Going chronologically
GURPS - 3 girls (one was my gf at the time). She was quiet, another girl was trying to do some things and another was really into her character and wanted to play
Rippertech - same 3 girls, same experience
5e - Newbie girl who was trying to play but was mostly quirky, not a real bother
3.5e - A girl wanting to DM. Oh boy, dear lord almighty I knew it would be a spectacular trainwreck from start to finish and it was. Jump started my drive to DM for the other people there so they don't get a bad impression
5e (me as dm) - one female player, let's call her T, didn't really read up on things but was the heart of the party and everyone liked her
5e (My summer oneshot) - 4 of the 8 player's from the previous game, made T play a life cleric to round out the party and make my job easier
5e (friend's summer campaign) - two girls, both around the 4/10 scale, good players who think and are enjoying the story
5e (Halloween oneshot) T was there, it was aight
5e (New year's eve oneshot I ran) T was there, was more into the whole groove of chilling out and having fun, almost managed to pull her weight
5e (Best mate's campaign with his Uni lads) One girl who could rarely come at first but became a regular, listens to my tactics when dealing with enemies, is into the roleplay and was placed in a position of power and doesn't want to abuse the npc's, even though she could and no one could stop us
5e (Short lived) - T got the chance to play a noble and without a doubt be the most important person in the party story wise and she did nothing with it, just kind of went with the flow with 0 initiative.
Honestly, not being able to tell w*men to fuck off or get in line without them getting emotional and then killing the atmosphere is a downer, and mostly the reason i don't actively seek out that kind of player diversity.
Can't have good games without some raunchy bants every now and then