Send her a link to here and a couple of CQ tumblr s and let her figure it out for herself.

>>3163

I don't think she can possibly be doing this unintentionally. Girls will send pictures of themselves, but why would she go out of her way to search for other girls pictures that you might like? She's giving you condoms when she's on the pill? Does she even ask for you to use them with her?

She is acting this way because she is giving you the signal to go ahead and take the lead. This is how women like to show it's okay.

I would take her out somewhere and meet some girls. Progress normally, see how she reacts. If she responds badly, stop. Either you will go all the way to the finish, she will have to acknowledge it in some way, both what she liked and/or didn't like.

>>3166

>Does she even ask for you to use them with her?

Nope.

She's a very stubborn person. If I were to try to do something like that with her, she'd refuse out of embarrassment.

She's someone that needs to be warmed up to new things very slowly. I think that's why she's having so much trouble.

I've been thinking about buying a pair of panties, cumming in them and leaving them somewhere obvious in my apartment. So when she comes over and sees them, it should be obvious to her that I slept with another girl. Yet, when asked, if I simply told her "yeah, I did" she'd feel ashamed for being into it and fake exaggerated anger. So if I lie and say, "I bought them for you" she'll pretend to accept the obvious lie.

Plus, I could make her try them on. My cum would make it abundantly clear that I didn't buy them for her and I'd be sure to get some a different size than what she wears. Yet I think she'd still pretend to believe it. Part of that is some sadism on my part, though.

Maybe I should start slow, though. I think if I were to flirt with another woman in front of her, she'd just stand there and not even attempt to intervene and convince herself, "nothing's going on, he's just being friendly".

Thoughts?

>>3167

I'm saying to start with the flirting because at some point she will have to react or respond. If she doesn't, you're going to go home with the girl, so if she stands there watching and doing nothing, she has accepted it. I wouldn't play games like the panties and beat around the bush. Maybe the panties might be fun, but for real, after you've actually started seeing other girls.

Again, the point is you need to put yourself in a situation where you know she's okay with it. The best possible scenario is to do it right in front of her and observe the reaction. If she reacts badly, just say straight out, "How you were acting made me think you wanted me to do this. I'm sorry if I hurt you, I just wanted to do something I thought you liked."

Some other ways to start could be to just tell her when you think another girl is attractive and see her reaction, or have a threesome with another girl. See how she responds in these situations. If she is really into the other girl, or really enjoys when you focus on the other girl during the threesome, you are on the right track.

>>3170

Thanks for the advice.

She's brought up threesomes before, long before I started to catch onto any of this, much earlier in the relationship. The way she brought it up, I was very cautious. I'm not a cuck, you understand. I told her I'd be willing to, mostly as a test to see if she was thinking mmf so I could drop her.

Instead, she wanted to know what kind of woman I'd want the other one to be. I was caught off guard so I said I didn't know. She went on to say that she could never participate so the other girl would have to be more dominant than her.

Of course, it's only in retrospect now that I understand what she was talking about. I suspect my obliviousness led to her suppress her desire and now she's afraid I'll hate her.

I think you're right. The best way is to just test the waters. If I can open her up a bit more so she doesn't suppress it so much, I think we'll both be much happier for it and less sexually frustrated.

>>3171

Slow and deliberate is the way to go, Anon. As >>3170 says, you should start with small and straightforward things. Don't go straight to flirting in front of her, though. You want to give her the opportunity to warm back up and show her that you understand and approve. You also want to have the opportunity to feel out exactly how her fetish (if she actually has one) works. You probably want her to explain herself, to tell you exactly what she wants and what she means by the things she does - this is not how she, or women in general, work.

Try this: When she next sends you texts of naked women so you can 'feel good', tell her you do. Tell her that the girl in the picture looks great, that her sending it to you made you happy and you think it's sexy that she sent it. Be genuine. If the picture made you hard, say so. If you feel a rush of affection for your girlfriend as a result, say so. Make her feel safe and loved for doing it. Continue this pattern of praise for a while to let her get used to it, so any uncertainties she has melt into comfort.

When she gives you condoms, kiss her and tell her that you're happy that she's looking out for your health and safety - because you are, right? You're not outright saying that you'll use them, but you're sending a more important message: That you like and appreciate what she's doing.

A good next step might be to let her see you checking out other women. Turn it into a shared thing between you - discreetly point out a girl and murmur what you like. "She's got a great butt, doesn't she?" Think of it like sharing parts of a meal - you like it and want to share that you like it. Do it right and she might start pointing out girls for you to look at.

Carefully watch her reaction and make sure she's comfortable at each stage before pushing more. Don't go too quick but don't get spooked and back off if she gives an ambiguous reaction the first few times. The key is that you're not just doing this for you, you're doing this for both of you.

Report back and let us know how it's going!

>>3171

Anon you are a lucky man to have a girlfriend like that who naturally want his (if your into this sort of thing). Now I agree with the other about testing and seeing her reactions but i dont think its necessary to go as slow as they are talking about. Shes already very strong signs back. It sounds like she wants you and possibly other women to dominate her; like your vixens that you choose but thats getting a little ahead of ourselves.

anyway back to starting out. I would start by flirting with other women immediately. When your with her, intensely stare at other women you find attractive and check out there ass as they pass you by.

maybe even just start making more friend with women and introducing all of them to your gf. .

She will definitely notice and eventually respond if you increase your flirty friendliness towards all women.

Just know that if shes "ok" with you constantly check out nude women that she sends you, she most like desires you flirting with real women too.

good luck anon keep us updated

>>3195

Another approach is one that I have used in the past. Take her to a nice strip club. You have a lot of nice attractive friendly women there for you to flirt with. You can casually talk to her about which girls you and her find attractive and when one of them comes by, you can read how she responds to you interacting with the girls.

I got to a point in my life where strip clubs were a mandatory part of a second date. If I'm with a woman who's self esteem is so low or who is so sexually repressed I figure a strip club is a good place to find out. Sometimes I would wait a little for her to get her head wrapped around the idea, but I always made it clear that it was going to happen.

OP here, reporting back.

Follow this poster's advice,

>>3172

I've started commenting on other women with her. At first, she'd get very quiet which, for her, is a telltale sign of embarrassment, so I kept doing it and she's started approving. I'll mention that some other girl has a nice ass and she'll ask for me to point her out, only to say "You're right. I wish my ass was that good."

Eventually, I eased her into the idea of a threesome and got her to agree. I left it open ended as to whether or not it would be mmf or ffm to gauge her inclination and, naturally, she expressed insecurity about me fucking another girl, confirming that she's interested in me with another girl, if conflicted about it.

Now, in my mind there's no doubt that she's a cuckquean. Yet, any time I bring it up she gets upset in a way people only get when they're conflicted on something. Quiet and unresponsive. Distracted and negative but not hostile. This isn't at all unusual for her. She tries very hard to maintain a facade of pride and strength but really, she has virtually no self-confidence. I've been with her for years now but she's still desperately worried that she'll do something I'll dislike, which exposes an inferiority complex. Which, really, explains a lot, the least of which is how she probably came to develop this fetish.

Recently, I've been wondering how else to move forward with this. Obviously, I could just pick out a girl and get to that threesome, but knowing my gf she'd still be so conflicted that she not only wouldn't enjoy it, but she'd be turned off to the idea entirely and be even more unhappy.

Now that I'm reading this thread again, though, I think this is a good idea

>>3195

>start making more friend with women and introducing all of them to your gf

Which would probably end up leading to a threesome anyway.

Thoughts?

>>3237

What made you accept that you're a cuckquean? And if you have, how did you tell your bf?

>>3360

>"You're right. I wish my ass was that good."

>she expressed insecurity about me fucking another girl

>any time I bring it up she gets upset in a way people only get when they're conflicted on something

These are red flags you do need to deal with. My gf was like this at first too, before she transmuted into a happily compersive cuckquean. Pushing too hard too fast or in the wrong way will cause her to recoil and shut things off for good.

What I did at this stage was to build my gf up, make it clear that I was with her for her and that my enjoying other girls didn't mean that I would run off with them. I laid it on thick with the physical and emotional lust (easy because I really was madly in love with her and her body), but it was what was needed to get through to her.

My advice right now is that now you've brought up the threesome, talk to her directly about her fears. Just ask, non-judgementally, about what she fears. Chances are it'll boil down to fearing your bond with her being broken (since she sees it as tenuous). Also, express your affection for her roughly and regularly. Affectionately grope her in private. Kiss her like you just can't help yourself. Build her up. Even if she doesn't turn out to be a cuckquean, it's what she needs.

>>3196

>who's self esteem is so low or who is so sexually repressed

What? I understand you're looking for a cq, but how do you equate a girl not being into that with prudishness or lack of self esteem?

>>3366

Way ahead of you. I've been doing exactly what you're saying. I've pulled back more on the threesome thing until she becomes more comfortable with it. Instead, I've been much more affectionate and I keep reassuring her that she can talk to me about anything without any judgment, and that I won't think less of her for the things she's into.

Quite often, I allude to it. I'll mention that I'd like to fuck such and such girl, or I'll compare her to another girl in a teasing way only to immediately shower her with affection and reassurance. She seems to enjoy all that a lot, even if it is behind a very thin veneer of faux-anger that subsides within seconds. Then, I fuck her brains out. I think she's getting the connection.

It's going very well, I think. She still has off days where she feels really miserable and inferior and doesn't want to even get close to the idea, but in general she seems to be warming up to the idea.

>>3368

I'm looking to increase my odds of success. A girl who is prudish or has self esteem are girls I'm not really interested and are less likely to be open to a cq lifestyle. Well, they may be into humiliation-oriented cq but I'm only interested in compersive cq.

>>3373

But even if she's into compersive cq she could still be against strip clubs. I mean if you're looking for a little slave girl that'll just do as you say and let you fuck everything with legs then do as you do, but really in that case why even bother with wasting the girl's time?

>>3371

So even if she doesn't turn out to be a quean, you'll probably end up with a happier and more confident girlfriend. What's not to love?

>>3360

Make sure you give compliments about what you like. Complimenting a trait means it will show more often.

"I love how I can be honest with you. I know many girls would flip if I mentioned other girls, much less complimented them."

"I love how confident you are. It takes a lot to have a threesome with another girl."

"I love how you listen to me. Even f I can be attracted to someone else, you understand I love you."

"I appreciate everything you do for me to make me happy. If theres ever anything you want, tell me right away."

>>3381

I've been doing that and its definitely been working. She probably sees through it and recognizes my intentions but she doesn't seem to mind. She also gets turned on when I do, like she understands that I'm doing it to ease her into accepting me sleeping with other women. And she loves it, even if she's bashful about it.

I've also been implying it in other ways, like calling her "my favorite girl" or "my main bitch" if the mood strikes me. She loves that.

>>3378

That's true. Regardless of where this leads, we'll both be happier. She's a good girl.

>>3383

Those could still be responses to things other than cuckqueaning urges from her, but I think you already know that and are accounting for it OP.

I'm happy to hear she's warming up in general too. Good girls deserve good relationships, but all too many of them can't enjoy them once they have them.

Please keep reporting back, this is all too cute.