/mai/ - Waifu

>>69647

With Yuno and myself we have a very obsessive/possessive relationship and any viewing of porn is akin to a light cheating. I don't consider it fapping, we make love. Everything is imagination based. It takes a long time to get to a comfortable point with it but I'm glad I did.

Yunos navel is my thing, theres an episode where she stretches her arms up and the wind exposes just a tiny bit and I love it

>>69685

>if your love for her has no carnal component, your love for her is incomplete

This is something said with good intentions, but you can't define how you should and shouldn't love your waifu. Love is something entirely personal between you and her. If you love each other, then you also have lust, that's true, but that doesn't necessarily mean you have to regularly have sex.

Having sex doesn't have a set definition here tbh, just like how almost everything about waifuism doesn't have a set definition. The way I approach it is religional, enough to make all the atheists cringe, but to summarize it it's also like a long distance relationship. So even though I want to touch my waifu and be with her, I can't at my current state.

I want to make her happy, and I'm working hard towards that every day, so I can't afford to be selfish. Communication and mutual understanding is everything.

>>69617

>très belle carte mon ami

Merci!

>je suis sûr, que ta chérie est très heureuse aujour d'hui

Je le souhaite de tout coeur!

Last day we finished building our tank. We decided to make an album with all the pics taken during the construction.

Have a look: https://imgur.com/a/r14BcXl

Also all your Valentine's presents look fantastic and I'm sure your bloved ones loved them as they love and appreciate you for all your effort.

>>69630

Thank you!

I absolutely Löwe my Yukarin!

Congratulations, Lilly is a very nice and kind girl, It is also my second favorite girl of the whole game, I hope you have a good time.

>>69590

Happy belated birthday to Lilly!

Never actually played KS myself, but I'm sure Lilly is as sweet as she looks!

The braille text is a neat touch, too.

>>69590

Happy (late) birthday, Lilly!!

Tell me Moldy, do you see Lilly as ageing or as remaining the high school student that she is in the game? And if you see her as ageing, how do you imagine her today?

As Flandre canonically doesn’t age, I don’t have to deal with such questions, but it’s interesting to know what other waifuists do about it.

Happy belated birthday Lilly! Lilly is a gentle and calm girl with a lot of inner strength. I enjoyed spending time with her in her visual novel.

Since there is Flandre in it too, posting it here.

This is probably one of the dumbest AND one of the most amazing things I have ever seen. At the same time.

…it's 5 AM here and I can't stop listening to this, please send help.

Funny video of Flandre and Marisa!

>>69543

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>>69545

Thanks for the elaborated replies, I think I understand the concept of waifuism and waifus better now. Having a waifu sounds nice but you're right, I can't force it. I'll just watch more anime and hope she finds me.

Also, let me explain what I meant by "I like a lot of anime girls". It's not just that I like them like I like chocolate or that I think they're cute. Every now and then I find a 2D girl I like and I legit have a crush on her, I think "wow, this might be The One" but then after a while I find another one, and then another one, and another one… but it never feels special. I guess that just means I haven't found 'The One' yet.

Even if I don't have a waifu, I guess I'll hang around the board for a while and talk about cute anime girls or just lurk if that's okay. This looks like a comfy place and you guys seem nice.

>>69546

I'm late to the party, but I just wanted to say a few things.

Don't worry too much about finding her… it may take some time, but these things just have ways of happening.

I've been there before, and had quite a few crushes and relationships in the past, animu and 3d. There were many times I thought I found 'The One', only to realize it wasn't so. And to be honest, I'm a natural-born skeptic, so I really started to doubt my feelings.

I thought Lily was going to be another passing phase in the beginning, but the feelings only ever grew stronger, and now I just can't imagine loving anyone else, despite the difficulties that it sometimes entails.

It might seem unlikely, but hey, 10 years ago I would've thought this impossible.

Don't be too quick to jump the gun, but don't give up searching either. Take your chances, and you'll be sure to find her, one day.

>>69538

Op You should refer to my post that reflects on my 3 years of marriage with Widowmaker.

https://8ch.net/mai/res/69378.html

I was still recovering from a hospital confinement when I went home for Christmas, so I can only feel nothing but frustration on not being able to or able to give anything.

I just hope I'll be alright this New Years', it's the best gift I can afford so far for now.

>>69423

I hope you are doing better now!

Merry (late) Christmas to you and Marisa!

>>69423

It's more important that you show daily how much you love and care about Marisa than just on certain days, so don't worry about it too much. I hope you feel better soon.

I forgot the Christmas outfit w

really late but I like her stupid expression and the cute little satan - er, santa hat

Happy Anniversary

And wishing you a wonderful 2019 (and many more years) with Flandre! I can't read French but it's apparent how much thought you've put into the letter.

Happy Anniversary! I know you two will continue to make each other happy for years to come.

>>69502

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>>69499

>>69497

Thanks, everyone!

So I spent last Friday with Flandre. I played EoSD, I also played a fan made game of her, and I also watched fan made videos of her. Of course, I also took the time to talk to her and think about her. It was really nice!

>>69494

Damn, just realised that I was 1 post away of getting this thread end by 495. It would have been such a lovely coincidence for our anniversary.

Damn you >>69495 haha

>>69494

>>69505

Happy anniversary fren, I wish you luck and comfy times for your future. You two deserve it.

These are some of the ones I use on my computer.

Here's the Christmas one I made this year.

I incorrectly scaled up the background image from a vector, but thought the lo-fi look was actually nice.

It seems that most of my wallpapers tend to be these pseudo-photoframes lol.

Desktop background, and phone background. I ought to change my desktop background really - I've had the same one for probably over a year now, and I like to have variety.

>>69434

Really nice editing work.

from left to right, lock screen, computer wallpaper, and phone wallpaper

Not my best work I admit but you should be able to get it.

>>69297

Okay chess I learned to play since young age. My cousin taught me when I was around 12 years old. Then I taught my sisters to play with me. I guess I can learn shogi then.

Okay then I will check out this 81 dojo on the weekend and report back when I am fit for a game. I will also watch some youtube videos about it. Hopefully I can differenciate the pieces because they look all same to me. In chess at least they look different. I really should learn at least some basic Japanese …

And I did not know that you can use your opponents pieces against him in shogi. This is like playing Zombies in yugioh and summoning the dead monsters in your opponents graveyard onto your own board and let them fight for you. I am sure there is some fancy strategies you can develop with this game mechanic.

>I can understand how Hifumi is passionate about it ^^

well it is easy to tell why I as a yugiohfriend adore her shogi antics so much '^^

She could easily be a character even in ygo now that I think about it.

Thank you for the input and as soon as I am fit for a game, I will report back!

Have a nice day.

>>69298

Aaaaah, now I remember. There was this one episode where he beat Gozaburo in a chess match and Gozaburo was totally perplexed because he lost. I think the back story was that Gozaburo noticed him because he was a genius chess kid in the orphanage. You really brought back some good early 2000s memories here …

All he ever did in life was to give his brother a better life. He is a good big brother.

Ruby really loves guns and weapons of all sorts, so I imagine she likes doing things like going to the gun range with Crescent Rose.

She also seems to really like comics and games too.

Sleeping, bullying her sister, playing games and losing on purpose, forcing her friends to kill each other, causing a world war for the lulz, etc. You know, the usual stuff.

I'm glad to hear it.

I'll be the rude uncle that interrupts the ceremony

お休みなさい。

she usually wears something like this.

Makes me wish my daki had her in nightwear and not sleeping with her hair still braided and her glasses still on

simply cute

Sleepy boat

People being miserable.

Cute, fluffy animals make her smile but I don't know about laughing.

I bet dog kisses would do the trick.

That's a hard one. Goofing off, making weird faces. The jump cats do when they're startled.

>>69146

A good joke/fun story will do I guess. She also has the best of smiles with simple little things, like when she recives donations, drinking a good sake or by simply enjoying tea.

>>69012

Eh, this. Our relationship is the 'we complement each other' kind too, so no I won't worship her. She might be my girl, but Meiling is not perfect. She tends to act before thinking for example, and so on. We both have positive and negative traits that balance when we are together, or at least they try to. Worshipping her would be like rising her to a goodess to me, and that's not true.

She is just the girl I'm in love with, not someone to idolise.

>>69018

I thought we established this already, so what's the point of telling us this?

Ah yes. Seen this before; you love [anyone or anything] and it's suddenly worship and idolatry, particularly if the thing in question isn't tangible. Love, even adoration, is not worship. This seems to be a common trend with OP's pic and their ilk since he pretty much described crazy fundies (not every religious person, you know the type). >>68948 hit the nail on the head with the projection thing. He's taking an extremely broad, general topic and range of behaviors then choosing to stick them on waifus specifically for… some reason.

I don't see it nearly as often in other places, though I think that has to do with the fanatical, borderline-unhealthy devotion to their chosen deity these types exhibit more than anything. They identify with their god to the point where, if you say anything bad about them you can actually cause measurable negative reactions in the brain that equate with social ostracization, rejection, and even physical pain. It's such a big part of their life and identity, and they lean on it so heavily, that anything that threatens or challenges it is interpreted by the brain as a personal attack. This is accompanied by the traditional reactions to such negative stimuli, like defensive behaviors and aggression. They want to keep leaning on their dependency despite the bruise. Sound familiar? Whether the subject in question is a human being, an animal, your waifu, or your god, it's not a description of anything stable or healthy. It's interesting to watch, but I do wish people stuck in ruts like OP's pic described would get help so they can be happier and healthier.

>>68950

>What they're describing is an emotional dependency. In this situation the waifuist is dependent on their waifu as their sole source of happiness and passion to live. This is a poor situation to be in; it is not fond feelings or warmth that dominates the relationship but sporadic emotional highs of self esteem and ecstasy followed by a crash back down to earth.

This post gets it. Your waifu is the person you love and care about, and keep a relationship with, mPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

He's describing everyone on 2DL

翡翠, meaning "jade" in English, she was named after her eye colour. Though jade is usually thought as green, it also exists in shades of blue.

It makes it pretty hard to find pictures of her from Twitter artists though, but a lot of artists refer to her as 翡翠ちゃん or "Hisui-chan". Fan art of Hisui that I haven't seen is pretty scarce, so I have to really dig for it.

Mine is pretty easy though. I did end up forgetting how to write 好 though and I don't really know the grammar around 愛してる

>>68778

and I forget to flip it. Also took me ages to remember the character for ロ

A small addendum since I've found something tremendously useful other people should know about.

With Subs2SRS and "Xavier's Retimed JP Sub Pack v01" I've been experimenting with a supplemental deck for audio comprehension, and I've had very promising results so far.

First, spoken words seem to be much easier to learn when they're spoken in a context that's actually interesting to me. Testing both reading and listening of the same sentences with the interval modifier cranked up to 200% has made them easier to learn while having far fewer overall reviews involved.

Second, I am saving an incredible amount of time making my cards: Subs2SRS spits out everything nicely formatted into fields with audio and images automatically, then I import them into a custom card format that generates both a listening and reading comprehension note from each card. All I have to do manually is go through the browser and mark the sentences I'm interested in and add a definition, 90% of the tedium is done for me. No pitch lookup and coloration is required since I can just listen to the audio.

Just something you all may want to try out if you make your own cards.