I just bought and tried on a chastity cage for the first time. Dear Christ what a huge mistake that was. There's a lot of issues with fitting and logistics, but once it is on, you feel it's power immediately. I used to think that I didn't want a cage because "more turned on = more compliant", and so restricting my ability to get hard would actually take away from that, but it's not true at all, your penis KNOWS. It's a different kind of horny, a different kind of pleading. Just enough room in there for the slightest bit of engorgement, and as soon as I put it in on the feeling of wanting to but not fully being able to made me indescribably weak.
I thought I knew because of tight boxers, etc, it's not even close. If you're scared of chastity cages/haven't tried them, you probably should be. The "cage free" thoughts I had were protecting me this whole time. I wish I wasn't open-minded enough to "see for myself." Don't get me wrong, cage-free chastity has it's own special type of weakness, but it's a different mode for your penis, more like "touch me please" which can be insanely mind-numbing…..whereas this is…."please, just give me one chance to grow!" it's a completely different type of desperation in the nerve/pleasure signals and I feel beyond helpless and it hasn't even been a day. Maybe I'm just super predisposed to it, I dunno.
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Well, if you're close to a her already, I will never recommend anything less than treating her as a person, first. Try not to fall into the trap of fetishizing her without her consent. You should actually be friends first and foremost, and only honestly indulge. The most beta thing you can actually do is treat Women as people first, because this means you are literally putting her before your own desires. The ability to serve and be less than comes after, with her knowledge (and therefore power).
If this is just casual/acquaintance stuff or even someone seemingly just showing interest in you, one of the easiest things would be to talk about/hint at the idea of "I'm too shy to ask people out." Some Women really like shy guys but statistically that will be an instant turn ofPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
