8130fa No.9569 [View All]
"Beneath the Femdom/bdsm community there is a cancer… known as the findom, a malignant growth that needs to be cut before it infects the surface."
have you lads seen the downright pandemic levels of findom "dommes" and pretenders? I've recently got into twitter for nsfw content and have been shocked to discover that the vast majority of femdom content (if you can even call it that) is a bunch of thots pretending to be dominatrixes and dominant all over the place advertising themselves for money, what's worse is that they sweep and infect other women into their ways causing once free and normal dommes to buy into that shit.and then we have the subs who feed their addiction because either they don't know any better or are genuinely into it but lets be honest it's more of the former than the latter, thing is i doubt the demand is this high that findom is now the face of femdom and normal femdom is pushed to the sidelines.
do you think anything can be done against this disgusting and destructive practice or has the ship already sailed on that and we're watching our beloved kink diluted and bastardized by money hungry thots?
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fc5b7c No.10126
>>10117
i'm guessing it's used as more of an hyperbolic example rather than the norm, still social media is completely swarming with these money hungry leeches.
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fc5b7c No.10127
>>10123
i was following some dommes who retweeted findommes and on of the tweets was this L.A blond bitch who went out for a "cash meet" with her sub only for him to follow her afterwards,beat her and take his money back. i couldn't help but to laugh, while i don't wish a similar fate to real dommes i have no problems with that happening to those scummy findommes
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fc5b7c No.10128
>>10104
maybe it's like a PR thing, Urban dictionary's definitions are basically sucking their proverbial cocks and the dommes themselves are having their retarded subs spread them around and further legitimize their shitty excuse for a kink.
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e1e690 No.10131
>>10114
Actually it's pretty easy to get women into any kind of roleplay, regardless of your fetish. You don't have to be "good looking" just tell your girlfriend what you're into.
People have gotten hung up on the looks thing recently because of social media.
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b8ccc6 No.10133
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81aaab No.10138
>>10131
Looks definitely plays a large role in their receptiveness as well as hust having a gf in the first place.
Non uggos like you always try to underplay how much your looks mattered, it's human nature to try and pretend it was something you did to be successful in X way and not some trait you were born with.
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3a69ad No.10140
on of the many examples of this cancer
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3a69ad No.10141
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b8ccc6 No.10145
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1138e7 No.10154
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>>10138
I don't think anyone is going to deny some decent looks will help you when it comes to finding a woman but even a decent looking guy is fucked if he can't string a few sentences together at least. Supreme gentleman is a fine example of this. He had a car, decent to above average looks and probably some of daddy's money to flaunt to various whores. Despite this, he was still a hopeless incel and effectively a genetic dead end.
Most guys with his setup would be swimming pussy but he was such an autist he couldn't fucking make it work. I know this sounds straight boomer-core but simply being able to smile and talk to another person without spilling your spaghetti puts you leaps and bounds ahead of your competition if you're pretty average across the board. I'd be chasing after more women in my area if they all weren't covered in tattoos and culturally malnourished to the point where the only book they can boast to have read is harry potter.
Don't get me started on fur babies
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465d7c No.10166
I'm more concerned about the feet and pegging epidemics.
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3a69ad No.10169
>>10166
here's the thing feet have always been around, it's like entry level kink,it's so wide spread these days i'd go so far as to deem it vanilla, as for pegging it ties together with regular and hardcore femdom.
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f0184b No.10170
>>10154
Of course if you look like ER you literally need to be a mega autist who is also super picky to be single.
But i'm saying your average guy doesn't have a chance at having their GF be so receptive to super kinky things when he's not gl.
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1138e7 No.10172
>>10170
It also depends on what your fetish is. Most girls won't turn down you sucking on their fingers, toes, or displaying your skills as a cunning linguist since that stuff is pretty par for the course. Conversely, if you're wanting her to piss on you, tie you up, gag you, spank you, peg you and so on, you're going to start to encounter some resistance unless they like being dominant from the start.
Unless you're physically repugnant to the point where you look like a gangly mongoloid with fetal alcohol syndrome I don't think you have it bad being average or slightly above. The real degree of separation that will count for drawing pussy toward you are more basic things
>do you live on your own?
>do you have a car (that runs)?
>do you have a job or some form of recurrent income?
If you can answer yes to all three of those questions you're pretty well off in my book. Everything else is icing on the cake. Right now I'm living with my folks so I'm not really actively pursuing any women (failure to launch, I do miss living on my own). It's a lot easier when you can bring a strange lady home and try fucking her a without your parents knocking curiously at your door to ask you if she's going to be your waifu.
Put aside kink business for a moment.
Women want to be able to feel safe with you so if you can't offer her a place to stay, offer to drive her there and then feed her when you both arrive she'll be far less inclined to peruse you. This isn't just muh materialistic whore. Women have in built shittest flags and if they think you're a loser who can't provide basic necessities you're always gonna land in the friend zone regardless of whether or not you some kind of Adonis.
>what about whores? I had sex with some lady and I didn't need all that.
Well if you want to fuck some gutterskank be my guest. Alternatively maybe the woman is in a bad place and is willing to shack up with anyone in the hope they won't be shit later. As previously mentioned there's always going to be outliers but they're the exceptions that highlight the rule.
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f0184b No.10173
>>10172
None of that applies when you're in your early 20s though for most people.
No one my age has a house, some own cars and are making payments on them, and we do have jobs, but that's it.
The degree of separation at this point in life is looks. I don't dispute that later on in life that pendulum swings, but at that point you're just being used by women who have already fucked and dated many more men than you will ever date women.
When you're ugly those romantic doors are tightly locked. There's nothing you can do at this point to open them.
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1138e7 No.10174
>>10173
>early twenties.
I was referencing my later twenties 25-30. That was my romantic hayday when I attempted to start my life proper. I don't know for sure but I think if you've managed a failure to launch it's really hard to dig yourself out of that pit.
I'm not young anymore and that fire in my heart to chase women is gone. I've seen what most women have to offer and I can't rationalize the time/money investment required to properly court women these days to find out if they're worth the trouble. By the time I get home from work I just want to veg out and pursue my own hobbies rather than chase after women (most of whom are vapid thots in current year).
There's no reason to move out of my parents place since that would just be dumping money into a pit via rent. I'd be better served to feather my nest and care for myself. I'm not even trying to be MGTOW, I'm just focusing on feeding and providing for myself. Women simply don't enter into the equation.
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fc5b7c No.10179
>>10172
truly do we live in a society
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fc5b7c No.10180
>>10128
if you tards had any drive you'd make your own definitions and make tags like #findomisntfemdom or #findomisexploitative and make memes on the subject. wars are won by hearts and minds. complaining in this ecochamber and coming up with imaginary scenarios isn't doing anyone any good.
the future is thotless
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d4eb97 No.10182
i for one welcome our digital female overlords
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4eab2f No.10183
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2c86d7 No.10192
here's the dildo, we'll never get rid of findom because there will always be thirsty retard who would do anything for the mere scent or glimpse of pussy even if digital. so there will always be a market for it no matter what anyone does, the best we can hope for is to make it unpopular or seem unethical and cruel (like all those weirdos with the animal crushing fetish)
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d58c12 No.10210
i still think we need to get /pol involved, either here on half chan
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b8ccc6 No.10222
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19aedf No.10223
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0e4921 No.10236
>just fap to the idea of findom
>keep the money
maybe if i were rich but now i'm far to big jew to for this
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b8ccc6 No.10237
>>10236
It's not the same. I've been drained over $2K in a matter of minutes before. Volcanic eruption orgasm. Also just signed a contract to start paying child support to another Goddess.
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f0184b No.10238
>>10237
>It's not the same. I've been drained over $2K in a matter of minutes before. Volcanic eruption orgasm. Also just signed a contract to start paying child support to another Goddess.
This is an ironic post, right?
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0e4921 No.10239
>>10237
i really hate that this post give me a boner
share some more details
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f0184b No.10240
>>10239
>>10237
Jesus fucking christ get a grip both of you.
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fc5b7c No.10246
>>10237
dude that's fucked up but i feel your pain, everyone has done retarded thing while horny. you my friend need a safeguard against this sort of thing so you don't throw your money away on women who wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire.
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fc5b7c No.10249
>>10098
>>10098
i revised your analogy, let me know what you guys think.
" findom is to bdsm/femdom what lootboxes and microtransactions are to video games with the "findommes" being the game companies. they claim it's legitimate and that it doesn't hurt anyone, that it's a choice and harmless fun and taking it away from them would hurt their creative freedom (or in this case "kink shame") while also looking for the "whales" and putting their practices in everyone else's business. i implore you to find a AAA game today that doesn't have lootboxes,microtransaction or predatory monetization you'll most likely find very few if at all, same with dommes today,you'd be hard pressed to find a domme of any kind of description who'd give you the time of day without money changing hands"
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d58c12 No.10250
Good god i thought you lot were joking about twitter and reddit https://www.reddit.com/r/findom/ look at this shit! we need a fucking Jihad on these parasites and their white knights.
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eb7610 No.10252
>>9601
i already get that from my employer
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701829 No.10255
here's the thing, we're literally in a weaken state of mind when we're horny https://www.society19.com/when-youre-horny/
women and especially findommes have realized this and have weaponized it.
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af2e53 No.10286
>>9608
>If there are people who are into findom here, could one of you guys explain me why you like this kind of stuff?
Much like my sadistic tendencies were formed in childhood from abuse, my interest in findom stemmed from being taken advantage of, and left in a very difficult situation by someone I thought loved me.
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af2e53 No.10287
>>10286
I didn't realize 'Good Boy' was the default.
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465d7c No.10289
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308366 No.10403
>>9938
Nothing wrong with that in itself, just make sure you pick the right one.
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98fe70 No.10405
Just another kink. You don't like it don't play.
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48de63 No.10407
>>10405
It's materialistic, un-intimate and predatory. You're free to like what I don't like, but that doesn't change the fact that you're a retard with a dog knees-tier fetish, nor that your so-called "domme" is just some beggar who doesn't give a fuck about you. Seriously, findommes aren't even prostitutes. Prostitutes exchange sometimes vaguely sexual services for money. Findommes just say "gibe moni plox fgt" and sexual simps find this sexy.
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76f3d8 No.10413
>>10405
Sure, but it's not femdom. It's just women e-begging, which has nothing to do with domination. I'd bet the overwhelming majority of those women aren't even dominant, making the whole -dom part non-existent.
That's why it has no place in femdom, same as cuckoldry.
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13c77a No.10422
I agree! Many girls are on Findom, without the knowledge of Femdom. It must be stopped.
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0df1c9 No.10576
The last three "dommes" I tried chatting with in Discord were already trying to bleed my shekels right of the start. This is so discouraging. Findom is absolute cancer.
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81f089 No.10577
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ce8e0f No.10643
>>10289
Oh fuck that just gave me a boner kek
More seriously, this is the equivalent of me spiking a girl's drink to make her more receptive to my offers into bed. That's not a consensual exchange, and it cannot be. (One might argue that if the drink was simply alcoholic in the first place without my spiking it, and I had simply approached the girl when she was drunk, I would not in fact be a rapist. This is a valid argument, but the relation of this to the analogy is a guy getting horny "voluntarily", which can be understood to mean being horny towards a romantic-sexual partner. This is, usually, not the case with (((findommes))) and thus this comparision is inept here save for making sure we know
>my wife's smile makes me lose control of myself and then she asks for money I would otherwise have refused to give
is a non-argument. Beyond this, that example fails to account for the fact that the wife may not be aware of your mesmirization, because of course, very few people are genuinely reduced to slaves over a nice smile.) Similarly, findom is a form of exploitation of natural reactions and should thus be at least ostracized, if restitution is not extracted right back from the (((findommes))) themselves.
>Muh onlyfans
Not findom, and not an argument (to use the previous analogy, a woman having an onlyfans account or a premium snapchat or similar can be understood as me offering a shot of heroin to depressed dude who just lost his job as a way to make himself feel better, and to then exploit that by selling him more and more heroin over time. This may be absloutely degenerate, but there is no a priori justification to use force to shut it down. We may and should ostracize
and discriminate against Onlyfans the company and all the women involved in the exploitation of "simps" but that's it.)
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4b7c46 No.10663
I would like to give her money but only if shes a virgin is there some sort of subcategory for this?
>>9902
I don't really see the point of paying ugly or unappealing women
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1132a9 No.10668
>>10237
dead honest this is sounding like a lot of the logic underpinning gambling
the numbers whistling out of ones wallet IS the rush
Lots of people can't get their heads around it
But there wouldn't be others playing higher & higher numbers if it didn't correlate with a bigger buildup
And then add cum into the equation haha
The microtransaction analogy being bandied about in here is looking more & more suitable also
I really hope you give this the same regard you would gambling or a drug habit, & that you only spend as much for the kick as is suitable for your finances
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1132a9 No.10669
>>10668
whoops I didnt realise sage was so aggressive on this site
i just do it habitually so I dont bump anything
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86f302 No.10705
>>9569
I really really love money. I mean who doesn't. I can't findom not now not ever because I have a boyfriend who I love dearly, and this is a form of cheating. But I had a man text me to humiliate him and take him money. Nothing prompted this. And it was on my public fucking facebook where I interact with my parents and shit. I wish I could just grab the money, call a man a disgusting slime (they usually are, look what >>10686 wrote, no offence to you normal sophisticated sub men) to ever interact with again, but they never work like this. Findomming is an actual relationship with emotions involved and you depend on him as much as he depends on you, and he expects you to sext with him for 2 hours before the exchange, and 2 more hours after. At least from what I've read about findom relationships.
But yeah I love "free" money so if I wasn't in a relationship I'd do this as a legit hustle.
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3ee136 No.10723
>>10705
Findom can be anything, as long as you're getting paid for "nothing". What do I mean. You don't really have to give anything back. Some women are being paid just for existing, and some guys pay just to receive a message that says <<good job slave, buy me more now>>. You probably have it wrong with it being an "actual relationship". It isn't. As long as someone is paying, they have your attention (you decide the amount), and that's it.
My ex had financial issues, and we would give it a try. Plus, if she made a wishlist, she'd ass things for me as well. Give it a second thought.
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