/girltalk/ - Girl Talk

>>20601

If you didnt actually do anything bad then you'll be fine but that negative reaction is very valuable. If you didnt feel disgusted at yourself for doing certain things, then you wouldnt hesitate to do disgusting things. I'm proud of you for that.

On one hand I'd say being honest doesn't make any of it your responsibility in the least. On the other, I'd say you're still not being completely honest with them if you don't say how unwelcome or insensitive their probing is.

What I've usually seen is the guys with good intent less often ask those questions, but also tend to avoid initiating conversations to begin with, so I guess a bit more filtering or outreach is needed. I'm not big on chatting with peeps so don't really have any substantiative advice to give, sorry.

You never know who the hell is on the other line and there's no real indicators to blame yourself for missing. Yeah, it sucks you feel only the creeps gravitate to you, but fuck those guys. Showers won't clean emotional reaction, we all just have to act grown-up and not get attached to strangers' words. It's a very old, human problem.

>>20601

If I assume you're cisgender, your story is interesting and kind of funny because, in all honestly, many males experience similar feelings.

Switching the genders, doesn't this sound familiar?

> my lonely sperg self often thinks that when a (fe)male goes out of h(er) way to interact with me that it may be because (s)he would like to start a (relation)ship with me.

> I get this intense disgust feeling all throughout my body.

> I feel like a disgusting slut who is unable to truly love others again

These sound, to me, similar to the regret or guilt that some males sometimes experience after masturbating to some kinds of porn. I think it could relate to the amount of oxytocin that kicks in after orgasm. Most porn doesn't have love in it. Furthermore, it's an emotion foreign to the older stereotypical social expectations and self-image of masculinity. Challenging those threatens a lone cisgender heterosexual male to be ostracized socially and sexually and to crumble their personal identity. I can't speak for all of them or all situations, but I pick up that those unspoken feelings are very common and run deeply. For more, search for talks and articles by Peggy Orenstein and Norah Vincent.

Your description, however, sounds to me as if it's closer to the feeling of being used – because you are receiving it from some guys, though not entirely unsolicited, rather than wanting to imply interest in having sex. It's entirely possible to speak in person about sex in a context of science or hypotheticals that are detached from you that you speak in a manner lacking innuendo that doesn't imply thinking of having it yourself. If you want friendship but not sex from a guy, then look around for guys who don't show signs of being sexually attracted to you in your presence, and initiate contact with them by way of a pretext that is strictly professional and/or definitely not date-like or intimate. If your story has anything to do with online dating, I don't think I'll be much help.

>>20624

>guys with good intent… also tend to avoid initiating conversations to begin with, so I guess a bit more filtering or outreach is needed.

Yup.

>>20601

Feel free to ignore me because I'm a guy posting. Part of the time we do want to engage in non-degenerate behaviour and value your interactions and so on. However, it's not that hard to make friends, but very hard to find a romantic (or intimate or sexual) partner, so when the opportunity strikes sometimes we move into that territory. Some do it a lot more than others though, so I'm all for punishing the ones that do it, because it's something that should wait or that depends on context. I agree with your reaction, guys are so degenerate and such animals that you're right, but for some of them they just don't know how to reach out and separate the honest conversation territory from the 'trying to find a partner' territory. There's nothing wrong with you or your reactions though.

No answer could satisfy your question, so you won't be getting any.

That's what im thinking, do women really use 8 Chan.

>>20610

Dilate

There used to be girls on /cuckquean/ here.

I djd…

1. don't be a bitch

2. don't be a bum

3. if in doubt, see steps one and two.

Sounds Cliche and gay but my advice is be yourself.

>>20477

I'm mostly indifferent to it, not very fond, but not intensely put off like some people

I remember I hung out with some odd folks when I was like ~14 that gave me beer and wanted to see how much I could drink. I think it was a ploy to get me drunk but I actually just had a few sips and said it tasted like trash.

Felt pretty sad recently then my crush asked me out!!! so….YAY!!!!!!!

I don't think you ladies should worry most men aren't into that.

>>10924

actually you can train for size or for strength, low reps high sets is for strengh, you're not going to build a lot of muscle but you will be strong.

>>10722

Slap her ass and say “you’re mine now”

>>11870

With a sandwich maker?

The possibility of people being untrustworthy is a fact of life. I think it's especially easy for people to misrepresent themselves online, but if I get critical over every post I see, I won't be able to enjoy myself.

So, I don't know. Maybe a third female, a third male, and a third trannies. Maybe better, maybe worse. I don't let it bother me.

Either I like the posts they share, or I don't. No sense pondering the stats.

visitor but a trans woman flag would solve part of the problem

Some day I start to get through Finder no Hyouteki and Togainu no Chi.

>>20297

I'll *

>>20289

This shit kinda dark tho ngl, fuck if I like being touched there too, but not by some fucked individual like this xd

Well for one, don't cancel arrangements you've already made just because someone you like better asked you to do something else. Either stay true to your word (first come, first served) or don't make plans with people you don't like in the first place.

God is evil

>>18799

I am. Don’t think I could ever be with a guy who wasn’t.

>>18799

Sans the occult bullshit.

>>20533

>naples style

No? 1:50 shows the proper way

>>20550

Okay.

>>20553

Oh lol it's fine, Nonny.

>>14101

When it comes to G & H I mean, typo.

>>5973

me too! It's the most common sleeping one for my bf and I (unless I decide to risk the boob pain and sleep on my stomach). We usually cuddle in F or A, and we often switch roles in those.

>>14093

eh, i can see that. My bf is on the dominant side, but I'm def the more assertive one when it comes to logistics and day to day life. I know it's something he appreciates.

I happen to prefer this. My boyfriend enjoys it so it's a win for me.