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▶ Can a Christian have a fetish? † 02/20/21 (Sat) 07:53:42 4a91f1 (1) No.853568 >>853580 >>854473 >>855981 >>855985 >>856019 >>856384 [Watch Thread][Show All Posts]

I have a kinda weird sexual taste I guess you could say. I like girls with fat tummys and would like to know if when I am eventually married if indulging in this would be sinful and wrong.

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▶ † 02/20/21 (Sat) 19:09:30 000000 (1) No.853580>>853593 >>854470

>>853568 (OP)

Saint Aquinas teaches that voluptuousness in marriage is a venial sin. That's backed up by some Papal decree.

He doesn't find voluptuousness as plump, tho, but rather pleasure of the flesh, even if there is a path to making a child.

So that's the Catholic belief. Most Protestants probably don't have a problem with it cuz most of them believe birth control and sex for pleasure is not a sin.

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▶ † 02/20/21 (Sat) 22:34:31 48f3d5 (1) No.853591

Only crucifixion-themed sadomasochism. Everything else, like missionary with a virgin before marriage is a sin for which you will burn in hell for all eternity.

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▶ † 02/20/21 (Sat) 22:52:55 85cb42 (1) No.853593

>>853580

Yeah. The Church of Bongland declared that "having sex with a woman is ok". And they never specified if they would be married. lol.

That church should disappear.

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▶ † 03/23/21 (Tue) 20:40:01 c45de9 (1) No.854385>>854473

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>853568

I get turned on by women fainting or pretending to faint. There's just something about seeing them completely lose control under pressure that I find so erotic. I've fantasized many times about female acquaintances fainting in front of me and getting to carry them to safety.

I've had this fetish for a while and I don't see it going away any time soon. Will I go to hell for indulging in this fetish, even in a way that is safe, consensual and within the context of marriage?

Unless we accept that all sex for pleasure is sinful, I don't see it being especially harmful. In that case, how do I keep from going to hell because of this?

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▶ † 03/26/21 (Fri) 19:33:31 48652e (2) No.854470>>854473

>>853580

>Saint Aquinas teaches that voluptuousness in marriage is a venial sin. That's backed up by some Papal decree.

Yikes

Goes to show how some of the biggest problems with popery were caused by the dominance of homosexual monks. Imagine how different things could have been without their influence

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▶ † SAGE! 03/26/21 (Fri) 23:03:54 8ba124 (1) No.854473>>854496

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>>854470

If he was gay he wouldnt have cared when his family put a prostitute in his bedroom to stop him from becoming a monk, but he fought the whore back with a firebrand to protect his chastity. Moreover his brothers would know of his inclinations and find a male prostitute instead.

>how different things could have been without their influence

You can see that in today's world, it's basically Sodom, prime target for a firestorm.

>>854385

You cant go to hell for having temptations if you:

- dont act on them.

- ignore those thoughts instead of entertaining them.

>>853568 (OP)

There is nothing to indulge there, seems to be a visual thing, not something urging you to weird acts. If you take delight in your wife's forms so be it.

But a person being fat signals she lacks virtue.

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▶ † 03/27/21 (Sat) 19:11:51 7a0f77 (1) No.854496>>854500

>>854473

>don't act on them

>Ignore these thoughts

What about just carrying around my sleeping wife? Will I go to hell if I do it for sexual gratification?

Also, what's your stance on sexual roleplay? Is there anything in scripture that specifically forbids it?

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▶ † 03/27/21 (Sat) 20:50:29 48652e (2) No.854500

>>854496

There is very little marital sexual activity that is actually forbidden in scripture

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▶ † 06/24/21 (Thu) 05:13:57 31a32d (1) No.855981

>>853568 (OP)

most of them have this weird fetish where a shirtless guy with a beard gets nailed to some planks

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▶ † 06/24/21 (Thu) 06:05:23 b89b0f (1) No.855985

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>>853568 (OP)

Fleshlyness is a sin but in marriage as long as the man and the woman love each other then it’s a sin of worldliness that God allows as long as there is no death or uncleanliness. A fetish is basically asking for only a specific type of sexual encounter and worshiping it. So the thing about this is it is a bit weird and I doubt a girl would want to do that with you, “like yeah, I’ll stay fat with you.” That’s kind of gross, and stupid. Conclusion: the sin here is that it is a sin of uncleanliness of the woman[s body, and it would be a sin to openly admit this to everyone in church. “Hey everybody I have a fat wife because I have a fat sex fetish.” Although it isn’t a sin to have sex with your wife, it is a sin to spill out your sex life to everyone else. The devil likes to play with the edges of the boundaries of people’s tolerances, with jokes.

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▶ † 06/25/21 (Fri) 02:15:46 26770f (2) No.856008

I think (and I'm not an expert or anything) that sexual fetishes can be harmful but not all of them are. Liking girls with small jelly bellies is probably not too harmful but having a sexual fetish for feeding your wife all manner of unhealthy food until she weights 500 pounds is literally deriving sexual pleasure from destroying her health and therefore very harmful.

In my personal estimation if

1. it is not destructive to anybody's health

2. it is between one (1) man and one (1) woman within wedlock and with consent on both sides

3. it is for the purpose of concaving a child

Then it's okay.

For example: Wanting to be on top is fine. Wanting to literally beat up and rape your wife is bad, even if she would enjoy it too.

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▶ † 06/25/21 (Fri) 03:34:14 26770f (2) No.856010

On a side note. Please pray to God to cure me of my own bizarre sexual fetish.

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▶ † 06/26/21 (Sat) 03:18:43 85259b (1) No.856019

>>853568 (OP)

That particular fetish doesn't seem sinful unless it requires encouraging your wife to be a glutton or otherwise be unhealthy. Being moderately overweight is not actually that unhealthy. Being outright obese is something different.

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▶ † 07/25/21 (Sun) 11:46:09 1f0f82 (1) No.856384

>>853568 (OP)

>Out for dinner at buffet with wife

>She eats six bowls of mac n' cheese to start

>Follows up with plate after plate of pulled pork and beef ribs

>"You ain't seen nothing yet, anon"

>Undoes the button of her jeans

>Tells me to order whatever I want for her dessert

>A whole chocolate and caramel cheesecake

>Little moans punctuate the mouthfuls

>Take her home, I'm hard as a rock.

>"I think I deserve a sweet, anon. I'm still starving"

>Warm 4L tub of ice cream in the microwave for her

>She drinks it all

>"Still hungry"

>Nearly finishes a second tub

I had to carry her belly to help her to the bed

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