Seems like any woman that makes their adverts public gets swarmed by the entire website lol. So they'd usually have to reach out to the men instead (if that even happens half the time).
This makes it a search for a needle in a haystack to find a partner on most outlets, even Discord. TMF is dead, all other tickle dating sites are completely shit, nothing on Kik, and reddit/fetlife are mostly lost causes. Most of them, if not all, are 99% sausage fests.
Maybe it's cause creepy/desperate dudes get really weird and try to rush things… no matter what role the woman is, it'll get blown up. Is that where all of them are? In hiding or some shit?