>>161450
That just means you’re looking in the wrong places. You know, like going to a club and trying to find a religious virgin. Maybe it’s your city, maybe it’s the state, or maybe it’s just the specific spots where you’re trying to meet them.
Go to the library, meet people online based on your interests and hobbies, join clubs, hit up museums or exhibitions, get involved in projects or events, and hey, look around at work or school, too. Your chances of finding someone who isn't shallow are way higher in those places.
You can mix it up and meet girls in both random settings and places centered around specific interests. It’s all about time and effort. Of course, it’s going to be tough - you could spend a whole year looking for a girl only to realize the city is full of nothing but vapid staceys. Just think about where the fuck you live. And give online a shot, too - through communities, shared interests, hobbies, and all that. Basically, combine your approaches. You can mix it all up: random online + specialized online (interests/hobbies) + random IRL + specialized IRL (interests/hobbies/museums/libraries) + random IRL encounters. Just fucking talk to people, approach them, send messages, you dumbass. You’re the one who needs this, not them.
Think about whether you’re actually a decent guy. Maybe you’ve got traits that scare girls off, and you’re just too blind to see it.
And another thing. You fucking faggot. If the girls you’re eyeing only go for shallow guys - well, here’s a surprise: they’re sluts. Why the fuck are you looking at them? Don’t look at those empty-headed bimbos. Turn your fucking head toward decent girls and try to find them.