No.38254
I've just been cucked by my best friend and he doesn't even know he's cucking me. I was literally hanging out with him while the girl I liked for 4 years just called him up to "watch a movie" at her place. And this is happening literally 4 days after I revealed my feelings and got rejected by her. I don't know what she's doing. She keeps staring at me during classes and while I was walking with my friend, she walked up to him asking if he wants to hangout at night completely ignoring me. My best friend was so happy because he gets to fuck her and like the pussy I am, I just congratulate him while keeping my thoughts to myself. What the fuck is she doing to me. I'm trying so hard not to show it hurts but every time I see her, I see a picture of her, or even hear/see her name, I feel like I'm cold on the inside, like all the color was sucked from me. What do I do. this is the first time I've ever showed someone my feelings and this shit happens.
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No.38257
I don't have any experience in this but I think she knows what she's doing and you might have to cut her out of your life. As for your friend, that could be where it gets complicated.
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No.38258
>>38257
I can't cut her out of my life because I have one more year of school with her. I want to cut her out so bad but I'll be seeing her for a little while. And as for my friend, he knows how much I like her, he knows what the fuck he's doing, and here I am trying to come up with an excuse for him because he's my friend. Plus they keep posting videos of each other having fun on their Snapchat stories and it hurts so fucking much. It hurts.
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No.38259
>>38258
Oh, if that's the case then you need to try and stop talking to them both because at this point he clearly is not your friend and you deserve better than her.
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No.38260
>>38259
Yea I think that's what I need to do. But I just…like her so much, I've liked her for 3 years… And my friend is someone I appreciated so much as a friend. But I just need to get over her. I need to. I don't know how but I need to.
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No.38262
>>38260
Well try and think about this. Why do you like her? And now that she is trying to hurt you, how does this influence the reasons you like her? Same thing for your friend, is he the same person you knew him to be now that his actions speak of his real personality? You could also try talking to your friend about this and asking him to stop, perhaps leaving breaking off all contact with him as a last resort.
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No.38267
Forget her.
Make those scars your war marks.
Declare war to manipulative and abusive girls like that.
Work out and find someone that likes you.
Make her your gf but make no mention of love.
NEVER confess first, let the girl do it.
You are the most powerful person alive, you just don't know it yet.
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No.38269
When people get into relationships for the first little while they kind of forget about people around them. I'm sure your friend isn't doing it to be mean or anything like that, he probably is just caught up in the feelings of the moment. Don't break off contact with him. If you're able to try to work your schedule around hers. It sounds bad, but it works… see him in the morning if she does in the afternoon and so on. Try to be more confident, and eventually things will work out for you.
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No.38425
>>38254
Dude, break it off. This won't be the last time something like this happens. The longer you hold on, the worse the hurt is going to get.
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No.38621
Some girls do this stuff, I don't know why, something similar has happened to me too. Just ignore her from now on, don't give her any attention, that might be the best.
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No.38677
I don't want to be pessimistic but start getting detached from the both of them and expect to part ways, that friendship triangle won't work and conflict will arise from the unspoken tension surrounding the three of you.
>>38621
Women probably do it for one of two reasons.
A. She's rubbing it in and telling you to get lost.
B. She's guilty/nervous/awkward for what she's done and having to see you everyday makes it worse.
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