No.37458
Hey friends, depressionfriend here. I'll just cut right to the point. Would you "go normie" for a relationship? Not necessarily cut yourself off from everything but just heavily cut back for a chance to pursue someone. There's a girl in my martial arts class that's pretty normie. She's no Stacy but she's not redpilled or whatever we call it these days. We're casual friends right now but she's cute and has a nice personality. I'd like to get closer and I don't know if changing a bunch about myself for something that doesn't have a super high chance of working anyway is really worth it in the end.
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No.37459
>>37458
normie is a difficult term.
many people define it differently, how do you define it?
I personally dislike the term normie because it generally means "a dear gator term for someone socially better off than me"
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No.37460
>>37459
I guess I use it as a vague term, but in her case I guess I would call it just an average person. Granted I don't know her super well outside of class but from what I've gathered she doesn't play a lot of games or spend a ton of time on the internet or anything. We honestly don't seem to have a lot in common besides the class and a sense of humor and I don't know if I'm actually interested at this point or if I just want to be because I hate being alone, but I'm willing to give it a shot at this point
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No.37461
Take this with a pinch of salt since I don't know anything about relationships, but my advice would be not to "fake" your personality to make her like you more since this can backfire and I don't think you could truly be happy pretending to be something or someone you're not. But I would approach her with an open mind and give a chance to things she likes, who knows maybe you will enjoy those things as well. In any case, best of luck friend!
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No.37462
>>37461
I think you're right here. Sometimes people just aren't compatible, so wearing a mask would be a short term solution. Maybe I can finally get my life on track now~ Thanks friend!
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No.37463
>>37460
you'd be surprised at how little normal people mind your lifestyle anon.
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No.38868
>>37460
That sounds more like a friendship than relationship material. It is important not to confuse the two or you could be hurt emotionally.
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No.38894
>>37458
I learned early on to "hide my power level". If anyone ever finds out, it takes people years before they learn how fucked up I am on the inside and what I do on the internet etc. Like >>37461 said, don't fake it, but at the same time just don't talk about it. Also any time spent away from the internet is probably healthy anyways.
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