If you don't teach yourself how to dance
Then when the opportunity arises to impress a girl in bed, you're going to fail miserably.. because you don't know how to dance, so that means of course you don't know how to fuck
Do it when you're all alone and no one's looking, close your eyes and don't give a fuck with anybody thinks. Be very careful not to just move from one side to the other over and over again the way white people dance
Instead imagine your entire body is made out of liquid and the music is controlling the waves and ripples and sections of the water that remain stationary..
Learn how to talk with your legs
Learn how to sing with your hands
Learn how to find the groove and express it physically
Is it a funky grind or an upbeat Bop.. learn how to send a message under the covers with your dick
Sex is also somewhat like full contact martial arts, using the genitals instead of hands and feet
But when you're fucking a chick, it's all about the rhythm, do you find the groove or not? Do you express the Rhythm with your body?
Because if you learn how to flow and groove with your body, she will never leave you.. once you fuck her like you're dancing in bed, she'll never want to fuck anybody else
Do it all the time until you get comfortable with it