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>I'm using responsibility here to mean ability to respond
And almost every serious theologian, Arminian, Cavlinist, and Molinist, don't mean that.
>Sovereignty does not mean He deals arbitrarily
It means He can if God wills to, but we don't and shouldn't argue as if God's sovereignty existed separately from God's omniscience. That's strawmanning Reformed theology.
>sovereignty means He is unaffected by outside influence
Wrong, that's God's impassibility. You are redefining theological terms to suit your argument rather than relying on what definitions theologians have already used.
>I entirely affirm the sovereignty of God
You affirm a strawman.
>it's only by grace that anyone is saved at all.
Amen, but now you're agreeing with my premise. Without God's gift/grace, a person would only choose hell.
>I'm saying that the God of John 3:16 is one who freely offers a gift,
Like the rest of your post, you fail to define key words carefully. What exactly is God gifting? What is or are God's grace/s that man needs.
>John 3:16
Funny you mention this verse.
You also don't go far enough. See what John the Baptist truthfully says: "John answered, 'A person cannot receive even one thing unless it is given him from heaven.'" (Jn. 3:27 ESV) This includes faith and belief that saves. You also skip 3:8
"The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear its sound, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit." (Jn. 3:8 ESV) And you say we are free and able to come to Chist ourselves?
Go further several chapters and you read this:
"Jesus answered them, 'I told you, and you do not believe. The works that I do in my Father's name bear witness about me, but you do not believe because you are not among my sheep. My sheep hear mPost too long. Click here to view the full text.