> win a trip for 4 from a work event
> want to gift it to family cos they haven't been to a lot of places
> gf (of 6 months) wanted me to hand it over to her (all 4 slots) for her "girls out", she has never spent anything in the relationship, no gifts or even taking care of the random bill, expects all these and even asks for small amounts once a while.
> me not giving the slots becomes a huge row and get labelled as too many things, her friends join in, she refuses to say which 4 are going but everyone is just calling me bad, something feels very off
> gets her phone, added a "management" app, took a week off, found her convo with a guy, last message was yesterday, they've been meeting up, she admits to him that shes using me as a cash cow. there are plans on even where to fuck on this trip and all of her friends were in on it
> broke up, never dating again and will die a single if i have to. going on that trip with my family in this leave.