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 No.215

There aren't that many cuckqueaning blogs or discussions out there but usually when I see them they tend to always be the type that thrives on being humiliated by the act.

I'll admit that while some small part of me enjoys the idea of being degraded by my boyfriend having better sex with another woman that isn't the main reason I became a cuckquean. I find that as long as my boyfriend is being pleasured I can totally get off on that, regardless of if it is by me or another girl. I want him to go out and enjoy himself however he possibly can and if I get to watch that is even better.

I've been considering perhaps trying a more degradation based dynamic just to see what the fuss is about but I really don't know if I would like it with respect to another woman being involved. Strangely enough I'm quite a jealous person, I like being number 1.

Are there others out there who drift from what appears to be the usual humiliation dynamic or is that the major aspect of the fetish for you?
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 No.242

>>215
Do you ever do things like hide while another girl has sex with your boyfriend and doesn't know you're watching?
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 No.248

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>>242
In reality I have not had many opportunities to actually witness my boyfriend having sex with other women (yet) however in all cases so far where I could watch I was visible and known to both parties.

I actually don't fantasise about being hidden, sometimes I might be in a different room or perhaps I am back at home while he is out but hiding myself to watch just doesn't come up for me. I mean.. if neither knew I was there I can kinda see that being hot (like walking by the door and seeing or something) but it isn't something I actively considered and I certainly can't see myself planting myself somewhere in the room to wait for them or anything like that.

My boyfriend and I talk about plans for him to fuck other girls before it happens so in reality the only person I could "hide" from is the girl and I'd feel like we were tricking her if my boyfriend and I knew I was watching but she didn't. Not my thing.
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 No.279

>>215
>I've been considering perhaps trying a more degradation based dynamic just to see what the fuss is about
How would you want to go about "trying" such a dynamic?
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 No.355

>>279
I tried to actually think of ways but honestly none come to mind right now. I'd probably have to go about reading more humiliation based cuckquean experiences to see if anything clicks at all but I haven't had anything do so yet.

Like.. I vaguely considered being put down or punished due to my boyfriend having infinitely better sex with another girl but that just isn't enjoyable at all. I love hearing about how great the sex and the time I watched I could tell the girl was likely better than me but I wasn't humiliated by it, just thrilled he got to experience it. Putting me down would probably kill the joy I get from it so it would have to be something else..
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 No.519

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>>242
As >>248 points out, watching the sex while the other two are unaware is kind of wrong unless the other woman knows she might or might not be peeped on while she's fucking the guy.

It's hot to imagine being locked in the closet while your unfaithful husband brings home his newest squeeze while he thinks you aren't there… but reality means we gotta make some compromises if we aren't going to be jerks.
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 No.626

My 'quean is completely non-humiliation. She's just really excited that I get to experience such a variety and that I enjoy it so much.

I think that maybe the humiliation-driven girls are just more likely to publish their experiences to others, as telling people about it afterwards gives the humiliation that extra kick.
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 No.954

>>626
>I think that maybe the humiliation-driven girls are just more likely to publish their experiences to others, as telling people about it afterwards gives the humiliation that extra kick.
I've heard this theory before, though it seems hard to prove or disprove.
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 No.983

I'm mostly compersive. I want the girl he's fucking to be better, but not because I get off on being "worse", just because I like him getting to feel so good and have so much fun. The rundowns he gives me after playing with a girl almost always include some exclamation about how good she felt, how hard he came for her, how much she turned him on, etc, but it's never in a way that disparages me. More like a thank you for being the awesome girlfriend who will lovingly stay home and make cookies for when he comes back tired and hungry after some awesome playtime. I find him so cute when he's worn out and just wants to cuddle and snack after getting his balls drained by a sexy girl who can give him better orgasms than me.
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 No.984

>>983

You're so hot.
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 No.1002

>>983
This is exactly how I feel! Though for me, there is a certain voyeuristic element to it as well.
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 No.1079

You know, I repeatedly see the assertion that the humiliation cuckqueans are more common than the compersive type - but every cuckquean that's chimed in on this board seems to be compersive!

Where all you humiliation-driven gals at?

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 No.1801

>>983

Dam, thats really sexy. Wish my girlfriend was more like this.

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 No.1876

>>983

How do you deal with jealousy?

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 No.1879

>>1876

Compersives, for the most part, don't get jealous. That's what makes them so special.

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 No.1881

>>1876 I don't really get jealous, as >>1879 correctly assumed. I genuinely love him getting the best there is. When it comes to sex, for most guys the fact is you can't really beat having a hot new partner to try. That and it's pretty ridiculous to think you're going to be the best your BF/husband has ever had for everything. We have great sex, but there are always going to be girls out there who have something - a look, a way they touch, a tightness - that I don't have that can make him feel better in that moment than I can and that's ok. I want him to have that and enjoy himself.

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 No.1883

>>1881

sounds like you would make a good gf

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 No.1909

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>>1876

Echoing >>1879 - I get off on him getting off! I understand how one could get jealous at that, but I don't. It isn't like he isn't going to come back to me.

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 No.4174

>>215

Strangely, all the cuckqueans on the Internet seemed to be hardcore humiliation types a few years back. But now they seem mainly compersive. Especially here!

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 No.4177

>>4174

There's definitely a good number of the humiliation type still about as well, but I agree it seems 8chan has reached a more compersive segment of the population. I'm not really sure how that happened, maybe the people trying to spread word of the board here did so in more compersive groups.

More https://www.reddit.com/r/hothusband

than https://www.reddit.com/r/CuckqueanCommunity

I've noticed a lot of the tumblr blogs tend to lean toward humiliation types, but those that aren't are some real gems. I think the connections the fetish has with D/S fetishes tends to emphasize the humiliation aspect as well.

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 No.4179

>>4177

I think the anonymity may be more attractive to compersive types. I mean, technically most all internet communities are anonymous to some degree, but most places you're still attaching some kind of name and can be individually contacted.

I think the humiliation types tend to be more brazen just by the nature of liking the humiliation, thus are more likely to 'out' themselves, even if just with an internet handle.

Compersive types are more, for lack of a better word, normal. They aren't quite as extreme as people into humiliation and thus might feel more secure on 8chan.

It's also possible that with blogs being heavily porn-based, that just works better for them. When you're expressing a sexual fetish through a few stills, gifs, or frames of video, subtlety doesn't always come across so well. It's like how people who engage in cybersex tend towards kinky stuff, even if they do appreciate more vanilla sex in real life. When you're just using text and may not be as emotionally invested in the partner, the great feelings that come along with intimacy don't translate, so one ratchets up the extremeness to make it more enticing.

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 No.4206

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Kind of going off-topic, but I wonder if we should reach out to other cuckquean communities.

This is by far my favorite one. It's just more comfortable than the others. The only problem is that it's kind of small and things get slow. Reaching out might increase the size, but might bring down the quality. What do you all think?

And on that subject, do you all know of any more communities for cuckqueans out there?

There's the two >>4177 mentioned.

I know reddit also has https://www.reddit.com/r/cuckquean

I've encountered at least one club on myanimelist that's centered around cuckquean stuff: https://myanimelist.net/clubs.php?cid=67129

There's a few groups on fetlife, but I have to be honest, I've never been super impressed with the fetlife community at large.

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 No.4209

>>4206

Fetlife has

https://fetlife.com/groups/33540 aka Cuckquean

https://fetlife.com/groups/107877 aka Cuckquean Without Humiliation

https://fetlife.com/groups/26540 aka Cuckquean Personals

They tend to get a bit more traffic that the cuckquean subreddit.

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 No.4211

>>4209

The remember that the admin of the Cuckquean Without Humiliation group actually linked to here a while ago. Closetquean (who used to be a major source for cuckqueaning before she went quiet) also linked here with an endorsement.

Neither seemed to attract any extra posters. Could be any number of reasons. Maybe they came, lurked and decided not to post. Or maybe 8chan's interface confused them, or maybe the imageboard style (which many arent familiar with) intimidated them, or maybe something else.

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 No.4215

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>>4206

>I have to be honest, I've never been super impressed with the fetlife community at large.

What about them doesn't impress you, Anon? There are plenty of reasons but I'm interested in yours.

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 No.4220

>>4206

>I've never been super impressed with the fetlife community at large.

I'm only there for the cuckquean forums and groups in my area in case I ever decide to do a munch. I have no interest in the rest of the site.

I do miss alt.sex.bondage from way back in the day.

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 No.4221

>>4215

It's not a single specific thing that gets to me, there's just something about a lot of people and their interactions that rubs me the wrong way.

And don't get me wrong, I'm sure there's some lovely people there, it's a large website and I don't mean to paint everyone with such broad strokes. But unfortunately it's hard to ignore the general feel I get from the community culture.

There's an air of cliquishness and self-importance, and the holier-than-thou attitudes that come with it. People establish these weird hierarchies and pecking orders based on supposed experience and community activity. They try to take something that is predominantly between a person and their sexual partner(s) and try to make it their nebulous sub-culture.

I lose more respect for them every time I read something about 'training' and 'protocol', or someone talking about their experience like their at a job interview, or whether someone should be allowed to be called 'master'. And every time someone uses the word 'alpha' in reference human beings, without a hint of irony.

And that's not even getting into the folks who seem to have a hard time separating fantasy from reality. They develop weird philosophies to go along with their fetish, or maybe just develop the fetishes to go along with their weird worldview. Either way, they end up with actual prejudices and bigotries that are reflections of their fetishes.

Maybe they just come across that way online, maybe it's that the people who are uninhibited enough to make fetlife profiles are prone to have less of a filter. I don't know. I've not really seen any appeal in getting to know the community better. And most profiles I read, if they tell me anything about the person, seem to raise a lot of red flags.

I know any community of significant size is going to have some problems like this. But it seems to make up a lot of it. And I think I expected a higher standard. This are weirdos, freaks, and misfits, somehow it seems like they should be more empathic, more accepting, more understanding. But no. If anything, they are less.

It's not quite tumblr-bad, but the whole thing feels like a high school where everyone thinks they're a sex god.

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 No.4253

>>4220

>alt.sex.bondage

That was nice. Then Yahoo Groups, now Fetlife. I kind of feel something was lost in that final transition to Fetlife, but it was long ago now. At least it's way more convenient to find munches now.

>>4221

I know what you mean. Turning fetish communities into a form of social media means you get the same kinds of trouble as in social media, where everything becomes a performance for some people. Only the performers will broadcast, so it seems like the place is full of them. That in turn adjusts norms. Then you have the usual underachievers using the Internet to pad out that deficit, with all the silly false hierarchy and pecking order that comes with that mindset.

(Off topic, I think this construction of elaborately fuzzy groupings is a tell for the presence of deeply insecure people who get easily anxious over status. With a few exceptions that usually boil down to discussions of safety, arguments over training and protocol and what other people should call their lovers seems to be a way of nominally fighting over power and sex while ensuring that the precious status illegibility provided by the group isn't disrupted. This piece has more on that idea if you're interested: http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/10/14/the-gervais-principle-iv-wonderful-human-beings/)

These dynamics are, however, also present in offline BDSM communities. But really, who cares? I only have a Fetlife profile so I can go to munches, keep in touch with people I've met IRL, find out about events and dip into discussions on things I'm interested in. There's a lot of high-functioning people in the scene worldwide, so the secret is to find them and ignore everyone else's noise.

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 No.4258

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>>4215

SPOILER THIS FILTH YOU SICKFUCK!!!

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 No.4262

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>>4258

Alright, Anon. I know you'll still click, though~

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 No.4269

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>>4262

I-I didn't… you are just projecting!

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 No.4273

>>4253

>These dynamics are, however, also present in offline BDSM communities. But really, who cares? I only have a Fetlife profile so I can go to munches, keep in touch with people I've met IRL, find out about events and dip into discussions on things I'm interested in. There's a lot of high-functioning people in the scene worldwide, so the secret is to find them and ignore everyone else's noise.

Oh, I agree. The reason I brought up my distaste for the fetlife community at-large was because I was suggesting possibility of contacting other cuckquean communities to see if it would increase the numbers here. And considering much of the behavior on fetlife, it's maybe not the best group to invite here.

>>4258

Someone's going to have to explain to me what this is a spoiler for, I'm clearly out of the loop.

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 No.4279

File: 4ad89cf0fb95454⋯.gif (Spoiler Image,2.47 MB,410x307,410:307,4ad.gif)

>>4273

Spoilers are for shameless lewd filth!

pic related note that I just googled it, I don't save such perverted lewdness in my hard drive

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 No.4280

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>>4279

>I just googled it, I don't save such perverted lewdness in my hard drive

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 No.4339

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>>4279

>note that I just googled it, I don't save such perverted lewdness in my hard drive

Of course not, Anon. Here's some more to definitely not click, save or regularly return to every few weeks~

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 No.4353

>>4339

I haven't clicked this but it radiates unacceptable levels of lewdness. Please do not post more like this.

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 No.4357

>>4353

Very well, Anon. I shall respect your request and keep the rest of my stash unposted. We would not want you to have to resist further temptation, would we?

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 No.4425

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>>4353

>>4357

Do we have to keep this sort of thing spoilered too?

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 No.4438

YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play.

>>4425

That's it!

You faggettes are sick under your scalp. I'm outta here!

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 No.4440

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 No.19511

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>>215

>as long as my boyfriend is being pleasured I can totally get off on that, regardless of if it is by me or another girl.

>>983

>I want the girl he's fucking to be better, but not because I get off on being "worse", just because I like him getting to feel so good and have so much fun.

>>1881

>I genuinely love him getting the best there is.

>>1909

>I get off on him getting off!

Yes yes yes yes yes. This entirely. Why would I be humiliated by having a BF who turns other girls into drooling messes before he comes home to me? Doesn't make a lick of sense. If anything the other girls should be feeling humiliated because they're being given a taste of a man they can't keep. Pic kind of related.

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 No.19549

>>215

I loooooooove the humiliation aspect, although I'd rather it come from the boyfriend instead of the vixen (which seems to be a rarity among available materials).

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 No.19614

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>>1881

Exactly how I see it, unfortunately, my fiance has an issue with cheating on me, no matter how much I tell her it doesn’t hurt me.

Thing is, I think she has her urges closeted away, back when her and I weren’t dating, her and I would swap our ongoing sex stories and that’s what eventually led us together, lusting after each other as we made each other jealous. (I say that, idk how to get jealous, but she def was)

Now we’ve made good friends with an extremely promiscuous ex-camgirl and she’s offered to house us if ever need be, and goddamn I think I’d be in heaven.

Just gotta find a way to convince my fiance to go for it because tbh, I just don’t have the libido to keep up with her and I don’t want her left out or frustrated because I’m too prude.

>awesome girlfriend who will lovingly stay home and bake cookies.

This is honestly the fantasy that awakened this fetish in me.

All I want in life is to see my gf and her dom helping her walk down the stairs while I pull my tarts out of the oven. Just being there for the after care is enough for me.

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