773fdb No.11201
does anyone else feel hopeless with regards to this kink and finding a relationship? tickling is pretty much my only sexual outlet, i have basically an asexual-tier disinterest in conventional sex stuff. just to narrow things down even further, i'm also gay. sometimes it feels like the deck is so stacked against me. i know tickling is one of the more "harmless" kinks so it could be worse. but it's still niche, and it feels like unless i find someone with the same fetish i don't really have anything to offer sexually. i've long since realised that organically finding someone who not only has the same fetish as me but is also gay is astronomically improbable. is it a problem with my outlook? is it a fools errand to try and find someone also into tickling? last year i was just starting to take a more proactive role in finding someone by posting personals on tickling focused sites / forums, but the pandemic has fucked that up for now at least.
not sure where this post is going really. maybe some people here have some similar past experiences to share even if your situations aren't exactly the same as mine.
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bc96dc No.11204
hey anon, I wouldn't worry too much. when I was dating on tinder and shit 90% of the guys i mentioned tickling to seemed open to it and curious about the idea, and i went on quite a few dates. now I have a bf and he's into bondage but not tickling. when I tie him up he lets me tickle torture him heaps. it's pretty cute.
I actually think you have better luck with this kinda thing being gay. you might be surprised with the freaky shit 'normie' guys are into/open to.
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790d1f No.11210
>>11201
No, I don't, because I found someone and if I can do it, you can too.
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359d4a No.11211
>>11201
Source on this image?
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c62beb No.11212
Honestly, man, you'd be surprised how many people are okay with tickling.
You'll also be surprised how for how many people this will be a huge dealbreaker. The reactions really are polarized; but trust me, the portion of people who are okay with it is large.
And yes the fetish is niche, but your partner can grow into it. Out of the three girls I've dated seriously, two developed the fetish mostly because of me. It's natural to grow into your partners' kinks.
So don't despair, dude. Keep living your life and you'll find someone you're compatible with.
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773fdb No.11223
>>11204
>>11212
>>11210
thanks for your replies, they're somewhat reassuring. however, correct me if i'm wrong, but when i read these sort of posts i always assume that they're coming from someone who also has at least some interest in conventional sex, and tickling is an addition. whereas for me i only have the latter. i can see how you would introduce tickling as an addition to an already "normal" sex life, but how do you broach the topic when you don't have that? e.g when dating, my experience has usually been pretty positive until sex inevitably comes up, then i have to try and explain that i don't really have an interest in the usual stuff, at which point they might indulge me once or twice if i'm lucky but eventually they cut their losses and things end. maybe it's how i go about this? if you could share more details on your situation and how you approached this topic originally that would be great.
>>11211
it's from a video i grabbed off of pornhub long before the great purge. if you want to download it:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1fyG3Nz9LE5NG0V2vJpsIyJF9hNqe31IS/view?usp=sharing
pic related is my small collection, if you want any of these i can share.
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bc96dc No.11224
>>11223
Does anyone else get SSL certificate problems when they try to load images on this site? Firefox keeps telling giving 'secure connection failed' errors. I can't load this pic lmao. It stops loading and crashes after the first row of vids. I can't load any images with big file sizes on 8kun
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bc96dc No.11225
>>11223
>i always assume that they're coming from someone who also has at least some interest in conventional sex, and tickling is an addition.
oh sorry, I forgot to reply to this bit. I am really only interested in bondage/sadomasochistic stuff. Penetration doesn't do much for me. But my boyfriend is into bondage too.
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773fdb No.11227
>>11224
opens fine for me in chrome. i've resized it down a bit, how's this?
>>11225
oh ok, that's interesting. so how did you guys meet originally?
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b1266b No.11228
>>11212
>And yes the fetish is niche, but your partner can grow into it. Out of the three girls I've dated seriously, two developed the fetish mostly because of me. It's natural to grow into your partners' kinks.
Same here, after few sessions with my current gf she told me she never thought tickling can be so hot and she looks forward to playing this way
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b1266b No.11229
>>11227
also post the tmaj vid
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bc96dc No.11230
>>11227
>opens fine for me in chrome. i've resized it down a bit, how's this?
thanks anon that worked. we've saved a few of the same videos based.
>oh ok, that's interesting. so how did you guys meet originally?
in middle school at 13 years old actually lol. i thought he was cute. started hanging out with him. we did some bdsm stuff at 14 but didn't really end up in a proper relationship until 20-ish years old.
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773fdb No.11231
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b1266b No.11232
>>11227
can you post the one with tkl-young guy from effetic? hard tickling please
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b1266b No.11233
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fcd66a No.11234
This is a very interesting post actually. As far as I'm concerned, I'm gay, and my ex boyfriend wasn't ticklish and didn't seem to like to tickle me either when I chuckled when he touched me, but maybe he could have grown open to it if it had lasted longer, I don't know. Honestly I didn't really miss the lack of tickling at that time.
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fcd66a No.11235
>>11230
BDSM at 14, that's precocious! But actually I did the same with a girl of my age at 14, we did tickling sessions.
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773fdb No.11236
>>11232
as you wish: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1_ebMs7nnc3pECSqFbz_TYg-_ABhF2yGQ/view?usp=sharing
>>11233
i'm from the UK.
>>11234
that's a shame. i guess with some people it's something you really have to push to explore, as a lot of people seem to just have an aversion to tickling altogether. my last partner was not very ticklish either which made me realise i think some level of ticklishness is kind of a deal breaker for me, as dumb as it sounds on paper.
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fcd66a No.11237
>>11236
Maybe if our relationship had lasted longer I could have tried to explore if I could introduce him to this fetish. It might have worked, as I remember he told me once he might like me to tie him up, even though I finally didn'y have the occasion to do so. I don't believe it was a hopeless cause!
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b1266b No.11238
>>11236
>uk
that's a bummer, can you post more vids where the guy is most ticklish?
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773fdb No.11239
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33d8c1 No.11242
>>11223
I'm >>11210 and I can confirm that my boyfriend and I have pretty much zero interest in traditional penetrative sex. We met due to our mutual tickle fetishes and we bonded over our mutual tickle fetishes. That said, even if someone is into more traditional sex, surely you two can reach a compromise if it will really work out.
Now, you may notice many of the posts in this thread do say "boyfriend", and you may wonder, is it going to be impossible to find a girl who's into tickling if I'm straight? I will say not impossible, but much more difficult. Women do have to deal with thirsty guys trying to take their shot at them constantly so they're usually not so public about it. You have to just go for it and hope it works out, because very few women are going to just come out and say "oh I absolutely have a tickle fetish" because that's just begging their inbox to get clogged by needy tickle guys trying to roleplay with them. That's why you don't want to try to find a girl who's already into tickling specifically, that's almost impossible. You want a girl who's just generally kinky and is into weird stuff, because those girls will often be able to try it out because it's nothing compared to what they're usually into. Just keep your options open and expect to have to sort of try to sell a potential interest on the idea. Just don't act like it's some weird failing on your part that you have to dance around awkwardly, it's a natural preference of yours that influences your sexual desires and they're going to have to be able to handle that if the relationship is ever going to get off the ground.
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33d8c1 No.11243
>>11242
Oh wait your OP says your gay
Disregard this ENTIRE second paragraph I suck ENORMOUS cocks.
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33d8c1 No.11244
>>11243
>your
jesus christ i'm a mess
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773fdb No.11246
>>11244
>>11242
>>11243
no worries, maybe your second paragraph will be relevant to someone else who happens to read the thread. you say "we met due to our mutual tickle fetishes" - how did that come about?
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3bc536 No.11247
Being gay is a blessing in reality to having this fetish. Since there aren't nearly as much sexual obligations at the core, a master of finding someone open to it is that much easier.
I'm grown less and less tolerant of female shenanigans over the years, and if I could just up and change my orientation with a Thanos snap I would.
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77f556 No.11252
>>11235
fuck, im really behind, arent i? 18 and ive never had sex. i can only dream of being tied up and tickled lmao. hopefully someday
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33d8c1 No.11253
>>11246
He had a blog, I was degen, can I make it any more obvious?
To go into more detail, way back in the day the guy who would become my boyfriend ran a tickle kink blog, I was interested and sent him anonymous messages teasing him, eventually I dropped the anon act and asked if we could speak more privately, he was cool with it, that bloomed into us becoming friends, that bloomed into us becoming BEST friends, that bloomed into me realizing long-distance relationships weren't such a bad thing after all and if I was gonna do it with anyone it was gonna be him and that was four years ago this month and we're still going strong.
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801218 No.11255
>>11235
>But actually I did the same with a girl of my age at 14, we did tickling sessions.
Very based anon.
>>11239
RIP vids
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773fdb No.11256
>>11247
i suppose there are pros and cons. it massively cuts down your dating pool however.
>>11253
that's an inspiring tale. congrats on making it work anon!
>>11255
sorry i moved the vids, i uploaded all of them here:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1fr6SXsRou_38DuKkeI6E0DLKmaStlgu5?usp=sharing
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c51460 No.12301
>>11227
holy SHIT how can i find videos like these
can you show 1
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