/doomer/ - Doomers Club

>>23996

>Not really, back in the day when they asked "so what you do?" you could just omit details but now everybody wants to see your social media, they want to see your twitter your ig, where you been what you buy what you have etc etc……

Right, in that sense it's much harder for younger people. What I meant was today's swipe app culture basically allows you to go on the hunt without leaving your room in opposite to how it was when I was younger when I had to actually go out and try. So it's both easier for people to date now but more fucked up, and as you said if you're not perfect then you're in a terrible position. At least in my prime I could hook up fairly easily even though I'm a 6/10, but I wasn't competing with a million people in a 20 mile radius on Tinder.

And this completely fucks up our women too, because now they've associated perfection with a picture and a bio. Well now look at how many of them are in fucked up relationships or struggling with romance late into their 20s and 30s. You know these third wave feminist types (I actually consider myself a feminist, but not a virtue signaling type if you catch my drift), they go out there and do their best to shame every man under the sun who doesn't fit their model male, but how many of them are completely fucking bat shit and unable to get what they are looking for?

>I'm oldfag but still genY, how low did you guys go?

In terms of hooking up I'd get with anyone who was putting out for a while and it was really easy. We'd get drunk and smash. Girls were making out with different dudes in the same party and fucking everywhere. But today it just seems like it's on another level with how sexualized and deranged people are online. Furries, tranny fetishes, everyone begging for nudes and sharing their shit online, etc. Things like side relationships and non-exclusive dating has completely opened up. We have unironic cucks popping up everywhere. It's bizarro world. I don't necessarily have hate towards them though. It's just that compared to what I was growing up with in Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>24005

>>24003

>shilling 2D

Dude where you think you're?

>>24014

But its not the same competition: when 80% of the women only want 20% of the men its not a competition, its because they're being stupid and have unreasonable expectations. And they still get dicked anyway, you have almost 30% of all men between 18-27 being virgins, there's no comparison.

>>24034

No, it means they're attracted to men who are on another league and want them to settle for less with them, but this same women wont settle for men who are at the same level or just slightly above/below, they must have the top 20% of men even if they are part of the 80% of women. Basically anything above a 2/10, meaning even a 3/10 girl wants at least a 8/10 guy. Now, why would that guy get hitched to that girl?

>>24077

>since modern communications put him or her into daily competition with nothing but world's champions

How old is that quote?

>>24104

I actually have a skull like the left guy, bitches arent throwing themselves at me. That guy gets attention because he's an athlete

>>24130

>the problem for society is that there are no beta shmucks left to be the bagholders for these used up women

>>23903

>dating apps

>wasting time talking to sluts

Either save your shekels and fuck a call girl or don't bother.

In our world, there are many single women, and all probably because you will not think much of men. But this is not always the case. Sometimes a woman just doesn't know where to find a woman. It's good to come up with a review site https://www.lesbiandatingsites.reviews/ , where you can find a suitable platform to find your love.

Tulpas are /doomer/ as shit. I wish i was crazy enough to talk to an imaginary friend who is actually my subconscious leading me to greatness.

>>11023

tinder is degenerate, gotta keep

my sperm and dignity

sryj

>>11020

lol. anchoring your own thread because no one buys your pathetic witchy BS. faggot

>>11052

>What is this called?

a woman

>>23634

>It didn't happen suddenly, I didn't plan on it, I just made small decisions and changes to my daily life that piled up overtime until my entire outlook on life changed.

Tell me more about this bit please because I'm genuinely interested. Here is what I think - I don't really believe any set of typical /sig/ improvement BS can help anyone long term because it's basically brainwashing yourself and it works until some day in the future when you fall back into the hole again. I'm speaking from my personal experience. Long time ago, I tried to improve my life as if "by force", just get back on track and keep on going, it was very temporary. So I'm truly interested in your approach and if you took any of the lifecoach advice like "start working out lmao" or did you really just 100% focused on what brought you joy.

>Anyway, my progression from doomer to bloomer centered around me finding out what things I truly enjoyed and what things I wanted to improve on.

I'm going through similar stuff right now I suppose but it's not changing my views imo. I don't have any urge to truly improve, I just found joy again in being creative. However, my way of coping is more tied to ""identity"", not sure how should I put it. I just need to be somebody I can stand for at least 1 day until I go sleep and that's all. All my life I put my focus outside, to the world and my surroundings until I became pretty isolated. Now my world is 'superficial me' and I find it easier to somehow exist without any real purpose, with more "non-negative" energy I can share outwards, but everything is charade anyway. I don't know what people mean when they say shit like "This is me, I know who I am, I know myself". I'm totally lost but I find it easier to operate if I can be something I personally enjoy, if I feel somehow okay about myself and if I can look into mirror without thinking "who the fuck is this". With this attitude, I can go f.e. to shop and smile on cashier, say to her "thank you" with smile, without looking like I want to shoot up the place. It all starts with you, but nothing is going to be good. You are scarred forever, the question is only how much make up you can put on those scars. If you can go fPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>23681

>looking at myself in general and figuring out where I wanted to be in life, and helped me look forward to the next day, and have something fun to look back on with pride

I see now. So you had to find some sort of motivation and maybe set some goals along the way, like in general terms, not as "I want to change this and this in 3 months" but more like "i should maybe change this aspect about me or try this activity and see how it goes", right?

>Maybe it sounds stupid but not being ashamed of how my hands look is a big change for me. I've tried to quit countless times in my life but it's only now that I've succeeded.

Good stuff, it's nice. I maybe know what you are trying to tell me but I don't know where you get this willpower from. It seems to me as you have to find some certain things you want to change first and that's the biggest issue.

>What activity is meaningful then? Beats browsing chans all day and jerking off. It makes me fall asleep better, anyway.

I mean it more in a way, that if you have to force it, then it's meaningless. It never worked for me this way, nothing. If I had to force anything in my life, all effort faded away into nothingness. I also change, and possibly often for the better, but it's not like I want it, I just do when is the right time. If I decide now that I want to quit smoking, I wouldn't make it because I would have to bruteforce myself through the process and I would have no good feeling out of it even if I would make it. In other words, I don't have this sense of reward coming from doing things for myself. Ok I stopped smoking, so what? While you would feel pretty damn good about it, like you achieved something, right? My brain is wired in different way, I don't really value myself that much highly, I live with myself because I have to, not because I want to. I'm like my own roommate, that roommate you know it's there living with you but you don't really care about him unless he steals your food from fridge.

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>>23634

>Don't be a NEET

I tried factory work, office / workshop work, student life and unemployed but looking for work life. I hated every single one of those. Especially my last jawb. Waste of time for people like me. I would love to start my own company but I have no idea what to do.

>ambitions

I never had any ambitions beyond being comfy, eating my favorite food and slacking away the entire day

And of course trading cards. I would never call myself gamer or count myself as /v/idya gayme connaisseur but trading cards have always been my #1 interest and my collection is complete already. There simply is nothing left for me to do that I care about.

>suicide

death gotta be easy cause life is hard

>I'd like to figure out what's beyond initial attraction.

Allow me to explain.

<reptillian brain sees boob animal that looks good

<reptillian brain sends you the giddy feels

<so you bust your ass to impress her

<so that there will be ficki ficki

<so that there will be baby

<brain successfully tricked you into creating baby

humans are shallow, they select mates for looks mostly

or they settle for ugly partners and then hate their lives and feel like they only scored a "you tried" trophy

of course there are exceptions but those are the stories you read in baww threads where anon and anonette meet each other already when they are children or at least in high school. for most people, this will be a movie plot only and they will never have that

Sorry for late reply, busy week.

>>23682

> more like "i should maybe change this aspect about me or try this activity and see how it goes", right?

Yeah, that's a good way to put it.

>I don't know where you get this willpower from.

I don't always know either. Sometimes I draw it from looking to the future, sometimes it's from looking at the past. I used to have a bit of a masturbation addiction and what helped me overcome that was asking myself if that's what I wanted to do when I was younger. For some reason that clicked in my head and made me force myself to limit my masturbation.

>you have to find some certain things you want to change first and that's the biggest issue.

That's a good point. It's part of the struggle of finding yourself. I can't really help you, but I think part of what helped me was getting back into reading. Reading promotes introspection.

>Ok I stopped smoking, so what? While you would feel pretty damn good about it, like you achieved something, right?

Eh, not really. I dip tobacco and I've thought about quitting that but I choose not to. I enjoy it more than the dangers bother me. Perhaps you're the same way with smoking. Part of being a better person is realizing when you should do what you want to even if other people don't agree with it.

Course, if you're worried about being addicted, you could try quitting for a month and seeing how you hold up.

I think if you found a few things to do for yourself you might start to appreciate them, even if they don't give you immediate gratification. Even if they're not major, it could be as low-effort as going through a backlog of movies you wanted to see. I remember one thing I kept pushing off was playing a couple old text-adventure games. I always had a soft spot for them but no-one else seems to care about them. At first it was hard to play a game knowing I'd never have anyone to discuss it with, but they've become fond mePost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>11779

Not this fucking meme again…

>only 17

Bro, youve got almost 17 more years till you get to the point where you feel like what you're describing. Consider yourself lucky to be exposed to the (((truth))) and the gaping maw of reality. What I would give to go back to 17.

>>10665

Bro, I had the same exact thought as you currently are having now. And let me tell you something, you aren't wrong with your assessment at all.

I'm 18 gonna on 19 soon, but like you, I wasted my time. However, the reason I never went out in the first place was for a good reason - I was a loser. I found this out the hard way when I actually tried to get out as much as possible, because even though I involved myself as much as possible, it didn't change jack shit. I remained a virgin with little to no friends even though I had a good personality and was fun to be around. At the end of the day, I still went home all by myself.

I think the most important thing for your ability to get anything out of life is being born with God looks or money, if you have neither of these then your youth will be shit. I've been doing nothing but working on my looks, and so far it's changed how girls and people act around me. You'd be surprised to know how superficial people really are.

>>10665

M8, try being fucking 30 and in the same boat. You're not getting your teens back, but you're miserable enough to know what you missed and what you want, but you also have the benefit of having a decade on me.

You mope around like this and you'll be making the same post 10 years from now.

Fuck off underage faggot

You dont understand shit, you dont know shit about having no future and being hopeless

Its your own fault for not meeting people and guess what? your feelings dkesnt matter- you will grow out of them and become a mindless normie

>>23988

If you don't like imageboards then what are you doing here?

>>23990

How is it a stupid question? You don't like imageboards, so why are you here and engaging me in this pointless argument you have no chance of winning?

>>23992

Yes, this an argument. And you are hopelessly losing it, while trying to desperately damage control by feigning indifference.

>So anything else or we can close it up like 16 year old closes his anus when he sees you?

Explain why a 16 year old would do that when he sees me. Of course, as with all your random claims about me, you can't.

>>23283

i don't know BO why dont you find out

>wake up around 1:30 pm for work

>work until 2 am at either wendies or mcdicks

>shitpost, watch anime and listen to music for a few hours, get drunk

>fall asleep at either 4 or 8 and either wake up tired or catch up on sleep

>repeat

its been going on like this for about 5 years and im hoping to become a manager at wendies so i can move around stores and get overtime, and make enough money to work a little less, maybe quit the mcdicks job. i eat nothing but bast food most of the time

wake up at 0130 prepare for the day and drive to work.

work from 0300 until 1130 shop - cook - eat - rest - exercise - read - sleep - wake up - repeat

7 days work, three days off, repeat

no alchohol , no nicotine , no drugs in general. only pure cope on audacity and degeneracy of the fellow men…

sometimes be happy if i find someone not audatious or degenerate but mostly its cope

meanwhile i am convinced being addicted to the discontent of how the world in general is developing…

well whatever , nevermind

>>23888

>no alchohol , no nicotine , no drugs in general

You are a hell of a figher anon, I wish I was this strong.

>>23888

good on you, hanz. keep it like that

wagecucking without using substances to alter your vision is very rare

>>23853

Make Anti-Burgerism Cute Again!

Broke: Wanting to learn German for NS-shit

Woke: Wanting to learn German for Goethe, Schiller and Kant

Bespoke: Wanting to learn German for all the cheesy NDW shit from the 80s

>>20587

WTF is that with the hanging bodies? cartel prep room?

>>20782

Its only depressing if you want to live within the jew system. If you decide the jew system is not for you, then its just a push in the right direction ;)

>>23873

Meta-woke: Learning new language only because it's matter of your style/image

>>23876

I want to live in max-jew system, whatever that means. Only if antisemites will be finally out of the public spaces because constantly reading this shit on imageboards is like dealing with cases for psychiatrist. You pushed me so far I applaud sns and youtube for deplatforming you because I don't have to stumble upon your hot redpills everywhere now. Keep up the good work and maybe I will even start voting progressives.

>>23819

is there a name for this fetish?

>>23844

another word for a Uruguayan.

>>23845

Ooga booga whitey boi, i is gonna give ur cracka gf muh dik

>>23850

keep your fantasies to yourself. You'll never be black, just as surely as you will never be white.

>>23555

after listening to that and checking your trips I think that being tumor isn't such a bad thing all of a sudden.

>>23599

Thanks friend. World has too many colors, it's very refreshing to see such black color every time, especially in summer.

>lena meyer landrut comment

dat was me lol

So

>Yume Nikki

>STALKER

>Morrowind

>Minecraft

>Deus Ex

>Metal Gear

>Suda51

>UnReal World

>Planescape Torment

>Ico

>Shadow of the Colossus

>>19796

I've only played Yume Nikki and Minecraft, never played the latter one with friends or mods and the vanilla experience bores me after the first week (or day).

Yume Nikki was good, I played for 3 hours at late night and then uninstalled it as soon as I kind of ran out of places to discover.

From the list you gave, the one I'm the most interested to play next would be Shadow of The colossus.

>>6530

what a faggot

>Harvester

>Sanitarium

>Silent Hill 2, 3

>Rayman 2

>>21314

>using Faustian as a positive adjective

Do you even know what that story is about?

>At least Muslims fight you head on

O I AM LAFFIN

>>21466

I don't disagree that she was born in the wrong generation, but I think there are a lot more zoomers out there who would qualify to some, considerable extent.

>>21409

Belgium should unironically be divided between the Dutch and French. It's a socially acceptable Manchukuo.

>>21297

Depression doesn't need a reason.

>>23228

I get to play video games and surf the internet for free, you work every day for the opportunity, and went into tens of thousands of dollars of debt for the chance to do so.

Smh wagecucks will never learn

>don't know what they are doing

oh silly boy

college is for finding yourself :^)

>>21898

that doesn't sound healthy. that's just being reckless.

>>23264

quantum touch 2.0. seems a bit scammy but some of it works.

>>21627

did you know that UN peacekeepers raped African teenagers?

>>23266

Salò o le 120 giornate di Sodoma, watch this movie. Your Dannunzio is a rare fascist bastard

>>23249

>Witness for example all the /v/ arguments about what it means to play as a girl in a game.

You realize those threads are just excuses to shitpost recklessly, right?

wanting to play as a woman is still really gay

>>23255

>wanting to play as a woman is still really gay

This is exactly what I meant.

>>23255

I want the option of being able to play as a drag queen.

>>23259

Need For Speed has drag races, thank me later.

>>23257

:^)

>>23259

The new Sims might be your thing. EA's got you covered.