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 No.38965

>be me 18 yo friend

>Mother asked my father for money he already is married twice but mother only once

>mother asked for money because the son of the first wife is getting married she says she wants security for my future

>my mother is the 2nd wife and in Asian cultures there are huge ass marriages so my mother asked for money

>my father said let’s take a walk through the road

>fuck. this could mean anything

>I’ll keep it short but he tells me that he suspects my mother might have cheated on him

>drops subtle hints that he maybe is not my father

>I suggest we get paternity tests

>he agrees but says don’t tell mother

> I ask why?

> He says she’ll never do that or create unnecessary drama

>says instead we should do it secertly behind her back

>I say I mean if she doesn’t approve of us doing the test isn’t the result clear?

>He doesn’t say anything just gives me the usual bullshit you’ll always be my son and shit

sorry for poor formatting I am just not thinking straight atm

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 No.38966

Likely that he just wants a reason or excuse to not give money. If I were you, I'd be very involved in the paternity test. Make sure the doctor is not some asshat your dad could buy off.

Your mom could also be being an ass. You are 18, technically an adult. You could get the money directly now. Your mom doesn't need to hold on to it for you. Start grabbing control of your finances.

Get a job. Or if in school apply for scholarships. And kick your parents off your accounts. Or open new ones and transfer the money over.

Start looking after yourself. Start looking at what is in your best interest. Not the best interest of your parents. Screw eastern bs philosophy. You owe no dharma or karma to your parents.

This being said don't be obvious about what you are gonna do. Hide your thoughts from both of them. They might both be narcissistic cunts.

>dude who never got a cent from my dad and whose life savings was pillaged by my mother

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