No.20632
So I've been lurking on /girltalk/ for a while and I am finally confident enough to ask for advice on here. Basically I need help.
Before my gf was my gf she was dating a guy they broke up and i comforted her for a while she then asked me out. I said yes as I had liked her for a while. She tells me she hates him but the issue is that she keeps hugging him, sitting in his lap, and goig to hangout with out telling me. Some time she does this shit infront of me and every time I try to talk to her about it she tells me "Why are you so jealous? You tell me who did I choose. Any way we both know you're more interested in Viv (some girl from our class)" and she just goes back hugging him and all that. The issue is when we're alone she treats me amazingly we talk and laugh and all that couple shit but when he's around I feel like I'm watching my relationship happen with someonelse. Honestly I fucking hate him and I just want advice.
Sorry if this shit sounds like it belongs on **down-syndrome"" reddit.
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No.20633
You're right to be jealous.
She seems as if she's too jealous to let the other guy have a gf of his own, so she hangs out with him anyway. It doesn't 100% mean she wants to be his, it just means she's not ready to let him move on.
Now here's the question. Are you fine with sharing a cake in two? It's still cake in the end.
If the answer is no, which I'm assuming is why you're here, then remind her that love is about making choices, and you won't be anyone's second choice. You will, of course, risk losing her, but you'll retain your honor while doing so.
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No.20735
She's baiting you and wants you to punch him you cuck.
Man the fuck up or do you want to be there grabbing her a towel to wipe his jizz off her coochi.
ist bait dude, and she's prob doing it because she hates her sexural competition. I suggest you punch that guy and tell her you are going to ask that girl out since she keeps going on about her.
Watch her change her tune like a fucking radio flying off a cliff.
Who you wanna fuck? her or yourself? cunts just fishing for validation and drama, so give her the type that makes her never pull dumbshit highschool thott shit again.
Trust me, I been through high school, I did my time got the scars n kid to show for it.
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No.20737
Male here, this my first time clicking on this board out of curiosity, this post is the first thing I come across and seeing this shit I gotta reply.
Bro you gotta stop being a pussy.
I second what >>20735 said about punching the guy. If you hate the guy do something about it instead of being a beta cuck and seething while you watch him cuddle your girl.
That chick sounds like she has an array of personality disorders and unresolved trauma. What she's doing is disgusting and unacceptable, she's being a cheating whore basically, and you need to make that exceedingly clear to her, put your foot down and draw the line. Be confident in yourself and stop taking bullshit.
The next time this happens you need to put a stop to it one way or another, whether its fighting the guy right then and there and making it clear to the girl shes going to stop with this shit, or dumping her and moving on.
You need to man up, take control of your life and your relationship. If you're incapable of doing that and she continues to whore around, you should dump her and focus on improving yourself so that when you have your next relationship you won't be taking bullshit and groveling at the whims of a psychologically unstable woman.
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No.20742
>>20737
>>20735
You guys are right I am acting like a fucking cuck.
Next time I see that motherfucker I'm gunna kick his fucking head in to the fucking rock he likes to lay on.
Thanks my guys you gave me confidence as gay as that sounds.
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No.20743
I'm also a guy. Got curious and clicked here like the rest of you.
Anyways in this sort of situation it's best to just break up. Yeah she may be fun to talk to but she's not respecting the relationship and so she is most likely to do more stuff like this.
Also don't get violent. Not only will it make other girls think of you as violent but it will also put her on the side of her ex. It's a losing battle.
Basically, you can do better than her anon. Maybe that other girl she's always talking about is the right one… Who knows.
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No.20744
>>20742
based, come back tell us how it goes after it happens
Also don't be afraid of braking up with her if that's what you gotta do. I can tell you one of the best feelings is when you get rid of an problematic, disloyal, mentally unstable bitch. I had a similar gf recently with borderline personality disorder, when we finally broke up it was extremely refreshing and rejuvenating even though i was now alone and was quite attached to her previously, so don't be afraid of ending up alone for a time.
>>20743
While you're right that you shouldn't be known as a violent person, there are some situations in which its socially acceptable to use violence. If someone gets into a fight with the guy his girlfriend is cheating with, that's very understandable and you won't be condemned socially and thought of as a characteristically violent person. And on the other side of the coin if you don't do anything in a situation where violence would be acceptable and justified you could be thought of as a pussy.
It depends on the situation really, if violence isn't suitable then don't do it but if you know you have to fight don't chicken out because of fear.
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No.20751
>>20744
I did it. Basically she told me to meet her in town as we always do on Saturday. While were there she said "Oh by the way I invited Callum" I didn't say anything. He came and while I was talking to her she got up and sat in his lap. I pulled her off of him and told the fucker I've had enough of his shit he says " uh ok" and I fucking spat in his face. That made him say "Uh eww that's gross". So I fucking punched him in the face I kept fucking beating him and she was trying to stop me. I moved him of the bench and I bashed his fucking oblong shaped head into the ground like 3 times until I stopped. (He carries a gay JBL Xtreme 2 with him and thinks he's cool playing his fucking gay dubstep) I grabbed his dear speaker and I bashed into his head and then into his left ribs 4 times. Then I stopped while his fucking retarded ass panda eyes music played and I teared out the radiators. My bitch is crying behind me. He yells out "No you know how long I had to save for that". Then I kicked him in his Dorito shaped nose and left. I left him with a broken nose, a concussion, and three broken ribs. My gf hasn't talked to me since then. My gf just called as I was writing >>20743 s response and she asked me why I did that and I told her how much what she did hurt me she apologized and told me "He didn't do anything though" told her spare me the bullshit I did what I did and that's a sign to him as to never fucking touch anything of mine again. She listened to what I said and told me she has to think about things for a bit and she'll get back to me.
So I'll get back with an ending later.
>>20743
You're right but as >>20744 said sometimes violence is socially acceptable and in this case it was. I hope that if anything similar to this happens to anyone I hope that they don't pussy-foot around it and just get it fucking done with early.
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No.20752
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No.20758
>>20751
I'm so proud of you, OP
That fag will be sure to steer clear of your crazy gf from now on
Though she doesn't sound like the best gf material, so if she breaks up with you, consider it a win.
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No.20764
4chan tourist here, bumping for interest
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No.20766
>>20751
based, nice job OP, proud of you
>>20758 this dude is right, it isn't a bad thing if you do break up. But if you're able to teach her some basic decency and help her improve her life so that she's not a useless whore anymore then that would also be good.
Whether you can tame her or break up with her either way would be a win, it'll be up to your judgement. get back to us with an update when something happens
>when you go to a girl board for relationship advice and the only replies are guys who came to the board out of curiosity
kek
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No.20776
>>20751
omg anon, I'm so happy you did what you did. my (now ex) bf did the same shit with another girl but i couldn't bring myself to do it so I ended it and moved on.
Freaking right on guy, good! :D
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No.20797
>>20751
Bro update us please
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No.20805
>>20632
she's HIS GIRLFRIEND……………….
End Of Story
Any other questions?
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