/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous

>>15740

I'm about 7 months into nofap and I'm kinda the same way. I even look at porn pics for a couple of minutes every day and feel almost nothing be it from anime tiddies to full blown furshit. Maybe it's over exposure and I'm less susceptible to the Coolidge Effect, maybe it's because I got into philosophy and see prudence as a virtue and lust as degeneracy.

On a side note, every time I browse /monster/, it does nothing for me, The whole place just feels like a sleazy fetish pit where lust is disguised as prudence so it's okay to indulge because "muh vanilla 2d pure waifu" or some shit. The idea of disguising lust as purity is a dangerous way to trap yourself into an addiction.

>>15807

Gonna be honest here, these raid dumps nearly got me, but mostly I just skimped through without problem, just a few pictures here and there that managed to piq up my arousal, dick got painfully hard for a moment, and I even went off in search for a source.

But luckily I disassociated the combo of feeling horny and immediately touching myself, so even if I was succumbing for a moment, it didn't last enough for me to lose it, and soon I realized how porn was disgusting again.

So the moral here, it doesn't matter if you're getting ED for the sort of degenerate stuff you were used to fap, what matters is if you gonna get horny from real intimacy, and that's where it counts.

>>15819

>real intimacy

Only time will tell when that actually happens.

I still get hard from time to time, I think it is just more of a matter of impulse control and maybe my standards. I'm no medical professional so I can't know for sure with good judgement that it is ED or not.

Whenever I did decide to indulge, it would be with an onahole, because using my hand would be pleb tier. However, once you use them, you have to clean them and dry them out properly so they don't grow mold. It was a lot of time spent just so I could feel good for about seven or so seconds.So why even bother.

ED or not, I'm still glad I'm not wasting time looking for the perfect thing to cum to. Unfortunately, that is the only difference I experience in NoFap. I haven't really changed much at all but I place the blame of that on my upbringing rather than quitting an addiction.

It ain't nofap, but something that's helped me stop descending into more and more degenerate and debauched porn was unironically beginning to think of an anime character as my "waifu", or just wife. To think about what she would think about the things I'm doing (whether related to porn or my eating habits, etc).. it helps that the worst stuff that is of high quality involving this particular character are nude pinups (from a now old anime). I know this is a crutch, but I started getting extremely concerned with some of the stuff I was getting off to. It was all "2D" stuff, but involving snuff and amputees, it got real bad. But the temporary course I decided upon has at least curbed that desire. Essentially, if I wanna fap, it has to be to one of those pinups of her. Otherwise, no fapping. Getting down to once a week, I might try for what you guys are going for eventually.

I just came after a three day no-fap (record 31 days) and already regretted it. Pledge today and to at least one week

>>16455

What is wrong with me. Already relapsed. Pledge a week from today

any other self improvement boards?

It's been so so long since I had a REALLY good orgasm and I simply NEEDED it so I just fapped to piss because it really disgusts me and I figured I could use it to force that earth-shattering orgasm. It didn't feel quite as good as I was hoping but it was definitely the best I've had in at least half a year, most of the few orgasms I've had over the past months have been just a little sliver of pleasure lasting only a moment but this one was very good and I'm still riding out the echoes of it.

Moral of the story: I feel like a fucking junkie

>>16512

>Fapped to piss

The fuck are you talking about?

Orgasm are never as fulfilling as we hope it to be, specially if you're fapping. Just get over that idea that you're actually enjoying yourself.

>>16517

>The fuck are you talking about?

How the hell have you never heard of watersports?

why does cumming have to feel so damn good? what can men do against such reckless hate?

I got into nofap pretty recently. I managed to do it for 2 weeks in January and it made me feel better physically which is what motivated me to keep going. Sadly, my streaks never last for more than one week. A major issue I'm having is that when I come home from school and feel stressed out, I lack the willpower to keep myself from looking up porn or doing something productive. I don't have a hard time at all on days off. Any tips on countering this?

>>16579

Its always the bad times that are hardest, just one click away and you can forget all that shit. But the trick is, fapping doesn't really help it, instead it makes it harder to get through the day and suck the energy out of you. Remember that you felt better when you didn't actually do it, and that the craving is just a withdraw response, that will quickly fade away the more you stay away from this.

Why go /nofap/ if you wont go /nofuck/?

Celibacy is well storied in European culture, even Jesus was celibate for his entire life.

I'm obviously not asking for complete celibacy, you should have sex in order to reproduce, however, only procreative sex acts are permitted, and sex is only being allowed for the purposes of procreation, if you do not intend to create a child, you are forbidden from any activities involving your penis aside from pissing.

Now, you can start becoming abstinent now, an even if you are in a romantic relationship you wish to keep, you do not have to give it up, if she is a worthwhile woman who truly loves you, she will respect your wish to no longer make love to her, and will do so without becoming adulterous, there are many things lovers can do with one another, sex is only one, and is at the lowest level of them all - true love is pure, it is not visceral, whores have sex with random strangers, many of whom they despise.

BTW, you should still take care not to become a cuck by tolerating adultery, If she has sex with someone else even once, get rid of her immediately.

You've given up porn, you've given up masturbation, and both have produced great rewards to you for your willpower, now it is time to cut out the last bit of corruption from your life.

The rewards are worth it, I promise.

>>16685

I reached a new level today, though only several months toward my goal of surpassing one year of no fapping. Many relapses since then have occurred where I have a sexual dream, and give in to my urges. Several times I have woken up at the moment of climax, too late to realize that I had assented to orgasm. In waking life, too, I had edged a few times for the heck of it, but this was rare compared to the number of times I was having vivid dreams of different women. Today was different. The woman I changed to suit my tastes, and we had sex, but I decided to end the dream without climax, and woke up with a profound sense of victory. Though I may have somewhat succumbed to the temptation on offer, I did not plunge into oblivion, and hope only to gain in my powers in such a manner.

My waking life struggle just beigns however, as I am beginning to think along the same lines; that the only valid method of relating sexually to the human species ought to be limited to a relationship inside the confines of marriage, a binding contract. As the Germanic peoples in the Roman historians' accounts, the bond was permanent. I now see that my prior 'dating' and 'flings' were in form an emulation of homsexual relations in that they were, for the most part, hedonistic, and effectively without purpose; barren. My new kink is unprotected, cocreative sex with a wife who will bear my children, the barriers to such sex are much higher than some "chemistry" from a chance encounter at a bar or on the street. Perhaps I'm overthinking it, but I now realize the traps are set against us, and for the benefit of the family i must answer to my own duties as regards proper selection and behavior. It is a true change of paradigm for me, to adopt this schema whereby my energies must be channeled into creating the sort of prosperity and behavior to attract the as-yet-uncorrupted (or redeemably corrupt) to me. I have rejected advances or clear indications of interest now, and only plant to do the same with greater sagacity, until I seize upon the moment and the person who I deem capable of bearing a load in this struggle of life, in the duty of raising a family and forming a resilient whole, not to cleave in this materialist, ephemeral land of no-fault divorce and single motherhood. First, though, I have my projects to attend to. Like securing a dwelling and such.

>>16685

I've been thinking about this idea for a while. There are plenty of studies that show that premarital sex with multiple partners is toxic to marital stability, and I think remaining celibate until marriage with a woman you wish to marry is a great idea. Sex should only happen within the confines of marriage, procreative or not. The only issue I see in pursuing this and sticking with it is finding a woman who is 1) a virgin and 2) who will want to refrain any and all premarital sex and whore-behavior. I shouldn't let that stop me though, if they aren't willing to commit it's not worth it. I'm not a Christfag so I've always been very worried that I will never find a wife who will give me six kids and is a virgin who will remain celibate until marriage

>>16660

You have a problem, motherfucker?

Chink lover little degenarate shit.

What's a good adblocker for blocking porn sites? I want something where I can easily add sites to the block list but removing them is basically impossible. I'm willing to spend money for something like this. (I tried K9 but it wasn't too great). I want something that's not explicitly a porn or content filter, because I use a shared PC and don't want anyone to know the real reason I'm installing it.

>>16796

>What's a good adblocker for blocking porn sites?

The only good one that works is self control.

>>16804

Awww man, I'm all out of that stuff!

>>16808

Post the book on the library thread. Seems interesting.

>>14487

This isn't the fucking 60s boomer. You find jobs online

It's been a two weeks since I last fapped. I can confirm that after exactly a week there will be spiking urge but I thought about it as withrawal from drugs. If you have something to do it is easier and very slowly it gets better. I already feel more energetic but I still wish fapping didn't have any negative side effect. Although I think less of sexual stuff, I still like my fetishes better. I wish I could unlike it somehow. The biggest hazard is going out and seeing a lot of women with highly sexual clothing because my imagination kicks in. Ffs

Today a coworker said “Do you smell that? Smells like someone nutted in their pants and didn’t clean themselves.” At first thought, I immediately start assuming that it’s me. In fact, I am FULLY CONVINCED that it is me. I start avoiding people and get really fucking self conscious. I have thoughts like, “What do my coworkers think of me? Is it funking up the whole room? What the fuck have I done? I need to leave.” And so I asked my best friend coworker and he said I don’t smell any different so I’m like wtf. As soon as I get home I start smelling my clothes, my bed, all that paranoid shit. But I didn’t smell anything. And so I thought back and I realized that it might have actually been this very young customer that looked a bit unkempt. I didn’t get a whiff so I’m unsure but I also realized that my coworkers didn’t avoid me before that incident either. Or maybe they were.. thinking Oh god oh fuck

What's this prostate cancer meme about, is it worth worrying about? Gonna start this summer.

>>16906

Well, that's exactly what it is… a meme. Just forget about it, its not true.

>>16896

I'm aware of that funky smell, I used to be pretty depraved in that regards, sleeping with cum in my pants, not cleaning properly, and even somedays where I would edge hard on eroge, I could feel that strong scent in my room, and wondered if other people could smell that as well. There is also a strong scent with females, or mixed when you're locked up having sex, guess that's why people usually shower after. But this is something I guess improves a lot with nofap, not to mention that even the smell is a possible hook to get you horny on PMO again.

But on another subject, I really need the help of you bros, I've failed recently and been having a hard time getting back on track, but that's not what I'm more worried about, but my last fails (and I've lasted from 2 to 4 weeks or more), I was so up over my limit that I had very shameful premature ejaculations, even if blowing a large load. But I felt like not in control at all. This worries me as I still want to find a female companionship, and being so weak in this regard is obviously something that I don't want to, I would feel very susceptible to cumming right away. And even if I were hop in on the semen retention crew, how could I even be able to, being like that, so horny that I could blow a load at the slightest sight of sex.

>>14338

Still keeping it up

going strong.

You are going to make it too lads.

Good luck

I've been attempting nofap for about about three months. Listen up, faggots.

>First month is trial and error ridden

>After first week I feel aggressive and fap on purpose as a result

>Relapse once a week

>Second month is better, get urges, streak lasts for three weeks and feel pathetic after it is ended

>Third month - better

>Wet dreams, urges much more easily suppressed

Now that I can control the urges more easily I am as far from fapping as I have ever been. The thing I've noticed with nofap is that I'm more interested in having a relationship and less interested in fapping/porn. Now I try to work out here in there. Nothing crazy but it is a disciplinary practice, saves time and gives you some pride and you're less of a degenerate, look a little better, have more testosterone + more interest in women.

Today I had a pretty bizarre experience to share. To give some background, I've been into nofap since the beginning of the year, with a lot of trial and error, but getting better ever since. Today would have been exactly 21 days since my last failure, but my longest streak was longer than a month.

But overall I would say I was doing my best this time doing fine, today I just wanted to lazy around, lying naked with the sun on my bed, and got tempted to read some H manga (again, this is my one temptation, but one that was going much better than my previous streaks). There was this one story that made me diamonds, and I started cumming without even touching my dick, just by sheer twitching and pelvic strength (like in kegel exercises), with the initial pleasure with was quickly followed with a lot cum.

Needless to say, this was quite a different experience for me, it felt halfway like an wetdream, between my own control and the other half being my own prostate pushing out excess semen. It didn't have the regular push of a fap, but still quite a relieving release. Of course it wouldn't have happened if I didn't tease my self reading that stuff, so I'm unsure whether to call it a full failure, and I also unsure if its something I should avoid altogether.

Point being, have anyone experienced anything like this? I also don't want to turn into some sort of chronic premature ejaculation guy.

I'm on day 3 rn and I feel so fucking good. Whenever I can escape the porn trap for even a few days it's incredible.

>>17056

>3 days

pfff, its been a week since my last failure and I still feel like crap.

>>17034

Strong pelvic strength should prevent PE, not cause it.

I just added minced garlic to my sausages and eggs this morning. It tasted so good I got a full erection while eating.

>>17085

Not necessarily, I've read also that strong pelvic control helps with controlling ejaculation and even allowing stronger shoots. To be more clear about this, it really felt like a "throbbing penis", and as I'm about similar to this again, it feels like being right on the edge between lack of control (throbbing) and holding it in (flexing).

I know right, what is edging? But this is slightly different, and I feel like its key if I want to know the ways of Karezza and semen retention for good.

There is another thing to note, I think it only comes to this strong level of arousal because I'm still taking maca root, which is a supplement which greatly increases semen production.

This was something that helped when I got boner issues but didn't get rid of the degeneracy yet (in other words, it allowed me to fap away and still be virile). I'm not sure about continuing taking it, but I wanted to finish what I had before it got old.

>>17097

If you're horny enough you can self-induce an orgasm through pelvic exercise, this is well known. I can do it easily. It's much more healthier than touching your dick but it's still something like a relapse.

>>16755

>55 days

>05/14/19

Did you make it?

>>17119

tldr: try mindfulness meditation.

To expand on that: You need to understand what you are, and what you are not.

Basically, you are your Will; the part of you that has thoughts, plans, and ideas beyond what an animal has.

What you are not is your dick, your frustrations, bad moods, or animal urges. These things are only passing conditions that come and go like the wind. You must not identify with transient phenomena.

So what you do is, when you have a sensation, you stop and recognize that there is a sensation without being carried away by it. When it's a powerful urge, you recognize that the urge is powerful, but you stay "seated in the Will" and instead of reacting to the urge, you just watch it pass by, unmoved.

>>17125

This wasn't really informative or entertaining at all. Just the typical ad-hom shitflinging from both sides that pops up in every nofap thread outside of /nofap/. You probably wouldn't have capped it if it wasn't your own post.

You know how you say retarded stuff to yourself like "Hurr imagine her sucking a dick"? I know I do. That's cuckoldry - start saying "Imagine her sucking MY dick". And stop thinking about something so grotesque once you've uncucked yourself, faggot.

I fapped 4 times today, all to lolicon

>>17118

How exactly is it much better than regular fapping?

I can see some difference but in the end it feels just like losing semen, and if porn is required to reach that horny state than its just as bad.

Unfortunately this has become a sort of a new trip to me, and leading me to relapse more often than I should. I'm also experimenting with karezza and semen retention, it mentions a method of holding it in post accidental orgasm, which I'm unsure actually worked. Anyway, if you have anything to share on the subject, is very welcome.