67b030 No.12395
Seems like any woman that makes their adverts public gets swarmed by the entire website lol. So they'd usually have to reach out to the men instead (if that even happens half the time).
This makes it a search for a needle in a haystack to find a partner on most outlets, even Discord. TMF is dead, all other tickle dating sites are completely shit, nothing on Kik, and reddit/fetlife are mostly lost causes. Most of them, if not all, are 99% sausage fests.
Maybe it's cause creepy/desperate dudes get really weird and try to rush things… no matter what role the woman is, it'll get blown up. Is that where all of them are? In hiding or some shit?
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b171db No.12423
>>12395
>personals & meetups
A woman of the night sounds gross. Just find some broke college girl.
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2b397c No.12427
I've hooked up with a woman with a tickle kink and it was very smooth process for me.
According to her I was literally only guy who contacted her with just tickling and bondage in my mind while all the other messages she got were either people not into tickling suggesting just fucking (usually with dick pics straight away) or footfuckers who seemed more interested in her feet than just tickle wrecking her.
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17ff2c No.12428
I went through all the local women on Fetlife once to try and set up a session. So many druggies, whores, and creeps that I didn't even bother meeting in person. Finally one of them who seemed alright met with me a couple of times for a drink, and then we set up a session time. She wasn't a looker and seemed a bit off, but I figured what the hell. Worst thing is I'll end up disemboweled and dead. I was tied to the couch, and she full body tickled me. She was an alright tickler, but had a cold demeanor while doing it, and zero verbal teases. Some people prefer that, but I like a bouncy teasy tickler in a woman. And she kept trying to mix bastinado into it. After the session we were chatting about tickling and it came out she had the cops called on her for aggressively tickling a co-worker. And she was a registered sex offender. And this was her parent's house. And she was a Little. And she kept creepily asking if I had kids or nieces or nephews.
In conclusion, don't try fetlife. The people there are fucked.
I did local craigslist postings for a while. Mostly just bots and whores again, but finally a masseuse responded curiously. We've done a few sessions. For someone not into tickling she's very good at it, and finds the whole fetish so funny that she laughs maybe more than me. She charges her normal rate for a massage. I'm pretty sure she's a happy ending sort of masseuse but I haven't gone down that road yet.
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191f48 No.12429
I'm bi and I've been around for a while, probably over 15 years at this point, and it is so much harder to meet up with women than men.
With guys it's easy, you just talk for a little while to make sure you click and neither of you is a complete psycho, then meet up.
Women always either close their accounts because they're overrun by creepy guys with no social skills, are absolutely fucking insane, or want a full on relationship instead of no strings attached playtime.
OnlyFans has completely wrecked everything too. Probably over 90% of girls on most sites are just trying to shill their foot-focused OnlyFans pages, and it's been that way since before the pandemic hit.
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97ab91 No.12431
>>12429
>shill their foot-focused OnlyFans pages,
This is the shit that really gets me thinking. I'm very much a free enterprise guy so I can respect the hustle, but on the consumer side, I do not for the life of me understand why anyone would subscribe to this stuff when there's such an abundance of it online for free. Not even pirated anything, just for free.
I always imagined that the future of porn would be a few major companies/sites acting as hubs catering to most of the mainstream or vanilla needs, while independent creators would just specialize in increasingly specific fetish and sub-fetish content. However, that does not seem to be the case. Instead, everything seems to have atomized into thousands of generic foot-thots and their small fanbases. To be perfectly honest I just do not know what to make of this development.
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97ab91 No.12432
>>12431
I will add though, that the Japanese doujin scene seems to really be pioneering in the 'increasingly weird porn' space in a way that really puts Patreon does to shame.
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d01a10 No.12433
If you're actually looking for a relationship and not just a tickle session, I think it would be easier to just get a vanilla girlfriend and introduce her to tickling. In my experience, most women won't mind as long as you don't come off like you just want to tie them up and torture them.
If you're trying to contact women on fetish sites, then not starting off with a 100 questions about their feet and asking for feet pics will put you ahead of the majority of other guys. I'm sure even women with foot fetishes would get turned off if they feel like that's all you care about.
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e9dc44 No.12435
>>12431
i google feet i get 1695749573994 results for FREE, why the fuck should I pay for OF?
oh wow no no wait, it's a girl with pink/purple/cyan hair showing her feet? wow so unique! oh god she's wearing shitty 5$ spencers novelty fishnet stockings??? sign me the fuck up!!! (said no one with a smidgen of common sense and self respect ever)
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f8bdde No.12436
>>12435
Ex Onlyfans simp and creeper here.
The main factor is loneliness and zero self respect.
I could have done just as you said, look up any number of feet on instagram, twitter, pornhub etc and fulfill my basic coomer needs pretty well but it doesn't feel the same.
The connection - no matter if extremely fake and forced - wasn't there.
Even though I knew the girls on Onlyfans didn't give a shit about me, even if it was just about the easy money they could make from me, even if it seemed obviously fake and forced and I was a stupid loser to them I didn't care at the time. I was just a tiny bit happier knowing that a girl would message back and give me acknowledgement - the feet pics were a bonus.
Girls are more inclined to go the foot pic route too as it's not forcing them to show any actual nudity so is more appealing to the more modest girls out there rather than generic foot sluts and that was hot to me…
I'm still ashamed of doing what I did and no longer go there. Trying to improve myself enough to have a genuine conversation with a girl is my new goal. It's hard though.
Blog over - feel free to shit all over this opinion.
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d01a10 No.12438
>>12436
There's nothing to shit on, you've realized how pathetic it is and you stopped. I still can't believe how many men there that would pay a woman literally to just acknowledge their existence.
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d6afc5 No.12459
>>12429
In your experience do the guys tend to prefer a specific role or do they switch?
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db3d8b No.12466
>>12459
Most guys I've met with have preferred a specific role - In fact most of the ones I've talked to who haven't had huge red flags that put me off even continuing to talk to them have had preferred to be the ler, which is weird as the majority of the creepiest straight guys seem to be lers.
Entirely anecdotal though, I don't have any real evidence or anything, just my own experiences.
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b92a81 No.12483
Sometimes I feel like I’m one of the rare few who has had no issue with meet ups even via hooking up on the tickling forums. I’ve had numerous (with women) and I guess my only advice is don’t be a socially retarded creeper and just approach people as if you didn’t have the fetish at all. Just treat them like real people rather than potential finger candy and the world could be your oyster.
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3035c6 No.12486
>>12483
what sites/apps do you think is best for finding peeps?
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