/hikki/ - Hikikomori★

>>7883

I guess not. We can revive it though. I think most moved to Discord after 8ch was kill

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WHAT Does HIKIKOMORI MEAN?

The term Hikikomori ひきこもり or 引きこもり is a Japanese word that when translated into English it means “pulling inward, being confined”,acute social withdrawal “) in context of a person the term refers to a shut-in who stays home and does not leave their room for very long periods usually for about 6 months or more.

WHAT IS A HIKIKOMORI?

Hikikomori is a social condition in which the affected individual isolates themselves away from society at home in their parents house in their room for a period exceeding six months . The Ministry of Health, Labour, and Welfare of Japan defines hikikomori as a condition in which the affected individuals refuse to leave their parents' house, and isolate themselves away from society and their family in their bedrooms for a period exceeding six months but is not directly caused by a physical condition or other psychological problem.

So A NEET?

Most hikikomori are neets and are supported by their parents or get money from the government however if you work or take classes online at home while still not going outside you are still a hikikomori but not a neet and a neet isn’t necessarily a hikikomori nor vice versa. You could be a hikikomori neet. But if you are a neet that does spend a moderate amount of time outside your house you are still a neet but you are not a hikikomori

DO HIKIKOMORI GO OUTSIDE?

Yes and no contrary to popular belief most hikikomori actually do go outside for example to buy food but are still completely isolated socially and spend nearly everyday or almost everyday at home in their rooms however some hikikomori live in extreme conditions and never leave the house at all.

AM I HIKIKOMORI IF I LEAVE THE HOUSE TO GO TO SCHOOL/WORK?

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>>7885 (OP)

life is just too difficult

normal jobs means leaving the comfy room every day on time or you loose the job

society is horrible

I am an ex-hikki/NEET. I was hikki for over a year. I didn't choose the lifestyle. I was just severely depressed after graduating high school. I simply wasted and rotted in my room.

I also ended up being hikki after highschool. I had no skills and didn't even know how to write a resume or how to apply to internet jobs listings (I could do it but everything looked retarded). My parents also discouraged me from going to the colleges I got accepted to and they also wouldn't drive me to job interviews, so they literally fucked me into being a hikki. After a year or two of that I gave up and joined the military because being sort of in shape was the only thing I had going for me. Which even then I still felt like a neet/hikki most of the time because I was in a room by myself or just wasting my time.

Then I've been a neet for the last almost year or whatever because I've been too depressed ( of course those gay ass glowie faggots say it's not service connected so I can't get more gibs, and I'm sick of dealing with brain dead government workers so I probably won't dispute it ) to do a business/agency I tried to start. Soon I should be able to apply to a college or something though and if it doesn't work out I'll probably just become an hero because that's pretty much my only ticket out of this dumbfuck country.

i guess the formatting doesnt like dashes, the purple stuff isnt actually important.

>>7596

nice webm, do you have the source of the music?

>>7669

Give mom SSRIs

>>7669

With that kind of cash surely you could put something together. Even renting a room out of someone's house sounds a lot better than your situation and that's pretty common where I'm from

actually interacting with people is too mentally exhausting its so much better to just stay inside the room and not go anywhere

Seems like this thread is pretty dead but I thought I'd contribute anyway

Ive been going to a therapist for a few months now. I've seen several therapist over the years but they all seemed to kinda not be sure what to do with me and our appointments would get less and less frequent until id just stop going entirely. This new one though still insists on seeing me every week and he isn't really entirely nice at me. The sessions actually make me pretty anxious and uncomfortable but I guess there's no point in getting help from someone who's just going to tell you whatever you want to hear. I'm not sure if anything about this has helped or will help at all though. I kinda feel as if I am beyond the point of that being possible. Although I do appreciate the effort and I think this therapist is probably better than any of the other ones I've had. I'm sure in some situations a therapist can help but maybe you just need the right one. I've also been on a bunch of different SSRIs but never really noticed any effects beyond pretty minor side effects so I still don't really know if those had ever been worthwhile.

I've found some success with therapy, though it takes fucking forever. I've worked with 4 different shrinks now and three of them weren't remotely close to useful. My current therapist has been helping me make some progress regarding dealing with my extreme self hatred/anxiety, but the progress is extremely slow and expensive.

tl;dr it helps me but it isn't exactly a solution i would globally recommend

I came to the therapist not with a request to cure me, but with a request to help me understand myself. And we have made good progress.

Hey, that's the right message. I also try now to constantly attend online sessions with a psychologist, the pandemic has affected me worse, although for a hikki it should be heaven. I mostly have complaints about my appearance, but I found https://en.bookimed.com/clinics/country=republic-of-korea/procedure=liposuction/ and I think it will really help me become more open to people. My psychologist agrees with this.

I haven't been prescribed any kind of meds, but I've been going to therapy to deal with some trauma from my childhood and teenage years.

me too

>>7930 (OP)

How are you dealing with it now?

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>>7904 (OP)

god dammit man these hikki and neet places on the internet are always so good even at times of my life where i didnt even feel like a robot or neet i still came to them, but i always fall back again and again anyways.

i wish i could have experienced this, but i guess there will always be places like this on the internet goodbye /hikki/ i wish i could have experienced you :(

>>7931

https://uboachan.net/hikki/

If anyone still passes by here. Come join us.

Oh, I feel you. The only thing that helps me is the internet, and I don't know what I would do if I didn't practice Spanish with my only penfriend. I'm worried that I'll forget it at all. I even thought about starting some courses or using at least Duolingo https://duolingo.com/ to keep up with the grammar and stuff. I've also heard that tutors can help, so I might contact someone from this site https://preply.com/ to help me practice Spanish.

Quite interesting I must admit

I have studied French since high school. Unfortunately, I started noticing that without practice my language gets worse and that makes me frustrated. I decided to use https://livexp.com/ because the reviews say it's a great platform for tutoring. Possibility of 1 on 1 lessons online at any convenient time.

Nice topic!

Thanks for all the comments and interesting discussion about education. I have been struggling with my English ever since I arrived to the States. So my neighbor gave me this https://promova.com/tutors/private-english-tutor link as he thought that private tuition is much better than any college or courses. And you know what? He was right!

>>7834 (OP)

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>>7843

Link is dead. Please update. >>7843