No.3559 [View All]
I'm getting sick and tired of society promoting sex as the "ultimate" experience. It's not. I feel like a complete degenerate and disgusted after sex no matter how attractive the woman is. I feel its a fucking waste of time. Recently, I heard that sex originally wasn't meant to be for pleasure but I can't find any studies on it. The point here is that I want my mind off of sex because the more I think about sex, either I'm thinking of fucking some random girl like a degenerate or watch porn and relapse which I do not want. I want something that snaps me out of my sexual urges and see that sex isn't fucking goal in life here. Pic related sort of helped.
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No.3904
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>>3874
> The dark ages would have actually been a lot worse
I'm sure they would!
2016, pisstians still believe that without rabbi Yeshua and his 12 buttbuddies sheepherders we would have lived in sub-saharan african conditions.
>There is a physiological reason for this. After orgasms, serotonin levels drop. Dopamine levels rise up during orgasm then drop after orgasms. Prolactin spikes up and makes the person not be interested in sex for a short while. This is needed for the body so it can recover.
So you've never had sex.
If you did, you'd know that unless vid related happens, post-sex/orgasm/coitus the male feels amazing.
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No.3905
>>3886
>first there was a bearded man then there were light, fish, birds and shit
>he got bored so he origami'd a male out of dust
>he broke one of his ribs to make him a female
Nice "intelligent design" theory you got there: Eve was made from 1 rib but today males have a symmetrical number of ribs on each side.
Looks like mathematics wasn't yahweh's forte…
https://sli.mg/OLWOCf
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No.3906
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No.3907
>>3904
>post-sex/orgasm/coitus the male feels amazing.
t. never heard of post-coital depression
>ITS 2016
kill yourself
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No.3909
Why do we have to argue about religion? People can believe what they want as long as it doesn't hurt others
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No.3920
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No.3925
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>>3907
>t. never heard of post-coital depression
t. woman/omega
sex is bad for you
>>3909
because christianity is a mental illness (like all religions) (like all semitic belief systems and ideas)
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No.3926
>>3925
>>3920
I was 14 once and thought everyone was dumb except me too. I grew out of it and hopefully you will one day too.
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No.3929
>>3925
Do you have nothing better to do with your life than spam the same shit on this board day in day out?
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No.3941
>>3925
>Sapolsky was born in Brooklyn, New York to immigrants from the Soviet Union. He was raised as an Orthodox Jew and spent his time reading about and imagining living with silverback gorillas. By age 12, he was writing fan letters to primatologists. He attended John Dewey High School and, by that time, he was reading textbooks on the subject and teaching himself Swahili.[3]
>Sapolsky describes himself as an atheist.[4][5] He stated in his acceptance speech for the Emperor Has No Clothes Award, "I was raised in an Orthodox (Jewish) household, and I was raised devoutly religious up until around age 13 or so. In my adolescent years, one of the defining actions in my life was breaking away from all religious belief whatsoever."[6]
Remember that the Ashkenazim are much more pre-disposed to schizophrenia themselves. To hear of autistic Atheists shill and associate themselves with these kinds of people is unsurprising, to say the least.
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No.3945
>>3926
no you just became one of them
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No.3978
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>>3926
>everyone who disagrees with me is dumb
>see you just disagreed with me that makes you dumb xd
>oh no I am by far the smartest person on earth
It must be difficult for you to deal with being fucked in the ass by your priest when you were 6 so I understand why this subject is so sensitive and triggering for you.
>>3941
>how to: 20 fallacies in 1 single post
the post
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No.3979
>>3978
I'm sorry I struck such a nerve with you. I guess not everybody can handle that level of euphoria.
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No.3980
>>3863
>That fucking graph
Any retard that takes a graph with no vertical scale or measurable data (what exactly counts as a "scientific advance?") needs to stop trying to pretend to have any authority on intellect.
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No.4524
>>3780
>only Christians believe in god
>you have to be part of a mainstream religion to believe in god
Pleb, when you move out of your Christian parents house you may discover there are more ways of thinking than the two you've been exposed to thus far.
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No.4525
>>3979
post more fedora images, it's making everyone think you are really smart
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No.4527
>>4525
It's to make the atheists look dumb, dumbass.
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No.4528
>>4527
I looked for an appropriate reaction image but I could find quite the right one, just know that you are a fucking moron.
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No.4529
>>4528
Cool story bro.
p.s. Cry more bitch
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No.4531
>>4529
Don't argue with him. He's probably that godless commie that believes that daddy (the state) should pay for his mathematics degree. Or maybe you're him. I don't know.
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No.4532
>>4525
Well, if you insist
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No.4533
I'd suggest an MMO really.
The grind puts you into a state of mind where you're too busy to even think about sex stuff, and with VLC player on another monitor or in always-on-top on the same screen creates even more of a distraction.
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No.4534
>>4533
MMO's (especially Korean ones) are full of fapbait material. Wouldn't advise it if you're of weaker will.
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No.4536
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No.4539
>>4533
>>4533
Yeah let's swap one addiction with another. Video games in general are in cahoots with fapping. You play a game, you lose, you get frustrated - what do you do? Fap. Fap to feel better after losing.
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No.4540
>>4539
That's exactly what happens with me. It's extraordinarily pathetic to get a mad at a fucking game. I think fapping causes pettiness. When I was 10 and I started fapping I could already feel myself becoming increasingly petty and superficial. I didn't know what was causing it but it scared me.
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No.6008
Fucking retards in this thread holy shit.
I feel exactly the same way OP. I'm a virgin yet feel immense peer pressure thanks to the internet and media to get laid.
I have a porn addiction that I'm trying to get rid of and I'm addicted the pleasure I get from orgasm. After it I feel disappointing with myself and I've wasted a colossal amount of time. If I fap I just lay in bed fapping all day.
I've been struggling with that for weeks now, whether or not I should have casual sex. Maybe it's the lack of physical contact or the lack of love. But everyone in this thread are gigantic retards. I'm just astonished at the quality of the answers to OP's genuine problem.
I think that despite society promoting free sex between anybody and everybody, it doesn't make us happy. I don't know if you should save your virginity for the one you will marry (despite me wanting a virgin to share my first time with) or that you should only have sex with your close friends (and only be friends with those who you respect and share similar morals). Ignoring the problem with STDs and the quality of women you are having sex with, I fear that if I participate in debauchery I'll become a slave to it much like I am to pornography.
I'm not advocating polyamory because of the risk of pregnancy and the fact that hedonism is not fulfilling. Porn isn't fulfilling is it? And the need of women who will share their body with you to validate you as a man is fucking pitiful.
It's a matter of choice and what kind of life you think would fulfill you. For me? I want to own my wife. And as a consequence for wanting that she must own me too. The only reason one would delve into promiscuity is if one was seeking pleasure. But why not just masturbate? Ah but you gain validation if a real girl would have sex with you. Unless you were using her to satisfy your lust, in which case you cannot control your urges. And have little self control.
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No.6331
>>3559
>Recently, I heard that sex originally wasn't meant to be for pleasure
I'm not sure what you mean by "for" or "not for" pleasure. Sex has always been extremely pleasurable and addictive. It's what ensures the continuation of every sexually reproducing species. Once upon a time our entire lives were nothing but searching for food to continue surviving. It was a very mechanical and dry existence. One of the only things that actually felt pleasurable and good was sex, and naturally everyone wanted to have it
>I'm getting sick and tired of society promoting sex as the "ultimate" experience
I agree, it's a drug addiction with extremely temporary effects on pleasure
>I feel its a fucking waste of time
It is. In order to get the drug you have to put in more work than you would to acquire any other drug. It is the unique kind of drug addiction that forces you to change your life path to acquire
>The point here is that I want my mind off of sex because the more I think about sex, either I'm thinking of fucking some random girl like a degenerate or watch porn and relapse which I do not want. I want something that snaps me out of my sexual urges and see that sex isn't fucking goal in life here
You could benefit from a chastity device. Combine it with goals, hobbies, and progress. There's no real mental trick you can use to make you not want to have sex women. You either have a sex drive or you don't. The only thing you can do is divert your sex drive and focus
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No.6366
>>6008
>I don't know if you should save your virginity for the one you will marry
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No.6540
Do work.
Exercise, taxes, car maintenence, pushups, organizing your fridge, setting up a game night with friends, cleaning your room, working a job, working a second job, etc.
Do things that make it nearly impossible for you to think about sex. Use the sex drive to create positives, rather than endorse the negatives.
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No.6545
sex increases your testosterone levels dramatically and thats the only reason I'm even doing no fap. No fap is not no sex, for me anyway
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No.6548
>>6545
Sex does cause increased testosterone but it only lasts a short time. Nofap causes a sustained increase in testosterone. Having sex and ejaculating ends all of the positive effects of semen retention on testosterone, making nofap useless for testosterone. Nofap is still good for porn addiction and dopamine, but combining it with sex isn't ideal for testosterone
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No.9908
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No.10755
>>3559
>love isn't real, it's just chemicals
>nothing is real, it's just chemicals
>why even bother with anything anymore
>selfkill
Nigger, reducing human life to "just chemicals lol" never works, nor ever will.
Read any of Dostojevskij's works. Notes from Underground said the most against this sort of bullshit.
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No.11363
>muh chemical responses
this is one of the most judaic arguments there is. pic related
>>3559
>I want something that snaps me out of my sexual urges and see that sex isn't fucking goal in life here
well you should already know that sex is meant for procreation only. no matter how bad the urge is, you will know in your heart that this is true. you just have to have faith that you are making a good sacrifice by resisting the urges, and trust that your future self will be thankful
to "snap out of it" you just need to control your mind. practice meditation daily (this will also work to prevent the urges from popping up in the first place) and realize that you are not your urges. eventually they will be like a slight breeze blowing against a rock; they will not be the master over you. you can also transmute that energy into other things through alchemy, e.g. turning sexual urges into distilled willpower that is directed towards self improvement. read the kybalion for basic info
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No.11364
>>3659
>religion is:
>1. theorize that there is a higher power at work (make paintings of a guy who has magic powers)
>2. treat theory as gospel and interpret future data to fit the theory
fool, you have it backwards
this is what religion actually is:
>1. collect data - real irrefutable phenomena that can be observed
>2. form theory that is simply a logical successive amalgamation of the data that has been collected, then attribute the word "god" to said amalgamation (make paintings that are nothing more than personifications that aid in the understanding and interpretation of natural and metaphysical phenomena through metaphorical means)
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No.11366
>>3559
>Convince me out of sex
Just read Pythagors, Plato, Aristotle. They were redpilled. Or read any book on Brahmacharya. Vedic Hindus were redpilled before anyone else were.
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No.11373
>>10755
Nofap out of spite.
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No.11374
Go do other shit, op.
Read a book. Play the Witcher. Just don't watch CuckTV
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No.11686
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No.11692
>>11686
Stop looking at porn. Stop masturbating. Eventually your sick fetishes will leave you
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No.11696
>>11692
True. One of the bigger misconceptions of psychology today is that "fetishes" are permanent once acquired. Reality couldn't be further from the truth. "Pray the gay away" actually has a lot of wisdom in it. Fetishes are acquired by perversion of sexuality (which can be due to porn etc) and to undo those perversions, stop doing the actions through which you acquired them in the first place (i.e. stop porn/masturbation cold turkey). Ignore the urges, focus on other things. A little painful at first but eventually they go away. You begin to see women as human beings and not as sex objects or certain body parts.
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No.11722
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No.11723
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No.12218
>>3844
>smoking
>smoking weed
Take it from a former and still recovering stoner that shit is cancer and will kill your fucking brain.
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No.12219
>>6548
WE literally have a thread or two up full of scientific data that states you are wrong. Benefits of nofap aren't High T, you only get a spike after 7 days and then it goes away. The biggest benefit is an axing of estrogen receptor growth and restoration or androgen receptors to proper order.
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No.12220
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No.12226
>>12219
>see our (((science))), you don't get any T benefits after a week, so treat your hand like a vagina and keep on self mutilating yourself with masturbation and feeding your degenerate fetishes. Oh and peer reviewed (((science))) thinks porn is not actually bad for you, see this (((Harvard Study))). Also recent (((science))) shows pedos and trannies are not mentally ill, you bigot.
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No.12966
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No.16433
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