No.3925
Threesome or bait?
In the next days I'll be spending sometime on vacations with my girlfriend, where she lives (she's studying in my city). About a week ago, I found a female friend of mine (we go way back) when me and my girlfriend were at a restaurant. We talked a bit and, by coincidence, my friend told me she would be spending some time at the same place we were staying. A few days later, that friend asked me when I was going. I told her I would be there X day but she would be going a little bit earlier and asked me if I wanted to go sooner. I told her no because I'd be spending more money renting the apartment. She offered me to stay where she was at and cut my expenses but I told her I wasn't interested because I wanted to have some privacy with my girl.
A day later, my girlfriend calls me to know if I booked my flight and already got a place to stay. Because my friend is going in earlier and she got the phone number of my girl, I told her the conversation we had the day before and her proposal (that I rejected). I thought she would get jealous and the conversation would go sideways but to my surprise she asked me why I didn't stay there with her. I was caught off-guard and told her that I wanted to be comfortable with her, without the presence of my friend. Plus, if it was the other way around, I wouldn't find considering that option fun. I'd probably dump her ass.
Two or three days go by and when we're messaging (and here I got to provide a little bit of background for this to make sense - we generally call each other otters because when we are walking, one of us tends to go a bit faster than the other, so we "grab" hands so the other doesn't run off) she tells me she is at the beach. I told her when we go there together we'll be swimming, literally, like two otters. She laughs and says "three". I'm not sure what she is talking about so she replies "me, you (in the middle) and your friend".
I'm beginning to think she might be testing me but I don't want to blow off my chances so I say I just want to grab her really strong and my friend can just watch. She's pretty happy but she fires another shot - she says I'll need to spread sunlight protector all over my friend's back. I tell me her I'll probably be too entertained with hers instead so she'll just have to do it for me. It ends there but the next day she calls me she brings it up again but I just brush it off and change subject.
Now I need to give a little context as why this is such a dilemma for me. My girlfriend thinks I'm a player because I'm always cool and relaxed when I'm talking with other chicks. Worse. Two months after we met I cheated on her on with another girl (for reasons that don't really matter now but she understood why it happened and she felt partly responsible for it despite being sad for me doing it).
Is my girlfriend a cuckqueen and inviting me for a threesome with this friend of mine or is she putting me through a shit test to assert if I'm going to cheat on her again? She seems more interested in a threesome than me (I mean I'm pretty exhilarated by the idea but I don't want to fuck things between us after what happened so I'm not showing it). It's almost like she is consenting as long as she approves and is part of it. On the other hand, she once told me that her three top fantasies included a MMF threesome, so this could be a typical "scratch my back now and I'll scratch yours later" but I have no interest whatsoever in sharing her with another guy. If we did have a MFF threesome, my attention would be on her, my friend would be a fucktoy and nothing more.
Should I be frontal with her about it or should I try to be a little bit more subtle and bait some information before voicing my thoughts?
>pic related
>it's her favorite movie
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No.3926
>>3925
>she once told me that her three top fantasies included a MMF threesome
Might be a redflag. Even if you have the time of your life it might backfire. What are the other 2?
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No.3927
>>3926
Sex in a public place (but she hates the idea of being watched or caught by other people) and sex in an elevator (some claustrophobic fetish I'm guessing).
I thought the whole thing of a threesome was a bit of a red flag too but she's been with some guys and it was never anything too serious so I assume she's had the opportunity to do it but didn't go forward with it. Probably would only happen if I wanted her to and not if she wanted (if that makes sense). But like you said it's a red flag and I don't like it either.
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No.3928
>>3927
I'll be the most honest possible. You know the circunstances better than me, but if her other top 2 fantasies are not either MFF she might be trying to "create a debt" that you feel you have to pay back with a MMF, for both the MFF and past adventure mentioned.
Just my take.
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No.3929
>>3925
I would call her out. Well, that phrasing is a bit harsh, but…
Communication is of paramount importance in a relationship. From your description you can tell she is trying to insinuate something, but you don't know exactly what. So just ask her. Don't play mind games that legit make you uncomfortable unless you feel that is an integral part of your dynamic, but personally it's never been part of any relationship I've seen last.
Good couples can tell each other anything and everything about their feelings. Insecurity might arise sometimes (a cuckquean afraid to tell their boyfriend about their fetish because they feel they're a bit freakish, for example), they sometimes want to tread gently (to spare their lover's feelings over the small stuff that they personally probably don't care about, objectively probably doesn't matter, but to their partner matters - like certain factors of appearance, for example), and sometimes there's misunderstandings, but a healthy couple appreciates the lover they have, doesn't covet their sexual fantasies over reality, and doesn't fuck over the one they love more than anything else. Every other hurdle can be overcome with understanding and compromise because the pair do not see themselves as going at the world alone anymore. They move as one because their partner's happiness is their happiness. To hurt their partner is to hurt themselves.
For example, men often have sexual fantasies about having a harem. They fap to other women when simply fucking their partner is not an option. But these are idle, fleeting fantasies and nothing more. It's not so much an emotional investment as it is scratching an itch. The reality is that, when truly committed, they always return to their woman and the enduring, secure bond they share. Their threesome fantasies may even include two body doubles of their wife.
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No.3930
>>3929
Men and women are more similar than they are different. Psychologically they tend to have differing tastes and look for different things right off the bat in their partners, but these divergences in taste are perfectly comprehensible to the other sex. So it's understandable what the ideal behind an MMF fantasy is - a wish to be passionately desired by many, to be considered valuable (and, on a more primal and unconscious level, expansion of selection for offspring, even if there's no actual chance of this happening). Anyone can understand that fantasy. But it's just that - a fantasy. A safe little simulation with no strings attached and no complications. Often it'd be nice if that fantasy could come true, but it's not necessary, like it's not necessary for a genie to appear to you and grant you wishes to live a fulfilled life. A person with a healthy, rational mind will never betray their partner to realize an empty fantasy.
Which is why one hopes >>3928 isn't the case. At best, she's dangling a sexual escapade in front of your face in an attempt to make you understand the fulfillment one might get from that experience, hoping you'll accept her own desires down the line. At worst, it's manipulating you into a situation where she can call you a hypocrite and guilt you if you don't go along with her her fancy. That's not healthy. That's trying to take advantage of you. Anyone who does that to their partner, disregards their feelings in pursuance of their own gratification, clearly telegraphs they don't know what a romantic relationship is.
How can you even call that love, when a person don't feel the slightest bit of grief over worsening their partner's condition? You can make people happy by hurting them, or rather "hurting" them in a safe little simulation with no (overly meaningful) strings attached and no complications, hence BDSM, but they have to want it - it has to be their itch. If she's consenting to a FFM threesome or being cheated on or just is happy because you're happy, that's one thing. You're scratching her itch for her in ways she can't possibly do herself. But it doesn't go in reverse. Her itches are your itches, but they're still only on her body, so that sort of decision is all on her, if you get what I'm saying.
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No.3931
>>3930
You seem to have the reigns in this relationship, so be upfront about it. Take charge. You've noticed she's getting at something, so don't let her be coy about it. You're not a mind reader and she shouldn't think you are. If you're serious and she's serious (i.e. neither of you are dumb cunts), you should be able to accept all of her - what you love about her and her faults and failures as well - and she should be able to trust you with all of herself, and vice versa. Be honest. Don't hide what appeals to you (she certainly hasn't with the MMF threesome), but have the basic human discipline to know fantasy from reality (which she certainly needs to know as well).
If she really is implying what you think she is, make clear that boundaries need to be set here. If she gets off to being a cuckquean, then you're willing to do that for her, but even though you will never leave her for another woman because of this fetish, she has to understand that you cannot reciprocate the inverse. This is a one way track, honey.
If this, you being honest and open and welcoming her to be honest and open, inviting her to become allies that don't need to hide anything, scares her off and she consequently retreats further into subtlety and pretense because you've "discovered" her scheme, then THAT is evidence of her being fucked in the head. That's some arrested development or BPD or even sociopathic shit right there. Some might think I've painted an idealistic picture of romantic relationships above, but let's be real here: there's some terrible, broken people in the world, men and women alike, who can't see past themselves and, even if they're capable of trust, are pathological - can't stop lying, can't control their emotions, can't control their compulsions, can't stop hurting others, can't stop hurting themselves. Pathological lying is especially prevalent because people like to protect their image, both how others see them and how they see themselves.
So if you can display to your girlfriend your full virtue and vigor and she -still- can't embrace you openly and come clean, you should seriously consider if this relationship will really end up happy in the long run.
This turned out way longer than I thought it would kek.
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No.3932
>>3925
Might be a test, might be banking favours, might be overtures of a cuckquean, might be she finds your friend attractive and wants to experiment, might be she just really likes the idea of a dirty vacation and doesn't have a specific plan in mind, or some combination of the above.
You can spend ages mulling over these possibilities with no result. Instead, flip the board around. Do you want to be with a girl who gives you elaborate sexual tests? No? Then if it turns out to be purely a test, break up with her. Do you want to be with a girl who sees sex as quid pro quo, with bargaining chips to be used to her advantage? No? Then if she tries to use it down the line as bargaining for an MFM, refuse and if she forces the issue, break up with her.
Your girlfriend is implying pretty strongly that she wants your friend to be involved in the vacation somehow. Don't play these mind games and don't permit them to be played on you. Go and have fun! Act honourably but don't get so caught up in it that you close yourself off to opportunities in the moment.
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No.3934
>>3930
If her top fantasy is MMF and not MFF, and she is pushing for MFF, regardless of judgement, logical endgame is MMF.
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No.3935
I already gave you advice on ptchan, faggot.
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No.3939
>>3934
Perhaps, or perhaps not, but either makes not an ounce of difference to what OP should do.
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No.3940
Play dumb. If she wants to set up an MFF with the other girl, let her do it if you actually are cool with an MFF. Just remind her at some point that you are not going to be doing an MMF. Just let her take care of it.
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No.3941
>>3928
I appreciate your honest thoughts. In a sense I feel the same too, always with a itch on my back when I give some serious thought about having the talk, but I've been more comfortable since we started looking at funny stuff because she always go for images picturing a guy with two females or even when watching porn - she never picks threesomes with two guys and one girl, double penetration and she even expressed some surprise and disgust at gang bangs in thumbnails.
>>3929
>>3930
>>3931
Words can't express how great it was to read that. I went through it three times and it's amazing how it resonates so strongly with my thoughts on healthy relationships. You are correct when you say I lead this relationship but I have sometimes my own fears out of her little cunning manipulative mind. She is one to make herself pass for dumb so she understand the intentions of others. Sometimes she will manipulate others to get something out of them. She has done so with me to seek my attention. I feel no harm out of it because I understand that has long as she has that desire for me, I know she won't cross the line. She really treasures me a lot and shows more affection for me than I do for me - despite me really adoring being with her and the one I've enjoyed spending my time the most with in my entire life.
I will take to her and take into consideration all I've said as well as all you have said. But my doubts now are whether I should wait three weeks to talk to her in person after a long, wild and cuddling sex session or if I should haste things, get it out my system and who knows, perhaps she wishes to ventures in my fantasies, try to set it up with my friends before I arrive there. There's some downside to either choice but then again, I don't think there's ever one right choice in anything.
>>3932
This complements greatly the thoughts of the anon above. Thank you. I think I'm wasting too much energy thinking about the bad things instead of the good things. This is also a great opportunity for me to real test her intentions and it's such a great breakthrough at this stage because if things go smoothly (regardless of what happens) I feel we might be going up another stage.
>>3934
There's a little thing I forgot to mention. And I was going to reply earlier but I wanted to get my thoughts together because the more I write about this and read about this, the more information pops up in my head that could be somewhat relevant.
She might be pushing MFF because that's one of my top three fantasies. She knows my first and she has given me the green light to "rape" her when I want it. She has almost begged me at least in two different occasions for me to rape her but I told her that would only happen when she least expect her or it wouldn't be a rape fantasy of any short.
>>3940
I'm afraid I can't do that. She is too passive to do anything without my input. I'll have to lead this if it is to happen.
Some more thoughts on this. Since I have not yet decided if I should talk to her about this now, while we are away, or wait three weeks and talk to her face to face (as I would like to try and read her body language) I thought we could play with one another and try to get a feel where this fantasy stands. We're comfortable with watching pornography. Should I invite her to a night session of playing with yourselves with porno categories picked by each one of us (I pick hers and she picks mine)?
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No.3944
>>3925
It's a trap. Do not fall for it. And cheating on her was a dick move. The fact she stayed with you means she's probably a worthless whore. Even if not expect her to pull the same thing and expect you to take it lying down.
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No.3967
>>3941
I'm interested to hear how it does go, OP. Please report back how it all went.
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No.4001
Have a compromise between MMF and FFM. Get your friend to wear a strapon.
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No.4017
>>3967
Will do. I, too, am curious to see where this goes. I should play some games while I wait to meet her in a few weeks. Any ideas to bring up the subject subtly without being too pushy and see if she's really interested?
>>4001
I wouldn't mind that. I think I would enjoy see her fucking the hell out of my friend while I'm fucking her at the same time. Or double fuck my friend. But she is a bit passive so I think my friend would be doing the fucking instead.
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No.4038
>>3941
>whether I should wait three weeks to talk to her in person after a long, wild and cuddling sex session or if I should haste things
Why not both? Remember that these things have a momentum that needs to be maintained. Worst-case, by the time three weeks go by she will have figured you're not into it and deliberately cooled her curiosity. Not to mention your friend! Have some consideration and stir enough tension into this so that she has something to look forward to and be on edge about, maybe chatter together with your friend about. Let the lead-up be fun! Let some sexual tension in.
>Should I invite her to a night session of playing with yourselves with porno categories picked by each one of us (I pick hers and she picks mine)?
That'd be kind of cute, actually. Couples curating porn for each other to get off to is very sweet. You can assemble a collection of public and/or elevator porn for her and see what she assembles for you.
>>4017
>Any ideas to bring up the subject subtly without being too pushy and see if she's really interested?
First of all, stop trying to determine whether this is a test or a fake, Anon. The scent of your suspicion will rub off on everything you do or say to her and she'll pick it up then become very uncomfortable even if she's 100% sincere. You ever been treated with suspicion when you're doing something good for someone else? It's awful. If you two can't trust each other you have no business even thinking about dipping into strange pussy together.
Your girl's already given strong signals, so give her opportunity to signal more. Talk about the holiday arrangements, create opportunities for her to drop in mentions of your friend so you can pick up on them and flirt with the idea. Drop in a mention of your friend if she doesn't, see if she runs with it. Slip in a mention of how an attractive girl was flirting with you (if this hasn't happened recently then go find some attractive girls so they can flirt with you), then if she asks for more details say the girl was hot but you just don't feel the same unless your gf is with you. Do the aforementioned porn curation thing and if she prepares FMF material talk about how much you enjoyed it, then encourage her to explain how and why she picked the particular porn for you. (Don't ask why she picked the genre/act - just take it as given and ask about the details of why she picked the girls etc. for you. Even if she doesn't pick FMF still do this because she curated porn for you and the least you can do is show enthusiastic appreciation.)
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No.4099
Alright guys, time for an update.
Turns out that my friend won't probably be going to the place where I'll be staying with my GF. She also told me the real reason why she was going there - she met a guy a few months ago and she was going to crash there so she could spend some time with him. I tried to foreplay things between us three a little bit when we were talking and she was seemingly in the mood (or just going along with it) but that was before I knew a guy was involved. It was fun to play a bit but turns out that nothing is happening, at least with her.
Now, the hard part. Turns out that GF was just putting me through a shit test because she was feeling insecure (and I'm pretty sure even if she is unwilling to admit it - jealous). We had the talk when I mentioned I had a coffee with my friend to talk about her stay (she doesn't know the town) and my girlfriend spilled her insecurities all over my cell phone. I told if that were the reason why she was making those threesome suggestions but she completely ignored the remark and pushed further on the issue of whether I had an interest in my friend or not (the reason being that she thinks we've been sexually involved in the past). I calmed her a bit by being straightforward with her and things are cool between us. I don't blame her though. I guess she really likes me a lot and if afraid I'll cheat on her again despite things being way too different now than they were when that happened.
Anyway, I just wanted to thank you guys for everything even if it turned out that things didn't go that way - my friend not going and having another interest and my girlfriend not showing much of an interest in the threesome.
I guess I could still have an honest conversation with her regarding the issue but would it be worth it? I'm not sure that pushing it would be smart unless she gives me a signal or shows some interest down the line.
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No.4101
>>4099
>Turns out that GF was just putting me through a shit test
So I was correct
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No.4103
>>4099
Girls that lie like that don't make good cuckqueans.
Also? That wasn't a "shit test". A shit test is an inconsequential order to see whether or not you're her bitch. This was outright lying and manipulation orchestrated over multiple steps.
Whether this was OK and what that means for the kind of relationship you want to have is up to you to think about.
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No.4118
>>4099
tell me you made her feel loved and shit when you were calming her down, otherwise do it now
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No.4134
>>4101
Yes, but there's more to this..
>>4103
It's somewhat ok. I don't think she is doing it in an harmful way, she just seems insecure because she is afraid I'll cheat on her again some other time. I can understand that fear. If it does manifest in a negative way, I'll definitely need to re-think things between us as I imagine it would only get much worse.
>>4118
Yes I did. And I have good news for you, anon.
Here's a new update. You guys are probably getting fed up with this bullshit by now but I really have no idea with who to talk with. Some of my friends are complete idiots while others will probably just brush it off, pat me in the back and pretend to give some shitty advice so I feel /cuckquean/ is the best communication channel I have.
I'll just transcribe our messages because I think it's easier for you guys.
(we're talking about beach and some stuff we'll be doing when I get there, etc…)
>F: You could have other girls to do that for you..
>M: Yes I could but I want special one to do it.
>F: What if it was me and another girl? Two girls just for you
(my heart is racing… is she messing with me again?)
>M: Only on one condition.
>F: What?
>M: you'll be the center of attention
>F: Cut the crap! The center of attention will obviously be you. Would you go along with it?
>M: You know I got that fantasy but it's a little bit more complex than just fucking two girls at the same time. I find the idea of competing for my sexual partner with someone from another sex exciting. We'd be two people trying to pleasure someone in different ways.
(despite this coming off as manipulative - playing with her idea of a MMF fantasy - I genuinely get my hard-on on this from this idea)
>M: And yes, I would go along. But why that question now?
>F: Just asking. Because I would go along too.
(I need to fish out some more information so I understand if she is being sincere or not)
>M: We had discussed our fantasies some time ago and at the time I asked you if you had any curiosity to experiment with another girl and you told me no. Why would it be different with me?
>F: Because.. Before I didn't give it much thought, guess that felt a bit taboo. But now..
>M: I never done that before but you would be the perfect girl to do it with. But aren't you afraid of sharing me with someone else?
>F: I trust you.
>M: I was going to say that (you can trust me) but I wanted you to say instead.. You're the only one I care for and both me and that girl will be there for you. I'm yours only.
>M: But we got to agree on something.
>F: What is that?
>M: If that happens, you pick her. And then I decide if I want to share you with her. Deal?
(I know she wants to pick and I also know she wants me to make the final decision)
>F: I would like that to happen! But I'm not sure I know someone who would agree…
>M: It's okay baby. If you know someone you like and that could be into it we'll go for a few drinks and see what happens. If not, we could try to meet new people. No rush.
>F: Ok :)
Then I changed subjected because I didn't want to push things further since we'll have plenty of time to talk about it when I get there. She did not mention anything about her fantasy - which I would not go along for - which is a good thing. I was just waiting for her to pull that card but it seems she was to willingly do this with me, no strings attached.
That being said, I do like that suggestion that another anon made and compromise - using a strap-on on whoever we pick for this. I'd really enjoy seeing her being fucked by another female - perhaps even by both of us.
Anyway, that's pretty much it. My thoughts are running and perhaps I'll post some additional stuff later on that I can think of.
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No.4135
>>4134
I'm going to be a little mean with you now, Anon. I read this as her wanting to experiment with you fucking another girl (FMF), then you turn it into another girl fucking her (FFM). Those are completely different dynamics. (For example: My cuckquean loves cleaning vixens' juices off my cock during threesomes but detests the idea of directly touching or being touched by other girls sexually.)
You want her to get fucked by another girl. Sounds more like cuckolding to me but I'm not an expert on your fetishes so I'll assume I'm wrong about that. But what does she want, and why? Despite what >>4001 suggests, a strapon is not a "compromise", it's a completely different thing. An FFM doesn't become similar to an MFM just because a strapon is involved. Sharing you is one thing. Being shared is another.
You still seem to be treating this a little like a game where you have to manipulate her into giving you what you want. You've made assumptions about what she wants but never actually asked her. What're you afraid of? That she'll bring up the MFM fantasy and you'll have to say no? You've said that she's manipulative and tricky, and I see you being manipulative and tricky too - not to mention more than a little self-centred.
Next time the topic arises, put your own goals aside a moment and find out what's going on in her head and in her crotch when she thinks about this idea - not because you want the information to get what you want, but because she's your girlfriend and you're genuinely interested to know.
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No.4136
>>4135
It's fair enough.
And you might have a point here. I'm trying to push things a bit my way instead of asking her what SHE wants. You've definitely given me some food for thought. I won't deny I'm a bit self-centered - I can't help it - but your words are giving me some perspective and I do want people calling me out when it's necessary. It helps to organize my thoughts.
My fetish is probably related to my early days watching porn. I always loved seeing two girls going at it with one being fucked by another in ways that a male cannot compete. The idea just struck with me and most of the times I watched lesbian porn I was focused on one of them rather than both. When I watch FFM same thing happens - I like the idea of fucking both girls but more importantly is the action the main girl (in my head) gets. That's why most of the times it's very hard to be satisfied by FFM for me.
Going back to the fantasy, I guess I'm just a bit afraid of letting her completely control this fantasy. Ironically doing so would probably center me in the middle of them rather than center her - I guess I can see why would see it as cuckolding.. But feeling as a bit more dominant in her relation and her being generally more passive it's just a natural reaction to me. But you're right. I need to put myself aside for a bit and focus on what SHE wants and thinks of this.
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No.4137
>>4136
In the final tally, it doesn't really matter what you think or what you are/are not or what is or is not "natural" for you or any of that other internal identity crap. What matters is what you do. So go do those things and let us know what happens.
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No.4140
>>4137
Will do. I'll try to talk to her a bit. I already expressed my side of this fantasy, I need to understand hers. What she gets off this and how. Strangely, if our interests are not aligned this could led to this fantasy being repeated more than once - as of right now I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing but we'll see how it goes.
There's only a tiny problem. How to get a partner? She doesn't know anyone that could be into it and my friend isn't going (not that I think she would want to get involved with a love interest there either). Should we hit bars? I honestly have no idea how to approach someone I don't know about this.
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No.4148
>>4140
From what I've heard it's often easier to pick up girls for a threesome when you have your girl start the interaction. Quickly screens girls out that aren't okay with being with another girl, and is less threatening than a man. Also quickly make it clear that you and her are together and anything that happens involves everyone.
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No.4149
>>4148
Pretty much. It's much more effective when the couple works as a team, no matter the specific details of how they do it. The fact that they're working together to seduce her also predicts better sex; threesomes with couples that don't have their shit together are invariably awkward and awful, I'm told. The way they play off each other and the rapport they have is a huge tell about the quality of the relationship and therefore their quality as individuals (especially the man).
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No.4242
Not 100% relevant to thread but:
>tfw being pathologically jealous and possessive of my fiance if that's the proper word for male partner you are engaged to, sorry, not natural england tonguer*, to the point of even making a scene in public over it not proud of it btw**
>tfw when that makes it even hotter when I'm being cucked
>tfw I get paranoid and suspect that he's cheating on me without my consent
Should I seek medical assistance, /quean/?
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No.4246
>>4242
Yes, I recommend regular deep tissue massage.
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No.4247
>>4242
I'm not sure about medical assistance, but you should definitely dress up as a slutty nurse next time he cucks you. So you can help the doctor perform his exam on his patient.
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No.4252
>>4242
>fiance
>if that's the proper word for male partner you are engaged to
Yes, that's right Anon. "Fiancé" is a man engaged to be married, "Fiancée" (double e) is a woman engaged to be married. Also congrats! Remember that if you keep your hand too close to a candle you'll get burned AND smother the flame.
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No.4254
>>4252
Most pleasurable part is that he probably doesn't even know for sure I'm a quean. He probably even feels guilt for being a "lying cheating pig" that he most likely isn't since for the greatest part of our past together there were not reasonable indications that he went with other women (maybe once and that still had plausible deniabilty) before I practically gave him an "okay" with "boys will be boys" "and it's not like I would break up with you" "just make sure you wear a condom" excuses and extremely mixed messages.
I know most queans here will probably criticize the mutual lack of honesty in our officially committed relationship but it's too fun and hot to go straight on it.
For example the other day he told me that he would go out with some friends from high-school in a reunion party, that involved a girl he likely had a crush on in his school years. I teased him for it and told him that he should not be late or I would get suspicious. When he returned within timetable he was all fired up, jumped me and pounded my brains out while I was able to smell her perfume on him.
As a matter of fact whenever I suspect something might happen, and knowing him that he's a half-night-long lover, I give him just enough time to have an unsatiating quicky and then come home to fume it out on me ain't I stinker? >;^).
>mfw evry tiem
I am afraid he's catching up though. Recently when he went out "with a coworker" I called him to check out on him and after giving me excuses he "forgot" to end the call. The sounds were kinda inconclusive and did not really indicate a conversation between coworkers or a conversation at all for that matter, just ambient urban apartment sounds and feint vocalizations of people but still I don't think he would be that careless if he did not know, I am getting the feeling that he was just testing the water.
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No.4255
>>4148
I had confessed to my fiance that my first sexual interaction was fooling around with a high-school girlfriend of mine and since then he half-mockingly teases me that we should "call her for a reunion" and that he would love to see me "getting nostalgic" dense cuck does not realize I'd rather see him "reunite" with her.
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No.4261
>>4254
>while I was able to smell her perfume on him
The smell is one of my favourite parts. I don't know how any man can cheat in secret. Whenever mine comes back from being with a vixen, even if he's showered, he absolutely stinks of testosterone and other woman. It's so good, goddamn. I end up sniffing all over him like a crazed animal.
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No.4266
>>4254
>I know most queans here will probably criticize the mutual lack of honesty in our officially committed relationship but it's too fun and hot to go straight on it.
Not gonna lie, that all sounds pretty hot. Hope your husband-to-be catches on and starts leaving little traces for you to find like lipstick marks on his cock.
Imagine the eventual confession of sins, though.
>I… I've been with other girls. I cheated on you, I'm sor- why is your hand down your pants, honey?
>Nevermind, ah!, nevermind that. So, yes, you cheated on me? Tell me more. Details!
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No.5684
>>4261
>Tfw incredible sense off smell
>In a relationship (It wasn't long, and I never wanted to get too serious)
>Multiple chicks want MUH DICK
>Every time I have sex I can smell it on my cloths and hair, even 2 or so days after
Single again now, but because of logistical reasons I don't think I'll ever into cuckquening, raw is too good, and if I have a hot wife, why would I risk pregnancy and disease with a stranger? One night stands I can pull off, but doing it raw with one is a risky.
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No.5685
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No.5720
>>5685
Kek, why thought, my sex was relevant to the discussion and I gain nothing by posting it.
Back on topic how many queans here participated in a threesome? Is it common? Do you assist mainly?
Share? Take turns?
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No.5724
>>5720
>I don't think I'll ever into cuckqueaning
>but let me just talk about myself and muh dick for a bit, I'm relevant somehow
Neither you nor your sex (in both senses) had anything to do with the discussion or the board topic, but you decided to tell us about them anyway. The answers to your questions for myself are yes, don't know, yes, yes, and yes.
Now cock or gtfo.
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No.5729
>>5724
Thought to put the second part as question rather to people, how they deal with that. But didn't phrase it correctly. As in how do you deal with those things when into cuckqueaning?
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No.5773
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No.5787
>>5773
I'm so proud I made some OC that was useful
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No.5792
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No.5821
>>5787
Dick you draw it like that on purpose?
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No.5823
>>5773
>>5792
I was so confuse when I saw it
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No.5824
>>5821
Yes
Also I have another question, to cuckqueans this time. If your stallion,was it, bf or whatever, cucks another man, as becomes the bull for a cuck, would this make it better because it makes him more alpha so to speak? If he impregnated that woman so the cuck could raise it?
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No.5831
>>5824
Your post is a little hard to read but there's a thread on that, I think >>1358
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No.5836
>>5831
Thanks, English is not my mother tongue, so I have trouble with my phrasing, and I usually confuse words with similar phonetics. Gonna check the other thread, but to reprase my questions
>>5684
How do you cuckqueans, or your bf, deal with the logistics of finding vixens? Just fuck ramdom bitches and hope for the best? The whole condom thing would be a huge minus for me, and going raw has it's own risks(STD, pregnancy, etc)
>>5824
And speaking of pregnancies, does it arouses more cuckqueans when their bfs are the bull to cuck? And have said cuck raise their children? I ask this because in that case their bfs would prove to be even more alpha, and that seems to be the point of the fetish for many.
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