/femdom/ - Femdom

>>9569

All women deserve our money.

>>9576

for actually dominating and putting an effort yes, not looking pretty and ignoring you. you'd get better domination for better prices.

>>9569

I can't find anything hot about findom and I've always thought that it's one of the dullest fetishes I ever heard, but I'm into a lot of weird and silly fetishes, so I'm no one to judge. However, I also think people should be careful with this kind of kinks and I can hardly see those findom "dommes" as real dominant women. In fact, I bet most of them aren't even into D/s roleplay; they just want to make money without working.

If there are people who are into findom here, could one of you guys explain me why you like this kind of stuff?

>>9608

I'm not really into findom, but even I can see why : humiliation. They want to feel like lowly servants to a goddess, being taken advantage of, in other words emotional masochism.

>>9611

That makes sense. However, like a person who is into erotic humiliation, I think there are better ways to get that rush. On the other hand, it's true that most people associate money with power, so maybe they see all this as some sort of erotic power exchange.

To be honest, I don't usually like people who give too much importance to money. Maybe that's why I found this fetish so boring.

The girls that we like can do no wrong. Unless theyre ugly, then theyre wrong about everything!!

>>9612

just mosey on down to twitter and see the infestation, you'd be hard pressed to find an honest to god domme/dominatrix on there that doesn't have findom in her tags, not only do they exploit the femdom kink they spread it to people who are actually in it.

Yeah this kink is cancer to our community. It disincentives the production of high quality content.

It'd be like if everybody suddenly developed a craving for rotting, 12 week old meat and all the restaurants/bugar joints started selling it exclusively. Good luck find a good burger now

here's one of the many many many examples of this shit going on twitter. maybe we need a modern Jack The Ripper.

https://twitter.com/Goddess_Lindsey/status/1125509744083357696

honey I've been in the bdsm community so long i could give you an entire course. I've seen findoms who literally had lawyers write up debt contracts for them, I've seen findoms telling people subs to not pay their bills so they can send them more,I've seen findoms who legitimately said to get life insurance for their families and themselves and write the "dommes" as the beneficiary, there are so many findom horror stories we could be here all day discussing them.so don't give me the "you don't know bdsm and findom" speech. saying findom is part of bdsm and femdom is like saying drug dealers are part of medical community, all you women really are is premium snapchat girls who have the faintest understanding of bdsm and femdom.

>>9643

>I've seen findoms who literally had lawyers write up debt contracts for them

lol. It's interesting that there are laws against "elder financial abuse" but no law against exploiting pathological self-hate and loneliness.

I think there is line between fantasy roleplay and genuine harm that some of these women are crossing. Someone should look into it.

honestly the more i see findoms cluttering up twitter and other social media sites the more i can sympathize with ma boy Jack the Ripper.

honestly findom is to femdom what anti vaxxers are to medicine. it pretends to be exotic and high class but it's a scam made by retards and perpetuated by other retards who don't know any better.

>>9772

Scam excepted by retards that allow thots and women that have no interest in something to target self loathing men. Femdom, at its core, should be about helping one another grow as people, with the woman taking the lead as it were.

>>9649

Women don't like submissive men, so the only way most men can experiment with femdom, is through a paid professional.

The scarcity of dominant women and the abundance of submissive men (coupled with vices picked up through mainstream femdom porn), allow for scammers to act like this. even more so given that while male doms provide for their subs, female doms still expect subs to provide for them.

>>9649

What the fuck is this "male sub community"? I've never seen a single discussion forum or site for submissive men, only porn.

>>9569

findom is trash

Here's my take on findom, findom and "findommes" are piggy backing off femdom not unlike those "MAP" weirdos are with the LGBT community.they're both about as morally abhorrent so the analogy works well.

>>9808

>"MAP" weirdos

Pedophiles. Do not make any concessions. They are pedophiles, pure and simple.

>>9809

i wrote that to make a point that for lack of a better word the pedos are trying to "rebrand" themselves in order to be accepted by the community not unlike the findommes. imo both need to be culled.

>>9823

lol

>>9596

>worst part is they convince vanilla women and new dommes that if you're not charging everyone for everything you're a huge sucker.

This. The new findom trend makes dealing with dommes a hassle. Many new, young dommes know nothing but findomming.

>>9643

>I've seen findoms who legitimately said to get life insurance for their families and themselves and write the "dommes" as the beneficiary

Christ, that's horrendous.

>>9857

Findom is the only part of femdom that I hate, and I hate even more that i'm susceptible to it when i'm horny as shit.

I had a brief phase of findom last year too, worst yet the online domme I was playing with got cuckolding there too, so I ended up paying for her and her dates food.

I ended up spending like $400 on her in a week, honestly even on an anonymous forum I feel embarassed admitting to it.

Fortunately i've not done anything that fucking retarded since then, and anytime I session with dommes going forward i'm going to emphatically make sure they know that findomming is one of my hard limits.

>>9579

No, they deserve it for being female.

>>9857

>>9891

If someone is into findom or cuckshit he needs help and probably a hug, not pandering. We're expected to stand by and watch fellow fetishfags with serious issues ruin their own lives and their families' lives, supposedly in the name of (((tolerance))) but it's really just so some thots can line their pockets with money from the depressed and vulnerable.

>>9902

Nope. Submissive girls are cancer.

>>9936

Nice try findom roastie.

There's this domme I want to become a findom slave to, what the fuck is wrong with me?

Finally you're starting to understand, OP, that "dominant" women don't really like dominating and are only in it for money.

ITT: insecure retards completely missing the point on femdom

>>9823

>>10049

no surprise the clueless zoomer retards are already here churning out their low effort memes, if you're not prepared to submit to any and all women then this fetish is definitely not for you, stop projecting your deep rooted insecurities and go be a fake alpha somewhere else

>>10055

>gentle femdom

quite possibly the biggest meme in the femdom world, you'd have to be a complete fucking moron to actually think this would work in any shape, way, or form, the women will still see you as inferior and will more than likely still end up cheating on you (i.e. cucking you), but you're too delusional to understand that so I'll let you live in your fantasy world.

>>10057

>if you're not prepared to submit to any and all women then this fetish is definitely not for you

This is one of the dumbest posts I’ve ever seen.

1. Most people don’t consciously choose what they get turned on by. Telling other men they shouldn’t be turned on by the same shit you are turned on by has absolutely no effect. You are not arbiter of who does and doesn’t have any fetish.

2. Most actual dominant women who are looking for a relationship want exclusivity. Sexual submission is… sexual. Very few women are dominant and very few women want their man acting sexually with literally every other woman. The overlap between these two rare things is going to be even rarer.

3. Not all women deserve submission. They just don’t. Being a dominant in real life requires responsibility and work to make sure the sub is safe and taken care of. The last thing you want is some dumbass woman accidentally choking you to death with a dildo because they didn’t take safety precautions and weren’t checking in. Thats not good for either party.

4. Not all women want submission. You can’t go up to every woman on the street and start acting sexually with her. Thats fucking retarded and creepy. You would realize that if you thought about for even a single minute instead of being fucking dumbass virgin who can’t tell the difference between stupid findom tweets and real life.

>>10067

>my ex and i were in a gentle femdom relationship

>my ex

like pottery, why bother proving my point when you just did it for me retard.

>>10063

>Most people don’t consciously choose what they get turned on by. Telling other men they shouldn’t be turned on by the same shit you are turned on by has absolutely no effect.

<he says while shaming findom and other subsidiaries of femdom

>Most actual dominant women who are looking for a relationship want exclusivity. Sexual submission is… sexual. Very few women are dominant and very few women want their man acting sexually with literally every other woman. The overlap between these two rare things is going to be even rarer.

<literally at what point did I ever advocate for cheating on your mistress and/or spouse? I merely stated the worship of any and all women, but of course you being a literal retard I had to be extremely specific so the little baby could understand what I was implying, of course women don't want you to cheat on them with other women, the point being that dominant women are still submissive deep down and will eventually get bored of having to deal with a submissive man as her slave and/or boyfriend, resulting in your eventual cucking or ending of the relationship

>3. Not all women deserve submission. They just don’t. Being a dominant in real life requires responsibility and work to make sure the sub is safe and taken care of. The last thing you want is some dumbass woman accidentally choking you to death with a dildo because they didn’t take safety precautions and weren’t checking in. Thats not good for either party

<personally I've never been much of a fan of "safe" femdom, I've always found it rather boring, pushing the limits has been always been much better and exciting, the use of safe words is of course very crucial in these types of situations but the majroity of people in BDSM rarely use them, accidents happen all the time, even professional dommes have made very critical and dangerous mistakes in the past, though of course the more experienced the domme, the lesser chance there is of an accident occuring, but where's the fun in that? As for the first line, it really all boils down to preference, I love seeing bitchy/annoying women being worshipped by submissive men, but that's just me, I find the professional femdom which I'm guessing is what you're into very boring and lame.

>4. Not all women want submission. You can’t go up to every woman on the street and start acting sexually with her. Thats fucking retarded and creepy. You would realize that if you thought about for even a single minute instead of being fucking dumbass virgin who can’t tell the difference between stupid findom tweets and real life.

<try using a bit of common sense next time will you? I never advocated for going up to women and literally worshipping them on the streets of course that's just plain stupid, but again, like I said before, I forgot, that I have to be extremely specific with retards like you. Take your head out of your ass next time, throwing words like virgin around isn't going to help your arguement much.

>>9608

>I can hardly see those findom "dommes" as real dominant women. In fact, I bet most of them aren't even into D/s roleplay; they just want to make money without working.

>If there are people who are into findom here, could one of you guys explain me why you like this kind of stuff?

I'm into inherent female supremacy and female superiority. The idea that it's a privilege and an honor to give women money to spend however they please and these women acting entitled to it and like they simply know they are superior to me is a turn on. The feeling of being "ripped off" by a woman who is "not truly dominant and only doing it for the money" can be part of the turn on in some mental scenarios of mine.

It also feels like I am being more genuinely useful to women. If I fantasize about worshipping her feet, I'm only doing it because it is hot for me, she gets nothing about having some dude slobber on her toes, it's kinda icky and slimy and all around more of a turn off for her but getting money is a tangible actual benefit to her existence, in that sense it feels more like genuine servitude.

Of course it also just makes my dick hard to do it. The humiliation, the power exchange, the stupidity of it etc. everything that's involved makes me horny.

>>10068

>the point being that dominant women are still submissive deep down

Lmao, you clearly don’t even know dominant women and you think you are an expert on the subject. The sad fact is, I hope no domme ever has to deal with your stupid horseshit so you’ll probably die alone hating women who you don’t even believe exist instead of ever even having a shot at being happy. I called you a virgin because you are.

>>10075

>no arguement

>nothing but generic childish insults

lol stay mad retard

>>10078

True, if you could get for a dominant man, a woman dominant enough, they'd fight and the man would leave, but if you get a dominant woman a man dominant enough, she would submit. Dominance is masculinity, all women are at the core feminine, even if just a little, they need the man to take the lead, if you pay attention nearly all interactions between both brings out the submission in the woman (the man has to take on dates, be socially protective, etc…) even in acts suh as kissing (woman put hands around man's face etc..) and dancing (woman put arms around man's neck, while man puts hands on woman's hips). >>10075 so called "dommes" are just paid prostitutes who happen to find that faking "dominance" can get them wet enough.

>>10049

I like chastity caging though. Partially because it's the only way I can go a period of time without beating my meat, and partially because it makes me extra submissive and desperate to serve a domme.

I just hate that I can't find a non-pro domme to have a relationship with. Imagining the fact that other guys can have that kind of relationship with women frustrates me since I can't. I feel so cucked paying for a woman to chastity cage me online too, that just doesn't feel real.

>>10057

This is more retarded than the zoomers who rail against any fetish they don't like.

Femdom is a fantasy, not a reality. Most women aren't dominant in the first place, and most clients of, say, pro-dommes, are wealthier powerful men who just want to live the fantasy for a bit, not live the fantasy their entire life.

>>10072

>Of course it also just makes my dick hard to do it. The humiliation, the power exchange, the stupidity of it etc. everything that's involved makes me horny.

I'm sometimes into findom and I know what you mean.

I fucking hate that when i'm horny I love the idea of it. I fucking despise that i'm into it sometimes. It's such a stupid fetish that is actually harmful towards my well-being.

I'd feel less shame being whipped until i've got permanent scars on my back, most dommes won't do that, but they'll gladly take hundreds and thousands of dollars from you while you're horny enough to part with that cash.

Findom makes me fucking despise women. If you're gonna take thousands of dollars from me, at least be willing to dominate me harshly in a physical way.

>>10081

This is true, but only if you're good looking. If you're ugly, women understandably feel any power in gentle femdom, which is fair enough, guys are kind of that way too.

>>10075

Stay butthurt, he's correct, true dominant women don't exist.

They'll take your money, hell, i'm sure you can dominated financially all the time so you don't have any room to speak on whether or not dominant women actually exist, because you give them your money to dominate you.

Remember findom is to bdsm/femdom what lootboxes and microtransactions are to video games with the "findommes" being the corporations. they claim it's legitimate and that it doesn't hurt anyone, that it's a choice and harmless fun while also looking for the "whales" and putting their practices in everyone else's business. now there's an analogy to work on.

https://www.dailydot.com/irl/findom-kinky-fetish-domination-extortion-blackmail/

>>10098

>>10099

I agree with this, but what can you say to those like me who hate this fetish, but still end up having it when i'm horny?

Like I had an exchange with a domme recently. During it she snuck in findom shit and I ended up giving her an extra $50 because I was horny and found it hot that she was commanding me, quite strictly, to give her money.

>>10100

well i'd say i completely understand where you're coming from, i think we all do stupid sometimes regrettable shit when we're horny and i myself have been coerced into findom seemingly out of nowhere. i don't have an easy answer other they to try and be actively aware of it when it happens and try to avoid it, they're like snakes they know exactly when and how to strike and they always refine their skills.

>>10102

Thanks it's good to know i'm not alone in succumbing to it.

I despise findom shit and have decided to no longer interact with that domme because any that would ask or force a sub to do findom out of nowhere isnt one I can deal with.

>>10103

agreed, i used to think shaming them would help pushback but honestly most of them don't care. they take pride in their greediness and exploitative behavior. as for me i'm steering clear of it as much as i can, if i so much as contact a new domme and she gives the bs line of: i'm not a findomme but i need an initial tribute" i just log out, i'm at a point where my brain is actively fighting me when i so much as think about doing anything findom related.

>>10104

Yeah that's the most we can do, just constantly steer clear of those who would have us do findomme stuff.

I wish this place were more active. There's not any femdom communities that are so harshly against certain aspects to femdom like cuckolding and findomming like this place. If I could more regularly interact with like-minded femdom subs I think I would be able to keep on my toes and away from giving into certain fetishes I despise.

>>10105

i'm with you on that, go to reddit or other popular sites and you'll get a horde of white knights and banned for daring to speak out against findom.

Thinking about getting into Findom

some guides for it? the best way to send someone money over the internet?

>>10108

The only way a girl would treat you this well rather than just flat out taking all your money is if you're good looking. Most guys don't have this luxury.

>>10114

I'm not ugly but I'm not particularly handsome either. Probably a 6 to 7 range outta 10. I'm tall and skinny for the most part. She just loved me a lot. She wasn't the vain type to get caught up in appearances.

Looks definitely help with women but if you don't have any charisma you're not getting any pussy unless you have money to make up for being uninteresting.

>>9645

I don't doubt that this woman gets the occasional "tribute" from men but she is also full of shit. I actually got drunk one night and out of curiosity, I sent her money on Circle to view this debt contract. It does appear to be a real legal document drawn by a lawyer or someone very well versed in contracts.

After she tweeted this, there was massive amounts of harassment towards her from half chan. She deleted a bunch of tweets and threatened to sue people harassing her and begged people to report those "harassing" her.

She has almost 0 interaction on her tweets. There are a few bots that retweet but 99% of her tweets have no comments at all. She currently has around 3600 followers. It will sometimes go up to around 5100+ and drop back down 1500 a month or two later. I'm assuming she is buying bot followers.

She has also changed her account name a few times since last fall. Here is her latest tweet from tonight. "When your account decides it’s wise to overdraft when you’re getting groceries, you’re not going to have a happy #domme! Send to fix this #losers! #findom" Does this sound like someone that has a man locked into a $100K debt contract. She is completely full of shit.

>>10116

No one ever describes themselves as good looking when it comes to why they're romantically successful.

At 7/10 is very attractive. No guy less attractive than you is going to get what you had.

>>10117

I like to cope by imagining all these findoms are lying out their asses about how much money they're being sent.

>>10117

i'm guessing it's used as more of an hyperbolic example rather than the norm, still social media is completely swarming with these money hungry leeches.

>>10123

i was following some dommes who retweeted findommes and on of the tweets was this L.A blond bitch who went out for a "cash meet" with her sub only for him to follow her afterwards,beat her and take his money back. i couldn't help but to laugh, while i don't wish a similar fate to real dommes i have no problems with that happening to those scummy findommes

>>10104

maybe it's like a PR thing, Urban dictionary's definitions are basically sucking their proverbial cocks and the dommes themselves are having their retarded subs spread them around and further legitimize their shitty excuse for a kink.

>>10114

Actually it's pretty easy to get women into any kind of roleplay, regardless of your fetish. You don't have to be "good looking" just tell your girlfriend what you're into.

People have gotten hung up on the looks thing recently because of social media.

>>10131

Looks definitely plays a large role in their receptiveness as well as hust having a gf in the first place.

Non uggos like you always try to underplay how much your looks mattered, it's human nature to try and pretend it was something you did to be successful in X way and not some trait you were born with.

on of the many examples of this cancer

https://twitter.com/thealogic/status/1151228628199514113

This one lost a lower leg and foot and needs her bills paid! https://twitter.com/lizzie_rose2894/status/1141795021198417920

>>10138

I don't think anyone is going to deny some decent looks will help you when it comes to finding a woman but even a decent looking guy is fucked if he can't string a few sentences together at least. Supreme gentleman is a fine example of this. He had a car, decent to above average looks and probably some of daddy's money to flaunt to various whores. Despite this, he was still a hopeless incel and effectively a genetic dead end.

Most guys with his setup would be swimming pussy but he was such an autist he couldn't fucking make it work. I know this sounds straight boomer-core but simply being able to smile and talk to another person without spilling your spaghetti puts you leaps and bounds ahead of your competition if you're pretty average across the board. I'd be chasing after more women in my area if they all weren't covered in tattoos and culturally malnourished to the point where the only book they can boast to have read is harry potter.

Don't get me started on fur babies

I'm more concerned about the feet and pegging epidemics.

>>10154

Of course if you look like ER you literally need to be a mega autist who is also super picky to be single.

But i'm saying your average guy doesn't have a chance at having their GF be so receptive to super kinky things when he's not gl.

>>10170

It also depends on what your fetish is. Most girls won't turn down you sucking on their fingers, toes, or displaying your skills as a cunning linguist since that stuff is pretty par for the course. Conversely, if you're wanting her to piss on you, tie you up, gag you, spank you, peg you and so on, you're going to start to encounter some resistance unless they like being dominant from the start.

Unless you're physically repugnant to the point where you look like a gangly mongoloid with fetal alcohol syndrome I don't think you have it bad being average or slightly above. The real degree of separation that will count for drawing pussy toward you are more basic things

>do you live on your own?

>do you have a car (that runs)?

>do you have a job or some form of recurrent income?

If you can answer yes to all three of those questions you're pretty well off in my book. Everything else is icing on the cake. Right now I'm living with my folks so I'm not really actively pursuing any women (failure to launch, I do miss living on my own). It's a lot easier when you can bring a strange lady home and try fucking her a without your parents knocking curiously at your door to ask you if she's going to be your waifu.

Put aside kink business for a moment.

Women want to be able to feel safe with you so if you can't offer her a place to stay, offer to drive her there and then feed her when you both arrive she'll be far less inclined to peruse you. This isn't just muh materialistic whore. Women have in built shittest flags and if they think you're a loser who can't provide basic necessities you're always gonna land in the friend zone regardless of whether or not you some kind of Adonis.

>what about whores? I had sex with some lady and I didn't need all that.

Well if you want to fuck some gutterskank be my guest. Alternatively maybe the woman is in a bad place and is willing to shack up with anyone in the hope they won't be shit later. As previously mentioned there's always going to be outliers but they're the exceptions that highlight the rule.

>>10172

None of that applies when you're in your early 20s though for most people.

No one my age has a house, some own cars and are making payments on them, and we do have jobs, but that's it.

The degree of separation at this point in life is looks. I don't dispute that later on in life that pendulum swings, but at that point you're just being used by women who have already fucked and dated many more men than you will ever date women.

When you're ugly those romantic doors are tightly locked. There's nothing you can do at this point to open them.

>>10173

>early twenties.

I was referencing my later twenties 25-30. That was my romantic hayday when I attempted to start my life proper. I don't know for sure but I think if you've managed a failure to launch it's really hard to dig yourself out of that pit.

I'm not young anymore and that fire in my heart to chase women is gone. I've seen what most women have to offer and I can't rationalize the time/money investment required to properly court women these days to find out if they're worth the trouble. By the time I get home from work I just want to veg out and pursue my own hobbies rather than chase after women (most of whom are vapid thots in current year).

There's no reason to move out of my parents place since that would just be dumping money into a pit via rent. I'd be better served to feather my nest and care for myself. I'm not even trying to be MGTOW, I'm just focusing on feeding and providing for myself. Women simply don't enter into the equation.

>>10172

truly do we live in a society

i for one welcome our digital female overlords

https://pollmill.com/f/what-is-the-size-of-rina-cyber-japan-dancers-s-nipple-4gjrtlp

here's the dildo, we'll never get rid of findom because there will always be thirsty retard who would do anything for the mere scent or glimpse of pussy even if digital. so there will always be a market for it no matter what anyone does, the best we can hope for is to make it unpopular or seem unethical and cruel (like all those weirdos with the animal crushing fetish)

i still think we need to get /pol involved, either here on half chan

>>10236

It's not the same. I've been drained over $2K in a matter of minutes before. Volcanic eruption orgasm. Also just signed a contract to start paying child support to another Goddess.

>>10237

i really hate that this post give me a boner

share some more details

>>10239

>>10237

Jesus fucking christ get a grip both of you.

>>10237

dude that's fucked up but i feel your pain, everyone has done retarded thing while horny. you my friend need a safeguard against this sort of thing so you don't throw your money away on women who wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire.

>>10098

>>10098

i revised your analogy, let me know what you guys think.

" findom is to bdsm/femdom what lootboxes and microtransactions are to video games with the "findommes" being the game companies. they claim it's legitimate and that it doesn't hurt anyone, that it's a choice and harmless fun and taking it away from them would hurt their creative freedom (or in this case "kink shame") while also looking for the "whales" and putting their practices in everyone else's business. i implore you to find a AAA game today that doesn't have lootboxes,microtransaction or predatory monetization you'll most likely find very few if at all, same with dommes today,you'd be hard pressed to find a domme of any kind of description who'd give you the time of day without money changing hands"

Good god i thought you lot were joking about twitter and reddit https://www.reddit.com/r/findom/ look at this shit! we need a fucking Jihad on these parasites and their white knights.

>>9601

i already get that from my employer

here's the thing, we're literally in a weaken state of mind when we're horny https://www.society19.com/when-youre-horny/

women and especially findommes have realized this and have weaponized it.

>>9608

>If there are people who are into findom here, could one of you guys explain me why you like this kind of stuff?

Much like my sadistic tendencies were formed in childhood from abuse, my interest in findom stemmed from being taken advantage of, and left in a very difficult situation by someone I thought loved me.

>>10286

I didn't realize 'Good Boy' was the default.

>>10255

Good.

Just another kink. You don't like it don't play.

>>10405

It's materialistic, un-intimate and predatory. You're free to like what I don't like, but that doesn't change the fact that you're a retard with a dog knees-tier fetish, nor that your so-called "domme" is just some beggar who doesn't give a fuck about you. Seriously, findommes aren't even prostitutes. Prostitutes exchange sometimes vaguely sexual services for money. Findommes just say "gibe moni plox fgt" and sexual simps find this sexy.

I agree! Many girls are on Findom, without the knowledge of Femdom. It must be stopped.

I would like to give her money but only if shes a virgin is there some sort of subcategory for this?

>>9902

I don't really see the point of paying ugly or unappealing women

>>10237

dead honest this is sounding like a lot of the logic underpinning gambling

the numbers whistling out of ones wallet IS the rush

Lots of people can't get their heads around it

But there wouldn't be others playing higher & higher numbers if it didn't correlate with a bigger buildup

And then add cum into the equation haha

The microtransaction analogy being bandied about in here is looking more & more suitable also

I really hope you give this the same regard you would gambling or a drug habit, & that you only spend as much for the kick as is suitable for your finances

>>10668

whoops I didnt realise sage was so aggressive on this site

i just do it habitually so I dont bump anything

>>10705

Findom can be anything, as long as you're getting paid for "nothing". What do I mean. You don't really have to give anything back. Some women are being paid just for existing, and some guys pay just to receive a message that says <<good job slave, buy me more now>>. You probably have it wrong with it being an "actual relationship". It isn't. As long as someone is paying, they have your attention (you decide the amount), and that's it.

My ex had financial issues, and we would give it a try. Plus, if she made a wishlist, she'd ass things for me as well. Give it a second thought.