>how has it affected yours?
Well there's a positive and negative for me.
I think it's safe to say that if anything my ex and I actually stayed together a lot longer because we fell headfirst into the cuckqueaning thing than we would have without it. The problem is, we eventually didn't work out anyway, and now it's kind of tough for us both, in that the experience changed us both.
In other words, it's affected me in that now that I am once again single, it's hard to really view the prospect of a vanilla relationship the same way again, but it also doesn't seem like queaning is something you can necessarily agree on from the outset with most people, since it usually seems to require a certain level of trust in the first place that you don't really have with someone you've just started dating. And I'm not really the type to take the easy road and just cheat without being honest about it.
I've been the bull for a cuckold couple a few times since then (which I had done before as well) but it isn't the same thing emotionally.