No.166328
I feel comfortable talking to people that are dumber, lonelier or uglier than me because I can think of them as equals or subconsciously know that they're less likely to stop talking to me or leave me, talking to people that are smarter, more attractive or that have deeper bonds with others fills me with stress
In both cases my fear grows in proportion to the depth of my bond with an individual as the weight of how I interact with them starts to feel heavier and I start to overthink a lot while interacting with them
In order to minimize the risk that comes with friendships I've managed to segment their barriers into 1 to 1 relationships such that nobody that I know knows each other, this way if even if fail horribly with an individual then there would be no spillover
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No.166332
>>166328
That's a great strategy.
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