Help me out with something, anons.
Every time I relapse it's not over red-blooded stuff (boobs, butts, sex) but over a few fetishes which have always captivated me. Sometimes there's not even a particular trigger, just the memory. Often the relapse begins when I'm feeling particularly stressed, zoned out, tired, incompetent, etc.
Several times as a kid my privacy wasn't respected (i wuz seen nekked by women and didn't like it). One of the most difficult fetishes for me to shake off is clothed female/naked male. Obviously I sexualized some sort of fear or pain or embarrassment.
Can someone redpill me on fetishes? Where do they come from? How do you beat them?