>>136283
Sexuality is fundamentally electric, attractive, and polar. Anything we sexualize (fetishize) mentally, starts exhibiting that polar attraction of the opposite. Slowly, the sexually unrestrained will gravitate towards the things he's fetishizing, hence your example of trap fetishists.
You'll find that this mental polarization is as much of a problem as unrestrained sexual energy, when it comes to achieving a good sexual health. Yes, sexual energy, being polar, will always express itself, be it as uncontrollable urges and libido, or through some more creative outlet. Regular exercise, and especially strength training, are good ways of managing physical excitation, while intellectual pursuits will exhaust all mental perturbations. You'll need both, or you'll risk relapse. As a Christian, a good way to combine this with spiritual hygiene is to go on day-long hikes, while keeping up a prayer of the heart or contemplative prayer. You might even stumble upon the hidden grove of some ascetic saint or another, there's many of them living in seclusion nowadays, but they require a very large currency of the Holy Spirit to find.
For the obligatory LHP solution, just embrace degeneracy and set up elaborate masturbation rituals, combining kundabuffer exercises and generous amounts of drugs. This is good for developing scary psychic shit, if that's your thing.