No.28105
So I know that having a single parent is almost guaranteed to fuck up your life, but what if you happen to also live with your grandparents and your aunt? have there been any studies on other family dynamics where one of the parents is absent but the child might be surrounded by more people? I don't feel living with so many people did me any good either way, honestly, but I don't know if a dad would have changed my life.
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No.28106
>>28105
People are way too obsessed with the classic family model
They forget alot of fucked up kids also come from physically present dads, but choose to ignore that and focus on the failures that happen to have single moms and say "AHA!"
Also, this whole "nuclear family is the only ideal family" is an Anglo thing.
If anything, it's just society is intolerant of kids being "different." It's ok for adults to be unusual or unique, but kids who have single moms or have personal disorders or display opposite-sex behaviors or different ethic aesthetics are "defective".
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No.28107
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No.28197
>>28105
I was raised by a single mother and all her female friends and her sister are single too. Guess what? Out of all their kids I'm the only one who's fucked up. Also, my grandfather is an ultrachad even though his dad died when he was 3.
The thing with modern psychology is that it's currently in a phase where everything is blamed on parents and the development during early stages of life. It's just a trend that will go away and psychology in general is pseudoscience.
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No.28199
I had the best childhood and was a very promising kid but i lost my mother and while i used to deny it and pretend to be strong and be able to get by regardless i am sure i would be a radically different person if i grew up with my two parents around instead of a sad broken home. Materially, emotionally, spiritually, there would be no comparison in my upbringing and living conditions if that didn´t happen, it fucked me up really good.
>>28106
>"nuclear family is the only ideal family" is an Anglo thing.
this is insane, in fact is the other way around, anglos kick their kids out of home at 18 and each is supposed to be individualistic and see divorce and single or gay parents as not a big deal, anglos are the biggest force against traditional nuclear familiy and no wonder so many are that hedonistic, pretty much all other cultures have adults living at home well into adulthood and forming multi generational homes, anglos don't have nearly as much ancestor worship and family centered rituals as other cultures.
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No.28200
>>28105
Its more about quality of the parents/guardians rather than the family dynamic. most single mothers are single mothers for a good reason. Most of the time the'yre either too dumb to chose a proper man or are an unbearable bitch themselves. You can't expect someone like that to properly raise a kid. Same goes for other persons.
>>28197
>The thing with modern psychology is that it's currently in a phase where everything is blamed on parents and the development during early stages of life.
It makes sense from a neurological perspective. The brain is most plastic at young age, thus early experiences have more impact.
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No.28203
>>28197
>The thing with modern psychology is that it's currently in a phase where everything is blamed on parents and the development during early stages of life.
Adults are intolerant of children being different, that's all.
>It's just a trend that will go away and psychology in general is pseudoscience.
Psychology is not pseudoscience. It's just smothered with urban myths all. In fact, social science consists of the 3 P's: psychology, politics, and philosophy.
>10 signs you are a leader/homosexual/psychopath
>Scientists find that men who do (insert mundane act here) are more likely to be (insert vice here)
That's what "psychology" is to the laymen. Nothing more than horoscopical theories.
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No.28206
>>28105
all the ones i've seen led to various degree of shittier vs the standard.
i peculiarly remind one on dykes which had worse result than single mothers.
>>28106
iirc 80.6% of rapists in the US come from single mom households.
so it's not really "just an anglo" thing, since we all know what i just implied (ie: rape apes).
>hurrr it's because intolerance
>implying intolerance is bad.
you don't have to tolerate wealth, you tolerate misery, a bad thing
you don't have to tolerate being fit or healthy, you tolerate being messed up or disease, bad things.
you don't have to tolerate a nice weather, you tolerate scorching heat or freezing cold, bad things.
tolerance is for bad things.
whenever some tard try to sell you something under the threat of you being intolerant, that tard is essentially confessing to you that what he is peddling is intrisically bad for you.
this whole "muh intolerance is bad boohoo" is an anti-concept.
don't fall for it.
it's (((rhethorical bullshit))) whose purpose is to try to make stop thinking or at least stop you from blocking your (((interlocutor))).
standards exist for a reason, failing to meet them has consequences, and pretending otherwise is just a cope at best, or being malicious at worst (ie: misery loves company).
and yeah, trannies and race-traitors are both defective.
a dieing society loves those very much, who would have thought?
>>28203
>intolerance is bad
see answer above
>being different is good
see pic related
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No.28211
>>28206
>muh tolerance
This post was completely missing the point. But oh well. To go by your logic, I guess you being a "doomer" gives people good reason to shun you eh?
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No.28217
>>28203
social sciences are not science
>>28206
and when all the poltards and born again christians are told to fuck off and banned from sites they cry and cry about muh intolerance, oh woe why do you persecute me so. All zealots left and right are one of the same.
>standards exist for a reason, failing to meet them has consequences, and pretending otherwise is just a cope at best
>w-wait what??? i failed to meet user standards and i am fired from my shitty office job???? reeeeeee they are genociding meeeeee
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No.28220
>>28217
>social sciences are not science
Unfortunately, the average prole cares nothing about the natural world around him.
http://7chan.org/rnb/res/22660.html#22685
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No.28228
>>28211
>missing the point
no, hurt feefees over rejection and bullshit excuses were the points that "muh intolerance" tried (and failed) to address in '106 and '203
>by your logic
not mine.
just logic.
note that noone refuted at this point that "intolerance = bad" is a stupid concept, which should be done by now if it were (was? not english) any wrong.
i could be wrong.
ergo why bullshit excuses were bullshit all along and why cope was just cope (not that cope is bad in itself, it's just that one should not ever try to use it as an excuse).
>poltards and born again christians are told to fuck off
funnily enough it's the other way around, and why groups tend to slouch into leftardism over time and then die.
applies to everything from online communities up to civilisations.
rome allways end up burning.
>>28220
>natural world
>socjus subhumans promote fags and social engineering
lulz
>>28223
noone does.
free speech is a utopist concept, a feel-good concept.
henceforth it's a completely retarded one, as it would require some sort of magically perfect human that allways understand information it is served, and that allways talks in good faith. (as a sidenote, i wonder what there would be the need to talk about if everyone understood everything, but that's probably another subject).
meanwhile in reality, people are stupid and stubbornly so, and they lie even more (to each others and to themselves).
they'll pretend that races are equal, that genders are equal, that their specific brand of sky fairy govern their lives, or that everything will be just fine.
we all know it's bullshit.
so, why do some feel the need to keep the mask here?
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No.28232
imo there's no way that any family structure is going to guarantee you're not fucked up
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No.28237
>>28232
Too late. These spoiled conservatard manbabies think that only certain things will work all the time for everyone. They really are just polarized versions of socjus.
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No.28241
>>28228
>rome allways end up burning.
But only with Christians in power the burning was definitive
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No.28249
>>28232
no such things as guarantees in life.
still, choosing between 2 options, one with 90% failure and the other with 30% failure should be a no brainer for anyone, provided one's brain is not on tranny juice like the horseshoe faggot in >>28237
leftists are inept creatures that will gravitate toward ideologies that will coddle them to think that trash is just as good as actually good.
at the end, all they ever wanted was to have their retarded inept shit considered as seriously as sound things.
they should be denied.
at which point they lobby into things then ban the functionnal, then scream "how could this be happening" when everything invariably goes to shit after you banned anyone with a remote speck of talent and idea about how things actually work.
>>28241
it's an allegory.
the same applied throughout the world, from europe to the middle-east to the far-east and for the same bundle of reasons, time and again.
the problem lays not as much in "the city burning" but in what happened before (ie: cunts having a say in how things are done, faggots not getting terminated on sight, importating foreign elements that will invariably be disloyal, these sort of things).
groups only maintain themselves if they stay mono-racial, mono-cultural, patriarcal and hostile to outsiders.
just like our ancestors used to do.
doing just that maintains your group above the fleeting line.
kikes have kept doing just that for 5 millenias now, despite themselves being absolutely pathethic in every other aspect (physically stunted, mentally unstable, intellectually impaired to name a few).
refer to that whole "immigration for thee but not for me" behaviors of theirs.
hostile foreign elements indeed.
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No.28294
>>28249
Rome was just fine during their entire history, it was christcuckery that was the final nail in the coffin, Rome got sacked, provinces lost to filthy nordic barbarians , others conquered by arabs. The christcucks brought 1000 years of oscurantism and feudalism when other times whe Rome was threatened and suffering crisis it got back up and went back to bussiness as usual, Christianity is a terminal disease.
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No.28296
>>28294
Christcuckery came after degeneracy took over. People got fed up and took to another religion.
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No.28478
>>28200
>It makes sense from a neurological perspective. The brain is most plastic at young age, thus early experiences have more impact.
But the same could be said of the elderly. Their brains are plastic too. Not fresh but inpressionable that any experiences can change them.
Kids can forget experiences or "overwrite" them with other experiences.
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No.28528
>>28106
Anon, there is actual statistic data that proves kids raised with both parents are more prone to be better in life. Of course there are some balls around the curve and exceptions, like there are to literally everything, but if you are talking about raw numbers, you are statistically more likely to be a healthy adult if you were raised on the "nuclear family". Even better if you had more parents around
>It's ok for adults to be unusual or unique, but kids who have single moms or have personal disorders or display opposite-sex behaviors or different ethic aesthetics are "defective"
Nobody that is not in a imageboard or other highly underground website browsed by a thousand people tops, have ever said that in the last two decades. You are taking your data from the wrong places and have a twisted vision of the world
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No.28552
>>28528
What about being completely normal in mentally ill society? You'll be seen insane even if being normal. Don't worry.
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No.28565
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No.29146
>>28105
>>28565
griffith is so ugly
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No.29180
Millenials would be losers with both single and both parents. It's just that so many of their parents are such deadbeats that they're a convenient excuse for millenials to use to get around their own laziness and ineptitude.
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No.29187
>>29180
This schtick of yours is getting pretty annoying. Also, I made this thread a long time ago, I'm a zoomer, we can be losers, too. I don't get this autistic hate towards millenials you have.
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No.29189
>>29187
You keep insinuating I'm a zoomer. Why? Is it because it makes it easier or something? Also, I don't hate millenials. I hate that so many of them proved the boomers right all along.
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No.29192
>>29189
I never said you were a zoomer, but I've seen your discussions with other people that call you one, I know you're X generation or something close to that.
>>29189
>I hate that so many of them proved the boomers right all along.
Fair enough, still your rants turn people off, I like to read some of them but in general it's all the same shit, you just shitpost about millenials, I open up new responses to threads just to find out it's just you throwing some random shit.
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No.29194
>>29192
>Fair enough, still your rants turn people off, I like to read some of them but in general it's all the same shit, you just shitpost about millenials, I open up new responses to threads just to find out it's just you throwing some random shit.
Well, now they know how it feels to have to open up a website on the internet just to read about how women are this, black people that, JEWS JEWS JEWS (or how men are this, white people that, NAZIS NAZIS NAZIS if they're woketards). The millenials killed the internet, and then blame you zoomers for somehow being responsible, like it's your generation that spent a decade plus whining about irrelevant shit. People just want to grill. People want to discuss shit without some millenialoid faggot shitposting about shit that has nothing to do with the topic. And that's why I compare them to boomers - they took boomer puritanism and amplified it a thousandfold.
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No.29201
>>29192
Wait I assumed this dude was like 14 or something and just had literally nothing else to do in their free time. Like I have nothing against zoomers or whatever, but it's weird that this is a guy old enough to have graduated high school and had multiple jobs and he's still on this weird moralistic trip about generations.
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No.29204
>>29201
When millenials congregate on the internet, they’re not sending their best..They’re sending people that have lots of problems, and they’re bringing those problems with us. They’re bringing woketardation. They’re bringing a bashful ignorance. They’re in dire need of therapists. And some, I assume, are good people.
Like I said, if you don't like it, too bad, so sad. Your kind shit up the internet for a decade plus, whining about roasties and DRUMPF so now I'm repaying the favor.
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No.29208
>>29201
It's not that weird. Grown men waste their days upon forums ranting about Jews and women, or that physical science is a secret anthropicide.
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No.29211
>>29208
https://www.nyu.edu/about/news-publications/news/2021/march/narcissism-driven-by-insecuritynot-grandiose-sense-of-selfne.html
>Narcissism is driven by insecurity, and not a grandiose sense of self, suggests a new study. Narcissists cope with these insecurities by flexing, which makes others like them less in the long run, further aggravating their insecurities, which then leads to a vicious cycle of flexing behaviors.
Huh. Who does that remind you of?
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No.29236
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No.29237
>>29208
I know some of those "grown men" are likely to still be bewildered that I'm having a laugh fucking with them on the regular, making them try to tell me they're zoomers (typical millenialoid skitzo dissonance in action) and all that, so I just have this to say: how do any of you summon the energy to deal with yourselves day after day or the will to live? Your lives seem to universally suck, you're mad at anyone who crosses your field of vision and displays any vulnerability at all, the only internet subculture who would accept you you're constantly engaged in backbiting petty bullshit with. The most disgustingly worst aspect of the medium of imageboards itself seems to be a footnote in your grievances (that despite all your talk about MUH FOIDS and MUH DEGENERACY, a lot of you are extremely obviously into little girls and you can see that through their political ideas, their associations, their actions, and things they've actually stated out loud to other people). I'm just kind of amazed nobody on imageboards talks about the psychiatric toll this obviously has to be taking on all of you. Nobody there talks about depression or anxiety. Even something like this board seems to have no goals beyond aimless gossip that has no clear mature moral issue with anything happening elsewhere, just that WOMEN BAD or something lol. What an empty stupid life. And the best part is that you'll never be satisfied either. The Jews are gone? Someone else needs to be blamed! Women are all based and tradpilled? What? They're STILL going for Chads who can actually PROVIDE for them and aren't into cuckime waifushit? Reading posts on here is like if someone took Ayn Rand and made her a mediocre millenial male, but instead of THIS IS JOHN GALT SPEAKING, it's basically autism on a level never before thought possible.
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No.29239
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No.29245
>>28197
>The thing with modern psychology is that it's currently in a phase where everything is blamed on parents and the development during early stages of life.
To be fair, getting sexually tortured and molested with a knife immediately after birth can fuck you up.
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No.29249
>>29245
>To be fair, getting sexually tortured and molested with a knife immediately after birth can fuck you up.
I think it's funny how so many of you millenialoids will rehash this argument.
>I believe in dehumanizing women, in posting all sorts of misogynistic fantasies about how they're to blame for everything, but I get triggered when people act the same exact way about circumsizing male infants, etc.
Why can't you just admit you don't really give a shit about any of these "hot topic social issues" and admit you're just a failed adult who wasted all his time being a petty elitist? Normies won't hurt you, bro. Get over yourself.
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No.29253
>>29249
>YOU'RE JUST A LOSER MISOGYNIST IF YOU'RE ANTI-CIRCUMCISION, WHATABOUT THE WAMYN!!!!!!1
Projection much? You're literally doing the same thing you accuse me of doing, just with the genders flipped. You clearly don't give a shit about boys' genitals being mutilated, yet you chimp out over "misogynistic fantasies". Just admit you're a white knight trying to cope with having mutilated genitals.
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No.29256
>>29253
My genitals are intact, actually. I know you must've really spent what little brain cells you have trying to come up with some le based remark to come back at me with, but next time, try to find one that isn't ripped from the emotional millenial manchild's guide to discussion, okay? Look, it is what it is. I choose to oppose the multilation of both men and women. You choose to be a based and fagpilled dork who probably wasn't even circumcized and is just pretending to be so you can have yet another excuse for why things like cleaning your room and getting a job are too hard like they seem to be for the rest of Gen A.
Also, I didn't call you a misogynist. I said you were a hypocrite, because that's what you are. You're just like the pink pill harpies. Acting like children. MUH COOTIES!!!!!111111. If only they could've cut your vocal cords instead of your foreskin.
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No.29257
>>29253
>You clearly don't give a shit about boys' genitals being mutilated
Besides, why do you care anyway? They're all NORMIES, right? Funny how NORMIES are all NPC sheeple meant to be ridiculed and belittled at every opportunity until it serves your purposes, huh? That's why I called you a hypocrite. Oh, and misogynist fantasies is exactly what you anons spout, which is exactly why no one takes you seriously. You're just like the radfem banshees.
>MEN BAD! Hey, wait, why do people not take us seriously?
>WOMEN BAD! Hey, wait, why do people not take us seriously?
>Projection much?
Says the millenialoid accusing me of being pro-circumcision just because I called out the hypocrisy in most anons who talk about it.
>FOIDS BAD! Hey, wait, why aren't our problems being given any consideration?
Because no one wants to help a loser who can't help themselves from being one. It's like pic related. Improve yourself before you butt in on what REAL men are trying to handle.
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