY is not to let it go far, and to cool off. You have to actively manage your lust level and keep yourself level-headed. Let the horny thoughts pass you by, don't wallow in them, don't enjoy them. Just accept them and move on. I'm on day 35 ish and I check out girls, but they occupy my mind for a few seconds maximum, and I don't actively fantasise about them- I mentally move on. I've looked at porn every now and then, but each time I've managed to reign in the horniness, and stopped looking after 5 minutes or so. That's a massive change from when I've relapsed before and binged on porn for hoPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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 No.14392

>>13428

This is how you don't do nofap.

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 No.14393

Every time I get horny thinking about banging hot 40 year old women I just stop myself. I have come to the realization that all sexual thoughts are poison, and should not be entertained during nofap.

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 No.14394

This is some good advice OP, to not let lust grow from within, but cut it before its starts gaining strength.

>>13428

This however seems dumb, sounds like just an excuse for a self cutting faggot.

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 No.14718

Bumping this thread because it talks about something important. The road to relapse begins from innocent lustful glances and emotions/fantasies you allow, day by day it builds up until it becomes a monster and takes you down in a flash. Basically start from the grassroots, and stop lusting in your everyday life. Have some control over yourself.

Quoting from The Bhagavad Gita:

"Waters from many rivers continually flow into the ocean but the ocean never overfills. In a like manner, desires and attachments constantly flow into the mind of the illuminated One, but he or she, like the ocean in its deepest depths, is totally still and never disturbed."

Basically, your brain may lust, and that is outside of your control, but don't let it affect you and what you can control, that is your own actions and feelings. Brain says "ayyyy what an ass and you immediately look away, ignore the impulse from the brain, knowing its degenerate and focus on something more productive. Eventually the brain will get the idea and stop lusting as much leading to triggers and relapses. Many similar verses in the Bible related to lust, Galatians 5:16 for example - "Walk in the spirit, do not fulfill the desires of the flesh". Also reading a book on Brahmacharya and the yogis talk about keeping the image of blood, skeleton and all other filth that exists in a human body to counter the reflexive lustful nature of the brain.

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 No.17421

>>14718

I partly agree however controlling your lust can be really hard as it is natural and forcing us to reproduce. We however waste our precious life energy only to get a bit of fun. However it is acting like an animal "Don't think about future, it's more important you feel good now". But it's a dead end. If you think that fappening bassicaly makes you an animal, unable to control your instincts would You still fap? Strive to achieve your best, be a proud human not an animal

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 No.17418[Reply]

>become addicted to porn at a young age

>become addicted to imageboards shortly after

>become a complete degenerate/hikki

>on path to wizardhood

>miserable

>fix my sleeping schedule

>trying to eat cleaner (never succeeded at true clean diet, but eliminated most trash foods)

>start working out

>got a job

>all this time slowly overcoming anxiety

>get a gf

>A few months in the relationship in talk of porn comes up, I tell her my struggles. I vow to her I will never watch it again.

>dont touch porn for 117 days

>its easy, hardly even have urges to watch it, when i do i easly ignore it

>one day sudden extreme urge to watch porn while im at work, i go to the bathroom and pull some up on my phone (fucking disgusting i know, every time i think of this i shudder)

>I relapse. 117 days of progress thrown away in a few minutes

>It has been two months since my relapse and since then I have not been able to abstain. on average I go like 4-6 days and then I binge watch it like 3 times in a row and I hate myself and promise myself and I will never do it again. I pray for forgiveness and for strength to abstain.

>Been too afraid to confess to my gf that I failed. I know it would hurt her.

Friends, how can I overcome this horrid addiction for good?

I thought I had conquered it; but I suppose that was a part of the root of my failure: hubris.

How does one defeat this evil?

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 No.17419

>Friends, how can I overcome this horrid addiction for good?

I doubt it's possible. And you're right that it was hubris that got you.

Porn is like junk food, in that it's an empty simulation of something that satisfies a human need. We'll never get rid of human needs, so we'll always be tempted. Given this insoluble conflict, there arises a distinction in our minds between the merely animal part of the brain, and the human will. The animal can't see past dopamine hits and is a slave to every skinnerbox, whereas the will can self-moderate.

It's good to realize and maintain a sense of spiritual loftiness, and conversely, a contempt of that which is base. It keeps you from identifying yourself as the kind of "consoomer" who willingly gives himself over to any kind of attractive nuisance. But, this only partly mitigates the problem of temptation.

Living in modernity entails a constant exercise of the will to simply avoid being drawn into simulacra: porn, junk food, idle entertainment, etc. It seems grim and sisyphean to realize that the will is like any muscle: it fatigues, and has weaker or stronger days. You'll never have a perfect defense against temptation, but there are better and worse states to be in, and practice is how we get better.

>I relapse. 117 days of progress thrown away in a few minutes

That's not strictly true; in the story of your life, there were those 117 days where you weren't a slave. Now the story continues, and you decide what the totality of your life will amount to.

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 No.17340[Reply]

This is day 0, I want to end this addiction, but I'm still unable of convincing myself and as a result keep falling on the trap time and time again, long story short, I'm 27 years old, soon to be 28, my background is similar to many of the ones I've read on here, no sense in dwelling in my past or assigning guilt, still, I know I did this to myself, I became addicted because I choose to look out for the filth instead of engaging in other more productive activities while in middle and high school, maybe I was sheltered, and shy because of that, still had plenty of chances to come out of my shell and didn't take them, the only gf I had was in middle school, at least I was the one that asked her out (over the internet but still), only ever got as far with as to hold her hand before we broke up and I just went back to porn, so still a virgin, since I avoided relationships or female contact all together since then, even when they approached me.

I have been drifting through life without purpose or meaning, have a job, but no career prospects, no moving out of my parents house plans in the near future, etc, but I know what it must transpire to even start thinking about bettering my situation, and that thing is to stop pissing away all my time and energy either sleeping, mindlessly watching youtube and the like, and of course masturbating which drains me of my energy and time, have read the Paul Allen's hacked book, easy peasy method to stop porn addiction two times already, but always come back to square one, I want to keep myself accountable now, that's why I made this thread,

It's gotten to this point, because I wasted away the sunday in which I had to do car maintenance and cleaning around my filth loitering about all day on sexual chats and on and off viewing porn, only to be here, awake until 6 am after binging in sexual chats again and finally rubbing one out, only to do so again two hours later, I'm going to sleep now, upon waking up I'll do a deep look to remind me not to engage in porn and the like.

I'll post the book which I grabbed from a thread on /v/ before the site shutdown if anyone is interested, couldn't find it in the sticky, the times I've read it I understand and agree to everything but I'm unable of changing my routine I keep drifting, Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

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 No.17412

I want to better myself, stop using fapping as an excuse and the cause for being a lazy piece of shit and sleep through the day, 1st day starts again today.

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 No.17413

>>17412

I failed again, prey to the behavioral conditioning, I sat at the computer to look up something and ended up browsing porn, no cheating though I won't be fapping the rest of the day tomorrow I'll start anew.

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 No.17414

I'm fucking weak, couldn't go a day without, I'll be starting fresh on sunday, no matter the temptations, at least after fapping and coming here to confess I don't fap again in the day, but that's not good enough, next time I want to fap I'll come here instead and read through all my posts, then will decide if my resolution is still strong or if I want to keep making excuses pathetically again and again.

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 No.17415

>>17414

No.

Don't come here again.

Don't even visit the internet for the first 3 weeks.

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 No.17416

>>17415

OK, haven't really tried a Internet shutdown, so I'll be doing just that, to shut down the temptations straight, I'll start by cleansing my computer of all remnants of fapping enablers, like skype, and set again the filters of porn sites I have unchecked time and time again, have to now that my mind is clear after fapping, I'm pathetic I know, that's why I'm trying.

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 No.17152[Reply]

My preferred method of holding off urges is to dig a trench and I'm going to convince you to do the same.

1. It's a workout. After just a few hours of digging you can feel yourself becoming stronger.

2. You can't fap while digging. This one's pretty obvious.

3. It's tiring. By the time you're done for the day you'll be too tired to move, let alone fap.

Of course, any kind of manual labor will work for this purpose. But I chose a trench because WWI larping sounds fun. So get out there and dig yourself a nofap trench.

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 No.17378

I can't dig a trench because I don't own any land, but I support you 100% OP.

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 No.17385

fucking based

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 No.17386

Bro, make an underground boogbase

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 No.17410

File: 32a977bf4b06ae6⋯.jpg (121.75 KB, 900x720, 5:4, 8f22022ddda68202fd3336b983….jpg)

look for gold while digging

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 No.17411

>>17386

Basade

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 No.17409[Reply]

How do I stop getting butterflies when looking at good looking women (both real and internet)?

Avoiding them and ignoring them from my field of view isn't helping. I always end up relapsing.

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 No.12400[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

yo yo yo this is day 8 of COMPLETE NO FAP NO PORN NO SOFT PORN nO THING and I FEEL LIKE I CAN KILL SOME ONE RIGHT NOW. WHo else is on day 8?

NO FAP 4 LIFE

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 No.17126

I discovered your channel on Telegram. Nice to see you here, mate. You are a inspiration to us all.

I am on day 26 of nofap.

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 No.17131

>>17126

Helllll yah brother!!! Buck the rooot I got to figure out what day im on..

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 No.17155

File: 99ef54ac75d4e1c⋯.jpg (149.41 KB, 1600x900, 16:9, john adams quote on the co….jpg)

on day 6. it was tough this morning but i just got out and mowed the lawn. later i had to also take a walk. even later a cold bath.

fuck. we are still animals.

it feels fucking great to not do it though. was i always this close to straightening out and not being such a schlub-a-dub?

>started reading before bed again

>hit the gym yesterday

>picked up an old writing project today

hope to keep going. any encouragement would mean a lot

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 No.17156

>>12564

what exactly does root mean?

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 No.17407

>>12400

are you still alive

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 No.17364[Reply]

Decided to do NoFap after failing NNN and after 24 days of NoFap, I notice I've become more emotional. I laugh at things (SNL even), I get more annoyed with dumb people, I cry harder than I have ever done before. (One of my IRL friends passed away from OD, so that hurts more).

Stupid question, but do I keep going?

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 No.17372

Maybe you were numb to outside stimuli because of the constant fapping, for me it's been the opposite, I'm less angry, fapping for hours on end into the early morning leaved me exhausted so having to deal with people the next day made me jump in anger whenever something didn't go my way, in your case it could be the aftermath of the loss of your friend, my condolences, if you are debating if you want to continue or not, compare your fap addiction to his own addiction, what way are they similar? fapping or course will not outright kill you, but is it destroying your life?

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 No.17376

Part of why I'm into nofap is that I don't like the anaesthetic quality of coomer life. Being more alive generally is very intense at first, but you level off eventually.

I'm tempted to say "these are extenuating circumstances and you should put off any personal tests of character for awhile." But at the same time, to say "life is too intense right now so I'm going to relapse on purpose" is altogether unwholesome.

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 No.17387

>>17372

The one similarity I found is that we both did it before going to bed. Though fapping has cost me a lot of things.

Thank you for your sympathy, anon. That means a lot to me.

>>17376

You're right. To relapse on purpose just will be undoing the progress I've made so far. And I can't afford that, since I work with a lot of machinery which needs me to be at my best.

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 No.17402

I finally made it through January without fapping. It was hard at first, really hard. But thanks to the boards here and working like a madman at my job, I made it through.

Now to go through February, where all the normies are focusing on Valentine's like dumbasses while I'm just waiting for the Sonic movie to come out.

To anyone reading this, don't fap. Ever. Save that spunk for a qt3.14 that is worth the fuck. I believe in you, faggots.

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 No.17403

>>17402

Based

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 No.17389[Reply]

Throughout my adult life, I've only ever fapped about two or three times a week, and I've always seen it as akin to scratching an itch rather than something I was rabidly inclined to pursue. If I got busy it wasn't uncommon to go a couple weeks without even remembering fapping or porn. A lot of people here insist that fapping at all is an addiction, but I'm not really concerned about that.

How often are/were you fapping to call it an "addiction" in the first place? Once a day? Twice, three, four times a day? How did it get to that point? Do you just all just have a really high libido?

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 No.17391

File: eb1d74e5d1eb07c⋯.jpeg (1.01 MB, 720x5760, 1:8, 77C2C82A-4D68-4957-9187-6….jpeg)

I’m definitely addicted. I masturbate at least 4-6 times a day, sometimes up to 8 times. It never used to be like this, I used to be like you when I was 10-13, then as I got older I’ve progressively masturbated more and more, and now I’m a degenerate with like 5 different fetishes that I’m ashamed of and urges that come at bad times.

I masturbate so much that day to day I feel like a damn zombie unless I compensate for it with copious amounts of caffeine.

So to answer your question, yes. Some people are actually addicted.

(Pic related, replace despair leaf with porn.)

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 No.17399

>>17389

I've fapped about every day for several years now, I am currently on a 4 day nofap streak. I can't say if I was ever addicted, but this place helped alot. Just workout, eat healthy, and pray/meditate. Even if you're an atheist pray to something for help on your energy control.

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