/erp/ - Erotic Roleplay

I'm a 6'5" tall dude 25 year old who inherited very masculine features from my dad. Needless to say, trying to be cute or feminine in anyway instantly goes to laughable mockery levels so pursuing anything down that line of thought in real life is a total no-go zone.

Honestly I just never specify my gender in any capacity in most online interactions, and usually get mistaken by a girl regardless in some cases. When I roleplay, I usually do girls because they are cute, though I have no idea how to roleplay them well. Then again, I don't know how to roleplay men very well either.

>>144222

>My experiences with actual women playing as women requires more finessing and content outside of immediate sex.

I like the outside of sex content even more than the sex, I like lots of it, and I'd even enjoy ERP of just it without the sex.

>>144269

Now that's just crazy talk.

You're all playing with fire and forces you don't understand. Fucking with your gender perception leads to distortions in gender identity. End result is transsexualism. You don't know how many trannies I've met that started off pretending to be girls on F-List. It's poison. The entire idea is poison! Run while you still can!

I dunno, gender issues probably.

Using a penis of my own in a scene rarely does much for me. It feels weirdly fake.

I dont care if you're a male playing a girl online as long as you at least have the common decency to want to take it up the ass IRL

>>181588

I play as a girl because it's more fun, easier and allows me to appeal my personal male fantasies of a girl I'd fuck. I self-insert as a guy while describing the actions of a girl. I always say I'm a real girl if asked though, makes it less awkward.

I don't crave for cocks, men irl and won't tale it up the ass.

Get rekt.

I just want a cute anon to be the loli for me, whether it's in a session or just in casual talk. It'd be like an rp that never stopped while we spoke.

Literally just autogynephilia

>>182336

Your argument kinda falls apart when you take into account you're getting off to someone describing in detail how they are fucking you

>>182518

You might have missed it, but a lot of us don't self-identify with our characters.

>>182336

>allows me to appeal my personal male fantasies of a girl I'd fuck. I self-insert as a guy while describing the actions of a girl.

How does it work, inserting as the character your partner plays and having the fantasy of sex with the character you're playing?

>>182518

Maybe some people just self-insert less? I can't do it, but why can't somebody insert as a different character to their own? Especially if it's written third-person it's essentially erotica about the two characters, and a reader could insert as either one.

My answer is that I created a character a long time ago just to try it, and fell in love with the character (not romantically) so now I just RP her to explore her personality (and other things since it's ERP obviously)

I make Shemales. Mostly because they're a lot more popular, and whenever I want to make one of my waifus and populate the empty bandwagon of that character, I'll just slap a dick on them because fuck I don't know how to write getting fucked in the vag.

Plus I prefer giving the dick because I'm selfish.

It's fiction, why not be something you cannot be irl?

>>228757

Try kase-san for non-sexual lesbian romance. For smut, I've always been fond of a doujin called "kaishaku persona 3" it's a bit short but it also showcases the romantic aspects in the last scene that make lesbian scenes special.

Personally I've found that the more different my character is from me the more fun I have playing as them. To an extent at least. In fact, ironically enough I find it hard to get into character when playing as an upbeat human male. Meanwhile when I'm playing, oh let's say, a brutish monstergirl, I can get into that mindset really quickly and a mannerism or two will even slip into my ooc a little bit (little things like word choice mainly). That being said, when out of character I do my best to keep my irl gender ambiguous, regardless of if I'm playing a male or female.

Oh yeah, and back when I first started playing females, it was because I couldn't find anybody playing what I wanted, so I took on that role and found I was fine playing with more generic partners because I can supply my own needs through them. Even now most of my characters come from that, regardless of the character/gender. Like my monster profile. Nobody played monstrous monsters (less orcs more xenomorphs) that weren't specific to hard rape, so I took up the mantle myself and play both male and female beasts in con/dubcon scenes. And I still pretty much never see anybody else doing that.

It's also just really fun shooting people down when they start trying to be creepy and assuming you're just like you're character when you're like "I hate to break this to you, but I'm not actually a thousand year old archmage demoness irl"

>>228781

Thanks for the recommendations, anon, I'll read them when I find the time.

>>229126

Oh fuck kase-san is too damned cute HNNNGGGGGG

>>228757

>I'm afraid my speech outside of sex scenes is too emotionless.

Why are there so many trans aspies?

Anyway just use lots of emotes and exclamation marks.

Also

>implying your partner is a cis girl either

>implying even if she is that she'd notice any female body mistakes you make

>>229545

He didn't ask, he just assumed and you simply responded to what he wanted. How did he imply you were female irl too, how were you evasive, how did you hint about being hit on?

>It was almost like I was roleplaying a female RPer.

Adorable!

>but it feels like that would take something out of his roleplay.

Yes, the point is to roleplay, so roleplay the way he wants and the way that will get you an RP you enjoy with him. That means being a good ERPer girl.

>>229570

>How did he imply you were female irl too, how were you evasive, how did you hint about being hit on?

I don't want to go into detail since he might be lurking here.

You're right though, I should just have fun with the roleplay and stop worrying so much.

>>229592

I'd hope /erp/ doesn't have anybody who assumed all pinks are played by irl girls or who would get upset to discover one isn't!

But yes you go have fun with your e-bf~

>>230460

This is stupid. It's not catfishing when no one is in a relationship or meeting up. This is erp. Expect 99% of partners to be male regardless of character.

>>230460

I wonder how many puppies he's raped with a bat? Or how many dogs he's killed for his fetishes? Why is it that Oh Joy Sex Toy always come out trying to shield losers like cucks and freaks like furries? I'd be fucking amazed if this isn't linked with that zoo sadism stuff.

>>47223

So in other words, everyone loves huge tits and the moment you made a huge tiddy profile you got popular?

Will take your advice.

I play plenty of female characters in RP and ERP, find it hot as fuck to visit the mind of one of my waifus for a bit, but…

Someone acting as if I'm female in real life in OOC chatter is a huge fucking turn off for some reason. I like to keep OOC strictly business, unless someone manages to pushes my subby boy buttons in the right way.

I've only ever ERP'd as girls even though I'm a guy.

Why? It started out as me being too shy to approach even fictional girls online years ago and I knew men were easy, so I'd go into a roleplay board/site/whatever as some big tiddy animu girl and get dick left and right. Told myself it was to get my feet wet and then flip over and write as guys, but I just never flipped.

What do I get out of it? The same sex scenes I would be after if I was writing as a male but now I'm in the body of the big tiddy sorceress that's about to get knocked up by the goblin she missed rather than the generic goblin. Win win

Absolutely love it

The only times things have gotten weird are the times over the years when I've had long term partners and they ever so slowly start wanting to peek behind the curtain and see the real me. I used to just pick random 10/10s I went to high school with or knew on facebook from something else and pretend it was me, used those types of girls so they wouldn't really be reverse searchable. It never ended well though because they'd try to date or some shit and I'd nope out because I was there for the fantasy.

99% of the time ERP as a girl has been wondering, but those weird times are the ones I keep remembering lol. I remember a year or two ago I did some really long term play where I was using at of one of those big tiddy knights by the artist Waffle. Really good fantasy setting play, lots of my kinks and my partners (which was a lot of ageplay and a whole lot of boob play) and probably a week into this the guy just sends me a selfie and is like (What do you think?) and it just completely ruined it. That random guys face is etched into my brain meanwhile scenes I came buckets writing have vanished from memory.

>"why would you erp knowing that girl you're playing with is a guy"

thats my fetish, especially if I slowly turn them gay

>>47221

I'm probably guilty about having a rape fetish and hate myself less if I'm at least writing for the victim

>>281374

>>281377

I know how you feel. One time, a male character, with a blank profile, approached me on one of my straight pinks and within 30 minutes the player asked if I was a woman IRL. I know there are a lot of weirdos on F-List, but I wasn't expecting someone to be that… well, blunt.

A lot of people on the internet will treat you differently if they think you're a woman. As soon as they suspect that you don't have a pussy, they'll change their tune really quick. There are people I've played with for awhile and felt comfortable enough with- at least at the time- to show them my male characters, and they've never acted the same way around me since. Even if the male was bisexual, they didn't care. Before, they'd always be eager to play, even when I could confirm they were busy, and if I tried to sabotage my chance by making a horrible joke, they'd either downplay it or laugh. Now, it's "Oh, I'm busy," and if I make a horrible joke, they'll either ghost me or ask me to not say stuff like that.

Do your best to not let those weirdos get you anon. Don't let some nutcase ruin your fun.

>>281388

Definitely. I've had people go out of their way to play with me almost every day, which was great. I loved it. he seemed to love it. But the moment it became clear I may not be a girl in real life, they suddenly had other things to do. What I hate was how he acted fine with it, but from that point on he was always busy. I should start lying more. Maybe it helps their fantasy to imagine I'm a girl.

>>281390

>What I hate was how he acted fine with it, but from that point on he was always busy.

I hate it too. The ones that make me really mad are the ones that act very nice until they have doubts.

>I should start lying more. Maybe it helps their fantasy to imagine I'm a girl.

Can't blame you there. It's just SO much easier to find hetero related play as a female, and I'm not even into things that are that extreme. I wonder if you're more likely to find people like that if you're into more extreme things.

>>47222

Trips of truth. The only reason I act like a girl OOC is that if they know I'm a man it ruins the fun and makes things awkward. The only problem is that if I make different characters and use them on one account, it gets risky. Not gay/trans either, I'm just 200% straight and can't do anything gay with the ~100% of ERPers who are male. Even if I hit up a female ERPer, I would probably get too many romantic feelings for the man on the other side. (In other words, I want to fap without any awkwardness or romance. And I've fallen in love with literal men who ERP'd with me.)

>>47221

>Do you feel at all conflicted about it?

It's like a layer of stacked wrongdoings for my dick. I guess another kind of conflict would be the inability to stay with one character when my kinks change. Also, because I'm so deep IC when I LARP like this, I've begun literally getting horny on my character's fertile days. Like a girl with an actual menstrual cycle. I'm not even like, on whatever kind of tranny shit would make me have a cycle. I'm literally roleplaying to the point my brain thinks I should be horny on the 18th through 25th of every month.

>Got any personal tales to relate?

When I started, I wasn't even planning on LARPing like a girl. I had already failed on F-list and I just went on Discord to join porn servers. Someone asked me if I was a girl when I made my first post and I said yes. I have about six typefuckbuddies and even casual friends as a girl now, and I currently have two characters I use on my account.

>>281661

>Not gay/trans either, I'm just 200% straight

>And I've fallen in love with literal men who ERP'd with me

>>281661

>I'm not gay I'm just LARPing falling in love with other men

What the fuck am i reading

>>281673

>>281674

Well you don't know the man roleplaying as a girl on the other side is actually a man.

I just want love.

>>281732

RPing for 10+ years here and I can say without a doubt you'll never find it here.

>>281905

Me neither. But a random guy e-fucking online instinctively assuming biological female mate selection behavior is a little scary

>>47221

I am a bit different than most people in that I had very strange fantasies every since I was a small child and I never had an outlet for them. When I discovered the internet it was amazing to me because I could search for anything I wanted in secret without being judged and I've been addicted ever since. However I was never really fulfilled since what I really wanted was someone to share in my fantasies and live them out with me.

I started catfishing 10 years ago. I was living in the middle of no where and extremely lonely.

I had no friends, no family, no one to talk to.

I had always saved a bunch of very soft amateur pictures of pretty girls off facebook and one day I thought "What if I was one of them?"

I still distinctly remember the first time I did this. I went into a chatroom with a picture of a girl as my avatar and set my name as a girl I had known on yahoo messenger 5 years prior. When I entered the chat I heard a voice in my ear saying "You shouldn't do this" but I carried on anyways.

I was amazed at the amount of messages I got. I've learned so much about how to filter people just based on the sheer volume of messages alone.

Being a girl online was so powerful. I didn't have to censor myself ever. I could say whatever I wanted and guys would go a long with it. I could tell them about my weird fantasies and not only would they play along, they would let me completely dictate how I wanted the experience to go. I could program them over time so that they knew exactly what I wanted and would always tell me what I wanted to hear. And if a guy ever had a problem with it, there were 10 other ones to choose from ready to take his place.

Over the years I have catfished and roleplayed with literally thousands of people. I do this for 12 hours a day on a "light" day. When I'm binging I can stay up for 3 or 4 days straight until I find someone.

It has gotten a lot harder to find partners over the years. The old chatrooms and sites are very inactive or corporatized and the average user is noticeably more stupid than they were a decade ago. Sometimes the internet itself feels completely dead.

After all these years, I have to say that I wish I had listened to that voice in my ear that told me to stop that first night. I've wasted a huge portion of my life on this and I think I have irreparably damaged myself emotionally. I feel more like "me" when I am playing as my female alter-ego online. In real life, I hate myself. I am not trans, I realize I am male and I'm fine with that, but I absolutely hate myself physically and psychologically, I think I am a terrible person and I wish I was someone else.

I think about what my life could have been like if I had spent all those years developing the real me instead of a fantasy alternate version of myself, but sometimes I think I never really had the choice, I was too fucked up from the start.