/girltalk/ -what makes a man attractive? what makes him marriage material?

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what makes a man attractive? what makes him marriage material? penis 09/07/21 (Tue) 19:12:20 No.20958

penis here

ive heard from both men and women in the past that things that make a man attractive are things like confidence, financial intelligence (not necessarily having a shitload of money), the ability to listen, commitment and loyalty, general maturity, among other things which i cannot recall atm

what are other things that make men attractive, according to the probably very sparse amount of actual women on this board?

from my own perspective, i get the impression that there's a structure where the feminine is nested inside the masculine, and the two mutually benefit each other and make each other stronger. a lot of people would see this as a traditional family structure. the masculine provides and protects, and the woman maintains and nurtures. i feel that there's something missing from my analysis but it's what makes sense to my caveman brain, and besides, new perspective is why this [blog]post exists.

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balls 10/31/21 (Sun) 21:32:01 No.20969

I find all of the qualities you mentioned previously attractive, and necessary for every relationship.

But going more in depth, I'm a very shy and secluded person, so I find it hard to open myself to new people, I need and find attractive a guy that's extroverted and includes me in stuff and really pulls me out of my comfort zone, I also find attractive guys that whenever you open up they actually try to make an effort to help you instead of saying "damn that sucks". I want them to communicate with me and try to be openly smart. However I disagree on your view of the family structure, I believe that both people are responsible for providing, protecting, mantainng and nurturing, all according to their abilities and personality. For me, both men and women should play all of those roles so a relationship and a family works, it's a 50/50, of course one is going to be better at one thing than the other, but it's a group effort.

ADDITIONAL PERSONAL PERSPECTIVE

I don't generally go by appearance, and if I do, I'm not very picky either, I have a very diverse taste on men and I don't care about the "beauty standard", because what I find attractive might be unattractive for some.

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