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No fap or Less fap? Anonymous 04/17/19 (Wed) 18:32:27 No.16413

In a long distance relationship. I'm on day 40 nofap. Looked at porn here and there but didn't MO.

Mostly right now I just feel like I'm depriving myself of the ability to fap with my gf (it's all we have long distance atm) for no real benefit as, at 40 days, I feel no different. I still feel numb about some things, kind of obsessed with sex, desire to fuck everything that moves. I was hoping nofap would make me less focused on sex and feel more in tune in my relationship. It feels like the opposite is happening.

Lent ends tomorrow and I'm trying to decide: do I keep going? What will actually happen if I do? Will I actually feel any different cause I don't right now.

Do any of you just fap on the weekends or every other weekend? Semi-normal but WAY WAY WAY less than daily/multiple times daily?

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no fap no root 04/17/19 (Wed) 20:11:06 No.16417

tried both, no fap is the way, Day 359.

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Anonymous 04/17/19 (Wed) 23:29:04 No.16419

>>16417

Can you tell me what's actually different? Cause at day 40 I feel no different at all and all I'm missing out on is intimacy with my gf while we're long distance (and that situation is going to be ongoing for some time).

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No fap no root 04/18/19 (Thu) 15:16:00 No.16429

Fapping less had 0 benefits for me. No fap has had like 100 different benefits. Only thing it's good for us a stepping stone to no fap.

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Anonymous 04/18/19 (Thu) 18:23:05 No.16430

>>16429

Alright answer me this: How would you handle a long distance relationship where you're going to be apart for at least another year and your main outlet for sexual intimacy with her IS to jerk off on the phone?

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Anonymous 04/18/19 (Thu) 18:54:03 No.16431

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>>16430

In general, if you can't physically see her for a full year, you should review whether it's sustainable. Physical contact and interaction both sexual and social are crucial for building trust with someone from my experience in long term relationships. Unless you have a very firm foundation behind you, confirm the commitment of time is worth the separation.

If you will see her a few times over the year, do your best to no-fap and make the most of when you're together.

If you must fap, are certain you won't see her all year and the separation is worth the commitment (rare; challenge you to explain to yourself why it is), try to do every 10 - 20 days. From what I've read and in my experience, testosterone peaks around a week and I think being able to repeatedly go longer without it is good for discipline. But mind you, if you don't keep your schedule it will be very easy to fall back in.

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Anonymous 04/18/19 (Thu) 19:15:28 No.16432

>>16413

I'm the same as you. I'm on day 43, honestly just go back to fapping. No fap is overhyped garbage, just do me a solid and don't do it daily.

After my 90 days are up I'm going to try my surf idea where I jerk off every 10 days to avoid crashing. Maybe you can try it for me and report back the results.

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Anonymous 04/19/19 (Fri) 01:23:21 No.16441

>If I fap just between x days it will be fine

This is such hot garbage. First because once you gone a long time you realize that you don't need to fap at all to feel satisfied.

Second, that you will be wasting willpower and torturing yourself counting the days until you can PMO, this is literally just glorifying the act while setting yourself for failure.

Third, that again once you've gone a long time, you realize that fapping to porn is not even enjoyable to begin with, you really have to push the limits and train yourself to be a degenerate like that.

If you still want to cum, I wouldn't say its that bad at all fapping once in a while, just keep out of the porn garbage. And speaking of which OP, I don't its that bad doing it with your gf online, just keep in mind to not overdo it as well, since you're getting used to video/pictures stimuli versus the real thing, just make sure you meet regularly in real life and make up for the time lost.

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no fap no root 04/19/19 (Fri) 03:48:29 No.16453

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>>16430

gross on multiple levels. ( your question infers that fornication is OK..)

i'm a 22 yr old virgin on day 360 of no fap, feel amazing, best decision i ever made, so much more healthy and wholesome now….

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Anonymous 04/19/19 (Fri) 06:43:29 No.16457

>>16431

We've already made this work for 2 years. Our situation is complicated, and we do get to see each other periodically throughout the year. I can't tell you the future so I don't know how sustainable it is until our situation changes BUT it's definitely worth it to me right now and has worked for 2 years. It just depends a lot on communication and honesty, but cumming over the internet together DOES help.

>>16432

Yeah I'm thinking something like a 10-14 day cycle. Probably gonna give it a shot. I haven't felt anything different after 40 days so.

>>16441

Fair points and you're entitled to your opinion. It's possible I'll feel that way after "a long time" but without knowing where "a long time" ends it's hard to say it's worth it for me since 40 days is a pretty fucking long time (compared to most people who can't make it 2 weeks) and I haven't felt any changes. May be some I'm not seeing, but I don't detect any.

>>16452

a) I'm not really religious, I tried Lent as an exercise in self discipline; I'm not catholic (but I do believe in Christ)

b) If by "see other people now and then if it's a year long thing" you mean just fuck around with people who are close by while I wait to see her again then no, I have zero interest in that. If she isn't worth not fucking random hoes for then why would I commit to her? I didn't even want to be in a relationship, but I loved her too much not to try it with her and it's been worth it so far. Why would I tarnish that with some random stupid sluts who mean nothing to me (and will probably just try to use sex as an inroad to steal my resources and wreck my relationship anyway)?

>>16453

Can't tell if joking or serious but if serious good for you man do what makes you happy lol

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Anonymous 04/20/19 (Sat) 17:08:24 No.16474

>>16457

this guy is more serious than anyone on this board

he lives in a fucking shipping container

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Anonymous 04/20/19 (Sat) 20:22:11 No.16480

i on day 4 and i got even more hornier by seeing 18 hot college teens…they all legal but yeah it brings me more productive into life and i ended up going outside to enjoy the weather.

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Anonymous 04/22/19 (Mon) 02:22:32 No.16498

It took about 2 weeks for me, but I noticed my tastes were more vanilla and I had fewer dirty thoughts. All it took was the thought of sex for me to get hard, though.

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