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A special girl Femanon 09/09/20 (Wed) 05:43:40 No.20589

Hello. I am not a femanon. Sorry if this doesn't belong here. I usually just lurk but I deperately need some guidance. I promise to lurk more after this.

I am a college student in my third year of medicine. I have always been shy around people. It's probably because I have been extremely sheltered by the parents. I have obviously never had a girlfriend. And you could say I also suffer from a type of emotional detachment spectrum where I am unable to tell what kind of relationship I have with a person or how deep it is. It is kinda like I treat an acquaintance and a close friend the same because I am essentially colour blind or only have a two dimensional vision towards the depth of relationship that I share with anyone.

Tldr I can't tell how good friends I am with someone or how superficial.

Anyways, when I got into college, I of course tried as best i could to remain within a closed circle of boys and stay away from girls because I just can't talk properly to them. Any conversation I have turns awkward and I kinda ruin my 'normal' image that everyone has for others by default. It is mostly because of my problems that I can't say relevant things and I am extremely blind and oblivious to what I sound like when I talk. I end up saying foolish or sometimes offensive things without meaning to.

But this one girl seems to be not bothered by that. I am 100% sure that she likes me. She has dropped all the hints and has been extremely obvious. She tries to get into conversations I am having with others, touches me on shoulders and chest and finds excuses to do so (I really don't mind that), And finds obviously forced ways to communicate. She suddenly becomes interested in talking to my other male friends when i start talking to them, while she isnt interested before i do. Many times she has also tried to make me jealous by having very close talks with other of my male friends in front of me. It used to work before I realised what she was doing. Now I just find it extremely flattering and endearing. I think she has also told her friends about this and they sometimes ask if I am going to be present for the clinical postings (The girl and I belong in the same unit) and ask me the reasons when I am absent. They also sometimes talk behind my back and its very obvious its about me.

She probably doesn't know that I like her a lot too and I want to get closer to her just as much or maybe even more since I have never had this experience before. And I want to experience it with just her. I just don't know how to approach her with this. Any help would be appreciated. I just don't want to lose her because of my social incompetence. Sorry for the long post and thank you for reading, if anyone did at all.

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Femanon 10/22/20 (Thu) 13:16:08 No.20597

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Ask her out for a coffee, or an ice cream, or a movie.

If she says no, you might have misinterpreted her "hints".

If not, roll with it. See where it goes.

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Femanon 10/25/20 (Sun) 10:09:13 No.20598

Have you tried looking at the advice made by Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube? I myself am a no-life, autistic NEET so I don't have any idea how to help you/what advice to give, however it seems as if the videos made by Corey Wayne are very helpful to his audience!

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sage Femanon 10/25/20 (Sun) 10:23:20 No.20599

>>20589

Let it be. There are others waiting for you. If it only costs you money and you get disappointed she isn't worth your time. Good luck, not-femanon.

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Chad Thundercock 11/06/20 (Fri) 01:09:02 No.20622

>>20597

fuck all that. ask her if she likes anal.

straight up. ask her if shes ever tried it.

don't waste time trying to stoke her interest.

shes either interested or she isn't.

turn it into a joke or don't. pink, or raise a curious eyebrow. or just say it deadpan until she laughs or calls you a creep.

doesn't matter how you play it.

get personal.

but not if she has a line of like 80 customers you degenerates.

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Femanon pyt 11/06/20 (Fri) 06:20:08 No.20623

u will never know, so just ask her out. Sounds like she will say yes -if not stay friends & she may have a fren 4 u. Plz.do not talk down about yourself-think of the good inside u instead, Good Luck my fren-u got this.

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Femanon 11/06/20 (Fri) 16:22:43 No.20625

>>20622

>asking a girl out is trying to stoke her interest

>implying she won't just say no if she's not interested to begin with

Don't be a try hard anon. There's no point in relationships if they're not fun.

Sex isn't the goal, unless, that is, your brain is stuck in pre-teen limbo and you have no plans for the foreseeable future.

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Femanon SAGE! 11/10/20 (Tue) 05:20:46 No.20641

>I am a college student in my third year of medicine.

It's a bad idea to start a relationship in college. Finish the degree that you'll be paying for regardless of if you leave with a degree. And you're in medicine? Ask yourself: Does she do well on her own in class? Do you do well in class? Are both of you accepted into internships or residencies? Do your families live far apart? Can both of you afford to travel to each other? More golddiggers come out in the final years of college and to graduates in high-paying majors. Ask her out, but don't talk about anything more than friendship until your final semester. Get your degree. Then, re-assess your relationship.

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Femanon 06/07/21 (Mon) 03:00:44 No.20880

>>20589

Think of something fun to do, like a concert (or something better because it's a pandemic out), and then send her a hint back like "Did you want to come with?"

The idea is that it shows you're thinking of her and want her around while you both get something fun out of it to enjoy together.

Like >>20597 said, if she turns you down on something fun (please don't ask why if she says no that comes off as pleading), then she's not actually giving hints.

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Femanon 06/19/21 (Sat) 18:20:57 No.20889

0 + 0 = 0

No good comes from it.

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Femanon 08/11/21 (Wed) 04:57:16 No.20916

>>20589

She's fucking with you. Smart money is on her fucking your friends and laughing about it behjnd your back.

She'd be blowing you if she wasn't making fun of you. Best case scenario, she likes guys like you- and is waiting for you to do something other than have a casual and superficial conversation.

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