No.1590
I've got a huge problem /cq/.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years and 4 weeks ago we moved in together. We both work and lead healthy lives and before today I figured we were pretty open with each other.
Anyway, today I had the night shift but my boyfriend had the day off so by the time I got home from the night shift, he was already gone. I went into the bedroom to get changed and noticed he hadn't turned off my laptop (he left it with the lid closed but the laptop itself was still on and I'm aware it'll overheat this way) so I figured I'd do it. I opened the lid and to my surprise I see picture related.
My first reaction was laughing. I thought it was funny that I'd caught him basically watching porn but then it actually dawned on me. He's watching trap porn. That's when I started to remember all those trap threads on /b/ that I ignore but am aware of their existence (catalogue is full of them a lot of the time). Now I'm feeling pretty sick and quite frankly inadequate as I only have a vagina and the chick in this video is clearly a lot bigger.
I know you're probably thinking that my reaction is pathetic and that everyone watches porn, but the thing is I watch porn that fit my fetish and I'm worrying that my boyfriend has a fetish for chicks with dicks or… traps….. I've been worrying about this for hours. My boyfriend doesn't finish work for another 2 hours.
Need some serious advice /cq/…
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No.1591
>>1590
Whatever you do, don't tell him that you found the picture. Maybe you should suggest doing some interesting things in bed next time, like wearing a strap-on and fucking him in the ass, gently. Make it so that it appears to be your idea/initiative. That is of course if you are ok with the idea.
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No.1592
>>1590
>I'm worrying that my boyfriend has a fetish for chicks with dicks or… traps….. I've been worrying about this for hours.
What exactly are you worried about? I don't mean that dismissively - what exactly about finding out that your boyfriend's also into traps has you worried?
Also,
>I only have a vagina and the chick in this video is clearly a lot bigger.
I don't understand this statement. The chick's penis is bigger than… what? Your clit? Of course it is. It's a penis.
>>1591
What the fuck? The boyfriend's not necessarily going to be into pegging just because he likes traps. Most dudes into traps (at beyond the fantasy level) want to top exclusively.
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No.1594
If you are here you probably want your bf to look at other girls and hopefully start cheating on you (if he isn't already). You know that you are most likely inadequate and inferior to those girls, let's face it. I don't think it's a big deal to be inferior to dickgirls too. The only thing that would worry me is the evident bad taste of fapping to a cut dick.
>>1592
Even if we know better, most people think that liking traps is gay. Obviously very few girls want to think their bf is gay and living a lie. If she has her heart set on her bf fucking every girl he sees then seeing him as gay would be a big disappointment.
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No.1595
>>1594
>You know that you are most likely inadequate and inferior to those girls, let's face it.
Humiliation- and inferiority-driven cuckqueans aren't the only type, y'know; if I'd read this sentence as a fledgling cuckquean I'd be turned right off.
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No.1596
>>1590
>Need some serious advice /cq/…
1. Figure out why you're worried.
2. Communicate. Even if it's something simple like
>"So, uh, you're into traps?"
it's better than stewing over it. The reason you did Step 1 was so that you don't freak him out during this step.
Lots of dudes are into traps on a porn level without ever actually wanting to do one IRL.
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No.1600
>>1595
Don't want to derail too much, but isn't humiliation the basis for a lot of cuckqueans? What are the other types and how do they get pleasure if not through humiliation? Not meaning to sound like an asshole or anything I'm honestly interested. I come from a BDSM background so I would like to hear how other people got into it.
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No.1601
>>1600
>polite sage
You're alright.
The other main type of cuckquean is the compersive kind. They get off on the pleasure, joy, variety etc. that their partner is experiencing rather than feeling humiliated or inferior because he's experiencing it with someone else. There's a thread discussing it over at >>215 and most of the cuckqueans I've seen come through the board thus far seem to be that type.
It's important to distinguish between humiliation and degradation too, perhaps. I know some are joyfully into degradation aspects without being into humiliation at all.
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No.1602
>>1595
I thought this was 8chan not lieschan.
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No.1605
>>1601
>compersive
I forgot that was even a thing. Thanks for the good reading, anon!
As for our OP's problem really I don't think it's much to worry about. Many guys like traps, yes I'm serious. It doesn't even have much to do with internal homosexuality or anything like that. It's the female form that attracts the male and it's the idea that a man can have such a form that keeps them interested. It's hard to wrap the mind around it at first but let's be honest here: men and women are two very different creatures. We have different likes and dislikes that are just innate between the genders.
To put it simply: guys like traps for the same reason they like Tomboys. The idea that a girl can be fully immersed and interested in their hobby's and general interests. The closer the girl is to being a boy, even to the point of the girl actually being a guy, the more said "girl" must inherently "get it" and understand men in general.
It actually has more to do with emotional and mental intimacy than it has to do with physical attraction itself (especially considering it's the female form that attracts them and makes them hard not the fact that it's a man). As much as men want a women that will truly understand him such a thing is impossible for many men and that's why those men tend to spend a lot of their time with their best guy friends.
I hope this made sense and didn't just turn into one giant blob of rambling.
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No.1612
>>1605
I like this explanation
Its painful not to be understood
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No.1628
>>1605
You do see a lot of posts on this site saying things like traps make for better girls than girls. I don't agree with it but I think I at least understand it now.
>emotional and mental intimacy
This just makes it even worse from the girl's point of view if her bf feels he has to get this from boys who dress up as girls rather than her. Before I thought it was just about a freaky sexual fetish.
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No.1630
>>1590
What? You are fine. Just get a strap on. Traps don't have pussies after all.
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No.1852
>>1605
There are also men who are into it simply from a dominant standpoint.
Fucking something that is/was a man but instead spends a lot of time/effort trying to be feminine is attractive (see: the Romans).
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No.1853
I agree with a previous poster that a lot of guys are into it for a dominant reason. That's why I like it. Guys are into it for a whole host of reasons, including even being dominated!
Another reason that I like traps is that I really like being an anal top, but I'm not attracted to men and very few girls in my past have been interested in it. Traps always are as is my current girlfriend, thankfully. Sure they have a dick, but for most guys, the thought of traps comes along once in a while, either fucking one or being fucked by one. Maybe it's just the exciting thought of doing something that's not "normal". Usually it's solved by a quick fap session and that's it.
Bottom line, I wouldn't be too worried about it. I know for me, whenever I think about traps, I just watch some trap porn, have a little fap and that's me for a few months until I think about it again.
Maybe if you guys talk it out sensibly and get a little more adventurous in bed, your fears will go away a little. Have an open mind, I'm sure you have your fetishes too that he might not immedietly understand. Explore each other! Leads to a happier (sex) life.
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No.1889
>>1590
It's just a fetish, nothing more.
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No.1903
>>1592
>What the fuck? The boyfriend's not necessarily going to be into pegging just because he likes traps. Most dudes into traps (at beyond the fantasy level) want to top exclusively.
This. I'd say close to 99% of guys that want to fuck traps are exclusively tops.
If they weren't tops they'd look at bara or yaoi.
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No.1904
>>1601
>The other main type of cuckquean is the compersive kind. They get off on the pleasure, joy, variety etc. that their partner is experiencing rather than feeling humiliated or inferior because he's experiencing it with someone else.
That is hot as fuck.
You're basically so in love with a man that you don't even care about your only pleasure, only his.
Although this could get seriously fucked up if the guy you love is a fucking piece of shit sociopath.
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No.2100
>he likes her
>even though shes not even a woman
Gay and trap stuff is powerful as heck, gets me wet.
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No.2103
>implying I wouldn't cuck my girlfriend with a trap
>bring home qt, girlfriend notices, knows she's going to be cucked
>Tell her to service my honey, lie the qt trap on their back while I make out with them
>My cuck pulls off the trap's pants, only to reveal a throbbing cock that springs out from between their soft thighs
>Girlfriend is confus
>Tell her to be a good girl and suck, don't forget to lube up my vixen's (boy)cunt
>My good cuck does as she's told
>Have my cuck service my cock afterwards while I'm warming my trap vixen's hole up for me
>Just as I can feel drool start to drip down my balls, I'll demand that she services my vixen's clit while I make a woman out of this trap
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No.2107
Here's the tumblr of the trap from OP's picture: http://imthefuckingempress.tumblr.com/
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No.2110
>>2107
>Trap that owns firearms and isn't completely ugly
Quick someone tell /k/.
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No.2156
Northern Ontario Dom male+/pol/ack here.
Being In Ontario means, I'm not far from the degenerate hell hole that is the GTA. So I got with a Jap Trap because being so fucking manly you are making men womanly is fucking hot. I told him about my cucks fetish, and he agreed and came home with me drove home with him. It was honestly just a mentally exciting fuck, no better than my cucks ass or pussy or any other womans, maybe a bit worse. But afterwards we called him a cab she thanked him like a good cuck always does and said that it made me seem really fucking manly.
That's all a trap fetish is, wanting to seem manly, so, if you can make your man feel manly without one good, if not, I don't think most men would give up a good obedient cuck for a faggot. It reminded my cuck just HOW manly I was. I can fuck a guy that wants to be a woman. Thats fucking manly. It's also why I don't consider myself bi.
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No.2361
>>2156
>tfw schlietched to the Morrocan harem X Elliot Rodger copypasta a thousand times
>tfw your bf is not even a /pol/lack but would never I agree to rek the anus of a hapa /cuteboy/
>tfw I cannot even dare to ask
Being a closet degenerate queanie is suffering… ; _ ;
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No.2374
>>2361
Just make him get use to convencing traps because you like them. When he is used to it, try to make love to him while he looks at them traps. he will associate traps and pleasure. The rest is up to you.
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No.3367
>>1903
god dammit, I realize no one is likely to see this but hell. Where does this retardation of only topping come from? Exclusively topping means denying your partner, and more importantly yourself, pleasure. You want something feminine but that doesn't mean you don't understand the fucking prostate. You don't go to yaoi because you aren't feminine yourself and/or you're not looking for a macho guy, not because you're afraid of being gay.
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No.3375
>>3367
>Where does this retardation of only topping come from?
Exclusively top = not gay is an idea that's been around for at least two millennia anon. That and getting fucked, physical pleasure aside, is just not an attractive idea to many guys for whatever reason. I suspect it goes further than social norms too.
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No.3734
>>3367
>Where does this retardation of only topping come from? Exclusively topping means denying your partner, and more importantly yourself, pleasure.
No it doesn't, people can get pleasure from penis denial just as much as vaginal denial, especially faggot traps since they rightfully associate their cocks with uselessness.
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No.3735
>>3375
>Exclusively top = not gay is an idea that's been around for at least two millennia anon.
That's how it works in American prisons as well. Or so I've been told.
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No.3776
>>1590
He was just looking at porn. Kinky porn. He may be bisexual or bi-curious, but probably only a little bit - likely not enough to ever go that route. And all the retards talking about you getting a strap-on? Just looking at traps doesn't remotely imply you want to take it in the ass. Most otokonoko are submissive, after all. He likely wants to top. This isn't an absolute thing, of course, but there are many, many directions this could go. And honestly it was probably just looking at porn.
That in mind, >>1596 absolutely has it right. >>1605 and >>1853 also have their points. At the end of the day, you should communicate with your husband and come to an understanding of his feelings. If you can't even do that, then you've failed at this relationship.
>>1591
>Whatever you do, don't tell him that you found the picture.
Are you a chick? You are fucking retarded if so. Never lie or hide things from your husband. Even more so if you're the submissive in the relationship. Holy fuck.
If you're a dude, why the fuck ever would you ever ever ever give that type of garbage advice? Are you trying to fuck over another guy by having his woman keep secrets like this from him? Disgusting.
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No.3792
>>1590
>>1590
>I know you're probably thinking that my reaction is pathetic and that everyone watches porn, but the thing is I watch porn that fit my fetish and I'm worrying that my boyfriend has a fetish for chicks with dicks or… traps….. I've been worrying about this for hours. My boyfriend doesn't finish work for another 2 hours.
>
>Need some serious advice /cq/…
Full disclosure: Didn't intend to post here, since I'm not a woman, but seems like I can add some valueable input.
Being into trap-porn simply means your boyfriend is heterosexual.
Here it is explained:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMoEs7eQeZE
It is the sexual equivalent of an optical illusion.
He is just a normal dude, don't mind it, no point in bringing it up with him most likely.
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No.3798
>>3776
>Never lie or hide things from your husband. Even more so if you're the submissive in the relationship. Holy fuck.
Dickish as their phrasing is, this anon speaks truth. Don't hide shit from your husband. It's a really bad idea. Giving yourself time to think things over is okay, but never intentionally bury anything. Otherwise you're risking trust between you and trust is the most precious thing any relationship can have.
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