Hello,
I wanted to make this thread in reddit, but I didn't have the time to make an account.
I have fapped to porn since my teenage years. I never had a real sexual fantasy involving people. Since my dick wasn't working during sex, I thought that the problem was porn.
After many years of beating myself up, involving several months of no PMO, over one year of no P with MO, PMO-streaks, I didn't really notice a difference in anything aside from a short-term increased libido after abstaining. Then I found the asexual community.
I just wanted to let u guys know that asexuality is a real thing, and the problem isn't necessarily porn. If you are an asexual, no amount of abstaining from PMO will "heal you". Since then, I have accepted myself and luckily got an asexual gf. I hope that people like me will find some use from this post.