No.11308
Week 4 of no-fap. I don't understand this. First few weeks was easy enough, now on week 4 and my degeneate fetishes have increased tremendously. I did this to stop being a faggot, first off. I used to lurk /cuteboys/ and other things, and besides homosexuality I had lots of developed fetishes ranging from Babyfur to hamplanets, pupplay/ponyplay to hypnosis. Hell, pretty much a little bit of everything. I had made significant progress before the no-fap, reducing my urges to occasional glances at stories or porn. Now, all my lust has come back and it is stronger than before the no-fap. I keep going to the places I love and it's more than lust, ya now. It's the wanting for community. I read the stories on /cuteboys/ about how they're having fun as young as 16 and feel like I've both missed out and am missing out. I go to twitter and look at the pupplay community laughing and meming within themsleves. I look at the fun these "gainers" are having.
Am I a lost cause? I feel like shit and I thought no-fap would help curb this shit. Instead it's making it worse. It used to be that after I fapped I'd know I'd never want to engage RL because the post-orgasm shame would be enough. Now there's no orgasm, it's just me looking at shit and fantasizing about it.
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No.11309
I think I should also say I'm on testosterone booster supplements and this is making me much more lust-filled
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No.11310
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No.11311
>>11310
I /fringe/. That's about it.
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No.11312
>>11311
Because if you’re not religious I see no point, just indulge in Sin then go to a gay bar and get fuck up or what ever you want you know yolo, but I’m religious so I need to quit you should give religion a shot it gave me purpose in this shit world and is helping with my depression go on to /Christian/ give it a try you got nothing to lose
P.S I’m struggling with homosexuality
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No.11313
>>11312
I'm /pol/ too. Before /pol/ I was on a bad path. I guess if I must state a religion, it is Aryanism.
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No.11314
>>11313
Well I would say covert and find Christ but just get good with your god
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No.11315
Post your (((twitch))) stream link lad
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No.11317
>>11308
Stop going to these places. It's as simple as that, build some new hobbies without the fetish communities.
And it doesn't matter if you're religious or not. I am not part of any religion and have had a pretty successful nofap 2017 until now.
Set a goal and work towards that. I may not have a religion, but I have my ideals to live for. Find the thing you want to work towards and do it.
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No.11320
Have you niggers tried having a wank thinking about fucking a woman?
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No.11424
> 11308
Social media causes FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) and this is just a sexual version of that problem. <liberal> I don't see a problem with the fact that you have kinks so much as the fact that you're trying to experience them vicariously through porn and social media. So find someone who wants to act like a pony or a dog with you. At least of your fetishes that one seems pretty harmless. </liberal> Don't make people obese. That's dumb as shit.
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No.11425
Going to get a lot worse before it gets better. If you're doing nofap (no porn, no masturbation) then just ignore the deranged thoughts and fantasies that crop up in your mind. Eventually they'll diminish. Focus on other things.
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No.11426
>>11308
>Now there's no orgasm, it's just me looking at shit and fantasizing about it.
Why the ever living fuck are you going to porn/fantasy sites? Like a meth addict being shown meth behind the curtains at rehab. Christ. Get some control.
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No.11442
>>11308
You are mentally addicted, its going to take longer then just 4 weeks, the connections in your brain are screaming for satisfaction and are dying of, this is what the pain is.
just keep up untill all the pathways related to yor fetish have been deleted
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No.11443
You can't just ignore the thoughts, when they come to you, observe them and destroy them rationally and willingly like a sniper, without allowing them to deatroy you. When you do this, you will notice you decide if you want that boner when thinking about that shit or not.
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No.11467
>>11443
You can absolutely ignore them. You ignore them by putting an effort to put your mind into something else, doing another action, etc. Painful at first because these thoughts can "seem" to be powerful and relentless, but they do eventually recede when not acted upon. No thought stays in your mind forever. So you just wait for them to leave instead of picking a fight them. Fighting them in a brute force manner can fire back. The brain is unrelenting when it comes to that, its the black hole. Trying to snipe those thoughts will be a never ending game of whack-a-mole, in fact you'll make those thoughts stronger by giving attention to them even if it is "fighting attention".
What he said works >>11442. Its the same treatment used in OCD. When the degenerate fantasies or feelings arise, expect them, recognize them as degenerate/pervasive fantasies born out of a sick addiction you've been feeding over time, and then simply chose to ignore them. They are not you. To the real you, they are no different than crying babies or your neighbor's car alarm going off. Painful to ignore at first but if you keep focusing on another activity, something you love like watching a movie, playing vidya or getting some school work done then eventually those pervasive thoughts will just lose their grip and you'll notice they don't bother you anymore. They'll be forgotten because they never got your attention.
Of course consciously remembering every now and then why you're doing nofap is also very important.
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No.11470
I'm on my second week and I started to not think about porn anymore but rather about girls.
This night however I had a wet dream, but a very twisted one. I didn't actually see or participate in the sex action, I really dreamt how I went to my computer, looked up my most degenerate fetish and started cumming to it. I feel like shit.
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No.11471
>>11470
as long as its a wet dream, its no problem. Those are the last throes of a fetish trying to keep itself relevant to you. But it is not, you are stronger than this.
I'm also at my second week, starting my third, and sometimes I catch myself surfing to porn on autopilot, often in the early morning or when I'm in bed at night. I shut it off and try to do something different to put my mind on something else. I have the feeling its getting easier to reject these urges where I'm now, even if I'm bored, something which used to be my weak spot.
I think I'm going to make it.
also there is this girl I like and I confessed my feelings to her and we are in this weird spot, I cant bring it into words. Not a friendzone because I know those feel different, but she's too shy to commit to a relationship. The hugs are pretty nice tbh. Just had to throw my feelings out there
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No.11484
>>11443
Wow, nice 0 understanding of psychology and habit, retard.
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No.11673
A friend of mine gave me some advice for dealing with porn: the next time you're on your computer and the temptation comes, you stop what you're doing and go out the room for just a little bit and do something else, consider going for a walk, whatever helps you let go of the urge.
You can do it, anon, please don't give up.
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No.11707
>>11308
maybe you are gay. maybe you are bi. theres no real shame in it. while fapping excessively is bound to cause issues, i would reboot the 90 days, and see if things go back to normal. if they don't maybe your choices revealed things about you if you like feminine men, theres nothing wrong with it. why would you be ashamed if you are bi? some femboys are cute. if you view it as you are an addict, you feel guilt. if you feel shame, is it your shame, or has it been put in your head its wrong? once again, not pushing porn here, but if you like them outside of porn, you may be bi, and have a few innocent kinks. plenty of bisexuals feel guilt about being bi, although they shouldn't. its a part of you. it doesn't define you. do some self exploration is my advice.
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No.11708
>>11313
so what if you like men? nothing wrong with it.
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No.11709
>>11708
That is, unless you're a man as well.
The argument that there is nothing wrong with becoming an evolutionary dead end is preposterous.
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No.11712
>>11707
>>11708
Thanks for the freudian (((psychoanalysis), shlomo.
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No.11715
>>11709
i guess i look at it from the perspective, you are who you are.
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No.11717
>>11715
You are what your enviroment made you into. Gay is not real, simply a result of porn addiction or child abuse.
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No.11720
>>11717
do you have sources that can verify this? i don't doubt in some cases it is porn induced or abuse caused it. I am not saying porn is good here. i think porn is absolutely causing problems for men and women in relationships and other areas of life. it absolutely does. i see people say that guys should want to date in this current environment that is hostile to male sexuality and masculinity. it's far too easy to be falsely accused of rape, for women to take your kids, and for you to never see them again. if you are married, you can be doubly screwed over. i am not gonna say porn is a solution. or sex robots or anything else, although robots are to a degree. unless we restore respect for men, and father's rights, and remove the market by fixing the societal issues facing relationships, men will continue to pursue MGTOW ideas, or eventually be driven to it. we have to push back against the feminist agenda and bring women to our side. without women on the side of MRAs and restoring the family, it will never change
>>11470
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No.11721
i know i went on a tangent (MGTOW) poster, but to the OP? reading through this it does sound porn induced. do a reboot, and see if things recover. if not, and even after long term, you still feel sexual attraction to feminine men, or what have you, then maybe you are a bisexual. you don't have to act on said desires unless you want to. remember, you control who you fuck.
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No.12281
>>11312
>P.S I’m struggling with homosexuality
wew laddie
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