e48595 No.126193 [Last50 Posts]
let try this once:
Pick Up / Dating / Relationships
hopefully, there are some more non-retards non-virgins around,
ITT lets discuess not only PUA in its oldie ways, but socializing and dating in general
let this be a place where you can get and give some true honest advice on meeting up people and improving your social life
/fit/ isn't the only thing you need to stop being a neet and start getting some action,
social life, relationships and feels are important for your mental health,
for guys, if you're a virgin, ask away and try not to sperg autistcally about other people's experiences
if you're anywhere between intermediate to advanced, share your stories and lets help each other
if god forbid there are women lurking this board, this thread may also interest you,
either by offering your redpills to poor virgins, or getting feedback from male on your own relationships
Sure, I know where we are, but lets try to keep the sperg shitposting under control
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e48595 No.126196
so to start this off, how about some reference material?
> RSD Real Social Dynamics
best pick stuff out there, technically "pua" but not really
touches on stuff that is not routine, and how to internalize and become natural
> Get Laid or Die trying
Jeff from RSD's book, old stuff, very entertaining but very enlightening stuff on the beginning of his journey
> David Deida - the Way of the Superior Man
incredible stuff, if I had to recommend only one thing, it would be this book,
Deida teaches how to behave like a true man, and the nuances of masculine/feminine polarities
the base of attraction really
> Alan Watts
he has some really awesome audio book material,
not really relationship related, its zen, but its incredibly good
and you wouldn't imagine, but it helps a fuck whole lot with it
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e48595 No.126197
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. for anyone who doesn't even know what I'm talking about,
don't know for sure about this video, but this is their kind of content, there is a ton of free stuff,
if you want I can post some of my favorites later
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ec8093 No.126199
>>126193
I was a fucking loser and I tried PUA, it was fun, but is depressing and doesn't work, is a fucking scam to sell books and conventions to losers.
Here's my redpill on PUA:
It doesn't work.
>does confidence helps
yes, it helps, you build confidence after approaching girls IRL, not from reading books.
>do X book or technique helps
is BS, I learned more on two days trying to approach girls at the outside of the library and just talking to them than in all PUA workshops.
Getting their phone is the easy part, most will give you their real numbers, but almost two or three will reply, and 0 will take you to the bed.
>but I saw them doing it
which are paid actors to BS you into buying their product.
Here's the non BS part that works:
Face, is like 80% of the road, you got a nice face you don't even need to make muscle.
>but my face is average
then hit the gym for a year before trying to score girls (or six months).
Here's another shit that works:
Get a job and make money, buy nice clothes, dress properly, shave your head, get a haircut.
>but receding hair
shave your head, I do also have receding hairline since children so I have to ask my haircut to be number 1 on the machine, it makes me look better.
>but height
Unless you're smaller than most girls, being 5"7 is enough.
As long as you're taller than the girl, is fine.
Other tips:
Learn to socialize, don't try to pickup all the girls you see, try to have a good time with all the girls, even if they're ugly, learn to make them smile, tell jokes, then if they reply by smiling in a clear natural way (not forced) then you can move to sexual jokes and telling she looks damn good and you like her tits and ass (if she has made moves like touching her hair or she looks nervous or she smiles a lot, of course you need to be attractive).
That's what I've learned.
Field experience > watching youtube videos about it
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e48595 No.126201
>>126199
> it was fun, but is depressing and doesn't work
it was fun but its depressing? nope
it does work
>>126199
>yes, it helps, you build confidence after approaching girls IRL, not from reading books
yes that is exactly what they say too, see: >>126196
>touches on stuff that is not routine, and how to internalize and become natural
>is BS, I learned more on two days trying to approach girls at the outside of the library and just talking to them than in all PUA workshops.
true that practice is the important thing, but false that the other stuff doesn't help,
the content and book serve mostly as a guide, stepping stone if you will, shared experiences that you can learn from
>Face, is like 80% of the road, you got a nice face you don't even need to make muscle
false, looks help you initially, but you would still be a chode no matter how good look or fit you are
mostly agree with you on most appearance topics, even got to hook up with taller women from time to time
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ec8093 No.126205
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ec8093 No.126206
>>126201
>why depressing
because you become jaded of spending so much effort and not get nothing.
>but If I use muh PUA naruto techniques I'll get laid
No retard, that's shit they hire actors to sell you their books.
>but the guy slays pussy
is the PUA guy ugly?
most of the time they're hot or better than average looking.
It was so funny to hear a whore that teaches PUA crap and listen her saying: Oh, but is only a minority of women who are superficial, I'm in that minority, but most women aren't superficial, clearly an ugly guy can pick up as easy as a hot guy.
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421ac5 No.126207
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da24a1 No.126209
>PUA
Why do you spend so much effort trying to cope instead of facing reality?
>Rule 1.
Face > height > frame
>Rule 2.
"Muh konfidunce & personality" means nothing if you can't share it with anyone; physical attraction is virtually the sole factor in the initiation of relationships.
>Rule 3.
Fucking young skanks perpetuates promiscuity and validates their hedonistic behaviour, thus reinforcing the "cock carousel -> betabux -> crazy cat lady" progression of modern women.
>Rule 4.
If women don't already pay you attention, nothing beyond looks-maxing can help you. If you've already looks-maxed and still get ignored, it's over boyo.
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829ed5 No.126210
Anon, many of /fit/'s users are on no-fap. These kind of temptations aren't really that welcome here.
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c8a376 No.126211
There are no women in all of 8chan even the "girls" board is nothing but homosexuals pretending to be girls.
Just had to point that out.
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612c02 No.126212
>>126210
if i do no-fap my testosterone goes too high to control, i have rape thoughts and big anger issues
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e48595 No.126213
>>126205
>>126206
>because you become jaded of spending so much effort and not get nothing.
were you expecting to git gud without effort? its the same with gym noob with 3 months expecting to get huge…
>but If I use muh PUA naruto techniques I'll get laid
where did I say anything even remotely like that?
>but the guy slays pussy
didn't even put that as an argument either,
if you're gonna negate me at least try to counter my arguments
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e48595 No.126214
>>126209
>Why do you spend so much effort trying to cope instead of facing reality?
I'm not trying to cope, but are you? being a angst ridden virgin?
>Face > height > frame
false, women get it on with uglies all the time, all you need to do is go out to fact check that
>Fucking young skanks perpetuates promiscuity and validates their hedonistic behaviour
< if I can't have fun, no fun allowed
that is what you sound like
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e48595 No.126215
>>126211
>There are no women in all of 8chan
good for them I've guess (there were some girls on cuckchan though, worth a try)
>>126210
>Anon, many of /fit/'s users are on no-fap
figures, /fit/ always jump sperg first on every meme thing
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ec8093 No.126217
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. >>126213
>just be confidunt retard
lmao
watch this channel videos.
It doesn't matter if you have money or have great personality.
Many guys who are pieces of shit and are poor as fuck score pussy as mad simply because they're hot.
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e48595 No.126218
>>126217
>redpill on something society has been sperging about forever
we already heard that looks and money were what mattered since our childhood anon, this is not a redpill
but what are you really doing here? aren't you just taking responsibility away?
you can't change your looks and become chad, so better just stay a angst ridden virgin forever, amirite?
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e48595 No.126219
>>126217
I'm gonna to watch those "redpill" videos once I get the time, but they smell of autismo retardation
btw, how is it up there in Colombia, heard you guys are having a civil war or something?
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2bc53f No.126228
>>126193
Went mgtow and stopped having interactions with women. Best decision I ever made. PUA stuff only works if you're already a bit chad or high beta.
Even then you end up being baby trapped or false rape accusations. Or DV and go to jail. Just find a qt trap and enjoy the feminine benis.
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e48595 No.126231
Well boyos, I just came back from a booty call, I'm in brazil, that means a 14h afternoon friday bootycall….
so you know take it as you will, believe it or not…
>>126217
just finished watching this video, and dude it was painful to watch, seriously if you believe that shit you should kill yourself
only going to argument on that first video for the sake of discussion, let me know if I miss anything
> people are attractive to attractiveness
pffff (I literally spat when I heard that) REALLY?
when it was ever not the case for this? the question how can you become attractive despite looks
women fucking do it all the time, its called make up, and it works good as hell, an below looking women can bait to be much more attractive when dressed up
and where are we? fucking /fit/, getting in better shape and there is least some three threads up on how to fucking not be a disgusting mouth breather
and save for artificial reason (a freaky accident) or real genetic deformation, most people will Ok, enough that they can be considered average
> puts a fake model profile on a dating site
nigga, this is online dating, of course people are be superficial as fuck, meeting someone face to face in no way shape or form is equal to making a match after sliding some pics
there is no way to know someone apart from a few pics and a brief text, what were you expecting? and every fucking men would the same if checking a female model profile
moreover, taking good pictures is key on this kind of dating, I've been baited several times already, by pics that look way better than what they are in reality
> girls responded positively when fake profile acted like a jerk
funny thing here, the guy accidentally behaved like an alpha, two thing: amusing himself and keeping his frame
by offending her first (which is called a neg in pua), and playing it off, which can just considered like he was joking off
and then keeping his frame and still asking for their numbers after they got offended, which is actually a VERY attractive trait (you don't to offend anyone though)
> old dude is blamed for rape after posting as model
jesus Christ you gotta be kidding, imagine if it was the opposite, you got offered sex with a hot model, but when you open your eyes is a saggy old grandma there
and regardless of that, you're falsifying your image, its like saying something you're not
> people of status
do I really need to say this too? of course the fuck yes.
lets Brat pitt and you are going for the same girl, watch think?
everybody fucking knows who he is, he doesn't an introduction, he got fucking dozens of good movies and probably whole fucking world already seen his face one time or another
on the other side of the coin there is you, a fucking nobody who nobody fucking knows, to expect her like you before even knowing you? of course not, you need to introduce yourself and let people whether you're chad or not
on the same point of people of status, you need to realize status change and are situational,
some dude who is chad in the club may be a little bitch somewhere else, some fucking nerd may be chad when hanging out with the other nerds in animu&mangu conference, who the fuck knows… hotwheels is chad on 8ch….
for example, a fat fuck nobody Mc donald manager in the middle of nowhere, may occasionally get laid with workers, because he can be considered an alpha in that situation, calling the shots and whatnot, later the girl may even look back in disgust wondering how she was attracted to that fat fuck
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e48595 No.126232
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. and just a final argument as I leave you this video:
In no way I said that looks don't matter for attraction,
but I do say that BEHAVIOR (not personality like your video said), plays much larger role in attraction
and behavior is gained just like you said in
>>126199
>approaching girls IRL
and that is BEHAVE like a MAN to a WOMAN
sorry but this subject gets me triggered, if you want I'll take you even further, but I feel like embed related right now,
and if you have any doubts, the speaker in this video is a balding ginger fat fuck, who nowadays is even fucking weirder
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cba2ed No.126235
Guys, how do I initiate conversation with a stranger, especially in not-so-social or typically quiet places? I was out today and this cute little diamond-in-the rough with a nice voice was sitting sort of close to me. Close enough to walk up to her, not close enough to lean over and start a conversation. I mean do you just walk up and say hi? I feel like that's fucking weird. I really wanted to tell her she had a nice voice, but I didn't want to get up and walk 10 feet in a quiet room and start hitting on her you know what I mean?
tbh she was a little chubby but she would be cute as fuck if I trained her
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ec8093 No.126238
>>126218
>>126219
>>126231
Look buddy, women are attracte to three things:
LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS.
Women seek looks because looks indicate superior stud semen.
Money means their kids will be able to survive.
Status is something women look for.
Nothing else works.
Evo, a literal ugly as fuck indio could score a fucking model simply because of his status.
So is relative.
MONEY, LOOKS, STATUS.
nothing else.
You hit the gym or become wealthy.
>>126235
Just approach random girls and try to entertain them first without trying to get their number, if the girls actually send you signals (like touching her hair, putting attention to what you said, smiling, becoming nervous) you then ask her number, if she's cold, don't reply with interest or she seems bored, you moved and try another girl.
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c2a143 No.126241
Anybody got Models by Mark Manson PDF/Audiobook? It was on /pua/ a couple of years ago.
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af51a1 No.126242
My advice to anyone who has zero experience with female peers is to pretend you're gay and/or become strictly friends with a lot of females.
In doing so you will begin to see girls in a whole different way. We're all creatures who breed at the end of the day. Each person of both genders have their tricks. Some of the girls you think are really lovable and cute are actually succubi who are after beta males with no experience. And some girls you think are completely unattainable are great females who are looking for the right guy to come along.
But you will never know until you see girls for what they really are. Make friends with all kinds of girls and listen to them blabber among themselves. You'll be horrified.
The second benefit is that you won't be nervous around them anymore. And believe it or not, they like guys with lots of girl friends.
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af51a1 No.126243
Oh and look out for the girls who don't make friends with other girls. They'll either be good to have around or they're weird and insecure as shit and you don't want to have anything to do with an insecure female. It depends on who they're not friends with. If she's surrounded by bunch of bitch tarts, she's probably alright and very interesting.
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a08001 No.126245
>>126242
>make friends with all kinds of girls and listen to them blabber among themselves.
>you'll be horrified.
Stories?
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671ca6 No.126246
>>126242
This cunt gets it: I wouldn't go as far as to feign homosexuality but if you just slowly practise interacting with grills yes, even the "ugly" ones you autistic faggot and not be fussed about the outcome then you gain proper meaningful EXP.
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e48595 No.126248
>>126238
>LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS
just whisper LMS like in the video
>Evo, a literal ugly as fuck indio could score a fucking model simply because of his status.
nigga you serious? dude is fucking president for more than 10 years, how can you be more alpha than that?
its clear that you would need to have great social skills and frame to be a ruler like that
plus he is prime example of how looks are subjective in women's eyes, he is not ugly, rather having a strong character face (reason why men of age are more attractive)
just fucking look a trump too, any insults thrown at him, whether true or not, are swiftly deflect by him, that is called frame
>Just approach random girls and try to entertain them first without trying to get their number
and you say the above and yet just tells anon to do this, what if anon is ugly, shouldn't he just kys?
>>126235
btw, would help if you gave more context on the topic, but as a general rule, git gud with women
https://media.8ch.net/file_dl/b3dcd61c11cc3620fc762a8fe02ce2e01ceac1d43fdee2042a3dcaaae0a72b7a.webm/transcendant%20smug.webm
fuck, when will this board allow duplicate files?
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e48595 No.126249
>>126242
>Some of the girls you think are really lovable and cute are actually succubi who are after beta males with no experience. And some girls you think are completely unattainable are great females who are looking for the right guy to come along.
some actual good advice right there and really spoke the truth
reminder for me to post a good example of the above later
>>126246
>but if you just slowly practise interacting with grills
>and not be fussed about the outcome
this right here, also remind me to delve deeper into this
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ec8093 No.126250
>>126248
what women want in a male:
MONEY
LOOKS
STATUS
if you're not hot you can still be rich or have social status.
Let's reverse the genders.
Males care about:
FACE
TITS
ASS
And yes, some guys like girls that are fat, other males will love an ugly girl with a nice personality.
But you're not asking about getting a boyfriend or girfriend.
You're asking for PUA BS.
Will learning PUA for girls (whatever that is) help an ugly girl to be as hot and to have as much sucess for catching hot Chads?
Use your logic dumbass.
MONEY, LOOKS, STATUS
pick your favorite one.
If you have none, then you're worthless to women.
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d16a64 No.126253
>letting a 3D pig sap your mana
>not even getting progeny out of it
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da24a1 No.126257
>ITT: Future beta-bux providers who think that women give a fuck about wealth and status beyond siphoning from you
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721b02 No.126258
>>126250
>putting tits above ass
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721b02 No.126260
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c2a143 No.126266
>>126260
Thank you. Do you have the audiobook as well?
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e48595 No.126269
>>126250
>But you're not asking about getting a boyfriend or girfriend.
>You're asking for PUA BS.
>>126193
>ITT lets discuess not only PUA in its oldie ways, but socializing and dating in general
>let this be a place where you can get and give some true honest advice on meeting up people and improving your social life
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e48595 No.126271
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. >>126250
>what women want in a male:
>Males care about:
not that simple, what people say they are attracted to are not the same things that will actually in bed with another, certainly not mean whether they will get in a relationship
the basis for attraction comes from two things:
> BEHAVIOR
> CHEMISTRY
the first one is what I've trying to hammer into you with which you simple are oblivious to
means behaving like a man to a woman, behaving like a chad
the second thing is personal, aka personality, there are some people which simply doesn't match together, where as other people will match like monkeys in a cage
>Will learning PUA for girls (whatever that is) help an ugly girl to be as hot and to have as much sucess for catching hot Chads?
fuck yes, for a woman is much simpler to just dress up and take care to get good looking (traps are a great example of this)
video related is deida talking about this very same subject, which is how to behave to your polarity, either being masculine or feminine,
woman can attract much higher quality men just by focusing on being more feminine
playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLqJLYjafNt_W7L0ZxmoNncW1rF5O8LoBR
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e48595 No.126273
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. >>126260
very interesting, gonna check this out later…
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17335a No.126277
Yea its all confidence this guy was a confident child rapist and look how much he scores even as an ugly guy
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ec8093 No.126278
>>126269
>>126271
look buddy, PUA is 100% dependant on looks.
however if you're trying to make her your gf, then you need to have something she seeks, could be money or status.
however if you're trying to make her your gf, then learning to have charisma and making her laugh is enough (but you still need to have a job).
Generally this is a diferent question, it changes from how do I become hot, to how do I become charismatic, this is clearly a skill that can be learned.
Read how to make friends and influence people, is a clasic on the topic.
Generally you need to be on the superior path, since women marry always a male of a superior status.
Then the question becomes: How do I make her my pal, but if you're ugly you'll simply come as creepy or simply her best buddy, and you need to work one year to make she falls in love while she took dozens of chad cocks in the same year she told you she wasn't ready.
If you're looking for an easy girl to settle, just hit some girl when they hit the wall and just want to settle, like a good beta scum provider.
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721b02 No.126305
>>126266
nope. got the pdf from someone on here as well
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d0830c No.126307
>>126238
>>126238
>LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS.
To expand on that, looks is comprised of three things: face, frame, height
Face is most important, for the other two you need to be within a reasonable range. As a 5'0 dwarf no amount of face will help you, but if you are are disfigured 6'5 lanklet you wont be slaying either
Money and status might attract girls, but they wont desire you on a primal level. They will fuck you and keep around you, but they wont get wet for a huge bank account. Power is attractive, but it will never be live up to being desired for the quality of your genes
>t. slept with 25 girls or so
Not a Chad, not a failed normie. Ive been around, fucked some really attractive girls, had loving relationships. Since I got fit my success with girls increased tenfold. Lost some facial chub and my face looks much nicer. The girls Ive been seeing are cute and we get along great personality-wise, but it was my looks that got my foot in the door.
PUA is a massive coping mechanism. If youre attractive, you'll get laid if you arent a recluse. If youre extroverted on top of that, you can fuck multiple girls a day. I know a guy who fucked 4 girls within 24 hours, and he has no idea what pua or rsd or other scams you talk about here are
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da24a1 No.126308
>>126307
>Money and status might attract girls, but they wont desire you on a primal level.
>Power is attractive, but it will never be live up to being desired for the quality of your genes
>PUA is a massive coping mechanism. If youre attractive, you'll get laid if you arent a recluse.
Danebro is the only person in this thread who gets it.
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21218b No.126312
>>126305
I found the audiobook.
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e48595 No.126313
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. >>126278
look buddy,
you can believe whatever the fuck do you,
but just know that you're just rationalizing your pity virgin existence
>how do I become hot
unless you're going to extreme artificial means like plastic surgery and steroid use, you can't change it that much
>how do I become rich
you won't get super rich like a millionaire from a day to another, unless you are already rich that usually takes a lifetime of work
>How do I make her my pal
……..
>If you're looking for an easy girl to settle
dude what the fuck are you talking? I'm not asking for help, you're projecting your betaness onto me
but if you read with attention on any of my post you won't see even a single drop where I'm craving for a gf or female attention
I've been doing this for years son, even the pdf at >>126260
says the same thing, live in delusion or take responsibility for being a beta cuck
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e48595 No.126314
>>126308
>>126307
>PUA is a massive coping mechanism
don't talk shit unless you understand what you're talking about
everybody who is remotely normal gets laid every once in a while, fuck there is 2 billion people on this earth and everyone of them was born from someone getting "laid"
>Since I got fit my success with girls increased tenfold
>If youre extroverted on top of that, you can fuck multiple girls a day
there are two different things at work there,
1. sure looks do help initially, but there is something behind it, motivation, getting fit takes work, it takes effort and perseverance, most chodes can't get fit, hell 90% of the population can't fit
2. just being extroverted won't get you laid but it also helps a fuck lot, you know why? being a social master who can talk with anyone anywhere, add to that he already had fucking abundance with girls and couldn't care less
learning pickup and mastering is not about losing your virginity, is about being able socialize, pick up attractive women, when you want and where you want it,
is you about being able to date around with several women at once and pick your favorite one as girlfriend IF you so choose
is the difference between just being some guy some girl is dating, or being a motherfucker who completely drove her mad with love and she can't even understand why
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d0830c No.126317
>>126314
nah, if you're good looking girls interact with you differently. I slept with two hot girls I met in the library of all places. When I sit next to them, I just ask them some stupid shit about whether they know when the library closes or whatever. If they are outside taking a break from studying I ask the girls how its going, what they are writing about etc. of course after they show interest by smiling at me. Normal socializing, small talk.
No frame or negging or establish worth or status or whatever those loser terms are called
>rawdogged some slut in a club after dancing behind her, made out for 5min then we went to the bathroom. Never talked a single word until after we had sex
>was in a relationship with two girls for over half a year, one girl new about the other and was ok with it
>had sex with a big titted 19 year old at a friend's wedding. She had a boyfriend, didnt find out about until after the fact
>hooked up with a tinder girl I met yesterday, had to cancel the date with another one who wanted to come by and get fucked. She explicitly texted me "yes fuck me"
The biggest slayers I know, and I know plenty because im a social guy with lots of friends, all have one thing in common. They are exceptionally good looking. Stoner types, classic jocks, tall hippie backpacking types with beards and long hair, robust buzzcut cutthroat finance guys with wide shoulders and square jaws. Lots of different personalities, you better believe they talk to girls differently.
It. Does. Not. Fucking. Matter. They are good looking and girls like that.
Work on your looks and get exposure to people, social interaction will follow. After a point you'll able to talk to people like a well-adjusted person.
Accept the fact that you wasted your youth in front of a pc and are perceived as weird for this reason. Get fit, better looking and people will want to interact with you.
PUA is a scam for ugly, insecure guys. The people teaching these "approaches" or whatever are heartless bastards exploiting unwitting losers.
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e48595 No.126319
Vimeo embed. Click thumbnail to play. >>126317
you guys don't seem know the fuck you're talking about, so let me give you history lesson, shall we?
in depths of the internet, when interest forum stuff start appearing around the world, of course one subject the alludes nearly everyone took popularity
> how to git gud with women?
so basement dwellers in the early 2000s came together, and started going out and dissecting every little detail of how they interacted with women
these nerds would go out get bombed repeatedly, and then try again some more until getting something that resembles success,
they would write their encounters in field reports and share and discuss with the community (which is more or less what I was trying to do here)
one of these nerds was nicknamed Mystery, he had found good success and started coaching
by using gimmicks like openers, magic tricks to get their attention, jokes, specifically lowering their self-stem with negs, they were trying to get it down to science, thus everything had a term attached to it
one of things he came with was peacocking, which is basically making you look like rock start or something stupid like that, the more ridiculous appearance you had, the better
some other dude called Neil Strauss took an interest in this community, started learning and even wrote a famous book, called The Game
and thus pick up artistry, or PUA became a thing,
yeah, I've read the book, yeah they even had a reality show, which I watched and was widely amused at the time
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e48595 No.126321
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. so this balding weird short man called Neil Strauss wrote a book about PUA,
and somehow it went best selling, men thought they finally brought down attraction to a science, women went wild with rage for being used with gimmicks
but back to the community, naturally it attracted all sorts of men looking to get better, from extreme basement dwellers virgins to highly successful naturals
in fact the term natural, while it was always sort of used like, became solidified as someone who is natural with women thanks to pua,
so some people would like to use all the gimmicks, while others would rather try all sorts of different things that you can't even imagine
Cold approach was one of those things that come up during these times, and that was basically to just approach women and talking without having anything planned at all, and just let it flow from within
my main point here(lrdr):
when someone mentions PUA, the gimmicks and tricks is what everyone thinks off, while that is certainly part of it and how it was born, it doesn't envelop all kinds of pickup
many segments of pickup, including the cold approach one, tried to forget about the artificial tricks and just tried to evolve into being natural, into getting real attraction
>>126317
the fuck you are not realizing, is that you already socially, aware, no one is saying that looks don't matter, it surely does help,
but if were a virgin who didn't know how to communicate with women, they would still just doze you off, look at what you said:
>im a social guy with lots of friends
>Stoner types
>hippie backpacking types with beards and long hair
>finance guys
can't you really see anything else in common here?
in the videos I posted above (several ones above), the guy talks quite a lot about this, whether you're a stoner retard who only cares about fucking women, or whether you're a highly successful guy who got everything sorted out in his life
both can have extreme game, be extremely attractive and get pussy wherever they want, and that comes to one thing, and its not looks, its BEHAVIOUR and CONFIDENCE
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da24a1 No.126322
>>126321
Woah, Nelly! The cope readings are off the charts!
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e48595 No.126323
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. and to expand even further on the history above, one of the nerds from that community who really pushed torwards cold approach was Owen from RSD, aka Tyler Durden (yes from the movie)
he hammered down on how to get natural, and that implies "Real Social Dynamics", not only how just to pick up girls, but mastering the dynamics of social interactions
and one of the reasons I like him so much is because of his background, as talked in embed video, like me he had to deal with all sorts of these mental disorders that we had to struggle with
and pretty much related to most guys who really don't have that much success with women, remembering that these where the guys that were major nerds and literally didn't know how to talk to women
and in analogy with /fit/, its like having that one part of your life which really sucks and you want to improve, so you have work on it
much like getting /fit/, just going out and talking to girls works, but reading on the subject and understanding the underlying mechanics helps a fuck lot
much like getting /fit/, its a long term effort, you wont get results in 1 week, the is no shortcut pill, and you won't get to a point where you can just stop practicing and expect to remain fit forever
>>126322
yeah, autism levels are over 9k, this is the kind of people where it originated from, the only reason I know this much is because I've following this for 6-7 years
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6efaf4 No.126326
>>126199
I'm tempted to post my face for a rate
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de7633 No.126327
>>126323
So you have been doing this bullshit for 7 years. How much pussy do you slay weekly?
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e55ad3 No.126328
What group could I join to meet women/people? I'm done with my education and their are no females at my job, so how do I go about meeting women besides randomly walking up to them. Side note, I refuse to try tinder or meet women through the guys I work with.
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da24a1 No.126337
>>126328
Local volunteer work? Church?
>Side note, I refuse to try tinder
Good man.
>or meet women through the guys I work with.
Why?
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ded633 No.126338
>>126328
Take a Salsa class, bro. Sit under a tree and read some Tolle maybe. I met my wife at the book shop, we were both reaching for the same Paulo Coelho book and that was it.
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da24a1 No.126339
>>126338
>I met my wife at the book shop, we were both reaching for the same Paulo Coelho book and that was it.
>TFW you will never experience this
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e48595 No.126344
>>126327
I've known this shit for 7 years,
to give a brief resumo da minha life:
> awkward teenager, but since its brazil public education, still hang out with the mischiefs
> I was literally metalhead, but gave in after 20s
> finally get laid with 21
> not extremely awkward with women anymore
> "ficar" with one of another every once in a while, but get laid like once a year in average
> got to know pickup through my brother more or less when I was 24,
> started really slow to be honest, reading once in a while, not taking it serious
> tried one brazillian coach, that really wasn't that much advanced but it was fun
> brother is more advanced so go live with him for a few months for intensive course
> get back and start working as waiter in a rock joint
> by this time I'm much more confortable around women, know how to approach, talk, getting some moderate success
> get fired from job and stick to dating some cute asian I was sleeping with
> gf wants serious relationship,
> proceeds to be a boyfriend for four fucking years
> break up with gf around this same month last year,
> we were falling apart, I wanted to break free, hardest thing I've ever done
> have 4 to 5 years without being anyone else, game completely sucks
> slowly start to go out try pickup again, I'm met with horrible failures and some occasional successes
> still poor and focusing through technical graduation, which I've finished just this year
> so since last year I've been nearly dating exclusively on apps like tinder
> recently though I've been met with very weird success
> one girl went completely nuts with my boner, we fucked in the car on a somewhat low traffic road, she unwillingly said she loves me
> one week later another also goes completely nuts, and agrees to go directly to the motel because she is busy
> also says she loves like one day later, neither of them wanted to use a condom
to be honest, I need to get off my ass and start going out specifically pickup,
online dating is ok but very unreliable, bitches will flake without any reason, and since they barely know you there is no reason for them to care
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e48595 No.126345
>>126328
just fyi, this exactly why I resort to pickup
most men, and I mean the big majority, will only meet new people through their social circle, either friends getting together, work, groups of people like you said (I have no clue, we don't have this here)
but as you can imagine, this is an incredible unreliable way for finding someone, specially someone who really suits you and looks good, (and likes you back too)
this is why people will be so quick to settle in relationships when they do find someone which they like,
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e48595 No.126346
>>126326
sure go ahead, it won't mean anything, but colombia guy already posted his…
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2f65c6 No.126355
>>126245
You'll get confirmed that they're calculating mean bitches who think of men as if they were dogs. They discuss all kinds of small details about other people including their bf and make plans for social interactions like it was a war or soccer game.
If you want to know why you're losing the game, it's because you have no strategy, no information and no allies. What girls do is as fake as it can get, picking clothes, make up and who to go out with to create the best impression of themselves. They're building teams and playing roles they decided before. Walking up and just trying to be alpha is how you become the prey. …and remember, if you somehow manage to get the upper hand and beat their planning accidentally, you'll be accused of rape, that's their last resort if they lose control - the legal system. It's all set up to turn you into a wagecuck with a knife to your throat if you try to resist.
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49e091 No.126357
>>126193
>tfw work and gym
>tfw too exhausted physically and mentally to even try my hand at dating
You youngfags enjoy the freedom you have now. At this point in my life I wouldn't be able to balance a love life with all the other shit I have going on if I tried.
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e48595 No.126362
>>126357
>able to balance a love life
you got it all wrong anon, having a gf is all to gain energy and inspiration, she can heal you with her feminine energy
that is if you are able to get a quality girl that doesn't leech energy off
but going out and getting gud does take time and energy
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e48595 No.126363
>>126355
I agree with everything except your last spoiler phrase
this just show that they know what the fuck they're doing, and that is essentially what pickup is, that is to know the rules and have game plan
but your last phrase just screams of beta cuck coming with excuses for not to take action
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e55ad3 No.126365
>>126337
>Local volunteer work? Church?
I work around 50 hours a week, so volunteering more of little free time I have wouldn't be worth it. As for church I'm an atheist.
<Why not through work?
Any of the girl that would associate with them would be more banged up then a Negros wife.
>>126338
>Salsa class
I'm uncoordinated and can easy described as "serious".
>Sit under a tree and read some
I do need to read more, but I can't see myself reading under a tree.
>>126355
Isn't this common knowledge?
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417e7c No.126371
>>126235
This question hasn't really been answered yet, and this is the biggest problem I have, not even exclusive to women, but meeting people in general.
>Just approach random girls and try to entertain them
Entertain them how? Dangle fucking keys in their face like a baby and they instantly have sex with you?
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ded633 No.126372
>>126371
>Dangle fucking keys in their face like a baby and they instantly have sex with you?
Pretty much
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a21158 No.126375
>but muh Tyler! muh Tyler!
Heh, I was big into RSD couple years ago, kinda helped me in some ways (motivated me to star exercising, introduced me to meditation), but ended up fucking up every interaction I had because I kept thinking about their stupid "high concepts" so I stopped watching their stuff and took it easy just having fun conversations and friends.
Talking to women is easy, if it's too much pressure talking to some on the street, then get on some activity (some class or so) where you can speak to some, just don't be a perfectionist and don't expect every conversation to be amazing or to lead to something, hell, don't even try to be funny, just speak. Also, try getting into a course where there are younger girls, they usually are interested in older guys so you'd had an advantage.
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2f65c6 No.126385
>>126363
There is a difference in goals here, you want a one night stand to feel like a part of society, THEY want a man as a personal slave paying their bills while they keep partying.
Don't say I didn't warn you when you're stuck paying child support while still being alone and miserable. The only difference to now is that you'll have your salary and self esteem halved. You think it's worth it? Go on. That's the truly pathetic part of this board - exercising to get attention from females. You're measuring yourself by the feminist standard, trying this hard to become one of the "normie cucks" you hate. This board would be better off just discussing how to exercise without this constant confirmation of your own hopeless attitudes. By the spoilered part in the last post was implied you need to work to change that legislation, you will never be successful alone without support from the greater society. Form a male version of the suffragette movement and cause a mess until people listen instead. They were basically 50 year old female virgins who had nothing to lose. You think this will ever be over with less? On the up side, men are still fertile at age 50.
But as long as you keep going along with feminism nothing will change.
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e48595 No.126406
>>126375
>but ended up fucking up every interaction I had because I kept thinking about their stupid "high concepts"
you got it wrong here, what "high concepts" are you talking about?
Tyler specifically hammers down on enjoying the ride and having fun
its a balance between going objectively for your goals while also getting happy with small victories
>and took it easy just having fun conversations and friends
I've said this before itt, the difference between a regular cool and someone focused on pickup is just not depending on social circle to meet new girls/people
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e48595 No.126407
>>126385
>THEY want a man as a personal slave paying their bills while they keep partying
you got it wrong mate, I've personally been kept as a boyfriend gigolo, staying at home with vidya while girlfriends works the big bucks,
I've nearly ever pay stuff for girls, and when I do its like a treat for them
>You think it's worth it? Go on
the fuck are you on this retarded rant about? what are you doing then? just being alone until your male hymen grows again?
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e48595 No.126408
there are girls that learn how to leech energy from men, pic related is a example of this, I've recorded her off chaturbate a while back
thing is, she is young and attractive, her inherent "value" is so great that even chads will fall head over heels for her,
so she discover she has this supernatural power and learns how to behave sweet and cute so chodes will perceive like a pretty doll
then she can leech off energy or whatever she wants from this guy, or in this case, leech money from her viewers, a literal succubus
this is the same skill set prostitutes have to make their clientele confortable, and its the same thing mentioned here >>126242
meanwhile, most girls are just average and want some chad to make her sexually full and have babbies,
there are actually pretty hot babes that have high self value and to meet just an equally high value man,
but she attracts so much male attraction that she needs to behave like utter bitch to weed out the cuck betas
that's something you need to realize, that even remotely attractive girls get flooded with attention wherever the hell they go
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2f65c6 No.126410
>>126407
Latin america isn't my focus, you're doing ok from what I know.
I'm more concerned with the future of the white race. Nothing will get better because some retards get a one night stand. All of society will have to change, especially Europe and USA. A western society-wide cultural and political revolution is needed.
>inb4 keep /pol/ crap in /pol/
The way many posters on this board are sucking up to feminism IS political even if you don't realize it or want to admit it.
I'm all for fitness - obviously - but don't fucking get in shape for women, you're working your ass off for free to please someone you don't even know. That's the peak of self cucking.
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e48595 No.126419
>>126410
>Latin america isn't my focus, you're doing ok from what I know.
yeah, back to /pol/ you go
I'm fully white, you're to ignorant to realize, but the only reason brazillian people are noted as so attractive is the the intense mixing of races that goes on,
its so ingrained in our culture, that brazillian can be considered a race of its own, and its one of the things that are good in this god forsaken place
>but don't fucking get in shape for women
but I agree with on this though, you should improve your life for yourself, and thats what pickup is all about
the only reason I we didn't grow up as men is because we didn't have real men as role models to being with, because of divorce/modern life/ whatever else crap
the bigger picture behind pickup learning to behave like a true man
David Deida's book is called this for a reason
> the way of the superior man
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c489d9 No.126428
>>126419
>but the only reason brazillian people are noted as so attractive is the the intense mixing of races that goes on,
And I'm sure that's the reason pure-blooded Scandinavians are considered some of if not the most attractive people in the world.
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ff9825 No.126436
>>126419
>I'm fully white, you're to ignorant to realize, but the only reason brazillian people are noted as so attractive is the the intense mixing of races that goes on
No, that's the Portuguese/German/Italian ancestry, healthy diet and vitamin D.
Negrid/Injun admixture = stupidity, ugliness and degeneracy
>>126419
>one of the things that are good in this god forsaken place
Wew. I would reckon that the good aspects are the sandy beaches and fresh coconuts, not the favela monkeys or jungle cannibals.
>>126428
probably northern Italians.. Scandis popular as well though
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fd4a09 No.126442
>>126419
You're the same fag talking about 'muh dick' in another thread.
Sorry bro, you're not white, and you stink.
You can tell people to go back to /pol/ but you just betray jealously with your intense desire to be accepted as "fully white".
Whatever the fuck that means for a Brazilian.
Also. I'm married, you guys hang in there, you'll make it eventually.
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63c729 No.126444
>>126419
>Amazonian monkey
>fully white
lolno, just because Portugal cucked the indigenous males with sum BWC for a good few generations doesn't mean you got rid of your nigger roots, if anything you're probably just a very light skin mulatto due to generations of mulatto on mulatto breeding
>the only reason brazillian people are noted as so attractive
only Brazilian women are considered generally attractive, the men not so much
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fd4a09 No.126447
>>126444
Same generally goes for most Asians.
They either look like total mongoloids, or they just look like femmy bitches.
Which is why Brazil is so rampant with Trannies.
I'd bet my life this "fully white" Brazil nut has dipped his wick in more Tranny ass than real women.
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b4dece No.126493
>>126199
As a former PUA who's still dating a lot but without this bs of "Pick Up Artist", I confirm this guy.
Practice in real life and you will learn a lot more. A LOT!
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cea3df No.126494
>>126260
what the fuck?? just make them laugh and make them feel good about themselves. girls are easy man.
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4acb1e No.126502
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. Jesus, no one's posted Patrice "you could be missing a foot and still get a bitch" O'neal yet? This guy is a gift from above. Some of the shit is degenerate, but overall the foundational advice is sound and works wonders.
>>126494 is right too, being funny works, and it makes up for a lot.
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e48595 No.126528
thanks, pol derailed yet another thread
>>126428
>And I'm sure that's the reason pure-blooded Scandinavians
the only reason nords and slavs are so attractive is because of the intense raping and pillaging that occurred in their tribal days (eg mixing)
>>126436
sure keep being delusional
> Wew. I would reckon that the good aspects are the sandy beaches and fresh coconuts
not the sandy beaches per se, but weather and natural aspects are great too, but we are shitting up the place…
>>126442
>You're the same fag talking about 'muh dick' in another thread.
nope
>>126444
>if anything you're probably just a very light skin mulatto due to generations of mulatto on mulatto breeding
nope, I have to reason to lie, I rather wish I had some mixed genes on me,
>only Brazilian women are considered generally attractive, the men not so much
pic related, as if being a green eyed/brown skin/fit thug was a bad thing…
greats trips, and btw, most of the shit that is brazil is thanks to the portuguese colonization, so yeah
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e48595 No.126530
>>126493
>Practice in real life and you will learn a lot more. A LOT!
and where the fuck does it say that you should practice in real life?
its like giving advice to study fitness but never actually going to work out…
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3a836d No.126531
>>126528
>solid line of huehuehue samefag posting
>muh dick muh dick
Pol strikes again.
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b03ab6 No.126532
>>126531
It's /pol/, Newfag.
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2f65c6 No.126534
>>126528
>>126531
>pol
>Pol
>strikes again
It's not like you've seen it happen before, stop pretending.
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31614f No.126568
>>126323
>>126321
>>126319
post evidence you have fucked hot girls.
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31614f No.126569
>>126344
so after all this BS you only got two or three whores who sucked your dick.
wow.
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d90bc0 No.126602
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e48595 No.126630
>>126602
kek, saw found that same video a couple of weeks back, pretty funny
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991a3d No.126631
Being a robot is the only way to preserve my testosterone levels.
Why would anyone want to be depleted of it by some semen demon?
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e48595 No.126633
>>126631
>Why would anyone want to be depleted of it by some semen demon?
>women depletes testosterone
is this the new /fit/ meme?
>>126569
>so after all this BS you only got two or three whores who sucked your dick.
so I got into abundance with woman, from which I chose the one I wanted to be in a loving long term relationship, and that is what you get from that?
pic related is my happn profile, don't be fooled though from that 100 of matches only like half of them I even had a conversation with, I maybe went out with four or five(?)
but online dating has a much worse side to it, which I'm going to go into more detail later and is why I'm trying to stop using it and go out more
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991a3d No.126637
>>126633
>is this the new /fit/ meme?
Maybe. But I really don't find necessary to waste time, money and energy on something so futile as chicks.
When I will want to pass my genes to new offspring, then I will search for a loyal slav wife on Elena's Models.
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466d18 No.126648
This thread is cancer and I hope everyone who posted here dies tonight, including me
Also I hope it gets deleted
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662945 No.126649
I'm starting to run out of shit to talk about with my girlfriend because all she ever does is work at her shitty job or watch TV. Sometimes she gets bullied at work, which gives me the opportunity to go,
>It's okay baby, tell me about it bla bla bla
But other times, it's just
>What are you doing right now?
>Listening to music
>Watching TV
>Nothing
I try asking about the shit she's watching and take it from there, but the conversation always just dissolves into nothing.
She's a fucking normalfag like 99% of girls but she's cute AF and sweet when she's actually talking so I don't wanna drop her anytime soon. Plz help me make smalltalk, /fit/.
One more thing, sometimes she opens up a chance for more intimate conversations by calling herself "ugly". I usually take the bait and say she's pretty, then she'll ignore me and change topic or just smile and kiss me. What's a good way to respond to that so I can drag it out longer?
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e48595 No.126650
>>126568
I'm not a pua professional, I don't go out with a crew recording my every move
but fair enough, recently girls have been keen on sending nudes so might as well share few stories
as pic related shows, this was back in may, was just getting back from over training,
actually met this girl on Okcupid and she quickly pickup conversation,
so she is actually has a very ugly face (not so bad personally but horrible in the pictures), short ~26 yo womenlet, but with a surprisingly amazing curvy body
her tits where so fucking perky and tight, that I'm still wondering if they were fake or not
so we quickly schedule a date out, she dressed up pretty nicely, she was actually very shy and nerdy which was why I wanted to meet her (shared interests)
so in the date she took a while and talk really quietly, but eventually opened up about her self,
turns out she ~26 but had only recently lost her virginity in a previous relationship earlier in the same year
a bottle of wine later and we decide to leave the venue to another place, walking the street I can just easily grab and kiss
we sit at the back of my car and start making out, her tits eventually come out and I go crazy with a raging boner
but this was in the back of parked car in somewhat movemented street, I couldn't go much further there
so by this point mine and her excitement levels were through the roof, it was getting late but we just wanted more
at this point I started driving her home, but luck me remembered one motel by the way and went in,
note something important here, very rarely a woman will look at you and admit "drive me to the motel now",
its up to the man to notice she is getting aroused and its up to the man to take action, most girls will never fucking admit to that
so when I'm getting into the love she starts going defensive like "I will never do anything like that" "this is our only first date" and shit like
I just reply with "yeah yeah, its cool babe, we're just going to hang out"
and of course since she only being with one other guy before this is indeed fucking weird for her, and she is afraid of being called a slut
so at this point, she is already crazy with me, I only need to make her comfortable and show her its okay that I won't think any less of her
so we start making out, I take my clothes off and she soon follows, we are making out, I'm fingering her, she gives oral (and sucks at it, virgins suck)
and even where completely naked, basically ready to have sex, she keeps saying "its so weird, not on our first date" its stuck on her head,
and that's because society and her friends kept hammering her whole life, that if you want to keep a man you can't give in your precious hole on the first, so thanks to cucks
so at some point she even gave in to the will to get fuck, but at which time I already had spent both condoms I had with me
at the end I wasn't able to fuck her precious tight hole (and oh boy it was so tight), after all I do have a conscious and wasn't that horny to break the poor girl having raw sex on the first date
we kept talking for the following weeks and that's she sent these nudes, unfortunately we kept flaking and didn't end up meeting again
she probably was thinking I just wanted to fuck her one time, and I probably was wanting exactly that
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e48595 No.126652
>>126650
fast forward some time, this must be near the end of july,
I had this match for a fuck long time, got her number but she never really gave me much attention on texting,
decide to give it another try, she replies not even remembering who I was, but so happens she was going out later that day and wanted to meet
I was not really feeling up to it, feeling lazy and all, but she asks again, and a lesson of life, every fucking opportunity to go on a date, just fucking go, you never know what will happen
I met her already kinda late, she was watching a movie with a friend, so I take her to one my favorite places and she refuses to go in, turns out she felt she was badly dressed for the place
she lives really fucking far away, so we go some cheaper place somewhat closer to her, it was already pretty late, date wasn't looking that good at the time
finally we can sit down drink some beers and talk, the place actually wasn't that bad and I was able to quickly get physical with her
it just one of those things, she was also very timid, small perky and cute, things I just adore, kissing her felt sparks were flying and I soon got a raging boner
this is what we call chemistry, its something in the way the person behaves that will drive you crazy
the mood was pretty good, but it was late and places were closing, we still wanted to do some, but she was aware of how far she lives and asked to go closer to her home
I really didn't expect much, I wanted to drop by some place and just chill and make out some more, but she was obviously holding up
so drove like nearly an hour till we got near her home, like one block away and she told it was ok to chill there, we start making out and things heated very quickly
I got a raging boner and when she noticed it made her even crazier, soon clothes were starting to go off,
she asks me if I have a condom, of course I do, so we drove off and tried to find a quiet road,
she is not really that smart and drove me to a road, that is kind of offset, but not really quiet, like all major traffic to the town passed through there,
but still we got to the back sit and she went from shy to succubus pretty quickly,
fucking in a car can be hot, but its pretty damn uncomfortable, specially the city sized cars we have
she gives me head, she literally rams me down to suck on her too, fucked a while with the condom, but thing starts to get dry and I can barely feel anything with it
so succubus starts sucking me off again and seduces me to fuck without a condom, I was craving for raw pussy since breaking up with gf last year so I can't resist much
finally we get a breather, windows are all blurry from condensation, there was traffic all along, but when we were getting ready to leave another car stops by and reverse to us asking if its alright,
now normally, this wouldn't be a problem in most countries, but where I was, in brazil at 4 in the morning, there was a high risk, of being someone wanting to rob/murder/kidnap us
finally we get back to her house, and she starts coming up with all these crazy rants, "its not like me to do something like this" "I must be drunk" "I was saving myself for someone special"
and that rationalization crap, I talked earlier on the thread, and basically the same thing with the other girl, she is just afraid of being called a whore and because of that she doesn't enjoy herself
but obviously this was something pretty alien to her, she probably never did anything like that before, we make out some more and at some point she even told me she loved me
crazy right?
somewhat unrelated, but on my way back, that was this little stretch of country road without illumination, and I nearly hit cattle crossing the road, cattle in the dark of all things
and fyi, hitting a cow at 80 km/h is pretty deadly
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991a3d No.126654
>>126648
Non frega a un cazzo di nessuno cosa speri.
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31614f No.126656
>>126649
women are not mentally equal to males in terms of having motivations to be someone in life (except alpha females, but they're rare) or intelligence (IQ and logic).
most women never evolve from being teenagers (that's when their brain matures).
also most women personality make them basically easily influenced into being sheeps following the herd.
You fell for the feminist bluepill.
What you should do is to keep your bitch under your command, make her feel safe by knowing you're THE MAN in the house and keeping your bitch under control.
Most women are not mentally prepared to be free and a lot of them feel safer and happier when they're not in control of the relationship.
So take your bitch, control her and influence her into being whatever shit you want her to be.
BE A REAL MAN.
Just shape her into a proper wife, teach her some hobbies, maybe make her interested in cooking or sewing clothes.
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958ff6 No.126688
>>126649
>. What's a good way to respond to that so I can drag it out longer?
She's inviting you for intimacy of the more physical persuasion, saying she's pretty is the wrong answer. The right answer is to pursue physical intimacy instead, how you go about doing that without fucking up is on you but just saying "she's pretty" is not the right answer. Next time bring her close and slowly start to advance to each base well saying sexy things and trying to seduce her instead.
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b7c244 No.126697
>>126649
I'm having the same problems with mine however i could hardly care about the problems that women in general have at work because it is all the same shit.
>X did Y
>X said this about Y today
And to be quite fair she's definitely a normalfag, but has swallowed a few red pills among other things :^). I feel like finding someone that isn't a normalfag is as difficult as questing for the grail. Does yours ever feel motivated to do anything other than what you mentioned?
>>126656
>Just shape her into a proper wife, teach her some hobbies, maybe make her interested in cooking or sewing clothes.
Easier said than done friendo. I've been trying for the past year to shape her into a proper wife, but they also have to be willing to be shaped. And honestly it has been a fucking waste of the last year. Do not use tinder to ever start a relationship fairly self explanatory, and i've learned my lesson as it will always end in bullshit.
>Be me, meet cute gril on tindr
>Mutual friends is a bonus, go to meet at the bar for an event
>Barely speak to each other
>Still hit it off?
>Bang the next day
>Relationship 1 month later
That's where i fucked up, thinking it couldn't be bad. Pussy constantly? Sure. I had gone through quite a bad spell, but this ultimately worked against me.
>She stays over every other night
>This increases and so does drug intake
>Move out, to move in a place with her because shit happened have my honest doubts if it was planned
>5 months roll by
>Realise i wasted 6 fucking months and money with this chick
>6 more months go by
>Cutting any loose threads with her, before i leave her so nothing will come back on me
Every other day i tried to get her into some hobby, to no avail. She continues to be sucked into normie social media for no better reason other than to be with the current fads and wasting literal days on it. I've done interventions, laid down ultimatums one of which she finally broke, turned her life a full 180 degrees around. I've been taken advantage of and i hope this lesson helps other anons not fall for this shit. DO NOT FIX ALREADY BROKEN WOMEN! it will never be worth it.
To be fair i've turned now to /fit/ for help, to learn, get bigger, become a better male for peers and potential mates.
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31614f No.126703
>>126697
just be honest with her.
Tell her how you feel and that is time to break.
better get a better girl than become old with a girl you don't find interesting.
better do it now before she get pregnant.
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ded633 No.126712
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e48595 No.126716
>>126656
>What you should do is to keep your bitch under your command, make her feel safe by knowing you're THE MAN in the house and keeping your bitch under control.
>Most women are not mentally prepared to be free and a lot of them feel safer and happier when they're not in control of the relationship.
Colombia man almost said something of worth, he is sort of right on some things, this is why I recommended David Deida earlier in the thread, while doesn't talk on pickup specifically he talks about polarity and how to be a man, and that made a huge change on my game that I can't even describe
basically, there is a masculine and feminine polarities, masculine is objective, feminine is emotion
so while the masculine is always seeking a goal and going for logical thinking, the feminine is all waves of emotions that goes around with it,
an famous analogy is that the feminine is the ocean always waving with motion, while the masculine is the boat on top of it trying to get somewhere
both sexes will have both polarities at each given time, but each person will usually prefer a extreme of polarity,
obviously men usually preferring to be masculine and women preferring to be feminine
when both polarities exist in a couple attraction happens, opposites attract and all that crap (true crap)
so what happens is that women can become masculine, due to work, modern day life and whatever, but they still prefer to be feminine, thus the teenager mentality our friend described
so the true is that women still want to be feminine but they need to thrust the man to still be solid through their wave of crazy emotions
and most of all, they want you to show your desire physically, words barely matter truly
>>126688
>She's inviting you for intimacy of the more physical persuasion, saying she's pretty is the wrong answer. The right answer is to pursue physical intimacy instead
so what canada said right here was spot on, women will pretty often start talking shit and nagging, but the response they're looking have nothing to do with what they're complaining about,
just ride her emotion and show you're still the man the fell in love with
eg: some people will complain about this illogical behavior, but truly this is wildly amusing for a true men, it can be a form of attraction itself and can even heal your energies, and for me personally I find it really adorable when they go into this crazy mode
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e48595 No.126717
>>126697
>DO NOT FIX ALREADY BROKEN WOMEN! it will never be worth it.
same advice as the above,
women correspond to encouragement and emotions,
so siting down with her and having a logical conversation is the worst thing you could do
but instead go about on how you like find her attractive after doing cardio, or fucking her bones out when she did good, that encourages her good behaviour
but yeah, don't ever try to get broken girls and fix them,
on of the most disgusting things I've read on these threads is people wanting to get an average normie and try to get her to become hot,
you really cannot change people that far unless they want to
do what colombia says, go for a clean brake before its too late
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79011f No.126718
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9d9353 No.126879
ok, I'm back niggas, here to share another story, as something very weird has happened recently
short after the previous adventure of >>126652
start talking with, again she was an older match which I really haven't talked that much before,
however this time she was extremely receptive and inviting,
she was taking a one week trip and was pretty much wanting to see me soon as possible,
enticing me with lewd talk and firs pic related,
so turns out she is 22 yo, single mother, recently separated from her husband for whatever reason,
kind of a simple gettho girl of sorts, she mentioned being really aroused and even masturbating for me
so because she depends on others to take of care the of the kid, she literally can't go on a date or even spend too much,
so we end up deciding not to waste time a literally go to the motel at once, needless this was extremely weird for me,
picking up a random girl from dating app, on a wednesday afternoon, and going to a love hotel literally minutes after meeting her
I took a bottle of wine to break the ice, mostly for my own enjoyment,
I was actually pretty nervous, so was she at first, but she got excited pretty quickly,
funny thing to note here, she was super aggressive, but what women think is aggressive is just opening up their legs and saying "come in"
which is totally different from an actual active and seductive woman, she pretty just stood there and waited for me to make a move
so it didn't take too long, we start fucking each other brains out, everything included, sluts are the best, giving great, cumming while riding me, fuck yeah
she even gave the oggly eyes, wanting my raw dick, it is really fucking weird and scary, what tyler says in one of these videos I posted above
> when the girl likes you, she does not care if you use a condom or not, or even explicitly ask you not to use it
and I'm fuck weak man who craves raw pussy, the second time I met with her I just couldn't resist and came a fuck huge load inside her
she was also lewd as fuck, wanting to suck off in the car, wanting anal and some more depraved shit
and she really went batshit crazy for me pretty quickly, like the weekend after we first met, she got drunk with friends, then sent me back text on who much she loved, that she liked it a lot
after that she pretty much went all head in, calling me love and sending texts all the time, I was starting to get a bit worried but didn't mind the attention
eventually came up the subject if I was talking to other women, I was honest with her and said yes, I just didn't mention about how many
she accepted it but of course, wasn't that excited about it, soon after on last saturday, we were supposed to meet, and kinda have the first proper date, where I would take her out, drink some and fuck her bones out
however the papa didn't go take care of the boy, and she also wasn't very talkative, yesterday we end talking and I found out she was going on vacation with another single dad for a whole week
week as fuck, but at least I think its clean break, yesterday I was about to go on a similar adventure with fucking hot girl, so looking forward if that one works out
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1f9d9f No.126882
>>126879
>is a single mother
Uh oh.
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1f9d9f No.126885
>>126697
>This increases and so does drug intake
Wait, were you taking drugs or was she?
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315ac1 No.126887
>>126697
Wtf is this, why do you want her to have a hobby? Hobbies are useless activities you waste time and money on, you're trying to turn her into someone with the mindset of a single nerdy guy. First off you can't do it because hobbies you find yourself out of boredom or interest, secondly from what you write she's not someone who has hobbies like that and you should've figured this out by now.
>X did Y and talked shit about Z
That's how women talk and act. The moment someone leaves the room they start scheming against them by talking shit to make them look bad in front of others. They NEED to stay alert on what is happening daily or they'll risk losing social position and will end up bullied.
Women don't stand up and fight, they turn people against you in a way to not let you know who did it to you. This is not nothing, it's extremely important. It looks like you don't have a clue what you're doing with her or how women functions.
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1ff7f6 No.126890
Fuck this gay thread
You guys are going to get into college (if you haven't already, whatever) and notice that every single girl for more than half of each semester is wearing booty shorts EVERYWHERE, or skirts and leggings and might as well be walking around naked and you won't have the slightest fucking chance, despite the wide ratio of women to men. You can be muscular, and have perfect symmetry, even a car and nice amount of style and clothes and never even see more skin than the occasional low hanging tank top. You have to be a fucking frat with access to a 40% ABV liquor on Fridays and a 50% ABV liquor on Saturdays, enough proper steroid use to make a sports team, and just enough confidence to say "Hello" and talk about shit you can't fucking stomach to talk about that'll make you want to tear your fucking ears off. You have to wear wife beaters or t's with the sleeves cut off, a hat backwards, listen to slow mind numbing rap, be black or asian, and/or have a nice car and flawless skin and tanned tone if you want something like girls to be easy.
These girls wear clothes you can tell they've collected from previous one-night stands and boyfriends (like one girl I've seen wearing a fucking Rooster Teeth shirt). Most of these girls are trying to sever their hometown relationships and use that boyfriend as leverage on other guys as something more interesting about themselves. But these girls are just as interesting as a box of nails in the garage. Until they're in their fucking mid 20's do women start lowering their standards to realistic expectations and start wising up to to the real world that's about to destroy the last thing they have of worth, which is the remaining outer beauty they have. And I'm not trying to be sexist, this is just how it is.
Women make it incredibly easy for the men who have to work absolutely effortlessly to get the pussy. And they all make it opposing difficult for men who have to try as hard to make it with women they not only think they'll get along with, but maybe share love with instead of a one-night stand of nothing but filling a hole these girls' fathers and uncles couldn't. And if the girl is throwing herself at you, you're in a red zone, get the fuck out immediately.
Walk with confidence and swagger, be a gentleman, be nice but don't let people take that for granted, be a little teasing at times like making the girl notice that you're purposefully making her have to open the door that is quickly closing; don't make them think by telling them the truth, you have to actually dumb down the way you think and make them realize what's true and false by telling them the polar opposite; you should try suffering through the latest bullshit music and movies (from rap to maybe even things like the Emoji Movie, good thing we have streaming and pirating and don't have to fuck with wasting money on garbage yeah?).
>I know what the fuck I'm talking about here. I've had girls throw themselves at me, reject me on every ground possible, and wet themselves over my sight, hate my guts and still want to fuck my brains out, throw themselves at me to lose their virginity; lately girls have been giving me a mixture of gross and hungry looks - I've been around women my entire fucking love and have been admiring them since before I was in Kindergarten.
I love women, a whole fucking lot. But they're still people, and can be just as ugly and terrible as anyone else if they put in the effort, or no effort. I love my life and future more than any pussy and nice body can afford to give me. It's plain and simple. I work out so that someday I can fuck these little 18 and 19 year old bimbos, but that doesn't mean I give a shit about what they think, especially when they think just like everybody else. And DO NOT under any circumstance, EVER, show in public that you are aware of this stuff we're saying in this thread and treat women who might disgust you or annoy you in any negative way WHATSOEVER. Those men we talk so badly about will jump at the fucking chance to shove your face and ego in the ground or, in most cases, size you up with passive aggressiveness if they can make that 'sexist' guy look like shit and gain the upper-hand attention of any Stacey within a 25ft radius. It's a fucking jungle and these people treat it like so and no one has the brass to speak up about a damn thing without coming off as some asshole with a tiny dick in their mouth.
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1ff7f6 No.126891
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9d9353 No.126892
>>126882
>Uh oh.
whats your problem now?
even though she had quite the skinny body
>>126887
>Hobbies are useless activities you waste time and money on, you're trying to turn her into someone with the mindset of a single nerdy guy.
wrong, do you even know hobbies are?
girls have hobbies too, my ex for example, and most of the chubby female population, had to hobby of reading ero novels
basically chick porn
>>126890
you just made your point why should indeed never get laid…
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1ff7f6 No.126895
>>126892
I've only ever had a girlfriend and for only two years.
She was hot as fuck, petite as fuck, horny as fuck, and always dtf.
Now she's a mommy and still working near minimum wage with the daddy at the same job.
And fyi, milf's regain their tightness after a while from birth.
Women aren't worth it, stop trying to argue against this.
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d95fa9 No.126898
Shii– I dunno guys. I'm an old-fag and not a virgin. But I understand it's hard out there. When I was younger, there wasn't all that feminist talk. Seems like simpler times. I apologize because this is going to get long. If you're not interested in casual sex - if you're looking for something more like "love" or companionship, then I'll try to offer my advice.
>Pursue personal excellence above all else.
Be in love with achievement even more than you love a person or yourself. Respect yourself. Hold yourself to a certain standard and expect the same from the people close to you. This is important to find a decent female with good character. It'll cause you way less problems further down the line. Believe it or not, there are women who have strong morals. And I don't care what females say, if they're willing to be in love with you, they will slowly adjust to you. But ONLY IF you can win their respect. By all rights, you will have to make some compromises yourself as well. It's only fair.
>Be attractive by acting attractive.
Your social presentation counts toward your attractiveness. Build it the same way you do anything. Be more self-aware and start watching people. As a complete autist from a young age, it took me a lot of practice to seem "normal". Try to learn how to be interesting, funny, and whatever it is people do. Know what is presentable about yourself and what isn't. Some of you might say that this is underhanded bullshit. I say no. Your refusal to work on your outward presentation on all levels is why you're here. Grow up and deal with it.
Once you have this part down, and assuming your looks are in order, you can get some sex. Good job, you have pussy. And sometimes getting a gf is as easy as that.
>Don't give all of yourself.
When you don't have enough to offer someone past the initial attraction, you lose the relationship. Pursue your goals with passion. Maintain your personal hobbies and time. Do the mature thing and respect your life. She may leave eventually, but you're stuck with your own life until you die.
>Try your best to understand them.
I know the joke is that it's impossible. It's really not. Try to imagine every female as just a guy to look beyond their ass and tits to find their merits. Females have their own female codes and life functions. Make friends and ask females what they think of other specific females. Even when they may be just jealous, what they have to say can still be valuable. You may notice things you never have before.
>Know what you want.
High standards is better than no standards. Btw, it's not always a good idea to look for a girl who likes what you like. Knowing that we are on this board for sharing Cambodian cave paintings, do you really want some awful female version of you? For example, I used to think nerdy girls are great until I realized that they're usually insecure and have issues with their femininity.
Oh and stay away from stereotyping females. You'll miss their true colors. Treasures are hidden in all "types". Nobody is truly a "type" so stop trying. Look for quality in character above all.
TL;DR - There's no magic formula or method. Work on yourself, flirt around a bit, and the right one will come along.
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550cff No.126899
>>126898
>Try to imagine every female as just a guy to look beyond their ass and tits to find their merits.
>Oh and stay away from stereotyping females. You'll miss their true colors. Treasures are hidden in all "types". Nobody is truly a "type" so stop trying. Look for quality in character above all.
>Implying stereotypes and categorisation aren't based on reality
Anon, I…
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9d9353 No.126928
>>126898
>Shii– I dunno guys. I'm an old-fag and not a virgin. But I understand it's hard out there. When I was younger, there wasn't all that feminist talk. Seems like simpler times. I apologize because this is going to get long. If you're not interested in casual sex - if you're looking for something more like "love" or companionship, then I'll try to offer my advice.
> tl;dr
anon… just say the truth, you didn't even read the fucking thread
>>126895
>I've only ever had a girlfriend and for only two years.
>She was hot as fuck, petite as fuck, horny as fuck, and always dtf.
I'm lost in your point….
I can only imagine fucking a hot loving girl must be really boring…
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315ac1 No.126949
>>126890
>>126898
>/fit/
>blackpilled wall-of-text rants about whiteknighting and feminism
Then you tell me to go back to /pol/ for trying to bring up solutions. Isn't this a self improvement board? Nothing here is helping anyone as it is now.
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1ff7f6 No.126954
>>126949
implying women help
this entire thread is toxic and the only cool thing about it is the tits
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9d9353 No.127021
okay took a long as while to reply because I'm tired honestly
>>126949
yeah right? I don't understand what these fuckers are sperging about
there is plenty of good information already here, not to mention video embeds
like the oral or mental health threads, there is good enough autismo stuff if one cares to read it
the reason why I got into pickup is because there is this area of my life that I wanted to improve
eg, its part of a fulfilling man's life to be good with women and satisfied sexually, hell its part of any human to want to socially satisfied
>>126954
>implying women help
so I don't really get comments like this, might as well just turn gay at this point
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8b1e6c No.127025
Lets go basic.
You mostly need to consider:
<Does she actually make your life feel better in a sane and consistent manner?
<Can she be a cause of problems?
If any of those questions do not get the answer they should, she isn't worth your time. Maybe a fuck, but don't risk attachment or wasting time.
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40f416 No.127026
I went through an engaging train of thought today so I might as well share it with you monkeyniggers:
I received a text from my ex today, after 3-4 years of silence. Last thing I wrote her was that I hate her. Anyway, she said she found some old stuff of mine while moving in between places. Initially, I didn't want to reply because I women rarely just "show up" after years for such innocuous reasons. And btw, who needs old t-shirts and similar crap. Then I realized the stuff partially belongs to my mom and I couldn't live with the thought of my ex throwing away my mom's shit. So I replied and agreed with her to send it to my address.
But this isn't really about her. It's about the trip down memory lane her message has sent me on. I cried like a megafaggot. I was reminded me of my old "me" from way back when I haven't yet left humanity behind. From when I was still able to care about another human bean. I used to go on walks, send good night text messages and shave my face. A Ted Mosby type of faggot.The type of guy to call a bitch back. But today, all this sense of humanity in me has gone. Years of growing up, getting "red pilled" on various things, losing family have made me a cynic that doesn't expect a lot from people anymore, nor care a lot for them.
Despite being glad about all the shit I learned in this process, I sometimes miss the naivety which allowed me to pursue the more normalfaggy things in life without overanalyzing them. I don't want my ex back but I miss that willingness to believe in the magic of romance which is now gone. Once you have dehumanized yourself and faced the bloodshed, there's no going back anymore.
Excuse me while I go wear my sunglasses at night.
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550cff No.127030
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9d9353 No.127034
>>127025
>You mostly need to consider:
consider the following instead
> going so long without sex that your dick literally rots
> going so long without sex that you're technically a virgin again
> being such a sissy that you will stutter and literally jizz your pants when talking a hot girl
> being actually pic related or having to resort to gay sex
and to counter your argument
>Does she actually make your life feel better in a sane and consistent manner?
if you meet someone with whom you have got chemistry and can become friends and trust,
is is indeed one of the best consistent things of life
first, for consistently having sex without condoms and needing to worry about it, intimacy also only makes things better
second, having someone to just chill on the times that you're tired, company for being bored is the best, literally netflix and chill
third, loyalty, believe it or not, loving partners are loyal as fuck, and that goes for women most of all, knowing she will be there even if you don't meet all the time
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96b070 No.127045
>>127026
That shit can be applied to pretty much everything.
The moment yo urealize how the world actually works, all that childish naivety is gone forever.
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8b1e6c No.127046
>>127034
You didn't counter anything. You just went into detail.
What I said includes all that shit. I'll assume you miss-wrote.
And I don't know if you were trying to lecture me, you were a bit strange with your post. But I was a fat ass that as soon as I got into normal weight range I managed to lose my virginity (at 18), and I've been getting my dick wet without long dry spells ever since. And my country isn't like Brasil, where every disgusting retard manages to get laid because the women are fucking easy as long as you even pretend to be extroverted.
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6d4637 No.127078
>>126371
Bumping for a serious answer to this. How do normies approach total strangers in a non-social setting without coming off as a weirdo?
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1ff7f6 No.127082
>>127021
Start off bi, going full gay is liking whipping a car 180 without the parking breaks and throwing yourself into a toddler's playroom. Build up a small desire for cum and then maybe a little cuck shit, and then you'll have enough courage to get rejected by women when you realize how easy it is to get with someone your own sex and it's like your insides feel like you've just stolen something valuable for the first time ever, and you didn't get caught.
People can only assume.
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1ff7f6 No.127083
>>127078
reading people well and not walking up to total cunts and snickering assholes
it's best to enter a social setting where others have to be as well and just start the ball rolling from there where you're already within in earshot distance and everyone can hear what everyone's saying
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550cff No.127086
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9d9353 No.127089
>>127046
>What I said includes all that shit. I'll assume you miss-wrote.
I'm getting tired with the stupid answer, from your post I just got that women in general are not worth the trouble
if you meant otherwise, you should be more clear
>And my country isn't like Brasil, where every disgusting retard manages to get laid because the women are fucking easy as long as you even pretend to be extroverted.
I don't know where you've been taking those geography lessons, but that is not even close to being true
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9d9353 No.127090
>>126235
>>126371
>>127078
sorry, its because it sounded so damn stupid at first I didn't think you were for real…
answer is:
just go fucking up to them and start talking, what have you got to lose?
if you want know something or talk about something its simple, if you don't really have a reason to talk to them it gets harder
and for us males we rarely have a reason, because of logic thinking we just sort things for ourselves
but thing is, approaching someone at any time is just the same as approaching and talking to someone in social occasions,
the only difference is that on social occasions people are already expecting it and respond accordingly,
where as in any other situation people will be surprise, but if you act naturally they just won't be weirded out
this is called day gaming, there really isn't that much mystery to it, and it because its because the same but easier,
its better to get used to talking and approaching in social occasions like you've said
after you really got used to talking it off with a total stranger you will notice it gets much easier just talking it out in any situation you're in
and no…. you don't entertain people and dangle keys in front them
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57047d No.127099
This isn't really about dating as much as socializing in general.
>talking to someone one-to-one
>can be charming
>control the conversation
>even if I got nothing to talk about I don't give a shit, can disengage cooly
>feel alpha
>socializing in a group
>everyone's talking about normie shit I don't know anything about
>stand there awkwardly
>say something, and someone immediately talks over me
>nobody seems like they listen even if they don't talk over me
>if I want to leave, it looks like a blatant retreat
>feel like a beta faggot tard
Just don't know how to do it man. Thinking about getting a part-time that has less coworkers like at a fucking pizza shop or something.
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8b1e6c No.127102
>>127089
>I'm getting tired with the stupid answer
What the fuck, are you trying to speak English? They are worth the trouble if they aren't cunts, that's what I meant you desperate faggot.
>I don't know where you've been taking those geography lessons, but that is not even close to being true
You write like a retard.
Anyway Brasil is a land of easy women like most of South America, if you have difficulties you are the weakest of the weak.
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8b2d65 No.127796
any of you faggots got de-virginized yet?
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1d91cd No.127799
>>127796
Lost my v-card 21 years ago.
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8b2d65 No.127819
>>127799
so you were raped as a child?
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b8e1ca No.127820
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1ff7f6 No.127861
>>127819
Sexual intercourse involves, primarily, the shared (sometimes forced lol) action of genital on genitalia. Anon was implying being born, you goober.
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75d1a5 No.127866
>>127861
Nope I fucked my first girl 21 years ago. As I said I'm too old to be on an image board.
I don't understand this meme about Internet users being virgins.
Just go talk to them. They will reject you but no one care. In any city the average girl reject guys everydays.
You will get rejected, until one day you will score.
Not an hard concept.
You are not afraid of weights. You are not afraid of fighting. You don't care much about what others think.
Don't be afraid of girls.
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a21428 No.127870
>>127866
>an hard
>french accent
>swiss
Are you Tyler?
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75d1a5 No.127887
>>127870
Nope. I don't know who Tyler is.
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217f1e No.127928
TOM'S LAWS OF ATTRACTION
Female attractiveness (x/40) = [(Intelligence/2)+(Humor/2)] x (Looks/10).
Male attractiveness (y/40) = (Looks/10) + (Wealth/10) + (Intelligence/10) + (Humor/10).
Humor and intelligence may be confused so for clarity, intelligence here means the ability to have a meaningful conversation and understand many topics, whereas humor is more "social smoothness"- the ability to laugh at yourself/not take things too seriously and relax/have a good time.
As a man you should analyse yourself according to this law and figure out what you can improve to boost your total out of 40. You can also use it to figure out what females are in your "league" and who to go for.
>Improve looks:
-Get /fit/
-Figure out a good style for your dress and hair
>Improve wealth:
-Self explanatory. You don't need to be a millionaire, it's all about your RELATIVE APPARENT WEALTH. In college you just need enough to look good, and buy her drinks and a meal or two because everyone in that sphere is poor. Amongst billionaires, the guy on 100k is a 1 in this field. It's all relative to the people around you/her.
>Improve intelligence:
-Read books.
>Improve humor:
-You can only do this with social practice.
Other advice
Learn the MEANING of confidence and authority.
>Confide - ence
It's literally spelled out for you. The confident man confides things in people- the opposite of shyness. The shy man thinks "Oh god I was nervous for this date, better try really hard to hide it" and comes across as quiet and uncomfortable. The confident man confides in his date; "I was a bit nervous before coming here". The fact that he doesn't mind sharing that with her is attractive, because it implies he's comfortable and in control.
>Author - ity
YOU write the story. I see so many guys on the chans betraying a complete lack of authority- "I asked her if we were officially seeing each other" type shit. Bitch, YOU DECIDE. Imagine the situation as a story you can write. You're the author- the authority. That doesn't mean you can just command women yet, you still have to figure out a story arc that makes sense. For example:
>Go to club
>Dance with girl for a while
>Move closer
>Kiss
>Get her number
>Either take her home that night or call her a few days later
>Start dating
>Etc
You HAVE to lead women- so write them into a story plan and make whatever you want to happen, happen. You need a vague story arc to work to. I think that's why porn fucks us up so bad. It leaves virgins with no idea of how sex actually occurs/starts in real life. There's no real story arc in porn.
I have more advice but that will do for now unless anons ask. t. Someone who is genuinely over-experienced with women.
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91141b No.127929
>>127928
>The confident man confides in his date; "I was a bit nervous before coming here". The fact that he doesn't mind sharing that with her is attractive, because it implies he's comfortable and in control.
Bros, watch out with this. Don't make the mistake of telling everything you do that is bad. Learn to shut the fuck up, is actually attractive in a man
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3d0891 No.127930
>>126338
>Reading Paulo Coelho
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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d64b49 No.127933
>>127928
Better yourself and talk to people irl.
All the perma virgins I have know always had the same problem : they almost never tried their luck.
If you wait to fall in love, approach a girl dully and pretend to be her friend like 6 months before asking her out : she will reject you, you will pass for dishonest or creepy even if you're just shy or insecure, you will take it badly and it will reinforce your inibitions.
If you ask out girls out of the blue every weekend things will be much better.
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550cff No.127936
>>127933
>If you ask out girls out of the blue every weekend things will be much better.
>The "thousand slaps" method
I mean, if you value your dignity less than getting a root.
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8961bc No.127938
>>126250
>>126319
Those anons, way, way off by like 10 years or so of debate on seduction.
>>127928
>>127929
>>127933
Those other anons are spot on and their remarks reflect the state-of-art.
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d64b49 No.127939
>>127936
Don't understand the reference. Never got slapped.
Listen you are free to never talk to girls. No problem with this. Just don't post threads like "OMG the dating game is rigged all women are sluts blablabla"
Sometimes you win sometimes you lose.
If you never plays you never win.
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eb9a52 No.127942
>>127939
I guess I get his reference.
We value our dignity greatly, and being rejected is interpreted as disapproval and belittling.
I don't think I could give someone the chance to undermine my ego, my perception of myself.
That's not a healthy way to live, and it's probably misguided a little by inexperience, so we will see what happens.
I don't know about the Aussie, but pre-marital relationships are kinda frowned upon in here, and unless the girl you approach is a) not a whore meaning that if she doesn't like you she wouldn't just turn you down, she would attack your ego and be a leach and go public to boost her ego and signal that she is desirable b)already likes you and was wishing you would make a move so would accept you…then you're in deep trouble.
I think the Aussie and I are like Alfred Borden and Patrick Bateman when it comes to ego.
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d64b49 No.127944
>>127942
Bateman fucks prostitutes. That's something I wouldn't do, speaking of dignity.
A girl rejecting you won't hurt if it's a girl you dont specialy care about. If she's totally outside of your usual social circle, no one will know, no one will cate.
99% of the time the rejection will be something like "I already have a boyfriend /I'm a lesbian/ I don't have time for dating" she will just says that she is not available, she won't say that's you're not good enough.
If you ask a few girls out regularly you will have an endless supply of fresh pussy after a few months.
That's an ego boost.
Note that I'm not on the market anymore since I 'm married since 2011.
I just want young guys to understand that they can't complain about dating or women if they make no effort to get some.
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550cff No.127970
>>127944
>she will just says that she is not available, she won't say that's you're not good enough.
Translation: "You're not good enough".
>If you ask a few girls out regularly you will have an endless supply of fresh pussy after a few months.
If all I wanted was to get another root I could just trawl social media and go to clubs & parties all the time - but that's the last thing on my mind. Besides, aren't you the one that met your wife at a book shop?
>I just want young guys to understand that they can't complain about dating or women if they make no effort to get some.
I already know full well what my shortcomings are, but that doesn't mean I can't recognise when the odds are otherwise stacked against me.
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26ce9e No.127988
>>126898
>Btw, it's not always a good idea to look for a girl who likes what you like.
Can't stress this enough. Sometimes you'll find a girl who really is passionate about video games and anime, but 95% of the time, she'll only be in it for either the attention or have really "simple" taste. (i.e. saying she plays video games when really she just plays The Sims and Candycrush)
It's okay to go for normalfag girls. What you need to look for is her VALUES, not her interests. Is she one of those traditional, conservative girls who wants to become a housewife and have kids? Or is she a little more lax about the standards she sets in the relationship? Or does she just want to fuck?
Find out how you want your GF to TREAT you, and go from there. The idea of looking for "common interests" in girls is just a bunch of Kikery they're setting up to make you think the only thing you need to be happy in a relationship with someone is the fact that you "have things in common". That's why you see so many beta faggot millennials with dominant GF's, because they went after that "girl gamer" only to find out she's a huge bitch. But, hey - at least you can play Mario Kart with her!
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b10c93 No.128017
>>126232
He's full of fucking shit. The people least fit to reproduce breed THE MOST out of anybody. Look no further than the third world and black ghettos in America.
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1d18f1 No.128037
>>128017
They /have to/, because their retarded unfit offspring will die the most.
Right now the situation in the world is this:
1. Fit people pay for unfit people to survive and breed, through extreme taxation, charity, etc.
2. Fit people pay for unfit peoples children to be safe, and to survive until breeding age.
3. Fit people don't have money left over for own children, so (because of high IQ), simply decide not to bring a child into the world they can't care for.
We've basically stopped nature from killing the retarded, and in a few generations we're fucking neck deep in retards.
Our ancestors had a flat tax of 2% of earnings and could afford three or four kids, today in the west it ranges from 20-50% for the middle class.
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2f853d No.128329
Is it possible to have a social life without mobile phone nowadays?
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2f90b5 No.128332
>>128329
Not really. Where I'm from, people don't even text anymore, they just DM eachother through Instagram. but that can be partially blamed on the poor phone signal due to all the rocks around here
But I'm sure if you choose some more traditional method of getting in touch with people, it might make you stand out.
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3e6cf4 No.128335
https://youtu.be/LPq7CyHqQ2I
this will help some people keep their women in check
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02d925 No.128343
>>128329
You need one that can use at least WhatsApp.
I used to have one of the very old Nokia ones up until two or three years ago, until I met a girl who genuinly didn't know how to send a sms. Abd sge was in her mid 20s.
It's just so fucking underused that it could be removed enteriely.
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e9705e No.128350
>>128335
This nigger is spot on. Thanks for linking that anon.
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7fb78e No.128352
>>128329
Yeah, they're called social clubs - common universities literally have hundreds of them, and if they don't have what you want all you need are a few people and a professor's support and you've just created your own.
If that's not enough you can just go onto Facebook, Craigslist, or even your local community town hall or whatever and ask about or where you can find more information regarding your interests, clubs, organizations (which you can also look up online try forums and messenger boards) and badabing badaboom. Put up a poster or two someplaces with busy traffic. Nigger, how the FLYING FUCK do you think people did it before phones and internet? JesUS FUCKING CHrist…
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e81723 No.128353
There's this 10/10 drop dead gorgeous girl at my college. I don't have any classes with her. The only time I see her is either in the cafe, where she'll already be talking to a group of other people, or in the library were she'll be working on some long ass online assignment. I've talked to her briefly in the library. She seemed nice, but was obviously really busy with her economics assignment. Any advice on how to talk to her more? Should I ask for her number next time, or talk to her more first?
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7fb78e No.128354
>>128352
>>128329
And if you're not looking for anything to hard, try this new thing called PLANS. It's this crazy thing that's been around since, mmmm forfuckingever.
>>128353
talk to her more first
Make sure you have a connection. It might be hard to tell, but you need to have some kind of mutual thing going on (like, both of you nodding 'what's up' or waving anytime you pass each other on the sidewalk or hall). IF you can get here with her at all then you just about have the power to stop her in her tracks and start a convo, or join her on wherever she's going or doing if the universe allows it.
And this kind of mutual acquaintanceship might be easiest to establish if you were to talk to her more than a few times when she's either not with her friends OR you can actually just have a reason to be walking around, like exercise or going someplace like the store or library, and then passing them (meaning her and her friends), or her, 'by accident'. It will be much, much, much, much easier for you to actually give her your number or approach her socially if you two know each other on any more than stranger's level. And I talk to stranger's every fucking day just about and might see them again but will likely have not a god damn thing to say to them.
Try and have a reason to see and speak to her, without you just spending 5$ on a cup of coffee or wasting time on a computer just to stare at her like a fucking creep. Girls do find it really sexy when they're admired by their group of friends AND at the courage you show approaching them amongst their group of friends just to get her number or speak to her, even just to get to know her - and if she can't figure out what you're doing then her friends will likely clue her in - you should notice IMMEDIATELY if this girl is aware that you're trying to get to know her like a normal human bean - then by your next encounter after you leaving her on the baited line you can come back the next day you see her and tell for absolute certainty whether she's open to your presence or she's cold and and disconnected, and be warned my dude, this disconnection is commonly mistaken by us guys as them trying hard not to show how interesting or attractive they might find you - like what we commonly do. Not every college girl is totally prepared for staring at a guy they might like or find attractive, especially if they're trying to seem interesting to you without spouting out something they think you might find dumb or embarrassing or whatever - a lot like us believe it or not.
Do you think she would even find someone like yourself even remotely attractive or interesting? Get high and you'll know for damn sure. And are you seeing yourself just fucking this girl a few times or do you think she might actually be someone interesting enough to want to get to know further and hang out with as more than friends?
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e81723 No.128382
>>128354
>Try and have a reason to see and speak to her
We have no classes together or anything. I only see her when I randomly run into her at the library.
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7fb78e No.128383
>>128382
So you've gotta try and make every second count each time you see her. But come on now. What makes her a 10/10? Does this economics major even >>>/biz/ and bitcoin?
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941856 No.128384
Really, I'm a pretty charismatic guy. I can get women when they're around
>But they're not around now that I work late nights.
Where can I go to get women?
(Pretty stupid question, I know)
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e81723 No.128408
>>128383
She has big beautiful puppy eyes, wavy brown hair, pale skin with beauty marks, and a perfect hourglass figure. She's from Greece so she has an adorable accent too. She also just seems really friendly.
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c39c5c No.128420
>>128408
>Greek girl
While slightly exaggerated, webm related is scarily accurate. I hope you know what you're in for.
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e81723 No.128423
>>128420
The girl I'm talking about doesn't seem to be very loud, at first I though she was stuck up because she walked like she owned the place, but then I talked to her and she seemed friendly. She's definitive a bit aloof though..
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c39c5c No.128424
>>128423
>The girl I'm talking about doesn't seem to be very loud
Heh, just wait until you meet her family - if you ever do.
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3914e5 No.128434
>>128420
Most of this is actually true. Greeks are a lot more confident people in general, if you want to fit in you will either have to be very talented in something (so people ask you shit and get accustomed to your presence) or exert a considerable air of confidence. The way this guy was acting in the webm will make it a lot harder to pick up a Greek girl tbh.
>>128423
>because she walked like she owned the place, but then I talked to her and she seemed friendly
This diva complex erodes quickly once she's open to expressing her insecurities to others. It's just a mask most Greek girls use to fake confidence and status. Unlike some other certain masks, it doesn't get extremely painful for you if you remove it :^)
Hope this helped.
t. feta nigger
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7f8cf5 No.128435
>>128434
Just attach a 100 € bill to a bulb of garlic and any greconegress will be yours
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6f131d No.128453
18 year old virgin here. Was NEET for 2 years, college dropout (UK). Tried going back to college for about a month and I hated it so I'm NEET once again, for now anyway. I'm applying for jobs everyday but no luck yet. Everyday I'm improving myself: Eating better, excercising, staying well groomed, wearing decent clothes. I try to talk to people whenever possible but I don't know how to strike up a conversation with girls without sounding weird. Even when I was in school where I was surrounded by girls I didn't talk to them unless they were a friend of a friend. I lack the confidence to go up to girls I don't know and just talk to them, and on the rare occasion that I do I just know I'm creeping them out. It's like they can smell my virginity like sharks can blood. Whatever. I've been fucking around with tinder, talked to a couple of girls but I haven't met any. One wanted to meet me but she flaked. I'm not really bothered about my future, I just want some money and a car and a place of my own (I live with my parents at the moment and their patience is wearing thin). I want more friends. All I do is hang out with the same 4 lads and smoke weed, it's fucking depressing. I don't really know where I'm going with this. I want to meet more people. I want to talk to girls. I want a gf. I'm happy to answer any questions. sorry for the wall of text.
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c39c5c No.128454
>>128453
Seeing as we're on /fit/, how fit are you?
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6f131d No.128455
>>128454
kind of fatbuilt. I've been lifting for about half a year.
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c39c5c No.128456
>>128455
Good on ya, mate. Height and weight?
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eaf777 No.128460
>Wasting your time on 3DPD
Kys
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161ad2 No.128461
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f7608e No.128462
The Rational Male is one of the best books I've ever read on the subject, though it's not really about PUA or any gay shit like that.
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79d5ef No.128465
>>128434
Obligatory You're a big guy
>>128453
Can you strike up conversations at all? Like with old people and shit?easy to train social skills with
Often getting the number isnt hard, getting her to answer is difficult.
also stop smoking weed, it is calming, but that calm looks like a daze. doesnt look good
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2a7b27 No.128485
>>128453
Have you tried joining a squad?
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7fb78e No.128510
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7fb78e No.128511
>>128434
>feta nigger
that made me laugh out loudly for a sec
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6f131d No.128517
>>128456
172cm, 80kg
>>128465
I go walking in the woods a lot and you usually see old blokes walking their dogs. It's easy to have a chat with them (What breed is that dog? How long have you had her? Etc). With girls I just draw a total blank. I'll see one across the room or in the shop and think "she's cute" but I don't take it any further. I stay out of their way and they stay out of mine. I seem to exude a "creep" aura. If I try to talk to one my voice locks up and it never sounds like how it did in my head. It's hard for me to differenciate between saying something that is funny or interesting and something that is weird.
>>128485
Like military? Not sure what you mean.
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66ff04 No.128539
>>128517
Rugby? Football? Really easy way to meet people if you still plan to go back to school.
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c4d1e2 No.128554
>>127988
Go back to reddipol, retard.
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c39c5c No.128571
>>128554
>He feels compelled to respond to a 21-day old post because of a single word in it
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6f131d No.128612
>>128539
Me and a mate talked about joining a rugby club. I played a little bit in school but I never took it seriously. Seems fun though.
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945ece No.128615
>>128612
Join the canoe team, bitches love a man that can paddle through a creek
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2f90b5 No.128624
>>126235
You really need male friends for situations like this. That's when you kind of lean in to your buddy and say, "Hey, don't she have a really cute voice?" in a voice audible enough for her to hear it.
Then you can walk up and talk to her. The reason you need a friend with you (Make sure he's somewhat attractive and not a neckbeard) is so you look less like a creepy loner and more like someone who connects well with people. I notice girls approach me more often when I'm sitting down laughing in a group of 3 than they do when I'm completely alone.
You gotta keep in mind the only thing these bitches care about in the end is YOU increasing their social value. No girl is ever going to willingly or knowingly do anything that might make her look uncool in front of her friends.
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b37b54 No.128771
You should really be looking into an activity you can enjoy and put time and effort into.
If you have an interest that you just absolutely love, then holding a conversation with other people with similar interests should be easy.
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b5487b No.128772
>>128571
He's the ex-board owner of /italia/, where he literally banned his entire userbase because everyone in his eyes was "pol". He got btfo so bad that know nobody goes in his shit board and later another BO came in and made his board fascist
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b5487b No.128773
>>128771
It doesn't work like this for every interest.
I'm interested in computer science, literally no one would care about it. When I'm outside I talk of something else.
The goal is to have hobbies that you can talk about with normalfags and impress them
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727344 No.128774
>>128773
>The goal is to have hobbies that you can talk about with normalfags and impress them
Just make something up, women do that, too. Half of the stuff she's telling you about herself are probably bs.
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b5487b No.128782
>>128774
I don't like to lie. I mean, I lie if there's a higher purpose, just like an operator would lie. I don't lie for social purposes, I won't say "I climbed the Alps" if I actually didn't do it
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b6b95d No.128833
>>126193
Don't be a pussy anon. Just be alpha. Picking up girls are easy. I was a fucking loser my entire life - bullied to shit. The girls in HS laughed at me. Then I went to the equivalent of community college in the US, I could walk into a club, look at a girl and i'd be on it…. If I got batted, I'd go onto the next one and success. Fake it til you make it. But let me tell you, it will lead you down a path of self hatred and destruction. You will sleep and be around the most beautiful girls you've ever imagined. You'll realise how hollow and how fucking shit they really are in real life and you'll hate yourself even more. Stop chasing your own tail and ego. Just be your fucking self. Make friends OP… Make friends with girls too… because those girls have friends. I've been in a solid relationship with a QT for 5 and half years and I met her through a female friend. Understand that it is about networking and not about your dick. You don't want the girl you meet at the bar, you don't want the girl you pick up for a quick fuck. Those chicks are parasites, whores or easy quickies that'll put skeletons in your closet. Trust me anon, just be safe and stop stressing over bullshit. I spent 7 years chasing tail, when I forgot about it, the love of my life came to me. When you stop worrying about things and stop being desperate, you'd be surprised at how popular you may become. But I say it with a warning because you can throw your life away in the desperation of pussy and end up fucking a bunch of girls only to be left with a whole lot of emptiness and lots of baggage. You might think nothing of it now but that shit will catch up to you when you meet the woman you wish to settle down with. That baggage will be a part of you for the rest of your life - and so will hers because you've taken her on… and then… Well then you make do with what you have. If I could turn back time, both my partner as well as myself wish we could have been virgins had we met in a previous life.
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7c9084 No.128848
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7c9084 No.128849
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ae1b46 No.128899
>>128833
checked and agree
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2b5d15 No.128940
>>128833
Checking this top post, lad.
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3cf3a4 No.128942
>>128833
>the girls at the bar are whores anyway
This is typical talk of a guy that failed at picking up chicks and is now rationalizing to himself how being a beta buck isn't all that bad after all instead of looking at his defeat soberly like an adult man.
>>128899
>>128940
And this is samefagging/iphopping
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a2d92e No.129180
>>127026
I kinda get you, man.
My only relationship lasted 5 years, and it's been 3-4 years since we broke up. I don't miss her (she has a son with some fag on another city). Last year she texted me to know about me and I just told her I wasn't her friend, and to "please never speak to me again", and everytime I remember that, I think about those times of my stupid past self. (I was a beta fag that would be proud to be a feminist). I was dumb and pathetic as shit, but I fondly remember the capacity I had to love back then, how I believed in love and romance, and really wanted to be happy with her. I don't have what it takes to pursue another relationship anymore.
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a948c3 No.129210
>>128942
>this is typical talk of a guy that failed at picking up chicks and is now rationalizing to himself how being a beta buck isn't all that bad after all instead of looking at his defeat soberly like an adult man
>all this projection from calling barflies sluts
I hope the cossacks whip your faggot ass. Lord knows, you'd probably like it.
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a53deb No.129214
>>129210
>that photo
>a non-Slavic """Russian""" bullies pathetic Russian DYEL
That is pretty common, can confirm.
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29416b No.129224
>>129210
Are these guys straight?
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848f86 No.129237
>>128849
>that 2nd pic.
Should've taken out the violence in the last strip and replaced it with identical, bad sex where the girl regrets it with the creepy lookin' dude and accuses him of rape.
First pic is trash btw. Third pic is pointless. Fifth pic is a joke. I'm sure some SJW chicks are bitter singles who were sluts in their youth, but most of them wish they could get laid and basically used feminism to try to drag the world down to their level instead of bettering themselves.
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29416b No.129238
>>129237
Hi Janet, how's your period?
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848f86 No.129244
>>129238
>being this fucking stupid because someone pointed out your pics are shitty
Welp. So much for giving advice. I'm just dealing with a regular sub-100 IQ moron.
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29416b No.129247
>>129244
>being this much of a assblasted catty homo
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af9fb7 No.129319
>>126317
Lots of people here to shit on PUAs. I'm not a fan myself, but they do have a lot of useful ideas:
-Go out and meet women and just talk to everyone and play the numbers (shut-ins will otherwise never get any contact)
-Tease girls (shut-ins will be afraid of hurting peoples' feelings and wouldn't tease others)
-Accept teasing in a graceful and witty way, using verbal sparring and humor (shut-ins would misread some forms of flirting and get upset)
-Dress nice, work out, etc.
-Be confident
When I was younger, I was a handsome guy, I was always the best looking guy in my class. Girls would show interest, but I'd blow it every time because I had no social skills (dead father, emotionally abusive mother, moved frequently so found it hard to get attached to friends). I'd be too shy to approach anyone, etc.
You definitely need social skills. A girl will blow you off in 10 seconds flat if you're maladjusted, no matter how rich and handsome you are.
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2f332d No.129421
>>129247
>homeopathic formula
Haha, bottled water's a rip-off even at the best of times, mate.
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d198b6 No.129448
>doing this to get the attention of females rather than improving to better himself
every male who does this should be castrated to not let offspring.
stop thinking about girls opinions and do shit for yourself, maybe that way you'll become someone who girls want to fuck.
Sage.
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438efc No.129503
>>129421
True that. But having a couple of gallon jugs you can take around with you will never be a bad thing. It's like the Gourd x9000 of the future next to 'Air-to-Water Purifying Water-backpacks and Bottles' which I'm pretty positive don't exist yet.
>>129448
Fuck you, Shiba-Inu, I'll fuck bitches if I want.
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b998b7 No.129517
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b5eded No.129525
>>129517
They are human, there is no question about it. That being said, the extent to which they are allowed to participate in public life should be reduced to a minimum and male feminism enablers should be sterilized.
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b5eded No.129526
>>129525
But in the end I don't care what you guys do, I have 5 burka wearing wives and a car park worth 15 million USD.
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857b7b No.129586
>>129448
>Lift for myself, for the sheer love of lifting
>Get pretty big, end up as the biggest guy in my gym
>Random gorgeous women come up to me occasionally and initiate conversations
>Still socially retarded, fumble everything, or simply fail to take the conversations beyond casual
Some of them were so fucking obvious too, like sitting next to me on the bus, laying her legs across me, and sometimes sitting up and pressing her boobs into my arm while pretending to look at something.
God damnit.
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438efc No.129590
>>129586
Just because you don't click with someone doesn't mean you're at fault, Anon. Besides, what those women were doing wouldn't be any different from fat and ugly women trying to cop feels on you as well - so does it really merit any more of a response? And don't try to tell me any of the conversations those women were having with you were at all interesting.
Fuck bitches, Anon, and acquire paper.
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d60bfd No.129591
>>126235
This post/thread may be relatively old, but I think just talking to the girl actually works. You just need to comment on something relevant to the situation/surrounding/something about her.
A couple of weeks ago I ended up sitting next to a girl on a train because there were no single seats. I commented that there were no other seats but I was fine just standing which was pretty awkward and beta, don't do this and she said it was fine. A little later she pulled some headphones out of her bag which had an unusual pattern on so I just shot a jokey comment before she put them on and tuned me out, since I always make dumb jokes and comments anyway so I wasn't expecting much of a response. I think I just said something along the lines of "very snazzy headphones", and she mentioned how she needs music to help her through the day; to which I responded "You must have a long day ahead of you" and she started talking about being at uni and working and we had a little conversation until the end of the journey. Sadly I didn't ask her for her number, but at least I discovered talking to random girls isn't as scary as I imagined.
Anyway, forget about my autistic tale. Just try talking to girls about anything around you like I said. Same works with guys if you're just looking to improve your social skills. Don't go chasing after people walking along the street and try to strike up a conversation, unless you can think of a good enough excuse to do so.
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b5eded No.129592
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. Varg white knighting it up
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727344 No.129597
>>129592
>women are sages that see into the future
>women are oracles that you're not deserving of
>literally putting women on a pedestal
>inb4 the alt-right ends up as a bunch of female guru worshipping eunuchs
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194373 No.129598
>>129592
>One should consider, then, that “paganism” is a fundamentally tendentious and artificial concept that scarcely corresponds to the historical reality of what the pre-Christian world always was in its normal manifestations, apart from a few decadent elements and aspects that derived from the degenerate remains of older cultures.
>Once we are clear about this, we come today to a paradoxical realization: that this imaginary paganism that never existed, but was invented by Christian apologists, is now serving as the starting-point for certain so-called pagan circles, and is thus threatening for the first time in history to become a reality–no more and no less than that.
Julius Evola
The Misunderstandings of the New “Paganism”
http://www.amerika.org/texts/against-the-neo-pagans-julius-evola/
Varg is a retard that spent his formative years in isolation and it always shows in the way he interprets humanity and its place in the world. Ironically, the fact that he’s relevant outside of music proves him right in his point that our society went to shit. But haha, mgtowchristcucksBTFOamiritehailodinstopdoingxtipsfedora
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19172d No.130923
>>127928
>Female attractiveness (x/40) = [(Intelligence/2)+(Humor/2)] x (Looks/10)
Intelligence and humor? Goddamn thats retarded limey. Your feminist propaganda training is strong.
Female attraction is based on the main traits: Beauty, Youth, fertility, and loyalty.
You could be dating a near potato intelligence and humor young Jennifer Connelly who can have tons of babies and loyal as fuck and she will still be in high demand.
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b0bfca No.130925
Does pua work for women who aren't busted out tarts? Don't care for casual sex, a gf would be nice
Also don't take advice from women on women, that's a meme. Lions dont ask gazelles how to catch gazelles.
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461f33 No.130927
>>130925
PUA? Depends. TRP? Yes, with everyone. You just need to be empathic and understand what type of personality your dealing with, and calibrate your game accordingly. All women like the same basic shit, like you being confident and knowing how to take the lead, etc etc
Study pua/trp and evolutionary psychology, for basics.
For a GF, find a good hobby or have a group of friends that have women friends that you can meet on social occasions. Women you meet through these means are more likely to be worth of at least a short gf'ing.
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bc68d5 No.130929
>No fap has me feeling desperate
>End up pursuing women for the first time in forever
>Have sex with fat Filipino girl yesterday
>Have taken two showers, but still smell like sex
Goddamnit. I forgot that girl goo smell sticks to everything. Never had these problems when I was fucking boys.
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044465 No.130931
>>130929
>fucking gross bitches out of despair
that's what you get for falling for nofap
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044465 No.130932
>>130927
>For a GF, find a good hobby or have a group of friends that have women friends that you can meet on social occasions. Women you meet through these means are more likely to be worth of at least a short gf'ing.
Women that need a matchmaker are more likely to be so awful that they couldn't meet anybody on campus, work, online or in nightlife.
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461f33 No.130933
>>130932
Russian women certainly don't. It's normal if you don't get it.
In Russia, women hit on you. Not even being ironic using the old "inverse" Reagan joke.
And I wasn't speaking of a matchmaker, I'm speaking of meeting her because you have friends in common and hang out at the same occasions and the ice is broken, not because you asked your friends for a match.
And if you are in already in her social circle she will accept you better.
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044465 No.130934
>>130933
So you're basically scavanging for throwaways and leftovers
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461f33 No.130936
>>130934
What a fucking autist. By your definition every single woman is a throwaway and leftover.
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46534d No.130943
>>129526
Can you at least drive?
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c65749 No.130974
>>129214
Those paratroopers are slavic russians, you dumbass
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6084f4 No.131333
Just get fit, look good feel good.
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185870 No.131552
>>129210
>>129214
>>129224
the pic in >>129210 is from a video on jewtube
>VDV (Russia elite airborne forces) are celebrating VDV day that's Palace Square in St. Petersburg
>basically they going around the city, swimming in fountains tradition, just having fun
>ginger faggot and tumblr crew show up for no reason with some protest signs and shit, basically trying to stir shit up and provoke
>VDV get irritated, approach tumblrettes and be like "wtf?"
>pic in >>129210 ensues
>few minutes later cops show up, trying to get the dumb ginger faggot out of there before his shit gets fucked up
>VDV surround the cop car prevent them from leaving
>cops to push their way out
>cops are not /fit/ and embarrass themselves
>finally OMON shows up, they are /fit/, and BTFOs everyone
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185870 No.132653
>>126879
damn she's got a tight body for having a kid
got any more pics
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0fd389 No.132662
>>132653
well alright, its was a pretty decent fuck, though I think she was too skinny for my taste
lemme see what else I got
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0fd389 No.132663
while on the topic, I might as well post these
this one was a funny story, also single mother from tinder, who never had time to do anything
things got pretty lewd for a while, and basically I was only waiting for her to call me for a late night booty call after her daughter went to sleep
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0fd389 No.132664
but in the end she never fucking called me,
we went silent for some six months or more, then got back again at it again
always tried to arrange something, waiting at nights hoping she would finally call me
but goddamn, I would simply melt all over that brown skin
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fdfd9e No.132699
>>132664
>>132662
>>132663
Dude, no. I don't think you understand just how good looking these girls really are around here in college. It's fucking insanity. Your pics are the low of averages.
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e64b38 No.132700
lmao ronaldinho is an oil driller
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fdfd9e No.133094
bump, someone post more girls squeezing other girl's tits.
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185870 No.133137
>>132699
pics or larping faggot
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f26c7b No.133143
>>133094
You should check out this thing called anime.
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737fbc No.133147
>>126232
Yeah girls really care about personality. Act natural, like you are perfectly comfortable in your own skin. This communicates that whoever the hell you are, you've done something that's made you fundamentally satisfied with yourself.
Act like you are genuinely interested in them, to. Not in like a pussy faggot way, I don't really know precisely how to communicate this feeling, but its something like, "I don't need you, I'm perfectly happy on my own, I'm just genuinely interested in what you have to say."
Oh yeah and it really helps if you happen in be in a social hierarchy with them and are near or at the top of it. That really helps.
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737fbc No.133148
>>126408
>she attracts so much male attraction that she needs to behave like an utter bitch to weed out the cuck betas
I know women like this
>>126355
>oh no! women are intentionally making themselves look attractive!
who cares
>>126344
Being a metalhead has helped me get women, kek. Not metal or alternative girls either, just normal girls. I think it's cause as a kid I was really intimidated by metalheads/biker dudes so becoming one was "becoming the warrior" so to speak.
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75cb09 No.133165
what does a tattoed crucifix on the back of the neck suggest? is that a "problem" tattoo?
i want to know if i should make a move or stay away
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495de0 No.133167
>>133165
I don't think a nice religious girl would tattoo herself at all, so she's either stupid or trying to be ironic.
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a75ae3 No.133170
>>127026
really hits me where I live, m8. I feel ya, after my last breakup a few years ago, it ripped something out that didn't quite grow back.
We're all gonna make it, brah….
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185870 No.133189
>>133167
>either stupid or trying to be ironic
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140fd1 No.134144
>>127796
Lost it to a milf around october. couldn't get hard because of all the porn I watched. After around an hour or so we finally fucked. Learned a bit from it. Like what women want and don't want and how they're all different. Even though I can tell today she didn't enjoy it (she never let me hit it again.) I can honestly say she was a nice woman. She didn't insult me, didn't laugh, and treated me like I was a stallion all the way through till I left the house. Sex isn't that great honestly.
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3bb9e6 No.134193
>>134144
I once had sex with someone and figured right away that I didn't like him. It sucked. Sex can be great if you are with the right person/body. Just try again.
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f84d58 No.134195
>>134193
Fags get the bullet
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3bb9e6 No.134196
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69a0be No.134367
>>126365
>I'm uncoordinated and can easy described as "serious".
Cutting through all of the bullshit in this thread, this sentence and the mindset required to utter it is the single biggest reason why you fuckheads never get anywhere. You describe temporary conditions as if they were set in stone. You use self-diagnosed non-problems as reasons to never start anything. You can't even be properly described as failures. I can respect failures - they got out there and made an attempt. They set themselves up for success, even if it didn't pan out for them that time.
You're uncoordinated at the moment. Unless you've got cerebral palsy or the like, your lack of coordination isn't permanent. You can become coordinated. Start small, stand up and tap your feet to the beat of a song you like. Get a jump rope. Learn to juggle. Fire up a youtube video of salsa dancing and start copying the moves until you stop fucking up. Being 'uncoordinated' is a temporary condition, and you have the ability to fix it.
Same goes for being 'too serious to dance'. I fucking know the type of cunt that uses that excuse. I was him until a few years ago. That's why I have such vitriol for you - I know how easy it is to stop moaning and just fucking do it, and I regret all the years I spent ignoring that lesson. Being 'serious', again, isn't a permanent condition. You can change at any time. You are under no obligation to be the same person you were 15 minutes ago. You're too serious? Tell a joke! Put a traffic cone on your head! Trivialise a major national or personal tragedy! Who actually gives a fuck? The universe is winding down to its inevitable heat death and we probably won't achieve longevity escape velocity let alone the singularity before economic, environmental, and political collapse makes such things technologically infeasible. Under those circumstances, who the fuck has time to be serious?
Can you honestly say you're happy being an uncoordinated, overly serious person? The fact that you're posting on a nazi spin-off forum of an anime child porn spin-off forum of a dead gay nerd forum moaning about how poor widdle you can't get your dicklet wet tells me that you're not happy. If so, fucking change yourself and your circumstances. Doing the same things and being the same way you always have been will get you the same results, every time. 'just b urself' is bullshit. Be better.
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1200f8 No.134379
>Go to show by myself last week
>End up sitting near the bar, away from the stage
>Handbags and shit next to my seat, fucking roasties
>Eventually roastie walks up
>Flapper dress to hide her flaps, nips nearly falling out
>She starts flirting with me, keeps making physical contact
>Realize I could probably fuck her but wait it out because she's not that great
>She leaves to go smoke outside, asks me to watch her bag
>Her friend shows up after this
>Curly haired blonde roastette, thin and trim, amazing ass, pretty face
>Also nosering and belly shirt
>Decide to try something
>"Your friend went outside, you should bring her bag and come with us"
>She freezes until I point to the bag and motion her
>It's like one of those animal documentary scenes where the lion ensnares the doe eyed gazelle
>Sitting outside now
>Original girl heads back inside, pretty sure she was setting us up
>Chatting with the cute one, her life story boils down to she just moved to town and doesn't know why
>Tell her she probably came all this way to make out with me at this show
>Holy shit it worked
>Making out, getting handsy both inside and outside the venue for the next hour
>Get her number
>They're leaving, walk them to their car
>We kiss one last time, she says "Be in touch, ok?"
Anyway, that was last Thursday. I sent her a generic How's it going text yesterday, 72 hour mark, to test the waters. No response in 24 hours. I'm not retarded so I only sent the one text and won't be sending any more.
Kinda bummed though TBH famalam. It had been months since I had gotten physical with a girl, and ages since one that attractive. Feel like I made all the right moves, but that knowledge isn't as comfy as some nice sex would be. Also my birthday today which makes it worse.
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b04b78 No.134385
>>134379
You did good m8. Inb4 muh degeneracy.
Don't worry and just keep going. Sometimes the whole getting laid and maybe finding a partner thing can sting but you move on. It's not like she broke up with you. You reached out and she didn't respond. Don't waste your time thinking on it too much. If say you find someone else tomorrow, you'll soon forget this one. Even if it's just sex.
I got snubbed by two who clearly expressed interest in me this past weekend. It felt like shit but I'm already over it. Even perfect 10s have bad days.
You'll get on lad.
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b04b78 No.134386
>>134379
Oh and happy birthday.
Polite sage.
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721463 No.136460
Did a quick thread scroll and saw no PUA/Machiavelli literature infographics. We all know about The 7 Habits, How to Win Friends, The Game and so on, are there any lists of more essential reading for learning to social engineer, manipulate, NLP, and so forth?
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5d3807 No.136463
But why would you want to date current year women?
unless they're of a high social class and white, there's little point in wasting time in college whores or trash
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64abc8 No.136473
>>126199
Nothing to add to this tbh.
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721463 No.136476
Manhood Academy is aimed square at /r9k/-tier autists and sperglords. Ebook is free, pay to get personal instruction.
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bdb5ce No.136746
>>136463
This. I don't understand why any of you guys bother with women besides "muh dick". Is a one night stand even worth the risk? You either wear a condom and fuck a whore and feel nothing or feel something and risk knocking her up/ getting a sti or something, since you are fucking a pump and dump whore raw. If you manage to knock her up your her passive income for the next 18 years. I don't see any reasonable reason to do it.
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461968 No.142015
>>126197
>all those nervous manlets
>the feet on the one in the middle dont even touch the ground unless he goes tippy toes
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1b2425 No.142509
>>129319 why do you need a book for that are you retarded anon?
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e28cf4 No.143628
>>126196
I honestly don't give enough of a fuck about those PUA models and schools of thought. I think the more useful shit is "Signs she's into you", "Signs she's not", "Things you think aren't retarded, but actually are", and "Really basic shit that people miss on how to approach a girl". Basic social skills, self-confidence, and reading your girl right are where it's at.
>>126238
>LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS.
Get the fuck out. Not that those things don't matter, but you already fail as a PUA if you missed the very high value of social skills. Also, money is more likely to attract gold diggers. As long as you can look after yourself and have a little left to spare, the money problem is generally solved enough unless you're looking to get a housewife (or trophy wife) and support a whole family on that income.
>>126355
>Walking up and just trying to be alpha is how you become the prey.
Becoming prey is what separates the fake alphas from the real alphas. There are a lot of "alphas" who are more about the attitude and need to be on top than the backbone, sense of standards, and moral steadiness and the former get played pretty hard.
>>126199
>It doesn't work.
Some of it really does work. A lot of it is just fucking bullshit pseudoscience. Much of it is just blind leading the blind. "Just be yourself" is cancer advice though. There generally is something you're doing wrong if you keep fucking it up. But pretending you're someone you're not is not the answer either. A man's just gotta learn the social skills.
>is BS, I learned more on two days trying to approach girls at the outside of the library and just talking to them than in all PUA workshops.
Yeah definitely approaching women is #1 when it comes to developing skills for approaching women. Just approaching some 20 plus women will help you overcome that initial hurdle of "OMG HOW DO I WALK UP TO HER AND WHAT WOULD I SAY."
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9ee1a1 No.143636
>>143628
>long as you can look after yourself and have a little left to spare, the money problem is generally solved
You are really wrong. Like, REALLY wrong. The majority of girls get SEXUAL AROUSED by a man who has the wealth to provide things beyond her reach, so unless you are dating legitimate poor girls (been there, done that, would do it again) you will need more than that.
>fake alphas from the real alphas
No such thing among modern homo sapiens primates. Groups are very fluid and transient, so what matters is if you are one of the highest value males that a certain girl know that she can get or not.
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e28cf4 No.143643
>>143636
>You are really wrong. Like, REALLY wrong. The majority of girls get SEXUAL AROUSED by a man who has the wealth to provide things beyond her reach, so unless you are dating legitimate poor girls (been there, done that, would do it again) you will need more than that.
Yeah definitely if you're looking for that kind of girl, but the girls who get turned on by money are much more likely to be gold diggers / high maintenance types. Then again you also live in Brazil apparently, so I can't really speak to the social values and ambitions of women in your area. Also, pretty sure the PUA game that comes from picking up these types of girls who are attracted by money can fail hard if you are trying to get a girl who is not a gold digger. Suddenly you look like a posturing idiot who is shallow as fuck.
>No such thing among modern homo sapiens primates. Groups are very fluid and transient, so what matters is if you are one of the highest value males that a certain girl know that she can get or not.
If we're looking at it that way then it revolves around the questions of how do women perceive value in men and a good number of these particulars can vary depending on the woman and the culture. It is a very good question though.
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9ee1a1 No.143644
>>143643
>the girls who get turned on by money are much more likely to be gold diggers
No, again, you are confused.
It is one thing for a woman to try to drain all the money that she can from a guy, and yes, some are not like that, but even those that try to be "independent" still get aroused by a wealthy male. You can try to compensate in other areas (and most man can), but it is foolish to ignore that fundamental truth.
>a good number of these particulars can vary depending on the woman and the culture
It is not that complex, actually, as long as you look like a leader in any group that she values, she will be into you.
That is why it is mostly ridiculously easy to get girls in small schools, even when they are out of your league, and then life becomes hell once you enter a good university - school is all that most teenagers know, and suddendly they get hobbies, meet people from all ways of life during classes and start working.
If you know her social circles, all that you have to do is honestly compare yourself with others males there and you will know where you stand.
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d3cb36 No.143645
>Not becoming an iron pumping gains wizard
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e28cf4 No.143649
>>143644
>It is one thing for a woman to try to drain all the money that she can from a guy, and yes, some are not like that, but even those that try to be "independent" still get aroused by a wealthy male. You can try to compensate in other areas (and most man can), but it is foolish to ignore that fundamental truth.
This is not a fundamental truth. The reason I say this is because I know several women who are decidedly not like that. Perhaps it holds firmly true in your experience, but not mine.
>If you know her social circles, all that you have to do is honestly compare yourself with others males there and you will know where you stand.
There's can be a difference between highest performer and best leader though.
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098ad9 No.143687
>>126209
>rule 3
I just fuck non white women and save the dating with 0 sex for white women.
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098ad9 No.143688
>>126193
It’s not that deep really you just need to focus on three things
>focus on aesthetics
>be comfortable with yourself (you don’t necessarily have to be a confident extrovert just the fact that you feel comfortable in your own skin will reassure women your not a creep)
>focus on the philosophy of masculinity (read books and shit don’t just build up a fragile image like a beta that women will see through)
Those things alone will separate you from like 95% of the population. Stop overthinking things guys, pretty much every guy in the street is either a numale or a jacked up manlet it’s not like everyone is some aryan Viking chad.
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aef7fa No.143690
>>130923
>You could be dating a near potato intelligence and humor young Jennifer Connelly who can have tons of babies and loyal as fuck and she will still be in high demand.
can confirm to be wrong, there's this girl in my group of friends who's really hot and socially conservative/feminine but she has some form of autism, a terrible sense of humor and an extremely boring personality and nobody touches her with a ten foot pole.
Probably because nobody wants to be tied, just in case she gets pregnant.
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d0d448 No.143695
>>126649
You need to have shared experiences and do things together. Go on “Adventuuures”
Shared challenge and hardships lead to deeper intimacy.
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e02b1c No.143919
>perpetuating the CC
Fucking wew.
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014515 No.143942
>post pick up advice to a bunch of depressed chan users
>they reject it
No surprise.
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800694 No.143997
>this thread still
OP here, funny seeing this thread still alive just today, when I got singlelized again out of nowhere, after nearly a year dating "the one"
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bf5349 No.144045
>fairly attractive
>bit taller than average
>skinny fit
<social autism
<0 self esteem
<little confidence
<virgin
2 ugly girls in my history course flirt a little with me but I basically just ignore them because they're meh, and I am shit at talking. I'm pretty sure I could get laid fairly easy but I don't care for casual sex and would rather have a qt as a gf than a qt as a one night stand. Though there are two girls I went to high school wit, we still hang out occasionally though they go to another city for uni. They're best friends and I know the one likes me, but I really like the other girl. I used to try to text her but she would only reply hours or days later and after one or two replies she would just stop talking to me in 98% of cases. So I gave up but in the past year she's started saying she loves me when we hang out, though usually near the end before I leave, and by then she's somewhat drunk. If she means it why didn't she ever text back? I've tried again two or three times the past 4ish months but it's the same response from her, yet every time I see her in person she seems to be flirty. I've always been scared to tell her I like her because if she doesn't actually like me then the other girl (the one that I'm sure likes me) would probably feel like shit because I asked her best friend out instead of her, and they might not even want to be friends anymore which would suck because I genuinely enjoy hanging out with them and only have like 2 other friends besides them.
I had always planned on moving to my mom's home country for uni so I never tried to start any relationships here, but I've had issues getting accepted. I might try again for next year, because I really love her home country but my mind set has always been that in a year I'll be in another country. I really feel like me and the girl I like connect really well. Maybe it's because I've been fawning over her for 6 year since I met her in high school, but she's one of the few reasons I think I might stay in leafland rather then go Europe which I've wanted to do for as long as I can remember.
I am a little drunk and sleep deprived and still have an entire assignment I need to do so please excuse the blogpost/rambling. I guess what I'm asking is why this girl would act one way (and even say she loves me multiple times every time we meet) yet ignore my existence the rest of the time? She doesn't even use our groupchat so it's basically just me and the other girl. Is this oneitis? Should I just move to Europe and start over?
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c76f98 No.144047
>>127796
I'm afraid to fuck some random whore because I'll probably be shit and get made fun of, though the longer I wait to get a gf who is understanding and isn't a slut (I feel like that's impossible at my age) the more /r9k/ makes sense.
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ba1028 No.144049
>>144047
Get a woman from a third world country where they have to be virgins until marriage ie Vietnam, Cambodia, Saudi Arabia etc
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c76f98 No.144054
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2af275 No.144056
>>144054
True. We need white sharia law. At least we have you good germans to thank for National Socialism.
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b3d0b6 No.144085
>>131333
>From 3/10 to instant 7/10
So this… is the power… of gains and grooming, huh? Not bad…
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e28cf4 No.144096
>>144056
>>144056
>We need white sharia law.
Why hasn't this meme been eradicated from the face of the earth yet? It's some of the most retarded shit out there.
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3b3101 No.144099
>>144045
Have you considered raping them both?
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2af275 No.144100
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5e9544 No.144107
Maybe I'm asking the wrong thing, but are there any books on how to enjoy socialising? I don't really ever feel comfortable talking to people I don't know and when people invite me out I usually flake
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800694 No.144116
>>144107
>Books on enjoying socializing
Not especially on enjoying no, but you get to enjoy it after getting better at it, same for pick up our dating. And that's exactly what pua is about.
First you need to get used and comfortable with it, it may seem hard at first, but eventually you get to enjoy make friends and what not.
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dd1b8a No.144117
What are good sites to buy dakimakuras from?
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b3d0b6 No.144126
>>128833
Easy to say Mr.-I-Live-In-The-Richest-Country-on-Earth-Where-Taxes-And-Financial-Regulations-Don´t-Exist
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800694 No.144129
>>128833
Nice checks, at the stage I am at atm, I have to agree with this anon, with each bad relationship you get more and more jaded, I've seen this over and over again, about wishing we could rewind time so we could full in with a full heart. With each new heartbreak it gets harder and harder to commit yourself.
But on the other hand this is a paradox in itself, since both of you needed that previous experience to get where you are now. Indeed things would very different or nearly impossible to happen if you imagine two virgins falling in love without knowing what the hell to do, in fact I think it happens all the time and doesn't work out. Plus you got to hit the wall a few times, so you can be sure what you really look for in a mate, and what you really can't stand for. Good thing you met the one for you, but its a hard process for most of us (even normies).
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c76f98 No.144139
>>144126
But Luxemburg is a German city?
>>144129
>Indeed things would very different or nearly impossible to happen if you imagine two virgins falling in love without knowing what the hell to do
Yeah that's why right up until the 60's marriages failed constantly and people were unhappy, because they didn't know how to fuck. Especially since there wasn't very much for porn so people didn't even have a secondary source to learn about sex, luckily now divorce rates hit almost 0 and people are happier than ever before in relationships.
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800694 No.144140
>>144139
Nah the reason why divorce rates are so fucked up is not because of that. And to think people before the 60s all married virgin are just a similar stupid idea as well.
Sure the age of sexual liberation brought it own shit baggage with it, but the thing is that in the old days people had no prospect of "living a happy life" or to be "married happily ever after", but instead they held onto their marriage because of the duty and civility, pretty much knowing its not gonna be great wonders, but they needed to put out some offspring and commitment is the best bet at a long stable life.
Its the same thing for jobs, they didn't work on their dreams or what their meant to do, they just work on whatever the fuck they were able to, such was life.
But now after the age of liberation, boomers, who often married out of duty, felt it was ok to end their decade long marriages and pursue a "happy life", and so they taught the same for their off spring and then generations that came.
And then now we have the fucked up world of today, and funny how the search for happiness ended up bringing so much pain.
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58fa76 No.144353
I'm thinking about taking a dance class to actually meet some women. I really havn't talked to any of them, since I graduated high school. Thing is I'm never kissed a girl and aren't very good at talking to them. I not afraid to talk to them, I just can never think of anything to really say to them, since I have very little in common with people. I'm not really worried about being a kiss less virgin either its just a factor. What are the girls who take dance classes like anyways? Anyone here have any experience with it? I'm pretty much out of options when it comes to meeting women. I don't work with any and have never in the past, so it doesn't seem like anything will change unless I make it.
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800694 No.144366
>>144353
Dance classes are actually a pretty good idea, its a good place to meet people, a good place to learn some moves, and a good place get familiar around girls.
> I not afraid to talk to them, I just can never think of anything to really say to them, since I have very little in common with people.
That is false, talking to people is a skill you get used to and learn, its not about having something in common, but learning to communicate and express yourself.
What subject you actually talk over has very little importance, but interested in things and curious, and as you gather more and more life experiences it helps out.
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800694 No.144375
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. Great video that I found to be very useful to phase I'm passing right, break ups are shit, but there's always something valuable to learn and better opportunities to improve yourself.
Also managed to find a torrent link to his latest program, that should be good. If anyone takes the time to watch it all it can prove to have great value.
> magnet:?xt=urn:btih:a9e0e5a9b6bb32c67f99d4b69c6eeded357720a6&dn=RSD%20MAX%20Girlfriend%20Game&tr=udp%3A%2F%2Ftracker.pirateparty.gr%3A6969%2Fannounce&tr=http%3A%2F%2Fannounce.xxx-tracker.com%3A2710%2Fannounce&tr=udp%3A%2F%2Ftracker.coppersurfer.tk%3A6969%2Fannounce&tr=udp%3A%2F%2Ftracker.port443.xyz%3A6969%2Fannounce
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58fa76 No.144386
>>144366
I wanted to do salsa, but no one does lessons close to me, that I can find. I'm not really interested in doing "hip hop", which is the only thing I can find. Living in smaller towns sucks. They have all the bullshit of the bigger ones with less stuff. I wanted to get into wrestling, but I cant even find a boxing gym. Looks like I have to take a cooking class or drive 45 minutes one way to a salsa class. I'm kind of disappointed in this.
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800694 No.144394
>>144386
A 45 minute drive does seem like a bit much, it could be worth it if done only once a week during free time, like the weekends, and if they have longer duration like a few hours.
Cooking class is a good idea too, but I'm afraid you would have much lesser contact with girls, and specially single ones. But its worth a try.
Besides that try to find literal hang out places, meet groups or whatever, literally anything to put you out there.
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01cbad No.144404
>>126199
This is mostly true about the techniques being bullshit, pua being a scam, and irl experience beating reading any kind of shit. I wouldn't say you can't get laid by cold approaching girls tho because my notch count would be a lot lower than it is if I never did that.
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800694 No.144405
>>144404
But that's my point, most of the material presented here is about getting your ass out and trying it out for yourself, no amount of theory makes up practice.
That being said, its also worth it devoting some to time to watching and reading some stuff, to understand the underlying dynamics of social interactions, and most importantly, the womyn physique, which is kinda fucked up to be honest.
But you're not supposed to see all this shit and go out hammering those things like a tool, you're supposed to let go, have fun, and then analyze what is what afterwards.
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800694 No.144579
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. Just watched this excellent Tyler video, really wasn't sure where it was going but it came around and turned out to be great motivation.
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800694 No.144590
This dude is on a redpill rampage.
He managed to go from women degeneracy, to nice guy syndrome, to thot patrol, and even porn addiction.
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800694 No.144591
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. >>144590
forgot damn video
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1c6ef2 No.144600
>female tells me she's allergic to latex so I can't use condoms anymore
>have sex with her a couple of days ago
>try to squeeze my PC muscle to retain my semen, but fail and ejaculate inside of her need to keep doing more kegels
>she's not worried about it
>"haha, you better not have gotten me pregnant"
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800694 No.144601
>>144600
What kind of female? A gf?
Being allergic to latex sounds kinda bullshit to be honest, consider yourself a lucky chad because they will usually never go like that.
But if she is just a hook up, be fucking careful where you insert your wiener on, I've done it before and the trouble it lead to is not worth it.
Beginning with STDs, ending with pregnancy, its too risky and that baggage could go on forever in your life.
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1c6ef2 No.144604
>>144601
>What kind of female? A gf?
She's a thot I met on tinder several months ago. She's gorgeous looks kinda like Noelle Easton and periodically shows up at random to my place to have sex and maybe spend a day or two.
>Beginning with STDs, ending with pregnancy, its too risky and that baggage could go on forever in your life
I know she's clean at least because I haven't caught anything from her. It wouldn't surprise me at all if she's seeing other guys though. It's been about two months since I saw her last, and she deleted me on tinder- I assume so I can't stalk her movements with the location thingy.
Then again it's theoretically possible that she's being honest and really just has been working all the time. She lives over an hour drive away, and drove here two days ago just to spend a few hours with me. We have a good bit in common too, such as both playing WoW back in the day.
Who knows. Women are all like the wind in my experience, they just show up at random at their own time and place, and then vanish just the same. Ephemeral. This is why I always message more than one at a time.
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c5c788 No.144612
>>144600
I dated a girl with a latex allergy. You can still get lambskin condoms, don't be an idiot and rawdog some random bitch.
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800694 No.144617
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9445c6 No.144646
So, I could use some input here.
>met this girl online
>amazingly fun, smart, cute as a button
>problem is, she lives some 100+ km away and is not interested in a long-distance relationship
>she also travels a lot, so that's a nope
>time passes, we keep talking and getting to know each other
>out of nowhere, she calls me
>her plane is landing in my city and I'm the first person she calls
>we finally meet face to face when the plane lands
>go out to eat, she has a bus in less than an hour
>realize I like her more than as a friend, but the distance is a huge issue
>time passes, we stay in touch
>go on a business trip abroad
>realize we're both staying in Amsterdam
>decide to meet up
>have an amazing day
>split up until next time
>realize I'm developing feelings for her
>it gets to the point that I sabotage a new relationship with this other girl because "she's not the one from Amsterdam"
>time passes
>she calls me up, wants to see us for some music festival
>sure
>she tells me she'll be staying with her boyfriend
>get fucking furious, mostly at myself for hoping there might be anything more
>avoid seeing her
>time passes, zero contact
>she starts calling me up again
>decide sure, lets try and be friends, I'm over this
>fuck nope, definitely not over this
>start talking even more than before
>she wants to come over to some party I mentioned in passing
>she buys concert tickets to a band that she doesn't listen to, because I asked her if she'd like to go
>the concert is in another city, and she'll have to travel in the middle of the deadline
>she says it's no biggie, she'll make room for the concert and to meet up
>meet up
>we talk, her life is work and travel and more work and more travel
>go to the concert
>try to get close to her, trying to figure out what she wants
>she goes out, says how she's dead tired, and how it looks like I want something more than just to be friends
>wut
>"if you were closer, I wouldn't mind, but I can't go through another long-distance relationship"
>we sit down, she snuggles next to me, tired
>we start kissing and don't stop for hours
>I follow her to the bus station, she has to go home
>she tells me that she'll have to think about us
>radio silence for 2 days
>"I don't want a relationship"
>but she still wants us to meet at the airport for her next flight
>tell her no, I can't see her
>radio silence since then
So, what the fuck happened? Is it the work? Or am I the problem?
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92563e No.144652
>sex
>relationships
>3dpd
>not going full celibacy
Why waste your mana on succubi? I absolutely don't understand. Why are you not above the "muh dick" meme, /fit/izen?
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1c6ef2 No.144653
>>144646
Let her go my dude. Not only is she playing games with you, but she's cheating on her boyfriend in the process. Right now you're thinking with your dick instead of your brain, entranced by a particular sculpting of fat and muscle instead of the essence of her character.
If you can meet one cute girl then you can meet another, and there's billions of females out there.
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49b3bb No.144654
>>144646
Don't make it complicated for yourself, anon. Be laid back and just go with the flow. Don't throw yourself in front of a train of their feelings. Females don't know what they want because they act based on their feelings, which changes a lot over the time. Don't make her as the central object of your life. You can't turn the time back and you can't change what you have done.
In your current situation, it might be better for you, to message her sometime soon, before it's not too late, if you think that she's the one. You know, a Christmas/New Year wish or something. Say that you couldn't make it, because you had some family issues or something. Maybe offer to make it up to her or whatever rocks her boat.
If you don't think, that she's the one, just let her go, anon. There are plenty of cool, fun and cute girls out there, so there's no reason for you, to deny existence of other girls.
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1c6ef2 No.144655
>>144600
>>144604
Update on my situation.
>my favorite female makes a new snapchat account, with the word "incognito" as part of her username
>raises red flags immediately
>always suspected she's just a whore who fucks a lot of guys anyways
>start watching her snapscore
>tell her my schedule for the week, hoping she can drive over to my place sometime, because we both have lots of time off
>get a generic one word response
>her score is going up, meaning she's talking to others instead of me
>get a long cutesy video of her on the couch
>check her score
>a few seconds later get another cutesy video of her on the couch again, showing off her drink
>check her score again
<IT WENT UP 19 FUCKING POINTS
<she sent this same goddamn snap of her making cute flirty faces and gestures to 19 PEOPLE
<I am literally just one of 19 guys that she's cycling around
Absofuckinglutely disgusting. I immediately blocked the bitch. I refuse to be Mr.19 for some degenerate whore. If your bitch has a snapchat watch that snapscore.
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497ddc No.144676
My favorite porn star made a video with a nigger I never wanted this feel
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800694 No.144677
>>144676
Quit porn forever, never idolize literal whores.
>>144655
Yeah sounds about right, not long RSD posted a video describing Snapchat and Instagram game (or current day social media), and its absolutely disgusting the level of degeneracy girls are turning to.
>>144646
This honestly >>144653
If still has a "boyfriend" seem like she just using you to prop her self-stem while being a cum dumpster for the other guy.
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497ddc No.144688
>>144677
No offense man and Brazilians are pretty nice but you're from a country of literal nigger mutts so you wouldn't understand.
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9445c6 No.144704
>>144653
I probably should've clarified that the "boyfriend" thing was around 6+ months ago, while we hooked up (or whatever the fuck that was) less than a month ago. And she let it slip that it was just a "friend". So either she's lying, or they broke up.
Whatever the case, I'm going to let it go. She just was there when I was really down, and the whole story with her was just a series of really weird coincidences that usually don't happen to me, so I guess my brain tricked me into figuring the non-existing relation with her was something special.
Thanks guys. I really appreciate the input. Guess my gut feeling was right, and I was just there as someone's confidence booster. Again.
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2f87c5 No.144709
>>144655
You should've know that, never think you're a girl's only option, because you're not, if you're then there's a problem with her.
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800694 No.144730
>>144688
>brazil is nice but
>you wouldn't understand me idolizing a fucking porn whore
I fully understand how much of a faggot you must be. >>>/noporn/
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1c6ef2 No.144744
>>144709
Of course I wasn't her only option. Even the most uggo female in the world has dozens of men hit on her on a daily basis. I just wasn't expecting her to be actively flirting with 19 guys at the same time. One or two or three would have been understandable.
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2f87c5 No.144756
>>144744
Yeah, that sounds a bit too much
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151f2f No.144764
>>126410
>The way many posters on this board are sucking up to feminism
I agree. Since you want Whites to survive, do you think we should also get rid of semitic death cult that has been keeping us enslaved for roughly 17 centuries and turn to our own gods again?
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2f87c5 No.144766
>>144764
Not every board has to be /pol/ ffs
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e28cf4 No.144772
>>144045
>I guess what I'm asking is why this girl would act one way (and even say she loves me multiple times every time we meet) yet ignore my existence the rest of the time?
Because she's just using you as an emotional tampon?
>She doesn't even use our groupchat so it's basically just me and the other girl. Is this oneitis?
Probably.
>Should I just move to Europe and start over?
In general, don't wait to start living.
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58fa76 No.144826
Anyone else pissed that they have to be 21 to go to a dam bar in this country? I don't know any women, I don't work with any women, my friends don't really know any. Tinder, bumble, and badoo isn't working. This is fucking hopeless. fucking government
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9580ba No.144831
>>144826
Join a Mormon church. They have entire church services dedicated to single people.
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e1e943 No.144851
>>144056
chad will get 4 wives and you'll get 0
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66629d No.144978
I didn't read it all, but RSD Max is awesome. You should buy or pirate his The Natural program, it's great. But, if you want a taste, watch some YouTube videos of him that talk about mindsets.
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5957d6 No.145782
>be a 28 year old KV loser who still lives with his parents
>psych tells me I should look for a relationship
I honestly crave the intimacy, but something tells me I will not get far. Is there really any chance for me? It's stupid for me to think a manic pixie girlfriend is going to solve my problems/actually happen, but it feels like it's the only thing that could happen since I basically never leave my room. I really feel stupid asking, but I feel there is a slight glimmer of hope because you always hear about women and their loser boyfriends. Why can't I be that loser? :^) Sorry for the blogpost.
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106669 No.145784
>>145782
Look up Coltaine's in yt, if you're not careful a woman will create many more problems than it solves
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d4f66d No.145792
>>130929
It's a way for the females to mark their partners. Prevents disloyalty. Not really that efficient in the modern society but makes sense historically.
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e28cf4 No.145838
>>145792
All it is is "this one's taken; find your own man" and it may have been effective in the dim past but failed as soon as men could have sufficient social status to "corral" women. Then feminism comes along and screws it up the other way too, eliminating the last reasons a woman would respect another woman's scent marks.
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16205c No.145854
Why bother with any of this crap? It's all fucked anyway.
It's better to learn how to kill than to pick up the worthless unfaithful whores of [CURRENT YEAR].
Better to replace them all with artificial wombs and machinery.
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9a68cd No.145866
Thinking of asking this girl that sits next to me in class out but she's a tad older 28 vs 23 but she just moved to this city so I don't think she is in a relationship but we always leave class together probably cause I want to and wait and walk to our cars so we always talk along the way.
Problem lies is I don't know her enough and don't text her besides if its class work related. Don't know if she is in a relationship. I sit next to her so making a move early wouldn't that make things akward in class? Don't know what to do.. hmmmmmm, been think about asking her out the day before Valentine's day but not sure..
There is also another cute girl in my class but she sits very far away so I have not been able to talk to her.
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106669 No.145882
>>145866
Just do it faggot, invite her something to drink while you walk back to your car
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c38c84 No.145905
>>145866
Disregard the bitches and focus on your studies. They'll probably cuck you or a cause you of rape or something.
What are you studying anyway? It better be a STEM major or a decent trade like an electrician.
If you really just want sex or something, get an onahole and some lube.
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b54baa No.145910
Treat women how women treat men.
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e4a1ef No.145944
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d37725 No.145947
Just got laid for the first time last night. Can 100% confirm pussy is over rated.
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ebe823 No.145948
>>145947
How hard was it to get there? What'd you do anon?
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b9d707 No.145950
Why do you need a girlfriend?
Learn to clean, cook, do laundry, do minor repairs, and pretty much everything by yourself. You already removed most of your need for a woman, save for sex. Oh wait, we have onaholes, lube, and doujins. Looks like women are completely useless now.
>What about reproduction?
Artificial wombs.
Why do we even bother with women anymore when you can completely replace their use?
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a5789c No.145951
>>145950
It may have something to do with tradition, peer pressure and manipulation of the sex market.
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800694 No.145990
>>145950
>why do you need a girlfriend?
Nice bait MGTOW shit post friendo…
But if you have to ask that, you clear know not of the extensive influence that a female companionship can have on our lives.
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f1c27e No.145991
>>145950
You can't kiss, cuddle, headpat, or share a moment with sex toys.
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74d914 No.145993
>>145990
>>145991
Everything about them can easily be replicated by other means. Hell, a sex doll and an AI with some learning time can easily fill in the role. Everything else you can handle.
So again, why even bother?
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2911a7 No.145994
>>145948
Lost my job a little over a week ago. Had too much free time so I hit up a chick I worked with. Little bit of charm later she's inviting me over and we fuck. I had no idea what I was doing but she wanted me to do all the work. Probably would have been better with a chick I actually cared about or somebody who took the lead. Ez pz
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4843b6 No.145996
>>145994
So all I have to do is to lose my job? Sounds easy.
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2911a7 No.145997
>>145996
The actual formula is free time + charm = pussy.
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9a68cd No.146015
>>145882
>>145905
It's STEM. I got a pretty cushy job recently so I probably should finish school but the employer is really good. Public job but it's in construction and you can't beat a 4 day work week.
I don't drink but I'll ask her to something to eat. I was thinking of giving her a flour bag as a joke cause it's flowers but don't know if it's cringy. I'll give her a small box of chocolates though.
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66629d No.146027
>>145993
A woman is like an oracle in your life if you're a real man and she is a real woman. Anyway, can she do any of these things with a toy or her female friends? She will only do these kinds of things if lacking a proper male in her life.
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1118c9 No.146029
This is gonna aound really beta and gay but I need advice.
>be autistic neverfriends is highschool
>meet 9/10 autistic neverfriends qt
>really get along. Become close friends
>somehow she's got a bf
>loosely know the guy. Total fucking beta
>new school year starts
>go to after school functions
>start seeing her there
>spend alot more time with her
>we're practicly inseparable.
>be drinking by myself when she calls one night
>several hours of conversation later we admit our mutual attraction to one another.
>she doesn't want to break up with bf because only like a week after she gave him a second chance to stop being a faggot
>we stay extremely close
>school counselor fuck my mental state by calling cps because she's worried about my mental state
>become a little bitch and cry about shit all the time
>somebody spreads rumors about her cheating on bf with me.
>she cuts off contact.
>she initiates contact like two months later apologizing for cutting me off.
>get sent to separate campus for disciplinary misconduct.
>dont see her for few months
>she breaks up with nd
>try texting her but never get responses.
>year ends and graduate.
>start getting /fit/ to enlist.
>meet up with her again.
>find out I got blocked on her phone.
>she didn't do it.
>got back together with her nd
>realizes her bf is a beta snake
>breaks up with bf and starts dating a girl.
>meanwhile I achieved brad status
>text her a few times but she's often busy.
>cant get her out of my head. Ive tried.
I know this relationship is probably toxic but I also know when she lies (body language etc) so I know she is a good person. I just can't seem to get her out of my head bros. Also I'm debating even trying to start a relationship with her because ill be leaving for basic in July.
sage for blog post
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2ca302 No.146030
>>146029
Don't m8.
Everything about that screams red flag.
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18ff33 No.146031
>>146029
>breaks up with bf and starts dating a girl
I want you to realize, if you do not already, that this girl is deranged. You should do everything in your power to phase her out of your life. I see that you've struggled with mental problems yourself, and the most important thing you need to learn at this age is that "autism" or whatever is not a healthy point of commonality in a relationship. I totally understand where you're coming from because I had a similar attachment to a girl who I thought was "just like me" or one-in-a-million, but the truth is she isn't. Get over her, get your body and mind sorted out, and maybe someday you'll find someone who will make you a better person.
>cant get her out of my head. Ive tried.
Find something else to do until you go to basic. Go all-out on your quest for /fit/, or pick up a new hobby. You said it yourself, the relationship is toxic.
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827669 No.146032
>>146030
>>146031
We got along for alot of reasons. We liked the same music, jewtube videos, books, and shared a sense of humor. We also had similar childhood traumas.
Ive had multiple relationships of my own during this time but I cant seem to develop any emotional connection. They all seemed void and pointless. Those women only want my dick. Ive tried throwing myself into these relationships and getting in shape but thoughts of her always creep back into my head.
But yeah I know its not very healthy. The best course of action is to finally cut all ties huh?
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66629d No.146033
>>146032
She was your friend, not a girl for you. Your attraction for her is impossible to avoid, since you're a man. But the way your interaction went ended up causing friendship. You can't be needy or emotionally attached. The moment you showed weakness, the moment you opened up and let her peek inside of you, you weren't a man anymore. Of course such an interaction could happen with your wife if you're going through harsh times, but not with someone that's still to be your woman.
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45c201 No.146054
>>146029
Easy way of how to get rid of unwanted thoughts about something is doing 20 push-ups every time you think about that stuff. Once you do 400 push ups every day, for a week, your body will get repulsive response to thoughts of her.
If you feel so close to her, as a friend, then let her be friends with you. I'll try to explain you this as clear, as I can.
I've friendzoned several girls in my life and nothing will make them more obsessed with you, than for you to not see them as a posible partner. You know, you chat with her, do some occasional activities with her, like meet up for a coffee or whatever people do these days. Girls are aware that looks matter and they like to polish their ego with compliments and attention. If you do not give her something to make her ego even bigger or you don't run after her or just simply vaguely pay attention to her, she will start to think, that something is not right with her or her looks, and they most likely will try to start a game with themselves, to try to win you over, to prove to herself, that she can conquer any guy, tho for this to work, you have to have some background with that girl. Some rare, low key erotic hints or jokes can be your best friend for getting into her head even deeper.
Girls don't know, what they want, so your goal is to make them think that you are the one, that they want, and if you can pull this off at the right time, in the right place, you are in for some fun stuff
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9a68cd No.146058
>>146015
Update, she had a bf all along. I feel like shit now. Why did I even bother? What do I even do anymore. I guess there's that other in class but she probably has a bf and it's gonna be hard to talk to her because she sits at the other end of class.
I don't even know what to do next class day because I sit next to the girl I asked out, and we always walked back to our cars.
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b9d707 No.146061
>>146058
Disregard bitches. You want a relationship? Buy a gun.
Learn how to field strip her, clean and oil her, and shoot her decently. She'll be a much better companion and more reliable than some regular bitch.
Sluts are fleeting. A good gun is forever.
Raifus > thots
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ca3ebb No.146066
>>146032
you were proyecting yourself into her and she was datamining you to improve her market value with the "im not like the other girls" card.
once you realize that, you will stop seeing her through rose-colored glasses, changing the way you feel about her.
she wants to be a thot, she wants to feel good, she wants pleasure like every broken girl. you cannot help her or fix her.
been there, it sucks. if you cut all ties, you will feel the same, and she will be a thorn in your mind. if you change your POV you will be able to move on and get over her.
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9a68cd No.146074
>>146061
I got a MP9C a year ago but never got to shoot her. Ammo is expensive but at least now I can afford to do it soon. Still though, I want a relationship. I look forward to conceal carrying though.
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9a68cd No.146075
>>146074
When I said shoot, I mean shooting the gun at the range not the girl that had a bf.
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684295 No.146077
>Hey guys, let's have a no-retards thread!
<thread ends up the same as every blue imageboard thread ever
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57c780 No.146087
>>146061
I own a Spanish mauser 98. She is the only one who won't abandon me. But 8mm gets pricy to buy in bulk. Also she btfo my collar every time I shoot her.
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9a68cd No.146108
How do I talk to a girl at the gym?
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5957d6 No.146110
>>146108
Uuummmm. You DON'T. Womyn are there to work out not be hit on by creeper white guys!
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66629d No.146122
>>146110
I'm sure they're working out when they are in their iPhones while in the treadmill…
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f1c27e No.146128
>>146108
Just wait for one to walk in at 10:30pm when you're the only one there. Then, after you see her doing a Fortnite dance in the mirror from the corner of your eye, ask her about it when you next walk past her to go refill your water bottle. At this point she'll get adorably embarrassed, dropping her guard. Having filled up your bottle, on the way back to the racks you can ask her what she's training for, at which point she'll tell you that she's been doing karate for 13 years and competes at a high level. She'll then finally introduce herself and shake your hand, and then get back to taking videos of herself doing lightweight dumbbell and cable pulley exercises. Doesn't this happen to everyone?
I shit ye not, friends. This more-or-less happened.
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9a68cd No.146132
>>146128
Okay, I will gym stalk her and find a opportunity to talk to her. I'll report back. There's a bunch of old people at my YMCA and all I saw her do was the running jogging machine that makes your knees go really high.
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d7d251 No.146160
Why is talking to people so hard? I've noticed people in general are not very receptive to meeting strangers. I'm not a chad but I've been told I'm handsome. What gives? Is the only way to pick up girls be 6' tall? Women cry about the standards of being a woman and how hard it is, men have it harder.
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b6327f No.146163
I run JBW (Just be white) game. It's great so far.
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9a68cd No.146164
>>146160
Probably because women send 20 "hidden" signals that you are supposed to pick up on and get butt blasted when you don't. In their mind it played out that they straight up went up to your face and asked you out.
Some women play "games" which is dumb in my opinion. Others feel they deserve the perfect male body in their m8 but don't put nearly the same amount of work into theirs. It's a mess honestly.
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2f87c5 No.146166
>>146160
Kek, as time passes i'm discovering people are way easier to approach than it seemed to me, there are even people wanting to approach me.
>>146164
That's true though.
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3a8898 No.146187
>>146164
Women are retarded how do men put up with their shit? I'm a relatively handsome guy but I lack height I'm 5'8 and feel awful about it I feel I'm judged and tossed aside solely on that.
>>146166
I wanna say it's because you're European and I'd say people there are a lot more friendlier than in North America.
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9a68cd No.146192
>>146187
Same boat buddy. Stuck at that same height. I believe most women our height maybe even a inch taller would accept us. Maybe not most but a decent amount.
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00bfd2 No.146213
If you are in a medium or long term relationship (MTR - LTR)…
-OR-
considering if a short term relationship is worth extending into something more serious (STR to MTR/LTR)…
…then consider running The 5LL Method. I have been doing it for six years with much success. I'm going to write about it and you can ask questions and I'll do my best to answer them.
I'm writing this as I go so there will be gaps here and there. Ready? Okay, let's start with definitions:
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3cde9b No.146214
>>146054
Good post austria
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58fa76 No.146216
>>146166
Spain is a lot more different that America.
>>146187
>>146192
Hello my brethren, I am also 5'8 and stuck in the same position. However, I do not believe this is due to my height, since I have a friend who is 6'3 and physically attractive in every way, but he cannot also get a girl. I've noticed threw out my years that girls do not care about looks. The most pitiful goblins seem to be able to land good looking white women who spend money on them. I'm sure our problem has more to do with the world being a clown world than anything. I do not see attractive men of any height getting women from that alone. It is through skills in bland verbal communication that one gets a women.
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00bfd2 No.146219
>>146213
The "Five Love Languages" is a book by Gary Chapman. Just look at that book cover - she'll eat this up, I promise. Here's the premise: the ways that couples give and receive love can be categorized in five ways:
a: receiving gifts
b: quality time
c: words of affirmation
d: acts of service (devotion)
e: physical touch
(Don't worry about the definitions right now, we'll cover each one in detail later.)
The idea the book offers is that you, Anon, generally prefer to *be loved* in one primary and one secondary way. Let's say mine is primarily Touch and then Acts. Between us, that mean I prefer a woman who will blow me and make me dinner. I don't value Time together so if she go home after that I wouldn't mind.
Same for her: She's got a primary and a secondary way that she prefers to be loved. If it's Gifts and then Time, this means that she's gonna want you to spend money on her and then sit around while she tries on dresses with your money. She'll much rather go out to brunch than have you make breakfast in bed (high in gifts, low in Acts), for instance.
I'd bail on this chick in an instant but if your wallet is too heavy and you can't cook for shit then she's the girl for you.
Summary: The book breaks down giving and receiving love into five categories. You can figure out which ones are important to you, as can she. Armed with this information, the 5LL Method makes sure you get love in the way you want *and* weed out chicks shopping on your dime.
Or weed them in, I suppose.
Next up: One quiz to rule them all
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3cde9b No.146221
do five love languages, myers briggs type indicator, big 5, IQ test, SSxGOMAD, and then ask her son if you two are compatible
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106669 No.146224
>>146213
Sounds gay as shit and i'm a legit faggot
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dc6379 No.146227
>>146219
I won't even read what you wrote. It's probably gay as shit. I just read what the 5 languages are and you can learn about it in David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man. You don't need that purple cover with beach picture gay book.
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00bfd2 No.146255
>>146219
https: / / www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/
Right - so here's the quiz. If you're single go ahead and take it. If you're going to do this with a girl then wait until that time.
It harvests your email to deliver your results, just fyi.
Here's what this quiz will give you (and her), for example:
Score:
1 - Acts of Service
5 - Physical Touch
9 - Words of Affirmation
5 - Quality Time
8 - Receiving Gifts
The higher the number, the greater the affinity. If you've taken this with a woman then she has a set of numbers as well.
Congratulations! You've got everything you need to implement the 5LL Method. We're going to use those numbers in two ways:
1. to get you more love in the way you want
2. evaluate her as a partner and stop wasting your time, money, and energy on the Love Languages she doesn't give a shit about.
Next chapter: turning numbers into blowjobs
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3e7524 No.146256
>>146219
>>146255
>>146213
That's fucking gay dude, stop that shit right now!
Wanna talk to girls ? Get them interested first
heartiste.wordpress[.]com/2013/02/27/chick-crack/
krauserpua[.]com/2012/10/14/chick-crack-how-to-make-a-girl-laugh-on-a-date/
whetyourwoman[.]com/tag/chick-crack/
Women do not respond to the same shit as we do and men who have understand this use it shamelessly, then get in their head:
youtu.be/g_aU6e2AWQ0
youtu.be/KGE4vD0ZmXo
Women solely purpose in life is to be used by cheeky motherfuckers who want to use them to their full potential (i.e. as sexual slaves), don't believe that equality shit this is a jewish trick to fuck up our relationships with women, just watch them get crazy over 50shades of grey or over twilight prepuber boyz.
Don't either fall for that 6ft jew, you don't have to be 6ft to get a bitch to lick your balls.
Train your body to just be attractive enough, dress well and go get those bitches
therationalmale[.]com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/
Just be that cheeky cunt and go get them, women want you !
youtu.be/nTomKxvEVz0
youtu.be/gZx__KwJ2lI
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7ad7c3 No.146259
>caring about bitches
>in [current year]
Why? You know she'll just cheat on you, falsely accuse you of rape, and then milk you for money.
You can use the time and money spent on them on things you actually like.
If you really want a woman, save up dosh and buy a sex doll. Then make your own AI (plenty of programs now that let you make a simple one). There you go. Might not be exact, but it's good enough.
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c14bb5 No.146260
>>146259
I don't want my woman to think.
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5e9ab1 No.146263
>>146260
In that case, just a sex doll without anything else should do you good.
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57c780 No.146265
>>146263
I want mine to be warm and real.
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5e9ab1 No.146267
>>146265
>warm
It's easy enough to warm your doll up.
>real
Do you honestly really want her to be real? Is the doll (plus AI if you want it) not good enough for you? It's pretty real enough. A good enough emulation easily passes for the real thing with reduced drawbacks.
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57c780 No.146270
>>146267
A real woman (no matter how terrible) is an amalgamation of experiences and desires. Not all will be unique to that woman and not all women will be unique but the life and history of a human isn't something ai will be able to emulate anytime soon. Maybe a doll will work for you. Im not knocking that but I want a companion. Not a puppet.
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9a68cd No.146273
>You should have kids! Anon what's the point of living if you don't have offspring?!
>DAE ALL WOEMN ARE TRAAAAASHHHH!
? what's up with this settlement?
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18ff33 No.146282
>>146227
>The Way of the Superior Man
Started listening to the audio book. I'm about an hour in. Very cool recommendation, thanks catupiry.
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dc6379 No.146283
>>146282
The introduction is shitty. When you reach the third chapter you'll already be delighted. Just hang in there
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5086cb No.146310
It was my assumption that everyone on fullchan already knew about this but r/TheRedPill is the go to for dating and positive masculine development device. Also The Book of Pook is a book I enjoyed very much.
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a11cfe No.146380
>>126209
>being this shallow and vein
I've known enough ugly, fat and even stupid dudes that have won over seriously attractive women in my life on weight of "confidence and personality" alone to know that what you've said here is pure bullshit.
Weight of character alone can be enough to overrule most physical imperfections provided enough time to express that character.
Ken dolls attract hollow women who want to be seen with ken dolls, women who under all the camouflage are properly disgusting both physically and psychologically.
Looks, as a man, amplify your likeability - they don't establish it.
>>126217
>redpill
A phrase that has lost almost all of it's meaning primarily due to it's use by incels and faggots to escape any sense of personal responsibility for their life and it's outcome.
I swear the absolute state of some people.
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a11cfe No.146381
>>126235
Just say "hi", compliment her on something, have a nice chat. Don't be overtly aggressive and don't say creepy shit like "I really like your voice, you have a nice voice" since that's an immediate turnoff.
But mainly find something normal to chat about, or something you might think she's interested in.
Also don't fidget, twitch or loom over her. If you can sit down next to her or keep at arm's length or more - fidgeting and twitching just make you look like you have ulterior motives and looming over her is going to creep her out and you don't want that at all.
If she's not interested she's going to make that very clear very fast.
Also, if you're there with a friend strike up a conversation with your friend and just elect to include her at some point. You'd be surprised how receptive people can be to that.
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2f87c5 No.146388
>>146381
You do realize that post is over 2 years old right?
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fb04f2 No.146400
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dff0ee No.146401
>>146400
>thinking that meme magic and YewTube videos will get (You) lade
not going to make it, t b h
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dff0ee No.146402
>>146401
fuck, *laid
proofreading should be mandatory
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fb04f2 No.146411
>>146401
>>146402
Anon I…
I'm making fun of PUA
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8092d1 No.146440
>>126197
Literally can’t stand the ginger who runs it
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9278eb No.146500
>>146255
< Sorry, I've been busy.
Right, let's summarize:
- If you are in an MTR/LTR or considering converting a STR into something more I have a strategy for understanding what you want in a relationship and how to get it.
- There's a book called "The Five Love Languages" with a no-cost online quiz. The quiz is the bait that you'll use to get her to get her scores. Don't be put off by the feminine air to all of it. It's written in a way that speaks to women.
> I'll show you mine if you show me yours.
Okay let's talk about your numbers:
- You will be higher in 1-2 out of 5 'languages'. This is the quiz's interpretation of your answers.
- Where you are higher is how you prefer to *be loved*. Women who show you love in these ways will bring you more happiness.
- Exchange numbers with her. Read them from the top, out loud. Discussion should come easy.
- We'll talk here later about each category but don't be afraid of using your preferred search engine for more information.
- If she dwells on the lower numbers, respond that you're sort of indifferent to it - it doesn't do anything for you. Good women want to make you feel loved, bad women want to make drama. Both dislike indifference and it's an easy way to steer behavior.
- Without her realizing, by reading your numbers she's now opened a measuring tape onto herself. She now knows that you have a way of evaluating her behavior towards you, in easy, man-friendly, 0-10 type scoring.
- Let's look at her score: which 'languages' are ranked highly by her? which ones aren't?
– If you are already in a relationship, then you need to stop any activities in the low rated categories because that's a literal waste of your time, money, or both.
– If you are evaluating someone as a candidate for an MTR or LTR: are the 'languages' she prefers okay with you? An easy example is 'Receiving Gifts': Some guys like to spend money on their girl, some guys do not. Some women like spending your money, some don't. What would mismatches look like?
> TL;DR
Doing the five love language quiz and sharing the results can be used in a straight forward way to figure out how well she is treating you. Also her scoring allows you to stop doing shit that she doesn't care about and decide whether or not you are interested in her categories.
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a31ebb No.146826
>>126238
So dumb. Know plenty of guys who have all three but aren’t confident enough to approach, so the girl goes home with the mildly chubby mediocre guy.
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a31ebb No.146828
>>144579
Can’t stand this ginger creep
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04fc74 No.147375
>>126193
So, might as well breathe some life into this board, here's some shit storytime.
I met this girl years ago through a mutual friend - back then, I was a fat fuck in high school, going through my metal and cynicism phase. We became quick friends, because she too was a cynical asshole, and we enjoyed messing with other people. And weirdos stick together, especially in a small town like ours. Several months later, I move to another town because of college, but we remain friendly with each other - meet for a chat, go for a coffee, and so on. Again, with that mutual friend hanging around us - he was a good friend of mine, a bit thirsty for some action, but he came from a poor family and got MS early, so his chances with girls always ended up around "you're nice but no". I figured he likes her, so I let him have his fun.
Fast forward, she moves to another town (not the one I was in) for college, so we lose even that bit of contact we had. We meet from time to time, but nothing serious - and again, always through that same guy. The two are close, but obviously nothing going on - just friends. His sickness gets worse, he had to do chemo in his 20s, stuff's rough. What I didn't see is how this shit started affecting him back then.
I finish college, get a job, lose the job. Figure I have to go back to living with my parents, to do a shitty job I hate from home. So, I end up in an endless loop of work-sleep-drink. It got so bad - working for 16+ hours, eating shit, never moving out of my room, drinking like crazy - that I manage to fuck up my intestines. Depression starts kicking in, so shit goes from bad to worse real fast. My friends all moved on - except that one guy. So of course, misery loves company, and we form this horrible depression spiral. He feels sorry for me, I feel sorry for him, and we're both furious at everything.
That's when she comes back. And we start talking. And she's there for me, listening to my worries, letting me be a cunt, consoling me, being there for me all day and all night. And I let her do the same. Here's where I fuck it up: I start developing feelings for her. We didn't see each other in years, but there she was, this amazing, beautiful creature, convincing me that I can - and should - be better than I am right now. So I confess.
And I get dumped with a line that starts with "lets leave aside that you're fat".
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04fc74 No.147376
>>147375 (continued)
At this moment, I am utterly devastated. I was rejected by a woman I figured liked me more than just a friend, because why the fuck else would she be there for me all the time? I know couples that weren't this supportive of each other, what the fuck was going on.
So, I cut off all contact. Didn't want to listen to her stories about new boyfriends and so on. I needed distance. And as luck would have it, I move back to the town I finished university in, and where my best friends live. And I use the new start to do the impossible: get fucking fit. I channel all my rage, all my hurt, into fixing myself - lose 40 kilos, throw on some muscle, start dressing proper, taking care of myself, eating right, cutting off booze completely, get an amazing job, make a ton of money, start traveling, go dancing, meet other women, all that. Fix my fucking depressed brain - realize that I am surrounded by amazing people, that I am not alone, fix issues with my parents, my self esteem, everything.
Then, I get an amazing job offer. Double the salary, possibility of moving abroad, the whole package. And I think to myself, yeah, a change would certainly be nice. There's one caveat, though - I have to move to another town. Her town.
And as luck would have it, she was there. Still in college, working as a reporter, not getting paid, living with two roommates, and fresh out of that dream relationship she started the moment I cut all ties with her.
And she calls me for a coffee.
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d00271 No.147377
>>147376
That girl's name?
Albert Einstein.
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04fc74 No.147378
>>147376 (continued)
As you can figure, I say "sure, why the fuck not". We haven't talked in a year and a half, might as well restart the whole friendship thing. So we go out, and it was an amazing day. So amazing that she soon messages me that she's not sure whether she feels anything for me or not.
And I figure, this is the perfect time to get some shit out in the open. Is it because I lost weight? Is it because she's desperate? Is it because she's hurt? Am I a safety net to her? Why didn't she like me back then?
As it turns out: that mutual friend of ours was feeding us both shit. He told me that she was in love with him (which I am still unsure of, but according to her NO), and that she was afraid I'd rape her (again, according to her, NO). He told her that I was a barely functioning alcoholic whose parents dictate his every life choice.
So, yeah. The guy is a cunt.
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04fc74 No.147379
>>147378 (continued)
Anyway, we start talking it out, and we decide to give it a go. Lets try out and see what happens. We have two months until I move up to her city, lets take this shit nice and slow. We start talking about everything again, I offer her support, she offers me support, we kiss, but whatever happens - she can't say for sure that she wants to be with me. She needs more time, more space.
Alright, sure. I figured that she doesn't like kissing in the open places, and to our first kiss she reacted with a "wow you're a horrible kisser". I also start acting out, freaking out over her lack of commitment (my previous relationships ended with a "yeah this isn't gonna work" and she's raising all kinds of red flags for me). She doesn't pay any attention to me, and I start acting possessively. Bad move, I know, but we still keep at it.
Then we go out, and she just drops the line "I can't think of you as anything else but a friend, I tried, and I am sorry". To which I reply with a "sure, I also am not sure what the fuck I was looking for in this relationship".
So yeah. That's my shitty story. Do I remain friends with her, do I cut her off completely again, what does /fit/ think?
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f1c27e No.147380
>>147379
If the breakup was amicable, but you still have platonic love for each other, why cut it off?
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13ba99 No.147386
Update, got a tinder and ended up finding the 2nd girl I like in my class on there. She might be single I suppose. I'm thinking about getting a tinder plus, I didn't swipe on her, because I was afraid she would have swiped no on me. But I got 3 matches I haven't seen yet and to see if she swiped right on me.
either way, I'm planning on asking her out to lunch or something.
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04fc74 No.147388
>>147380
That's the thing, I'm not sure if it's only platonic - at least on my end. I like being around her, she makes me feel like stuff is going to be alright, that I can confide in her everything, not to mention that I find her incredibly sexy. So dunno. Maybe it's the stress of everything that happened, or maybe it's me continuing the story from two years ago in my head instead of treating it as a separate thing.
>>147377
Checked and keked.
>>147386
The 3+ thing is always up there. Ignore it.
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f1c27e No.147389
>>147386
>I'm thinking about getting a tinder plus
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but if you don't already get lots of matches without it, then paying for Tinder is just subsidising other people's ride on the cock-carousel. The only things that matter in getting matches are your facial features, your frame, and your height.
>>147388 (heil'd)
Do you think you can keep your spaghetti in your pockets? If yes, then stay friends. If no, then cut it off.
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04fc74 No.147392
>>147389
>Do you think you can keep your spaghetti in your pockets? If yes, then stay friends. If no, then cut it off.
Well, we cut communication down severely.
Probably going to cut it off completely, since I figured that she doesn't see me as me, but as the amalgam of me from two years ago and everything everyone else has been telling her. Which is a funny thing, since everyone who's heard that we're together (from her side) had the same "fucking finally" and "you'd make an amazing couple" reaction.
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d99be9 No.147393
>taking the slutpill
For shame, /fit/.
Diregard sluts, acquire gains and guns.
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cb7e3f No.147395
>>147392
I know that feel bro. Its a pain that hasn't quite faded. When you love somebody who can't love you. Its worse when at one point they did. Because then you get to remember the fleeting moments you spent in eachothers arms.
>she cant see you as who you are but only who you were and the illusion created by the lies of those close to you
Maybe. Just maybe you can get past that. But maybe its a better idea to find a new purpose. To put the time you were together out of your mind because you cant recreate the joy you felt. Personally I've delved into several sexual relationships with women I have no intention of ever loving. Can't say I recomend it.
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04fc74 No.147399
>>147395
Thanks broseph.
I'm going to use the chance given to me to start fresh. Hell, I'm moving to another city and from there (probably) to another country, it'd be stupid to miss the chance because of some heartache. Hit heavier weights, read more philosophy, get my life even more in order.
Still feel like utter shit, though.
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69b78c No.147405
>>147399
I believe in you serbanon
Aspire to be a man of the world. A man with stories to tell and wisdom to share. As long as you can aspire to something greater you can keep moving forward.
We're all gonna make it brahs.
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462e21 No.147636
>>147405
So update on the whole situation. We talked about the whole "breakup", since we're apparently still friends. Somehow.
Long story short, her past relationships have fucked her badly, so that now she's convinced that she doesn't deserve to be loved. And how she was forcing herself to be with me, but that it clicked in her head how she will never see me as anything other than a friend. And how she's sorry for hurting me, and how she did see us together and doing all sorts of things together, and that I'll make some girl really happy - but that girl won't be her.
I told her how it's stupid that she was never present in the time we were together, because she was stuck in her head instead of being present with me. How I panicked because I sensed something wrong from the start, how she was never there, always stuck somewhere else. How I tried to win her over by being possessive because I was freaking out, because I realized how much she means to me. How nobody but her gets so much under my skin.
"No. We're never getting together." was the answer, when I told her we should try again. "I don't want to use you to fix myself, and I never felt comfortable in this relationship because I couldn't return your feelings to you. I think you need to distance yourself from me, find someone else, and make her happy. I am sorry."
So yeah. That's the story so far. I guess I pushed too hard, got way too involved into this shit. Nobody but her makes me feel like she does, like I can do fucking anything and yet be as worthless as a piece of shit. Wasn't emotionally strong enough, and she was in a bad place.
For some reason, I know this isn't nearly over yet (we're both too emotionally involved into one another - best friends and all that shit), but I have to move on. Leave her alone, get my shit in order.
There's also the nagging worm of doubt that was rolling in my head, that since she's an emotional mess and how she's not going to get anywhere (college-wise or money-wise) I am her best safety net - that I am the best shot she has getting money and rent and everything she could ever want. I don't want to think this way, but part of my head screams it's true.
So thanks for listening to me /fit/. Helps to get this shit out there.
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2d5376 No.147638
>>147636
There are lots of women put there anon. Find a gentle soul with caring sensibilities. You may always be plagued with thoughts of what could have been but you must keep moving. Like a shark you will die if you fail to push forward.
If you have to go to another city to realize yourself then do it. Don't lose contact with her but don't ever let her be your focus until you can handle that kind of defeat again.
I myself am enlisting. Say what you will about the burger military but ill spend 9 months giving myself permanent joint damage to become what I believe to be the strongest kind of man. And I know she'll be here when I get back. Even if she can't love me anymore.
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81ca74 No.147643
>>147636
Remember lad, that they are thinking with their feelings first. They can't understand what is and what's not a rational move, that's why she does that empty rumble about how she thought that one thing will lead to another and so on. Letting them think is a time well wasted. She might try to pull a fast one on you, so she has some kind of financial support, tho, so remember to wrap your willy. You will be fine, lad. For some weird reason, most girls out there are emotional trainwrecks right now. You might try to fix her, but she's still a broken mess deep inside and it will backlash to you, when you least expect it.
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462e21 No.147644
>>147638
Thank you burgerbro. I wish you all the best - both in the army and with the girl. If we ever run into one another, let me take you out for drinks.
>>147643
That's the thing that clicked in my head. She came to another city to meet me so we can go to a concert - at my expense. And yesterday she made some offhand comment about needing 20 bucks so she can start her own website. "But don't give me anything or help me with anything, because if I ask you you will think it's something else."
A part of me figured out that the thing is not only about money, it's about her self-esteem. When I was still a fat lazy cunt, she felt pity for me and that's how we established this mess - she wanted to feel better about herself, so she hanged out with a depressed fuckwad. That's why she wanted to join a humanitarian organization to help children with cancer (but without actually helping the people, she's more at home with paperwork), or how she's now vegan (out of empathy for the animals) and so on. I was just another project she can point at.
Now that I have an amazing job, opportunity to move around, my own place, great friends, now she realizes what kind of a mess she is. She's without steady income, her parents are dead broke and are sending her what little money they can scrounge up, she lives with two roommates and their cat, still stuck in university with them being this close to shutting down and her having to go back to our hometown (where she'll have to either get a shitty job or marry some asshole). Probably got terrified that the depressed fat wreck is now something else, while she's stuck in a rut.
She even realized that she acted like an egotistical selfish bitch, who only cares for what she wants. And that all her relationships ended up with the guy leaving, so now she's convinced she "doesn't deserve to be loved". Which is a bunch of bullshit, but you're right, it's not my place or job to fix her.
Moving on is the smartest thing. Whether I am right, or just bitter and angry, time will tell. Thank you Latviabro.
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63f4ac No.147647
>>147644
Godspeed, Kebabremover bro. You seem like a smart guy and could have done this yourself, without our verification of your decision. You don't need a bitter bitch that's using you to make herself look better.
My ex used to be like that. She, for some reason, thought that she will make herself appear as the bigger person, if she would be together with me. I wasn't a beta or fat, probably just anti social or whatever, but for some reason, she chose me. At the beginning, she used me as an emotional support, to fix herself. When she got better, she thought that she will have the upper hand, but she was wrong, so to say. At the end of our relationship, her parents probably liked me more than her, and she was always complaining about how I'm showing off to everyone that I'm so much better than her, yet I didn't even do anything. After we broke up, she really tried to make herself look strong and independent, but all her efforts failed and I had a good laugh every time, when she would hit me up late night. Sometimes, when I meet her, I can see how she envies me and hate me, but she did it to herself, to be fair.
Ironically, females are quite similar and you can make general assumptions about them most of the time. It's like playing checkers with 5 year olds. They will try really hard to beat you, but fail miserably mid game, and when their plans fail, they will blame you for their own faults and start to cry. Keep that in mind, always. If you ever do manage to meet a girl, that likes you for who you are and she's smart, you should wife her. There's just no real reason to waste time on a typical thot.
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9a68cd No.147682
Still haven't been able to talk to her after class to get her number.
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eda425 No.147706
>>147682
You go to the same gym, right? Try to start a conversation about how you saw here there, and ask her about maybe joining you in for a run around town or something.
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9a68cd No.147712
>>147706
No we don't. Just in class.
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7e85bf No.147720
>>147712
So get her number in class.
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d37725 No.147735
>>147712
>Still haven't been able to talk to her after class to get her number.
Why the fuck non anon? Just walk up and ask or before class ask her to wait up after so you have the chance to ask.
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9a68cd No.147847
>>147735
>>147720
Got her number, she blocked it and I only ever texted her 3 messages in total.
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9a68cd No.147848
>>147847
Correction, my 3rd text was blocked but I only ever sent her 2 texts.
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66629d No.147851
>>147848
What did you send?
Also, stop being a try hard. Be yourself. It just works. Don't flex on her, she'll see right through you and won't feel any genuine man.
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2ae3ea No.147852
Get off of 8chan and walk around humans and get some pussy.
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9a68cd No.147858
>>147851
Just my name in the first text, she replied with hey, and I sent what are you up to but she never replied, and a 2-3 days later I sent hey but it said I was blocked by that number.
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66629d No.147859
>>147858
Sorry to hear about that.
Look, nothing was inherently wrong with it, but it was very uninteresting. If you're going to text, why don't you create a real life connection, maybe even internal jokes so you can call her and she'll instantly click and feel good? That would show her (maybe next girl this time)
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06ff68 No.147862
>>147859
It's whatever, didn't expect it to get blocked. Oh well.
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19d0bd No.147863
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f1c27e No.147867
>>147862
Don't listen to the huezillian telling you to play the jester for scraps of pussy; don't you have any dignity? The truth of the matter is that looks are everything, and nothing will ever change this.
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06ff68 No.147868
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66629d No.147869
>>147868
Sure you don't. He's just honk honking you. He's fucking lost and is a failure. He might just look half good and thinks he's better than the other guys so he goes around saying this to satisfy his own desire to feel superior, but he can only do this by lowering others, not heightening himself.
If it was pic related versus you, sure, it would matter. But the average guy? She'll like the most attractive one, and I'm not talking about physical appearance.
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f1c27e No.147870
>>147868
Being a naturally funny guy is all well and good, but playing the role of a jester and trying to set up jokes with every girl you want to get with (like the fixie bike rider suggests) is bluepilled garbage. In reality, "girls are attracted to funny guys" translates to "girls find attractive guys funny". You can make people laugh as much as you want, but it will NEVER translate to attraction of the opposite sex, no matter what. Oh, and don't listen to anything women say they like, as their words on the matter are worth less than dirt - look at the way the behave to see the truth.
>"Girls are attracted to funny guys"
<Girls find attractive guys funny
>"Girls like it when a guy is fine with showing emotion"
<They immediately stop seeing him as a man as soon as he shows any kind of weakness
>"Girls like confident guys"
<Ugly guys who act confident are seen as creepy
>"Girls like guys who dress well"
<Ugly guys who dress well are seen as trying too hard, and good looking guys look good regardless of what they wear
The list goes on.
>>147869
Fucking cope more you retarded slumdweller. It's fact that the top 80% of women would rather share the top 20% of men than go for their looksmatch, and these numbers are only getting worse. It's fact that male celibacy has skyrocketed in the last decade. It's fact that women see the vast majority of men as unattractive. It's fact that both men and women lie about their body counts - men pretend to have more, and women pretend to have less. It's fact that throughout human history, 80% of females reproduced while only 40% of males did. It's fact that being good looking makes your entire life easier thanks to the halo effect.
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106669 No.147872
>>147870
I'm not sure women are nearly as interested in the man's body as men are to women's bodies.
Women care a lot about status too in which case having social skills can help you achieve a higher status and grooming make it seems as if you're of higher status, well as far as i know anyway.
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f1c27e No.147873
>>147872
>I'm not sure women are nearly as interested in the man's body as men are to women's bodies.
Complete and utter bullshit. Face and height matter more than anything.
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66629d No.147874
>>147870
You're dumb as fuck. You're trying to find an explanation for your failure in numbers and not the fact that you're a beta male (and male are more beta than ever). You need to realize that being alpha consists of confidence, easy going and who is strong even in moments of weakness. I don't think you know what being a genuine man is. I don't think you had a moment of genuineness in your life, becausw if you had you'd know what I'm talking about. If you had at least a glimpse of this with a woman you'd know what I'm talking about.
If you're not getting women it isn't about the looks. It's about your attitude. Ugly men get girls, this is a fact. And they sure as hell aren't beta or lucky
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f1c27e No.147875
>>147874
>No retorts to the data
Opinion discarded
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faef58 No.147876
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66629d No.147877
>>147875
You're seething.
Even you admitted that being handsome isn't a need. It just makes your whole life easier, in your own words.
Anyway, I'm handsome as fuck and I don't get laid. It's my own fault. My friends get laid and they're not handsome. My friends don't get laid and they're not handsome, but the cause here is their lack of ability to manage the situation with a girl. So what's your point?
Also, I didn't tell him to be a joker. I told him to create a real life connection with the girl and start a "us" mentality. Or do you really think she'd be all over a guy who suddenly texted her "hey what's up" (not to talk about how he got the number)? But then again, you allowed your country to be culturally appropriated because a guy shot a few land invaders. I don't need to tell you anything
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7611a7 No.147878
>>147873
Pretty sure studies show you are far more attractive the richer you are. No matter your age.
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9321c2 No.147931
Stop dissecting life like an autistic person, that might help
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ac6e2f No.147980
>>147931
>stop being autistic
>on an anonymous image board
Anon I…
Also to the rest of the thread. Hope you guys make it with the women you take interest in. Things aren't looking good for me but I'm not ready to give up. You shouldn't either. That's what /fit/ is all about right? Working towards bettering yourself and never stopping. We're all gonna make it brahs
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cca25c No.148006
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61def4 No.148076
Does anyone know the name of that book for curing social awkwardness with a series of challenges of increasing difficulty?
The final challenge was something like ask 50 girls for their number.
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e28cf4 No.148096
>>144851
Wrong. Rich (usually means smart) guys will get 4 wives and dumb guys will have zero.
And most people on this site have above average intelligence. And if they would have grown up in a Traditional society (like Saudi Arabia), they would have never become losers/outcasts.
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e28cf4 No.148097
>>144096
t. feminist in denial
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e0380b No.148159
Only book that any vrigin or struggling man should read is Mark Manson's "Models".
No PUA nonsense, just really good, candid advice, from a guy who knows female psychology intimately.
The girl I'm fucking atm is reading this book and tells me that he understands women very well.
https://www.docdroid.net/19VI4iX/models-mark-manson.pdf
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cda97e No.148240
If you want to get girls, learn the fundamentals - men are attracted to looks. If you had two identical super hot babes, but one was a neuroscientist and the other was a hairdresser, do you think any man would give a shit? More would probably pick the hairdresser because she’s more likely to be simple and pleasant.
Women, on the other hand, dig power. Masculine jaw, deep voice, big muscles, huge dick, height, whatever, are attractive because they represent power. So does social status, being super-intelligent, and being rich and powerful. All of these are interchangeable. A literal troll could walk into a room who makes nine figures and have 10/10 models throw themselves at him, ignoring all the Adonises. Same reason you have hot babes with nerds who look like Quasimodo.
Personality is the cherry on top. Girls behaving submissively and loyally turns an 8 into a 10. A scarred computer technician who behaves masculine and focuses on himself as #1 to goes from a 5 to an 8.
This is fantastic news because it means that any dude can get a hot chick since he has a near infinite amount of advantages to leverage. Girls, if they are ugly, are shit out of luck, but they are also fortunate enough that men have wide standards for looks, which is why you’ll see total Chads stick their dicks in homely Pennys when they are bored, because it’s just another hole.
Nature or God has accounted for everything. Very few are left behind in sexual selection if they fight for it and certainly not dipshit incels, most of whom are far from ugly and just need to curb their autistic behavior.
SUMMARY: Are you the Elephant Man? No? Then you can get a hot girl.
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66629d No.148242
>>148159
Great recommendation. It truly is a masterpiece, that book. It's like a David Deida book for younger fellas. It talks about different problems and things, at times with the same ideas. That's just what I needed. It cleared my mind of doubts I've been having and allowed me to understand more about myself.
End of blog
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f1c27e No.148243
>>148240
> A literal troll could walk into a room who makes nine figures and have 10/10 models throw themselves at him, ignoring all the Adonises.
You keep telling yourself that, betabux.
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e28cf4 No.148245
>>148243
Serious cope right there.
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e82ee0 No.148255
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e28cf4 No.148263
PUA is so fucking ghey
The basic premise is to deceive by constructing a false identity and manipulate with psychological power games and it spirals into madness from there, the absolute opposite of virile sexuality, in fact, it is effete
a massive cope for those of detestable character and zero charisma
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bca75f No.148270
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. General advice for autists.
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bca75f No.148271
>>148263
>The basic premise is to deceive by constructing a false identity and manipulate with psychological power games and it spirals into madness from there
We know. As Neil Strauss himself said, PUAs are "geeks playing pretend", so yeah, you're right.
>the absolute opposite of virile sexuality, in fact, it is effete, a massive cope for those of detestable character and zero charisma
Losers wanna get laid, too, despite what /r9gay/ has to say. If all we have going for us is tricking dumb bar whores into spreading their legs for us with Machiavellian manipulation, so be it. Hey, winning mind games against gold diggers is better than shooting up a school, wouldn't you say?
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2ccee7 No.148274
So at 28 years old I'm going out on my first date ever. As you can plainly tell I'm not too great with people and I'm afraid that my online persona is much more charming in real life. I am quite terrible at conversing with a single person as well. Any tips?
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66629d No.148277
>>148274
Conversations aren't difficult. If they are, it means you're leading an uninteresting life and you need to work on yourself, for yourself. Just be honest, don't try to play games and chase around. Doing so means trying to outwit each other to bed.
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650d62 No.148278
>>148274
Don't overthink it. 1) This is just one date with one chick, nothing more, nothing less. If it goes well, great. If it doesn't, you haven't lost anything, in fact you gained experience that will help you next time. 2) Don't worry too much about what exactly to say. Body language and vocal intonation are far more important than the specific words themselves.
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f0e022 No.148279
>>148274
Better late, than never. Good work, buddy, I hope this won't be your last one.
Don't spill your spaghetti and you will be fine. I hope that you have some basic knowledge about reading human traits, so you can tell what type of person she is. There are some interesting cases out there, where this doesn't work, but in general, it goes something like this.
It's pretty simple out there. Be yourself, don't try to overcomplicate stuff and be nice to her. Pay attention to what she's saying and try to "flow" from one conversation topic to another.
It's okay to feel awkward, and she feels awkward too, most likely, but be honest and be confident about yourself and your decision to ask her out, never make it obvious, that you regret it, even if you do. If there are some silent moments, it's okay. You can break them by complimenting her outfit or her looks, but don't overdo it, buckaroo. "You have a nice dress, it looks good on you." or "i like your earrings, they suits you really good" is okay, but "you have nice tits" is not. I hope you understand that. And don't be like an avalanche on a sunny day with the compliments, make them feel genuine.
Also the location for your date is important and I hope that you have decided on a place that you know, so you don't feel so awkward and actually feel comfortabe, because you know your surroundings and know the menu there, you know, which foods are good and which not. You can also pick your outfit, depending on the location, but in general, dress nicely.
Most likely, she doesn't expect a perfect date, because the human nature itself never allows things to happen perfectly. I also assume, that you don't have a speech defect and you can actually put a sentence together. And don't be afraid to fail. Shit happens. There are no wrong decisions, only new experiences. Whether it's good or bad experience, it depends on your actions. Learn from your mistakes and try to avoid them next time.
I hope that I gave you some insight.
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2ccee7 No.148281
>>148279
Well it's pretty casual so we are just going to a chain restaurant deal. She's a vegan apparently so I sort of had to work around that. After we eat we are going to an observatory because they have this thing called a star party where people from the astronomical society bring telescopes and let the public check out the stars. Our text conversations have been going well I think, but again I have issues with one on one conversations. I think the silence is what gets me.
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e1a521 No.148284
>>148281
Damn, nice. It actually sounds like a cool first date. Better than most of the first date ideas, that I have seen over the time anyway.
There's no reason for you to be afraid. It's just a date. Stay calm and don't be annoying. There's no need for you to be in a rush. Think before you speak. If she likes you, she will like you no matter how bad you do at the date, unless you spill your spaghetti all over her. Try to make the evening enjoyable for both of you and you will be golden.
It's impossible to give advice about a good date online, without knowing you both and what you two appreciate. I can tell you some basic guidelines, which are really general, but you will be on your own out there. You have to trust your guts and believe in your actions.
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2ccee7 No.148287
>she cancelled
I WILL DIE ALONE AND UNLOVED
Oh well. She seems nice and says she wants to reschedule. Thanks for the advice anyway.
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66629d No.148291
>>148287
If she said she wants to reschedule then it's great and she's nice and interested. It's genuine. Go for it, brother.
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650d62 No.148296
>>148287
If she makes an effort to reschedule then no big deal, shit happens. If she continues to be flaky though, then she's just using you for attention/conversation, and you should ghost her. Best of luck, anon.
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23bb51 No.148314
>>148287
Calm down. As other bros have said it already, if she actually puts effort into rescheduling your date, everything's going to be fine. Shit happens. You can even try to play it off like: "Sadly we can't reschedule the star party, so I'm open for suggestions about what else could we do after the dinner?" But please, don't say it in a creepy way, and don't use creepy emojis. If you say something like that, make sure that it's as innocent as possible. Yes, your end goal is to go balls deep in her, but try not to make it so obvious. Take your time to get to know her, before you try to insert your benis in her. If you don't feel confident enough, to pull that off, don't even try it.
If you will try to reschedule and she will find new reasons, why the date should be on another day or she's becoming more and more distant, most likely, it's time for you to look for a new girl. Don't humiliate yourself by running after a woman, that doesn't even care about you.
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82396a No.148371
>>148274
Don't be your online persona. Just be normal. Just be yourself.
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2ccee7 No.148372
>all these posts for my sake
Thanks guys. I stopped talking to that other chick and started with a new one. Seems nice and I'm killing it in conversation if I do say so myself. Hope shes cute because we haven't exchanged pictures yet.
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feaca3 No.148379
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feaca3 No.148387
>>147874
>You need to realize that being alpha consists of confidence, easy going and who is strong even in moments of weakness
>It's about your attitude. Ugly men get girls
Jesus Christ imagine being this retarded
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cda97e No.148390
>>148379
>has no proper answer
>m-maybe if I post a shitty maymay, that’ll show them!
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a5789c No.148392
>>148387
Come on now, those first 2 are totally sick and have probably some genetic disorder.
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a5789c No.148393
>>148240
I agree with you in the point that human female are gold diggers but in regards to the primal attraction, that instinctive stuff that makes them wet and cum by just looking is a healthy masculine figure, an archetype if you will.
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96fc36 No.148396
>>148240
>behaves masculine and focuses on himself as #1 to goes from a 5 to an 8.
There is no evidence for this.
But on the other hand we do know that humans tend to attribuite positive personality traits to physically attractive people (halo effect).
We also know that the opposite happens, that is to say that humans attribuite negative personality traits to unattractive people (anomalous face overgeneralization hypothesis). We will feel disgust towards unattractive people, because those features can be caused by potentially contagious illnesses, we will then attribuite the sense of disgust that we feel to their behaviour/personality.
> have hot babes with nerds who look like Quasimodo
Men are very often quite bad at judging other mens looks, this can also be caused by envy.
And women have a double reproductive strategy, get the genes of Chad, but pair bond with a not so attractive provider.
So it isn't very surprising that women will have relationships with unattractive men if they have economic resources. But they don't really find them attractive, indeed you would never see an unattractive man getting easy hook ups and one night stands.
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f4e13a No.148397
>>148387
I've seen a lot of normal and unattractive men in my lifetime to say that they're able to get girls. You posted people with deformities, la lux extinguido. That's not ugly, that's broken. It's because most people will lay down as victims that failure is so common. It's a matter of a generation without objectives or role models, or do you think in 1920 most men couldn't get a beautiful blonde wife?
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96fc36 No.148398
>>148397
>or do you think in 1920 most men couldn't get a beautiful blonde wife?
What?
There are not enough blondes for everyone.
And they managed to get them because at that time women were more economically dependent on men. These days a roasty can have an easy office job, earn enough to live a comfy life and fuck around with Chads, till in her mid 30's she realizes that she wants kids so she will settle down with some average looking guy who has a good job.
>You posted people with deformities
It is just more intense, but it's not like you reach a certain point in looks and then sudently "personality" or "manliness" start to matter.
These things are an illusion, if an unattractive male acts confident he is creepy.
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8d2174 No.148399
>>126199
> I do also have receding hairline since children so I have to ask my haircut to be number 1 on the machine
You'll always be number one on the machine Columbia
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0134a0 No.148403
>caring about whores
>when everything is just plain shit
>when collapse is just around the corner
Top lel
Women are useless and would weigh you down when you're off slotting floppies.
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829105 No.148405
>>148403
>just don't care about reproduction bro
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6852a3 No.148422
we make a discord group in which to discuss and talk.
https://discord.gg/9HvH2hD
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bca75f No.148436
>>148422
>(((discord)))
Fuck off.
>>148405
See weebam-na.
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45a43f No.148437
Dunno how many actual pickup/seduction guys there are on /fit/ but I'll just give my impressions here.
Got into the "seduction community" 2-3 weeks ago. I'm an information sponge, so I've been consuming literally dozens of hours of shit about it every week. First week was probably a solid 70 hours of reading and listening. I had to collate a whole lot of opinions and claims from a whole lot of people, and while I haven't cemented many of my own opinions quite yet since I'm still learning, my impressions are:
1) RSD has zero credibility. They might have had it back in the heyday of Mystery and Style, but they're a fucking joke now, especially with the woo woo self help stuff and the blowout with Todd.
2) Ironically Todd is a straight fucking shooter. He is doing his own marketing and hustling, sure, but it's also easy to tell he's being genuine and isn't giving you any bullshit. A big part is that he not only gives you general concepts which are halfway useless on their own, but specific examples and infields illustrating them.
3) The seduction community has in the past decade crossed over heavily with general self improvement. That's great. However, there's a gray middle area that hucksters abuse with the line of thinking about how self improvement is all you need to reliably get girls. Game is about overall strategy, specific techniques, adaptation, and just a solid process that allows you to pull with the highest chances of success, it isn't just about making a better you to attract better flies with better honey. You should do that, but it's not THE way to do it.
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45a43f No.148438
>>148437
4) Brings me to my next point: "natural" game and "inner" game. Why exactly this is bullshit would take me a long time to explain because these aren't bad things, it's how they're represented by some seduction "gurus" that's complete shit. Everyone is already doing natural game, that gives you no fucking reliable data on what does and doesn't work. Wow, becoming a better version of yourself makes getting girls easier? Shocker. Wow, finding yourself and being confident in who you are helps too? Also shocker. People like James Marshall genuinely believe what they're selling, but the problem is that they're selling a correlative general process that isn't specific to better performance with girls in a surgical sense. It's like having more muscle mass for getting into fights: yes, it helps, and it makes a difference, but having muscle mass and an idea of "just hit him until he falls over" is generally useless information when you're going up against a fighter. That stuff helps but it isn't specifically what works. People like Marshall don't understand that and have this nebulous non-specific conception that isn't descriptive enough.
5) People look at a girl's attraction as all eggs in one basket. "It's all about looks," for example. No, it fucking isn't, and as someone who worked in a comedy club for a couple years in Miami, let me goddamn tell you I've seen lots of evidence with my own eyes this isn't true. "It's all about money" is another, which is also false. Rich guys with no game don't pull any girls unless they're gold diggers, and they need to go out of their way to show off their wealth in order to pull in the first place. "It's also down to personality and confidence" also isn't true, because looks and money DO effect things (to various degrees depending on the country), but the truth is that all of the above matter, with personality and confidence being twice as important as riches or looks each on their own. An ugly rich guy with great confidence and personality can pull. A broke hot dude with great personality can definitely pull. A regular 5 or 6 dude who doesn't have riches can absolutely pull with sufficient confidence, I've seen it. Too many stupid faggots want to boil down a girl's attraction to one category to make excuses for themselves.
6) People argue about some debatable things in the community like direct versus indirect game (atm I'm of the opinion that each one has pros and cons and depends heavily on the situation), and there are lots of seduction people in modern day touting that direct game is everything. Like Sasha Daygame, whose whole method is to swing at every fucking ball like a caveman and if the bat doesn't connect in the first thirty seconds, skip along to the next one, which I find horribly stupid. By all means cut your losses if a girl is clearly not interested, but this shotgun approach to hitting on chicks is fucking terrible game and is the antithesis to the point of game in the first place: increasing the likelihood of your success when approaching any given girl. Game isn't just "spam approach until you find a girl who will give you what you want," that's fucking brainlet wojack tier assfoolery. Other people debate whether Mystery Method is outdated, which I argue it isn't; there IS a lot of specific stuff that is a bad idea on the micro level, but MM is still relevant in a lot of ways on the macro level. I'd say Todd V basically teaches what is essentially 80% MM and 20% stuff updated for modern day.
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46b750 No.148440
>>148438
I'd say you need to check out RSD Max in his series "The Natural", which is what you said about self improvement and etcetera, but he makes certain dynamics very clear and they seem to be applyable in an ample manner.
A lot of what you said about being rich and confident and etc. is also found in Mark Manson's "Models".
But very nice synthesis overall. If you check what I said, come back with your thoughts.
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9a68cd No.148519
>Ask a girl to hang out
>No reply
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e28cf4 No.148522
>>148396
>There is no evidence for this.
Uh-huh. Do an experiment, take two guys with average looks, make one behave like an average nice guy fag and one behave like a manly chad asshole and take them to a bar. Then tell me there's no fucking difference in the way girls respond to them.
>But on the other hand we do know that humans tend to attribuite positive personality traits to physically attractive people (halo effect).
The experiment that started this actually referred to people who were perceived as attractive in general. Which means far more than your physical appearance. And yes, no shit, when women are attracted to a man, they assign them more positive traits when the guy in question is a fucking axe murderer with a rotten scar across his eye.
>Men are very often quite bad at judging other mens looks, this can also be caused by envy.
No, we really aren't. You can easily tell when a dude is physically with an out-of-his-league girlfriend. And it is, in fact, normal. Women get anxious if their guy physically better looking than they are and men get unhappy because he thinks he is hitting below his capacity, and he often is, so the best and most stable relationships are where the girl is sexier than her boyfriend but her boyfriend is more capable at doing shit.
>So it isn't very surprising that women will have relationships with unattractive men if they have economic resources. But they don't really find them attractive, indeed you would never see an unattractive man getting easy hook ups and one night stands.
As I pointed out earlier, men have a huge amount of ways to leverage their attractiveness. So yes, a woman is most certainly attracted to a dude who has economic and other resources and the ability to get them. The key is that you need to be not be desperate and sell yourself out for pussy, which is what a lot of rich dudes do. It's the same with a physically handsome dude who behaves a like a beta fag around his girl, she will dump him for a truck driver who isn't one in a heartbeat. This is basic Getting Girls 101, how the fuck can you guys live in his world for so long and not have figured this much out?
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e28cf4 No.148523
>>148398
>because at that time women were more economically dependent on men
They really weren't though. It was frowned upon to be unmarried for both sexes but women could still work in that time period and before that. Women didn't suddenly start magically working around 1960, they were working before that and no amount of being a provider could net you a woman back then. Even with shit like being introduced to women via family, the girl had to actually like you in order for you to have a chance. If she said no, even in an arranged marriage, you were shit out of luck.
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45a43f No.148526
>>148519
>scarcity mentality
>asking
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9a68cd No.148561
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45a43f No.148562
>>148561
I shouldn't need to. This thread is called PUA. Go read Rollo Tomassi's blog, go read up on pickup artistry and seduction, go read up on the evolutionary psychology of women and how they actually operate. They're anything but a mystery and once you understand how the machinery works under the hood it's far easier and more predictable to achieve desired results. If you want a super cliffnotes version you can go read Make Her Chase You by Tynan/Herbal, go find it on b-ok.org.
Once you've done that you'll realize what's wrong with your post. If you don't do that, then you'll always get what you've always gotten and be stuck spinning your tires in the mud.
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cda97e No.148589
The best way to get girls is to get /fit/, have good hygiene, great posture and groom yourself. That’s it. 99% of whatever feel-good shit PUAs try to feed you is irrelevant. The only good advice I’ve ever seen from that corner is not behaving like a beta cuck but that’s the bare fucking minimum and if you look good, you can still sleep with hot girls while being a beta cuck, you’ll just have trouble keeping them loyal. While /r9k/-style whining about jaw aesthetics, etc, may be bullcrap, having an Adonis body and good style is not. There absolutely is a massive fucking difference in the way people will treat a fat fuck in a greasy Pikachu shirt and the way people will treat a Chad fitness god in a tight-fitting Everlast shirt. Saying otherwise is retardation. Personality might net you some extra points with women because they are less visually-oriented than men but make no mistake - they still prefer sexy dudes over chubby slobs.
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bca75f No.148618
>>148561
>begging to be spoonfed
>most likely not following these instructions: >>148562
Fuck off and enjoy fapping to teen idols like pic related the rest of your KV life.
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45a43f No.148717
>>148589
Not only are you being contradictory (it's all about looks but wait I mean no it's not) but your statements are extremely reductionist and barely rate at a surface level understanding of how things really work. Even early pickups, when they were basically flailing around out in public trying to find out what works, were enough to prove you wrong, and we've learned far more since then. You never saw The View interview with Strauss? The dude is a 5/10 thin nasally jew on a good day, and he landed a chick far beyond his "league" without ever having money or fame at the time he got her.
I refer you to bullet point 5 here >>148438 and expect you to actually try reading shit about the subject before vomiting such authoritative opinions that are so obviously anecdotally correct. Any man who tries claiming "it's all about looks" instantly guarantees he has zero credibility on the subject of women's attraction.
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cb79ba No.148724
I just broke up with my girlfriend of 16 months
I couldn't stand the fact that she acted like a slut and gave her virginity to a one night stand in the past. I was her second time, and she only slept with that dude once, but it still hurt too much.
He was able to talk her into giving him her virginity in only a few hours. Meanwhile, I had sex with her after 3 months of dating and being in a committed relationship. She acted so pure and prudent in front of me.
She said she really regret what she did with him, but that doesn't change the fact that she was willing to have sex within only a few hours. It doesn't change the fact that somewhere out there, there's some Chad who knows what her pussy looks and feels like without even trying, something that I waited for.
I fought with her about it and she told me that literally every girl these days is doing it, and said I'm a weirdo for caring so much about it.
What's the point in pursuing a wholesome relationship if every girl has touched the cock carousel and is willing to spread their legs to any chad, given that he's persistent and good looking enough? Why can't girls just keep their legs shut and quit tainting themselvea?
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45a43f No.148726
>>148724
Start reading The Rational Male and you'll find your answers. Shouldn't take you long, only a week or two, but at the end of those weeks you'll understand things far, far better than you do right now. Just go to the site and go down the list, focusing on female psychology and their mate selection systems, what causes them to exhibit certain behaviors. You're bluepilled right now.
> I was her second time, and she only slept with that dude once
Then she wasn't a slut. Dude, if her being with one other guy in her life one time (assuming that's the truth) is enough to break you, you are not prepared whatsoever to deal with females in a relationship. They will snap your spine backward over their little finger without much effort. In this current day and age, her being with one dude one time is actually an utterly impressive show of self restraint. You have absolutely no comprehension of how fortunate a thing that is. Good fucking luck finding something like that again, or even better, an actual virgin that isn't below a 3/10.
You have this falsely constructed idealized conception of what a relationship should be, and you're not going to get it. It's a lie. Unless you're 16-18 and you've locked down a chick that age as well, and holding onto each other for the rest of your lives, you're not getting any Hollywood romance. The previous artificial restrictions put in place for the good of civilization have been crumbling for decades, and now the sexual marketplace is completely free and open, and the product you're looking for doesn't exist. Maybe had you been born 1925 everything would have turned out peachy for you, but you need to come to terms with the primal psychology of sexual dynamics between men and women. Otherwise you'll be stuck in this sad downward cycle of whining that you can't find your unicorn and that it's all the fault of X, rather than becoming the best of your full potential and living life on your own terms.
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cb79ba No.148727
>>148726
It's not the fact she wasn't a virgin. That's to be expected these days. It's the fact that she had a one night stand.
And how come he was good enough for her to open her legs up in one night while I waited a couple months? If all women are going to do this, there's no purpose in pursuing meaningful relationships
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45a43f No.148729
>>148727
As I said, you're bluepilled. I'm not saying that as a put down, it's just how it is, and practically any male born past the 1960s in the West started out this way by lieu of society lying to them. I truly mean it, go read the Rational Male website for just a couple weeks, and you'll not only have a far better understanding of your situation but you'll have a newfound confidence in applying what you've learned to achieve the results you want. It'll be a solid investment and all it will cost you is the time it takes you to read.
To directly answer your question (and asking "how come he was good enough" is a horribly wrong framing of the question), women have a dual mating strategy. In common ISD parlance we call it AF/BB, short for "alpha fucks, beta bucks." Women look to fuck the highest value male they can, knowing there's a good chance they won't be able to lock him down. So they turn to lower value men to provide for them and their children, despite not being terribly sexually attracted to them, and only giving it up reluctantly as a means of keeping the relationship going; they use sex as a transaction rather than a validation. The author of the blog I pointed you to, Rollo Tomassi, has explicitly stated on numerous occasions that he's heard several different girls talking about fucking guys (he works with branding and promotions, so he's around hot girls all the time) and he's overheard them saying that if they're attracted to a guy they wouldn't consider boyfriend material, they'd fuck him on the first night. If they thought he was, they'd make him wait, to avoid looking like a slut who gives it up too easily in order to project the appearance of solid mate material.
The truth of the matter is that any experienced PUA/seducer can walk out to a bar and, if a chick is attracted to him, do the right things to get her to sleep with him that night, or on a second date at the latest. The chances of such an encounter developing into something serious diminishes the higher he's able to turn up the heat and get her aroused on the spot (something the seduction community calls "buyer's remorse," basically the girl gets so hot for fucking she can't resist anymore, but after it's over she regrets it a day or two later and never wants to see the guy again), which is likely what happened with your girl. Think of it like this: if I take a random dog from someone's house from anywhere in the USA and throw a steak on the ground in front of it, are you going to be mad the dog jumps on it even when you tell it "no?" Of course not, because the dog will only not do that if it's trained extremely well, and that would be very rare. It's a dog doing what a dog does. The guy was the steak, your girl did what her biology programmed her to do, and expecting self restraint and agency from females is ridiculous, they do not have the discipline of men.
This is a lot of spoonfeeding, but it only covers the tip of the iceberg. If you want to understand, do what I said. I won't answer the "what's the point in trying for relationships," because you'll be able to answer that question on your own terms once you've purged the bluepill from your system.
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85f165 No.148732
>>148729
What if I remained abstinent for religious reasons despite opportunity otherwise? I've been able to maintain a standard I set for myself, and while I know how women are in CY+4 I don't wish to settle for less. Any advice?
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cb79ba No.148735
>>148729
Trust me anon. I've known this for a long time. For a while, I was just looking down on women while simultaneously flirting with them. Then I met my ex who was really sweet and seemed really pure, so I let my guard down. She said she only has sex with people she really loves. I slowly got bluepilled being with her, believing that all my values were wrong and that there is good in the world.
I guess you can say I was more "blackpilled" before. The "women are whores but you should love them anyway" pill is something that sounds very tough to swallow.
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b5317d No.148736
>>148727
>>148735
Even the most basic bitch books like Athol Kay's stuff outright tells you to adjust your behavior to her menstrual cycle and to be sexually aggressive you can comfortably be on the very few days she's ovulating, no exceptions. This is an exploit to ensure she loves you sexually because this is the period where her valuation of you sexually will affect your entire relationship.
Also girls asking you if their outfit looks fat or similar "how do i look" questions are open invitations for you to flirt and escalate it. If you can't be smooth then your relationship is going to be miserable for a long time.
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45a43f No.148752
>>148732
Advice? In regards to yourself, not really; if you have a principle you refuse to break, that's totally fine, you simply need to be alright with the possibility of the consequences that come from never breaking it. For example if you refuse to ever be with a girl who isn't a virgin, that's okay, that's your choice, and plenty of religions/traditions advocate for that (for specific reasons they don't actually get into), but you need to be prepped to live your life alone forever if you never manage to find one. If you mean advice finding someone who meets your standards, that's a bit messier. You see, in the past, women weren't "better" than they are now; women were always women. We simply had in place a set of societal restrictions that kept a tight leash on their impulses. Now, they have free reign to do what they want, and women have a horrifying ability to post-rationalize anything under the sun. It's why chicks couldn't vote or make important decisions for nations in so many countries for so many societies throughout so many millennia. Women aren't any better now than they have been for all of time, it's just that as a society we're letting the toddler wander around the house unsupervised now. So "settling" implies you're looking to find something special that is in reality a happy accident of her circumstances. In any case, your best bet is to learn how to approach. Vast majority of men wait for life circumstances to hand them a girl (work, school, friends), but if you can reel lots of fish into your boat, you're the one making the choice about which one to keep, if any. Learn to approach, and if that sounds daunting just doing it to random chicks you don't know on the street or in a bar, well guess what, that's what the seduction community exists for.
>>148735
>believing that all my values were wrong and that there is good in the world
Men are the true romantics. Personally, I can completely understand the shattering disillusionment you'd have felt upon learning this about her, but in the grand scheme of things I don't think it's a big deal at all. The reason it's a big deal to you is because you had this false idealization fabricated in your mind, a single ONS on paper is nothing, but it wrecked an assumption you had. If it weren't for the "making you wait three months" thing, I'd say she'd still be a keeper, if that's you're thing, but protip here: if you're gently pressing for sex and she hasn't caved by the 5th date, 6th maximum (and/or it's been a couple weeks), she believes she holds the power in the relationship and she lacks genuine, powerful desire. You "lost" that relationship in the first couple months, and I know how it is, it happened to me too. One of the 9 Iron Rules: if she's making you wait, the sex is never worth the wait. It's a hook used to string you along. The one exception is if you're both the religious abstinent types, but that's not the case here.
> I slowly got bluepilled being with her
There's such a thing as becoming "betatized" which happens at as a shocking rate even among the most manly of men. Imagine a macho dude who has it all: good looks, money, status. He meets a super hot chick he gets along with, and they get together, forming a relationship. Even though this guy has so many options, over the span of a year he slowly loses ground in the power struggle that is the relationship, he fails shit tests, he gets provoked too easily, he complains about her behavior but does nothing to change it. That go-getter Captain America alpha male could be your standard commanding presence in life in general, but at home he's just as walked all over as a beta male accountant. It happens very often, and when it does, the wives lose sexual interest, dead bedrooms happen, and then they just use their husbands for practical purposes only. Dollars to donuts you were on this path, and getting out after 16 months is far better than even further down the line. Women are women, no exceptions, they all operate under the same psychological mechanisms. If you understand those mechanisms, then you can take the reigns and drive the horse wherever you choose, just make sure to never let go. You must always be leading. It sucks, but the truth is you cannot relax in a relationship, ever.
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45a43f No.148753
>>148735
>The "women are whores but you should love them anyway" pill is something that sounds very tough to swallow
Sort of. The blackest part of the redpill is that women don't love men the way men love women. Men have this idealized fantasy of love, while women have an opportunistic form of love. It's why the divorce rate is like 80% no-fault divorce initiated by the female; she just "fell out of love" with her man, meaning she doesn't give a shit anymore because the things that drew her to him in the first place she no longer sees in him. The overall lesson is this: you can trust women to be women. And, that being the case, you can use this fact to your advantage once you understand the rules of the game. Going back to the dog analogy, I can still love my dog even if it does something I don't want it to when I say "no." It's being a dog. But lots of guys have different reactions to this, some go MGTOW, some go full pimp, others simply dust themselves off and try again for a serious relationship. I can't tell you which one is best.
I CAN tell you that if you haven't done it before, you should consider spinning plates and having multiple non-committal relationships going at once. I know that sounds repulsive to the traditionalists, but the reality is that girls do this constantly, and if you never experience this for yourself, you will never be able to truly appreciate how to say and do what you want with women, how to hold on to your power and control. Only one person can have that and it's usually the chick, because guys have scarcity mentality. It's like the difference between shadow boxing and having real fights. You won't ever understand what you can truly do unless you put your shit to the test.
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465297 No.148759
>>148159
> Mark Manson's "Models"
I'm going to check this one out. Thanks.
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7b9b01 No.148771
>>148727
Because she wanted to extract Chads genes, while you are useful as a provider.
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d2a7e5 No.148775
Are there any hobbies that are greenlights to women? Do they like martial arts, and if so, any martial art in particular? I've heard they like boxers. Is it true that photography is a great way to meet women?
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45a43f No.148782
>>148775
Don't do that. Getting into something for girls is a beta mentality. You get into something because you genuinely want to get into it and have a passion for it and you give zero fucks what other people think. Many guys get into lifting in order to look better for chicks. I was one of them. While that certainly helps in the attraction equation, any man worth his salt eventually stops giving a shit about lifting to fuck chicks and continues lifting because now he cares about bigger numbers. I can talk about lifting and fitness with a girl for hours, because I care about it, I've researched it, and I'm confident in what I'm saying, as well as having brought a number of women lifting with me. When women see you have a confidence and passion in something, it endears you to them, so long as you're not some overeager spring chicken with stars in his eyes who appears to be some over excited novice.
Point being, never do anything explicitly for women, with the one exception of trying to pick up women. You know why alphas, jocks and stereotypical assholes do so well sexually? Not just because they're confident, but because they do what they want without regard to how it might affect women. They aren't led around by the nose via some idea of "this is what women want so this is what I'll do." Those men set their eyes on whichever mountaintop they choose and they look past the woman standing at the bottom; their attempt to climb the mountain will attract them along the way. Don't ever get into anything for chicks. Though I still recommend reading about pickup and/or seduction if you don't properly understand how women think yet.
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40640f No.148783
>>148782
>You know why alphas, jocks and stereotypical assholes do so well sexually?
Because they look good.
There are no ugly alphas, jocks or assholes.
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f1c27e No.148784
>>148783
>There are no ugly alphas, jocks or assholes.
There are ugly assholes, but your point stands for the other two.
The fact is that these guys get cocky BECAUSE they're good looking, and no amount of PUA bullshit like holding frame and spinning plates will change your face.
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1f5b54 No.148835
I'm fairly certain I'll be asking something asked many times over, but how do I start? By that I mean, besides the gym, what kind of clubs or groups do I join? Do I go to the local church and volunteer, or something like that? I'm autistic so I'm worried about doing dumb shit without realizing it.
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666ddc No.148856
>>148784
>Jason Blaha
>A shopped pic
>Some dude who never learned how to loose face fat
Anon I–
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e3e808 No.148858
>>148835
Just approach random roasties on the street anon.
>hi you cute
>my place or your?
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33e63f No.148859
>>126235
listen here dumbfuck
THERE IS NO GOOD WAY TO APPROACH STRANGERS
just fucking do it.
It's going to go horribly wrong.
Then you try again and it goes slightly less horribly wrong.
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857e3a No.148863
>>148775
Anime. Girls get wet when you talk about who is the best girl of a given show.
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45a43f No.148865
>>148784
>The fact is that these guys get cocky BECAUSE they're good looking
Correct, which is how the myth of "it's all looks" keeps getting perpetuated. Good looking guys develop confidence easily, which is the real crux of their draw for any guy under a 9 (and remember, ladies think literally 80% of men are average or below), and so when girls are attracted to a man mainly because of his confidence stemming from his own self perception, and not his looks inherently, you have this obfuscating factor. Any man with life experience has seen good looking dudes with no game shoot themselves in the foot when they've opened their mouth (their appearance gets them in the door but they quickly repel the chicks when they start talking), and vice versa.
>and no amount of PUA bullshit like holding frame and spinning plates will change your face.
That's also true, but if you're walking into learning game thinking "this will allow me to pick up a 9 or 10 for sure," you're a retard. That still totally holds even if you're an average guy (just as Tynan is wont to remind people), but game is about maximizing your success with the highest caliber of girl you can get your hands on. If you're an ugly guy and you have no experience, or it's all experience with 3s and 4s, game will help you develop and understand the things necessary to get 7s.
The real problem with game is that it isn't easy and it's not a silver bullet. It's not going to fix your issues on its own, it's going to take time, and it's going to take a whole lot of rejection and pain to really push through and get good at it. For this reason you have lots of guys who do the game equivalent of going to the gym for two weeks, complaining about not being swole and/or hurting themselves, and blaming lifting instead of themselves.
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45a43f No.148866
>>148783
Yes there are and you're making excuses. Nobody's here to hold your hand, you can either deal with reality and try to change things or mope around in faggoty self pity going "oh woe is the man who isn't super good looking." Alphas and jocks aren't determined by how they look, those labels are determined by their behavior. You can become an alpha or beta through various circumstances.
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f7b34b No.148994
>>129210
>>129214
never helps knowing that russias military is mega gay.
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cda97e No.148996
>>148865
The thing is, it IS quite possible for a butt-ugly dude to get a really hot girl. I see it more often than I want to. The problem is it’s so fucking random that there are no guarantees in dating. You could be a nerd in glasses, with acne and flab getting rejected by an average roastie and then score with a literal 10/10 girl five minutes later and even after years neither you nor she will be sble to adequately explain what she saw in you.
It’s the reason the dudes who score the most are ones who flirt with every girl they think is hot while not giving a shit.
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45a43f No.149059
>>148996
>It’s the reason the dudes who score the most are ones who flirt with every girl they think is hot while not giving a shit.
You're exactly right; I mean there's a lot more to this, but this general framework is what produces results because 1) you're approaching a lot so your chances are much much higher and 2) you're not outcome dependent and are willing to walk away.
The one problem with thinking this general statement is all you actually need is that it produces a logical conclusion that is the antithesis of good game, which is the shotgun approach. Go up to grill, make your sexual interest obvious as shit immediately, as her if she's DTF in the first few minutes, if not then move on and try again. I hate that shit, but there are some people who do it because they think if the attraction isn't there initially it won't be there period.
It's like some guy playing chess by running Fool's Mate every time. He doesn't care about playing a solid game or the quality of his opponent or thinking about his moves, he only cares about winning games, and he doesn't even give a fuck about his win ratio. He thinks to himself "I only care about winning a game," and so he plays the same half dozen moves every game with the mentality that if he wins, great, if he doesn't, find another opponent.
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e28cf4 No.149241
polite sage for thread repair
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8edad8 No.149772
>126196
> David Deida - the Way of the Superior Man
Have been thoroughly enjoying this read. Since it has relatively short chapters I've made reading one of them part of my daily ritual.
10/10 would reccomend so far
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8edad8 No.149774
>>149772
>>126196
meant to reply here
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9a68cd No.149801
>Gave girl my phone #
>No reply in 6 days
Oh well…
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a5df03 No.150165
>>127796
yes and ive lived 3 years of a shit relationship just to keep my dick wet
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a5df03 No.150166
>>128453
i used to have this image as a poster
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a5df03 No.150167
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d78ec3 No.150189
>>126231
>how can you become attractive despite looks
>
>women fucking do it all the time, its called make up, and it works good as hell
Only the ugliest women look better with makeup on. Everyone else just looks like a plastic bimbo with makeup on.
Also where is the advice in this thread? All I see is a bunch of seething virgins. I've got a nice face but I can't carry a conversation with a girl because the only shit that I think is interesting is the kind of stuff you find on 8chan. Women run for the hills as soon as they hear me say stuff like their favorite movies and tv shows are propaganda.
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2240be No.150196
>>150189
Just listen to them and make some jokes about it, obviously don't talk about any serious stuff to begin with. It wouldn't hurt for you to have some more normalfag interests.
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db24a8 No.150198
>>150189
>Women run for the hills as soon as they hear me say stuff like their favorite movies and tv shows are propaganda.
Why would you do that? To see a woman's political belief you don't have to talk to them, you simply have to watch their behavior.
How much make up does she use? Does she have any body modifications like died hair, tattoos or piercings? What kind of hair style does she have? How much time and money does she spend for beauty overall?
What kind of clothes does she wear? What does she wear more often pants or skirts?
How is her family and her parents? Does she come from a healthy household?
What does she do in her free time? Is she constantly going on parties and holidays to drink her brains out or does she actually do healthy activities as a hobby?
How much does she fall for topics the public media implant into her head? Does she ignore it, does she get carried away or is it actually enough to do some low level activism?
Before you can't answer these questions with a positive result, it is pointless of seeing a woman as a serious partner to talk politics with.
Also the problem you have should even be obvious to yourself, you are a terrible conversationalist because you lack interesting topics to talk about or at least you cannot present the stuff you do in an interesting way.
The first thing is fixed by go going out into the world and do something that is actually interesting for other people to hear, achieve something you can brag about. Read good books, have solid finances and a career plan for your life, see the wonders of the world however you define them.
The other thing can be fixed by learning how to be a Salesperson. How are people that sell stuff directly to some stranger they don't know successful? How do politicians behave to bullshit the people? Read classic philosophy.
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8322e9 No.150234
>>150198
>girl mentions any mainstream movie
>but that's jewish anti-white propaganda
I can see how that doesn't work out unless she's a literal nazi. Maybe try some right wing dating site?
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d6f3b2 No.150269
Sort of in the same vein, but how do I stop being so boring? I've wasted my 20s being a sad sack of shit and am finally starting to feel normal. But of course during those years I have denied myself a healthy social life and I'm not sure how to turn that around. Theres probably not a while lot of older people on this board but I thought to give it a shot.
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fa801d No.150273
>>150269
Find a hobby and/or normie friendly interests, start talking with random people, just saluting and a bit of smalltalk if possible, just practice it like any other thing.
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440630 No.150313
>>150273
>normie friendly interests
So he should watch capeshit and CNN?
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c70b55 No.150323
>>150313
>So he should watch capeshit and CNN?
Nah he means activities where you actually go outside your home to other places and do stuff with other people at those places. Like:
Sport Clubs
Dance courses
Language Tandem
Bars&Dance Clubs
Festivals
Public swimming pool/water park
Conventions
Cafés & Restaurants
Events
Public parks in regions that are not crime invested slums
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fa801d No.150324
>>150313
no, read >>150323 plus things like film, music and books, look for the good stuff, learn about it, show you know what you're talking about and know a lot. Sure most people will still not keep up normalfags knowledge of film not going far beyond capeshit and harry potter, but they'll respect the level of knowledge you have as long as it isn't autistic.
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32839d No.150330
>>150323
Jesus fucking christ who gives a fuck about this shit
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535795 No.150331
>>150330
Normies, Boomers, anybody pre Internet.
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24921f No.150349
Here is a massive redpill dump.
1-3 is ugly to unattractive.
A 1/10 is the ugliest person you see out of at least 200. They are either morbidly obese, or obese with some sort of major facial deformity. 2s are both obese with a minor facial deformity or severely obese. 3s are either obese or they have some sort of very noticeable facial deformity.
4-7 is attractive to fairly attractive.
None of these people stick out, and they are all pleasant to look at. 4s and 5s might not look too healthy and may be a bit skinny or even underweight, but at least they aren't obese and/or have any noticeable facial deformities, but they don't tend to put in any decent effort into looking attractive, with all 4s being what you would naturally consider below-average-looking, but not yet unattractive, possibly even slightly overweight. 6s and 7s all look healthy and look like they put some effort into keeping up with their looks to actively attract others, with 7s being on the cusp of being highly attractive, but not yet possessing any special qualities regarding their looks.
8-10 are highly attractive to shockingly stunning.
There is something special about their looks. They put in a lot of effort into fitness, and their faces are flawless. They are a rare type of attractive. A 10/10 is going to be the most stunning person out of at least 200 people if not much more. They look so close to perfect, that they tend to draw attention to themselves in a similar way to a Ferrari. There is some shockingly sexy quality about their looks that is extremely rare among people.
Obviously, how good someone looks is a bit difficult to quantify, but this should serve as a decent general guide. This guide should be good for people up to the age of 45, beyond that, most people won’t find you sexually attractive unless they have a specific fetish, or unless they’re after your money.
Women rate 80% of men as being unattractive and 20% of men as being attractive, while men rate 50% of women as being unattractive and 50% of women as being attractive. This doesn’t take into consideration what percentage of men or women would be interested in having sex with what percentage of women or men. I would imagine that men would be interested in having sex with 80% of women, while women would be interested in having sex with only the best men among the top 20% whom they can get their hands on.
Here are a few things to keep in mind with the rise of online hookup apps like Tinder.
>If you're an 8/10 college hunk, as long as you would put some effort into finding girls, you could realistically be able to have casual sex with a different girl every week, granted you would be interested in having sex with girls who are at least 4/10.
>If you're a 10/10 college hunk, as long as you would put some effort into finding girls, you could realistically be able to have casual sex with a different girl every other day, granted you would be interested in having sex with girls who are at least 4/10.
>An 8/10 college hunk who would only go with girls who are at least 7/10 would realistically be able to have sex with a different girl every month.
>An 10/10 college hunk who would only go with girls who are at least 7/10 would realistically be able to have sex with a different girl every week. (The reason why I say 7/10 is because I think that's how attractive you typical middle-class sorority girl is going to be.)
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24921f No.150350
>>150349
The higher your standards are, the less frequently you will be able to have sex. Some Chads are hypersexual, and would even be even interested in having sex with a few 3/10s if they felt horny enough. You will never see that type of behavior mirrored in women. Women have smaller libidos than men, since the main hormone behind your sex drive is testosterone with dopamine right behind it. Dopamine is the reason why alcohol makes you so horny. Women who take certain strong anabolic steroids actually get much higher sex drives and are more interested in having sex with less attractive guys. You can also observe this in women who are transitioning into men.
Your sex drive isn’t only determined by your hormones, but also your brain structure. Women love to compare men to all of the other men around them and to all of the men in their life when determining the attractiveness of a man. Women also put things like wealth and status into consideration. Men don’t determine a woman’s level of attraction like that. As long as a girl has a semi-decent body, most men would be interested in having sex with her. The average woman with as much testosterone as a man will still be more selective of men than your average man is of women, even though she still gets an increased sex drive from the testosterone. I would imagine that a male level of testosterone in women would bring their 20/80 attraction ratio all the way up to 40/60, but nothing further than that unless you somehow managed to give a woman professional bodybuilder levels of trenbolone, the monster steroid that’s also know to give men unstoppable sex drives.
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820c19 No.150360
>>127944
Fucking a prostitute is only belittled by females who are jelly.
…and walking up to girls on weekends only serves to pay those inofficial hookers' drinks if anything.
None of these bitches are there to actually get to know a guy. Not an average one at the very least.
The only thing you receive from those weekend errands you speak of is to lose the last shred of dignity you may have and to lose all leftover respect for women that may have been left.
Might as well just tell more men to pick up guns and go on amok runs. That's the only end-point that path leads towards.
Also all this bs talk about getting fit, increasing one's attractiveness and all that bullshit pisses me the fuck off. There is nothing true about it.
The most ugly and the most handsome guys end up with girls so it's not a matter of building muscle.
You can be rich as fuck too and nobody will care.
Also, there is no such thing as a good catch among women. They have no inherent drives and hobbies of their own and just copy-paste their ex's hobbies.
I had a girlfriend who claimed to like video games and she owned far more physical copies of games than me, so the evidence was even underlining what she said.
But when you talked to her she could barely touch the surface of any game she ever played. That's because as it turned out she never did play any of those games for more than 10 minutes.
She was a shopping addict, not actually someone who was into that hobby.
And that's how it is with women. They have hobbies for the sake of socializing, but that's it.
Also, relationships fucking suck if you're not "keeping your woman in check", it sounds like off-putting macho-talk but it's true. Women constantly test their partner trying to get them to do things or say stuff with rhetorical questions that, if you take them literally, mark you as loser cuck to these psycho bitches.
You have to somehow be the one that leads everything which also for some weirdass reason means you can't be a humane, nice person.
The more a woman gets the feeling that you need her or can't live without her, she'll try to exploit you. These egomaniacs want to be the ones that need you.
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820c19 No.150361
>>147874
>If you're not getting women it isn't about the looks. It's about your attitude.
This is the worst copy-pasta bullshit in existence that every idiot who believes he's an alpha male echoes.
So what if it's not about the looks? You're literally saying "your personality is wrong", "you as a character suck".
And then you'll throw some retarded contradiction at the same person by spouting "be yourself, genuine".
Learn logic, that's something a man should at least be able to do, or kill yourself you waste product.
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b3eb82 No.150431
>>148735
>>148724
>>148727
Update to this story. I have a new girlfriend, been with her for 6 months as of today. She was a kissless virgin when I met her and I know she wasn't lying about it, we were actually "friends" for a while before I felt any real attraction to her.
Honestly, my advice for young men struggling with retroactive jealousy in their love-life: Just bite the fucking bullet and find a better woman. You're not 30 years old yet and there's no reason to take a woman with a lot of baggage. Adult virgin women will certainly have a different personality than what you're used to, but it is definitely worth it. I don't "hate" my ex-girlfriend but I sincerely regret spending 16 months being in a mental hell trying to rationalize something that I'm against. She stills tries to contact me, apparently she has been fucking some guy who's already in a relationship and just wants her for sex. Dodged a bullet there.
Because my current girlfriend was completely inexperienced, that means I also have to make the first move on everything and "teach her" some things about being in a relationship, but to me that's part of the beauty of it.
For men who are struggling, breaking up over past events sounds like a real asshole move. Some people may even accuse you of being insecure. It's always for the best, though. You cannot undo the fact that she had more respect for a stranger within a few hours than she'll ever have for you, but you can undo your mistake of giving her your undivided love and attention. It is a "you" problem, and not "her" problem, but it's still a problem. There are plenty of men out there who don't give 2 fucks, you're just not one of them.
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fd0104 No.150435
>>150431
>You're not 30 years old yet and there's no reason to take a woman with a lot of baggage.
Even in your 30s there is no reason to take such a woman.
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851892 No.150462
I need some advice on picking up ED pills and how to best go about it. I just got married and was completely unable to perform all weekend. I'm 32, not a virgin, but I've had performance problems since I was a teenager. I'm pretty sure it's a mental thing, but I figure ED pills couldn't hurt as long as I am careful with them. I've had 8 partners my whole life. Sometimes I can get hard, sometimes I can't.
I haven't fapped for at least 3 weeks. I go off and on, but I'm pretty resolute now to just quit the habit completely. I never really was an 'addict', I don't think. Never did it more than once a day. I'm relatively healthy. Probably about 20 pounds overweight. I have been lifting weights again. I've been pretty consistently lifting ~3 times a week for the past month. Diet is okay. Low carbs most days and IF. All fast food has been cut out for a while except for Taco Bell once every couple weeks or so.
What are y'alls opinions on picking up some ED pills? Could it hurt? I have been looking online. I figure I'll get some of the Indian knockoffs and just roll the dice that they're mostly clean. Any advice?
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d4fbba No.150656
It's been a while. I'm glad you faggots are back. Cuckchan was terrible. All I had was a /k/ bunker for so long.
I'm still alone. But I'm ok with it now. Ive had a few relationships since last time. I'm pretty good at picking up girls and making them fall in love with me. I just can't stop myself from fucking up the relationship somehow. I moved halfway across the country and have no real friends now but I'm ok with that. Loneliness isn't painful anymore. I hope you have all been doing well.
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e54a68 No.150657
>>150656
How do you fuck up your relationships?
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8e7fc1 No.150661
>>150657
Inexperienced showing and receiving affection/love , poor communication, and physical distance are more notable causes.
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e54a68 No.150662
>>150661
So then shouldn't you work on yourself before dating? I thought you were supposed to be a stable person before you even considered dating. I mean it makes sense to not date when you can't even receive affection from the other party.
But hey what do I know. Anyway are you thinking of dating again when you are fit to date? Also would you recommend going to hobby places for picking up a girl or what?
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de6d7d No.150665
>I thought you were supposed to be a stable person before you even considered dating
Lol probably. But in my case true stability is not likely. I'm still working on myself. I will be for the rest of my life.
>Also would you recommend going to hobby places for picking up a girl or what?
Depends on how niche or lame your hobby is. If you are into painting model tanks/cars don't waste your time looking for a woman interested in your hobby let alone a hot one. Lots of places to meet weeb chicks but don't expect mental stability out of them. If you are into more like GW nerd shit it's gonna be a search but it's possible. Definitely don't do clubs or bars if you want something long term or serious. Unfortunate that nobody uses libraries anymore. But yeah women who share hobbies gives you a lot to talk about and is always a + for the relationship.
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e54a68 No.150675
>>150665
I mean I do a bunch of metal and wood working as a hobbies and besides weight lifting i just put my bet on hobby meetups and local events.
I would ever touch a club or bar with a mile line pole. Heard too many stories from my friends about dating a bar girl.
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24d32c No.150683
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ca44e9 No.150754
any advice you get is meaningless, the best thing you can do to improve your social life and relationships is to stop thinking and just trust your natural reactions and what you feel is best
even if you don’t get laid you will live a happier more fulfilling life, the idea that there is a “right” way to do things is retarded
>be me
>get girlfriend
>do all the things the virgins on this site screech about
>still empty and bored
>not happier in the slightest
waste of time
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ca44e9 No.150755
>>126210
nofap is the most braindead retarded shit on this planet
as if ignoring your natural urges and suppressing them will lead to any sort of benefits
all it does is teach you not to trust yourself, not to act on harmless natural urges and listen to authority rather then be independent
theres a reason nofap is only popular with far right schizos
>Suppression of the natural sexuality in the child, particularly of its genital sexuality, makes the child apprehensive, shy, obedient, afraid of authority, good and adjusted in the authoritarian sense; it paralyzes the rebellious forces because any rebellion is laden with anxiety; it produces, by inhibiting sexual curiosity and sexual thinking in the child, a general inhibition of thinking and of critical faculties. In brief, the goal of sexual suppression is that of producing an individual who is adjusted to the authoritarian order and who will submit to it in spite of all misery and degradation. Initially, the child has to submit to the structure of the authoritarian miniature state, the family, which process makes it capable of later subordination to the general authoritarian system. The formation of the authoritarian structure takes place through the anchoring of sexual inhibition and anxiety.
“the pyschology of mass fascism”
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de1f42 No.150760
On dating sites, you can always find what interests you. There are even dating sites for seniors over 50-60. I never thought it was possible. It seemed to me that after 50 years of life, there is not much, but I was wrong. There is, and even some. You can check it yourself by visiting https://www.senior-datingsites.com/ .
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baf6aa No.150774
I date different girls. Don't get me wrong, it's not about polyamory. I don't like serious relationships and that's why I change girlfriends regularly. Here is a good site with reviews https://maturedatingsites.co.uk/ on other dating websites. Awesome resource for people like me IMHO.
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f6bb7b No.150797
I've been single for two years now.
Should I focus on getting swole before I try and go back in? I fucked one of my coworkers but I feel like with six months in the gym I can do better than her. I like her personality but she's kinda ugly, she's a 5-6 which is where I'm at now. I feel like in 6 months I could be a solid 7, maybe 7.5 with personality.
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4130c1 No.150802
Good info thx.! I suppose that it could be helpful for many people! You know, I would like to share my problem. I have some troubles because I'm alone. I want to find a mature girlfriend. Should I use this website https://www.spicylocals.com/bisexual-chat-rooms.html? Please share.
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