/kind/ - Random Acts of Kindness★

Everyday I try to do something that puts me outside of my social comfort zone.

For instance:

-asking a dumb question in my lectures

-keeping a conversation going with an elderly person

-talking to girls (rarely… :( )

-organizing events for my friends who all went overseas to meet up again

-defending an old guy from a pugnacious black guy (very proud of this)

Even when I sperg out and do something super cringe, I feel amazing for the rest of the day. It's strange

I don't know, but working retail for a short while improved my social skills a little bit, If you have very poor social skills its gonna be tough to get yourself into social situations, but with a job that involves very minor interactions you get used to it quickly and there is less pressure than there would be if you were to approach someone in public.

>>39601 (OP)

Everyone needs to start with the following two books: How To Win Friends & Influence People and The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Practice-practice-practice, don't just read and think "whoa that's so deep" then go right back to doing whatever you always have.

>>39629

Can confirm

>>39629

Shill