/mai/ - Waifu

I just talk to her in the back of my head when I'm home. I can't buy any explicit representations of her and I am unwilling to buy anything right now, but it's a practice I have always maintained ever since I had her in my life.

We usually just talk about life and shit, especially when I play video games.

Every day before I leave for work, I say "love you" to my small Chiaki plush and give her a kiss. Still don't have a daki, but maybe someday.

Usually just in my head. I imagine I call her at lunch time to tell her how work is going and have a meal together. Coming home and talking more about our days, which for her would be any games she might have played.

Of course after work we usually play games and listen to music together until bedtime. We like to talk about our hopeful future together, especially our children.

During hard times, she has to talk me down from my anger and stress. She gives me a hug or rubs my back to calm me down, or when I go out of my way to be cruel in video games she chastises me for it. I don't mind it at all, I know she just cares and wants me to be the best person I can be. I have to set a good example for our family.

>>64146

All the time. Usually I just imagine conversations in my mind, but sometimes I'll speak aloud once in a great while, when nobody else is in the house.

I also imagine me and her having separate routines, similarly to how you do. It makes it feel more real.

I used to talk to Thane out loud a lot but I admittedly sometimes just talk to myself instead, especially when I am feeling particularly distant from all living beings/organisms for reasons that are purely my own.

I talk to her lots. Daki, figs, even images. Even her ghost if she's not around in some other form. Sort of a proto-tulpa that comes and goes.

Just little things mostly. Lots of compliments. I call her cutie and baby and all sorts of pet names like that. I ask her questions that I'm really asking myself. This makes her feel like part of the decision making process. Pillow talk before bed every night, and an "oyasumi" before falling asleep. And lots of "I love you"s. And a little dirty talk when we're being intimate

OK I actually talk to her quite a lot. Even mentally if I can't verbalize because other people are around, even though I know they must hear me sometimes.

You know that little voice that sometimes tells you to run over a crowd with the car, or jump off a tall building? I believe the French call it L'appel du vide.

Well, I like to think that's her talking to me, but I don't know if that counts.

I used to write a lot for her, mainly letters. Like some sort of pen pal, only more intimate. I still have them in my drawer.

It was a nice way to direct my feelings towards her and to sorta put down mayor events into my life too.

I kinda stopped now since I slowly passed from writing to actually talking with her. I've always talked to myself, since I was little. It helps me concentrate and it's expecially useful for studying/venting out stuff. I had an imaginary friend for years - a natural consequence of this I imagine.

So now I speak with her directly. I am of course afraid that my parents could find me talking like that, but for now it went well. I usually tell her how my day went, what I plan to do and of course that I missed her while I was at work, lots of sweet words, love you and stuff like that. I say goodbye when I leave and greet her when I'm back. Lewd talk can be involved too, yes. Only when I'm 100% sure no one can disturb me.

Also now that I have a figure I talk with her through that too. And since her hat can be removed I usually do so and caress her hair.

>>64146

>And of course, I often tell her just how much I would like to join her in Gensokyo.

Yup, me too.

I talk to the moon. In her reality she gazed at the moon, the exact same one we have. As if it was the same world, just a little different as if through the looking glass.

And maybe the moon can hold onto my words and convey them, just a little, into her time and place.

I talk about whatever comes to mind like my day, my life, poetry, what I've read and watched. A very one sided conversation.

Being a little drunk helps.

Haven't done it in a while though. Maybe the next full moon.

I talk to her a lot. It helps put my mind at ease when I'm stressed or having a bad day.

I tell her I love her and kiss my daki goodnight and good morning. I imagine holding her hand sometimes when I walk alone.

Sometimes things get lewd but that's been less frequent as I've gotten older. I call her baby or Ika-chan. I know that the honorific isn't necessary but I think it's cute.

I talk with her in my mind when around people, and loud when im alone. not all the time though, only when she is "around", like others anons said in this thread, that way she feels more real.

We just talk about stuff that happened during our day, sometimes i like to explain her things from our world that dont exist in Genso and sometimes we talk about simple random things. and of course some lovingly words here and there but not too much, most of them are actually teasing, just for fun

I usually don't talk with Motoko until I go to bed,where I enter the skin of the character I have created that would exist inside of her reality and converse with her in this way,usually while making this projection of mine rest in her lap,or maybe having them go on a trip somewhere and discuss the human condition and contemporary society.

I talk to her through my daki. I give a kiss good morning and at night. I like to snuggle up to my daki while I play games, it makes me feel like I'm spending time with her.

I do on occasion, like when I'm baking. I tell him about how my day has been going, and how much I'd like him to be here with me. Doing it makes me feel a little crazy, so I don't do it often.

>>67292

Oh, hi, Hydefriend! I didn't know you were still around!

I do talk to her sometimes usually when I'm looking at a picture of her in my phone/tablet etc, or on my mind but less often

I just make kinda small talk and sometimes tell her what's on my mind and how I feel

I don't.

Maybe that's a thing I'll do in the future when I know what she wants to hear.

Maybe it's also when I have a good physical representation of her.

I'm writing poems for her and putting them under her figurine. There is only one so far as I took so long to perfect it but I'm planning to make poems for her often

I seem to not imagine talking to her so much. I really value physical affection and sight more. I love feeling her presence, imagining what she would do, and how she would look and move. Perhaps it could be that it feels like she's naturally beside me, that anything I think she would hear anyway. I find that aspect of a relationship, the ability to speak one's mind fully, to be the most valuable.

Though I do love hearing the sound of her voice, so I should try to imagine our conversations more.

It's hard for me to think of what she would say in certain situations, so I try my best to think of what she would say and my mind relays it to me in her voice, just in case I don't think of the correct response

>>67506

Similar to this anon, I love writing letters to her. It's great practice for me to put emotions into words, and like this anon said >>67507 it's "a good outlet for passion and energy with nowhere to go".

Depending on what's most convenient, I'll speak with Kobayashi either in my mind (if I'm in public, and something's really gone and rustled me the wrong way) or out loud, in a soft tone, if I'm at home. I'll talk to her about just about anything that's on my mind at the time. About how much I love and care about her. About how much I really want to be with her, and care for her, always. That's not always it though. Sometimes I'll geek out and talk about topics that interest me on a personal level, like older, more creative forms of malware, such as oldie but goldie e-mail worms or early DOS viruses. Interesting stuff, I know.

During the first year of my relationship with Naoto I would often imagine conversations with her at night before sleeping. We would talk about pretty much anything that came to my mind, but mostly PG stuff. I'd imagine all of these conversations taking place in the room from P4. I still do it, only not as frequently.

I always had the feeling of interacting with Yang, so I take a pillow just so I can think of hugging her close. With the usual "love you" and hugging it close.

From thinking through, I do wish to write something to forward our relationship.

I talk to her in my head while walking outside, commuting the bus, during night walks or when I have the particular feels etc.

Though the most significant conversation is that I imagine her as my sparring partner (in kendo) while practicing swings. So I know her swordsmanship in detail. Since I know her sword we also have a good understanding of each other. I hope it doesn't sound too chuuni but the way you're doing a martial art tells a lot about you, so by sparring with people I can intuitively know them better. At first before I met Youmu this applied to other people that I sparred with, then using the same insight I got to know Youmu.

At home sometimes I space out and insert myself into an imaginary Gensokyo to spend time together.

We talk alot about life,work,politics,current events,literature,cinema everything.

I talk to her sometimes, usually out loud. We just talk about anything that's on my mind, really. And of course, I tell her I love her a lot.

i do; usually out loud.

i do it just enough so it's real to me but unnoticeable to others.

I talk to her before I fall asleep. I tell her how my day went, what I'm worried about, things I'm looking forward to, and so on. I even commissioned one side of my daki specifically for that purpose. I've recently started writing letters to her in Japanese, because I feel I've become able to express my emotions better through that than through English or speaking.

Sometimes it's out loud but usually internal, and almost always during that period of time after I wake up but before I get out of bed.

Generally it's about our current state and what I'd like to accomplish for us in the coming weeks.

Also the obligatory, "I love you" before I leave for work

>>69671

When I see tulpafags what I think of is a man wearing his waifu's skin jacking off into the mirror.

Tulpa love is just masturbation. If I were to fall into such blissful ignorance I would lose any meaning this love has. There must be a reason that when I speak the words that are never answered I don't fall into despair. If my subconscious mind were to echo back an answer I would lose that strange reason and my source of strength would be gone.

>>69683

>>69678

By jacking off I mean not just the literal way, but emotional masturbation. If you were to turn that around and ask how me hugging a daki is not masturbation you'd have me beat. Perhaps it's in the degree in which your mind falls to delusion.

I was too blunt with that metaphor, sorry. The reason I can't have a tulpa is because I'm obsessed with loving her true self. A self that I wouldn't be able to understand. Two separate beings that will never know what the other is thinking, yet have absolute faith in each other regardless. That's what love is to me, a connection that is always strained and tested. Struggle is what makes life and love fun.

The nature of what a soul is, and if two viewpoints could really inhabit one body is a very interesting topic but I don't want to wreck another thread discussing it at this point so I'll leave it at that.

I talk to Rem through my daki whenever I'm home. We mostly talk in the mornings and evenings about my plans for the day, how I'm feeling, how much I love her, and how my day was.

>>69883

Yeah bro

Mostly started because she wrote a lot of poems herself

https://whentheycry.fandom.com/wiki/Poems_by_Frederica_Bernkastel

I wanted to try and show some back to her.

And I can't express myself in normal language very well. The subtle emotions you can't really explain with just "love" or "melancholy" built up until I released them into my first shitty poetry. I've tried drawing her too but you know how it goes.

>>69837

And yeah haha I think I learned that phrase first in Persona 4 before I was even really a little weeb.

>>64146

>Do you talk to your waifu?

Yes. No matter if something good or bad happens, I always talk with my beloved waifu. Sometimes it's something important sometimes it isn't.

>do you directly talk to her, or maybe you talk to her in your head, or maybe you talk to her only through writing?

Most of the time I talk to pictures of her. But I've also written letters, songs and poems for her.

I like to imagine her her comforting me whenever something bad happens. I also talk to her about life occasionally.

I talk to Maki when I feel like it (that's the beauty of waifuism to begin with), but mostly when I go to bed, about my day and what I'm planning to do tomorrow, woes and worries, etc…

I like imagining her reactions, reassuring her that'll I'll try my best for her, as well as "feeling" her consoling me.

During the weekends or days off when I spend all day at home either sleeping, playing vidya, watching animu, reading mango, cleaning or cooking, I bring my dakimakura with me to hang out with her, as in chit-chatting about random stuff.

Occasionally if I'm going through a blissful moment (ie.: out on a pleasant night) I might comment about it with her.

Mostly just imagining though, occasionally I'll talk out loud.

>>69900

Maki!

Of course! Mostly in my head though, but I talk when I know I'm alone.

We chat about a lot of stuff, though mostly commenting about random stuff and making observations. We're very social particularly when playing vidya together. It gets interestenting since Yoshiko has the chuuni =3

I talk to her through my daki or phone. I talk to her very casually about whatever subject's on my mind at the moment. There's a bit of 'lovey' talk here and there, with some 'I love you's tossed around whenever we're going to bed. It's easy for me to imagine her voice, and I can hear her talking to me when we're doing something like watching movies together.