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2a7028  No.149404

Why is it never the biggest guy that gets the most or best girls? What's the secret?

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6608f6  No.149406

grade everything 1-10

(((Trainable Aesthetics + Genetic Aesthetics)/2)+Money)*Confidence

Post Resulting score.

Use Percentage of the American Population that's poorer than you divided by 10 for your money score.

Yes even if you're not American.

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717380  No.149410

>>149406

Pretty accurate mathematical equation thats puts it all in perspective. You also have to account for the standards each whaman looks for in a man. Some have higher standards than others.

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b13610  No.149415

File: 671a76a32582e3e⋯.jpeg (75.24 KB, 719x706, 719:706, Screenshot_20190628-13080….jpeg)

>>149406

28.7

Am I getting any pussy?

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5522e9  No.149420

File: 1dbb87fc8fc856d⋯.jpg (14.94 KB, 255x252, 85:84, god fucking damn it.jpg)

For men:

Dick size and genital size (Under 8 inches don't add a point it's nothing special but don't worry, over 8 add one, anything 11 or more get's 2. Keep in mind in actual sex this does not matter so don't feel bad if you're under 8, it's totally okay and plenty of Chads even suffer from this, but in status and marketing it does, cock size included in profiles or being openly told to women helps if you're huge at clubs etc. (Don't do it elsewhere like an idiot))

Height (Under 6 feet add none, 6'1-6'5/6'5+ but lanket add only one and hit the gym immediately, over 6'5 but still built enough to look at the very least decent and not skinny you get to add two points)

Facial attractiveness (You at least need a defined jawline (not square although that's definitely ideal, just defined) and decently proportioned add one, if not add none. If square jawline, no forehead showing defined cheek bones etc add two)

Social intractability (If you barely talk to people, don't get out and around for more than 3 hours etc, add none, otherwise you have the bare minimum add 1 If you're well known around school, are active in clubs or organizations, and are constantly outside, talking to people, have no trouble with women, etc, add two.)

Muscle mass. (Basic muscles or size showing is worth one point, it's honestly the bare minimum you need, add one, if not add zero.)

Body fat (Must be 12-9% Anything less get's no points.)

Max you can get is 10, lowest is 0.

Bold one's are the one way ticket to basic women. However italic one's are one's that if you don't have will cripple you.

If you max out 9-10 points you're guaranteed to get women. 8 points means you have good potential but as I said it depends. 7 makes you chad, 6 makes you brad, 5 depending on what you picked has room for improvement or is the bare minimum needed to get a lot of women. 4 or less is normalfag tier whatever it may be.

0 is just suicide tier unless you're willing to call women who love you only for your money or gullibility worthy of you.

Remember women view things as a package not as a specific talent.

A handsome manlet to them is on the same level as a tall normalfag.

A ugly manlet with a huge cock is viewed as a prostitute at best.

If you do not have multiple appealing aspects you will not make it.

But since that was a low blow to most guys, myself included I'll do one for women.

Thanks for the word limit Jim, you pig fucker.

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5522e9  No.149421

File: f4a861d2553a586⋯.jpg (35.05 KB, 600x600, 1:1, UUUUNNNNGGG THICKERRR.jpg)

>>149420

(2/2)

For femanon lurkers:

Being female. (Add one point just for this, no points are impossible, there will always be men are desperate enough to date you in current year, especially since China and India both have a female imbalance. It's a very sad reality but it's true, even most femcels are all volcel. So no matter what add one.)

Facial attractiveness. (As long as you have little to no deep crevices in the face, large eyes, lack of poorly proportioned facial features, you'll get one point. If not add in none. Ideal features are lack of wrinkles to the point of a smooth youthful anime/disney-esque face, a round non defined jawline, large eyes, add two if you have all of the above.)

Waist. (Should not be your center of mass at all. Same with men but even more so for women. Add one if so, add none if not. If it's specifically small, curved, and managed to look toned at 18% body far or so (See below.) and emphasizes a hourglass or more figure (see below) then add two.)

Hips(Not the same as ass). (If they go in deeper than your shoulders, then just like men with penises under 8 inches, you're within the average/above average mean, it's nothing trust me lmao, pray your waist is extremely small so you can trick men into thinking they're okay but still, no point. Don't worry though nothing to be ashamed of, just don't add anything. If they meet up with your shoulders at the very least, add 1, basic hour glass figure, like an 8+ inch penis to a woman. If they go beyond your shoulders– and I cannot stress this enough, while you're /fit/ then add two, this is like a 11+ inch penis to a woman, take that how you will)

Ass. (Unlike hips we're specifically talking about how it goes out. If it's fairly flat, add none, like I said nothing to be ashamed about but still add none. If it's well defined and pops out enough, add 1. If it's well defined and large add two.)

Cup size. (If A & B none, pray that you're youthful, petite, and small so you pull off the loli look right, and spend the rest of your life worrying about trying to look youthful the way Gwen Stefani does, I cannot stress that enough. C and D bare minimum add one. F+ add two.)

Breast firmness. (Add 2 if very firm, 1 if fairly, 0 if not at all.)

Body fat. (You should ideally look toned. Add two if at 18% and very fit. If skinny and smooth, add one. If you're fat add none. If you're obese subtract one point. Unlike men there's 0 ways you can pull off looking okay like that, it's borderline suicide tier, not joking add -1.)

Height. (4'9 and less is womanlet tier, you either have to pull off shortstack aesthetics off, or loli aesthetics off if you want to look good period. It depends on your cupsize and face but either way get squatting. Add none. 5'0-5'8 is bare minimum however considering things, I'm putting in 5'9-6'1 (Max) in this category too. Add 2, and you may be asking "Why two?" well that's because anything 6'2+ is giga stacey tier BUT, now your problem is that your dating options are solely limited to 6'5+ Gigachad or manlets with amazonian fetishes and as such you get only 1 point even though your gigastacey. Keep in mind this is based on how many men you can get to fall for you not my personal opinion, and most men won't go past 6'5 for at least the next century, so this greatly limit's your dating ability due to the (justified) idea that a man must always be taller than his girlfriend.)

Add up points, max is 17 points. Minimum is 1. You may have noticed that unlike the men part this one is more detailed on every single possibility for women. That's for two obvious reasons, I'm a guy, so I obviously pay more attention to women, map out my observations, and preferences which line up with other men's from statistics or experience, and because men are much more greatly limited in a woman's view into much more steep categories, however if a femanon or any other anon wants to come along and make modifications to make everything a 1, 2, 3 thing then you can.

Also unlike men, there is no inherently crippling aspect for women, so there will be no italics thanks to men viewing women through a mostly similar glass. However the bold aspects are still highlighted and those are the one's that will guarantee you 90% of men at least.

Remember, physical attractiveness and perception matter no matter what society tells you, being fat is not acceptable especially for women, and you should feel bad if you are.

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d8bdf4  No.149422

Muscles largely work on men (especially femboys) and trannies.

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3b627d  No.149425

File: 9720343fe583514⋯.jpeg (144.47 KB, 720x872, 90:109, Screenshot_20190610-22193….jpeg)

>>149420

>no forehead

What? Why all these formulas? All I asked was for the secret of how obese, skinnyfags, manlets, etc get girls.

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9b9849  No.149426

>>149404

I think of muscles as a force multiplier. They can't fight the war by themselves, but God are you happy to have them with you in the trenches. It takes ugly men out of "loser" status, with few exceptions. It makes average men a cut above the rest. And it makes attractive men seem perfect. It's not going to cover up you being short or having an ugly face, but it's going to help you go a lot farther with what you've got.

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61aff3  No.149427

File: 71ad95080d033c3⋯.jpeg (186.14 KB, 720x557, 720:557, Screenshot_20190607-16141….jpeg)

>>149426

I agree but how do I get pussy?

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2b1fdb  No.149428

>>149427

Most women are whores. Give up on them.

If you really want pussy, grab some dosh and some condoms and go hire an honest whore. At least you and she both know she fucks for money instead of dressing it up.

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de787a  No.149432

>((6+7)/2+(80/10))*9

>130.5

Confidence really is key. Working the money angle is tricky. You can't be like a nigger with name brands plastered on your forehead. You have to be subtle, like you aren't flaunting it, but it's there if you really look and know what to look for. In my experience that works the best.

>>149420

>Dick size

Gimme a break, everyone says they have a huge cock, if she sees your dick, you have already won, unless you are a sperg that whips out your wang out for no reason.

>>149422

Not entirely true, but men will notice you being in good shape before women do. To get women's attention with muscle, you have to really be big. To get a man's attention, you just need to be bigger than they are. Men have a finely attuned sense of who will win in a fight. Women don't have this.

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d8bdf4  No.149433

>>149432

>To get women's attention with muscle, you have to really be big

Doesn’t mean that attention is good. A lot of women are put off of overly muscular guys. Working out for sex only makes sense if you’re gay or a tranny chaser.

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bd7823  No.149435

>>149433

>A lot of women are put off of overly muscular guys

They say that, but it's not true. My wife said that, but as I bulked up, she sure likes to rub my arms now. Never believe the words of a woman, ever.

It's mostly sour grapes.

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61aff3  No.149440

File: 9e209603ded6b37⋯.jpeg (172.25 KB, 720x896, 45:56, Screenshot_20190709-19244….jpeg)

Okay y'all's formulas make some sense but I was just wondering about the ongoing phenomenon of loser tier dudes(dudes that would score 1-5 on your formulas) getting girls. How do they do it? I already know about all the looks stuff and I'm working on it but I also want to know how not to be autistic around women. How are you supposed to act. That's probably what gets those dudes pussy

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61aff3  No.149441

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>>149428

How did you get like this? That's not true. They ain't all whores. Just go outside and look into the real world. There's hope for love and loyalty between you and a woman. I myself just want some pussy but I feel like a prostitute is too easy. I want to know how the other low teir dudes get their coochie

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717380  No.149445

>>149441

>how do low tier dudes get coochie

I dunno, anon, go ask /b/ or /pol/ or something.

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15f26c  No.149457

>>149441

Give up and become a hermit or a monk.

Or just prepare for the coming collapse and the slaughterfest that comes with it.

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981a1c  No.149458

>>149440

> I already know about all the looks stuff and I'm working on it but I also want to know how not to be autistic around women. How are you supposed to act. That's probably what gets those dudes pussy

You just have to practice. If you get rejected enough times, you will realize it won't kill you, you start not caring, and gaining confidence. You should also observe people who are good with women.

Right now, in your head, you are afraid of rejection. There's no need to be, and the only way you can get over that is to experience rejection, and see you are still alive.

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e630ae  No.149459

Most girls:

1) Confidence, 2) How you make the girls feel when you are with them, 3) Reasonable looks, 4) Money.

Whores and narcissistic girls:

1) big cock, 2) looks that make their gf's drool

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9d8fff  No.149463

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>>149459

Your post makes no sense

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717380  No.149467

>>149463

>Says the MGTOW Dane

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5050fc  No.149474

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>>149467

Nice triple dubs ID.

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8cbca5  No.149479

>Are muscles overrated for getting pussy?

no, muscles on men are like tits for women. every man would take a pair juicy double D over an A cup any day, but mmost men would be disgusted by a mosnter F or G cup.

it has to be done just right.

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5522e9  No.149501

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>>149479

>Most men would be disgusted by a monster F+ cup

Kill yourself.

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d35659  No.149526

Most girls are attracted to good posture and muscles that signify good posture. Not just bullshit "pull your shoulders up, son!" good posture but the medical meaning of the term. If you have genuinely good shoulder posture you'll get a big square chest even if you can't bench shit. If you have good hip posture you will have a good looking ass, if you aren't fat. If you're slouched forward and your pelvis is all wrong then no amount of muscle will help, you'll just look more and more like a gym gorilla.

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d5ee89  No.149529

most girls are attracted to big dicks, it took me 30 years to figure out that i was doing it the wrong way. trying to be nice guy, then bad guy, then fit,… while all i had to do was send a dick pic to get the reply "when can we meet?"

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3646f2  No.149530

>>149526

>Not just bullshit "pull your shoulders up, son!"

Uh, that's 90% of posture. Most of the rest is just stretching and maybe doing some weighted shrugs.

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3646f2  No.149531

>>149529

>while all i had to do was send a dick pic to get the reply "when can we meet?"

Kek. Picking up in Algeria.

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f47c98  No.149532

>>149531

i used it in France and Ireland tbh, but it works just as well anywhere, women are just that hedonistic.

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9beb86  No.149533

If OP is still around, Chilefag up top is correct. The real important part is confidence. I worked a comedy club in south Florida for some years, I've seen pairings and escorts that defy intuitive rationale.

It's basically (looks + status) + (confidence x2). A guy with looks and status can get laid even if he's a betafag (Justin Trudeau). A guy with status and confidence can hit way out of his league even if he's below average. Guys with really good looks are already super confident because one reinforces the other, making it a killer combo, contributing to the myth that chicks only care about how hot your are (it matters, but there are plenty of other factors). And then there are guys that are either "fake it til you make it" dudes or just narcissistic, and they're very, very confident for no actual logical reason. Girls love that shit, and the guy will slay even though he doesn't have status and might just be average looking.

Appearances will get your foot in the door, they don't guarantee you anything unless you're in the top 2-5% physically speaking, and even then you can ruin your chances by opening your mouth and being an autist. Confidence is the biggest factor because you can create attraction in most girls who don't instantly think "no thanks" when they see you, the sticking point is simply how to do that (which is where learning seduction comes into play).

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d35659  No.149537

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>>149530

That is a false belief, stemming from 20th century military crap. Posture is much more complicated. If you "pull up your shoulders" while your ribcage, shoulders and everything is tight you will just make the situation worse. Most people ironically have a ribcage pointing the wrong way.

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38fd23  No.149573

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this is how it works.

1) notoriety, being famous means your life is a pussy buffet, doesn't matter what you look like.

2) your face, if you have a chad Facial estethic chicks will b e after you, its that simple.

3) your pesonality, its common knowledge that "art" (musician, actors, ….) fags get more pussy then regular guys, doesn't matter if you look like a twink and smell bad, its mostly because they see you as a potential celebrity (see n°1)

4) your body being over 6ft and athletic (i say athletic not roided grorilla) will definetly be a plus, bont it won't help if you have a dork face or a mediocre personality.

5) money, being rich will buy you whores.

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61aff3  No.149581

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>>149533

How do you show confidence in everyday life without looking autistic. Also what should I do other than accepting the L if a girl leaves me on delivered and then later posts on her story hmu? Hypothetically speaking ofc

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074e9d  No.149582

>>149581

>How do you show confidence in everyday life without looking autistic

I'm convinced that it's not something you can fake. It has to be real. If the confidence is real, it will show on its own. So how do you become confident? Accomplish something. Do something difficult and worthwhile.

And you should probably just take the L. Sounds like she doesn't want to talk to you, but is too afraid to say so outright. So just drop it and move on.

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83eb68  No.149607

>>149582

>I'm convinced that it's not something you can fake

Wrong. Confidence in social situations is 80% fake but 0% gay. The old adage "fake it till you make it" very much applies and in fact theres a bit of a feedback loop where the more you act confidently the more confident you actually become. This is how conmen can be so persuasive even though they know they're spitting pure bullshit.

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ac189a  No.149613

File: 3d9d5c48322dec7⋯.jpg (14.7 KB, 255x225, 17:15, cell.jpg)

>>149573

shieeeeet. I meet none of these criteria

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074e9d  No.149617

>>149607

I don't know, dude. In my personal experience, faking it has not worked.

Every time I tried to fake it, everyone could tell I was faking it, and the whole situation was cringy and embarrassing. What worked better for me was accepting my discomfort and going ahead with whatever I was going to do in spite of it – which, weirdly enough required some confidence, and I honestly don't know where that particular kind of confidence came from or how exactly it's different from the confidence that's desirable in social situations, or if it's even different at all. Maybe I allowed myself to be embarrassed in some small way and realized that it really wasn't that bad, and slowly cared less and less about what others think of me. That would be in line with the idea of the zone of proximal development, I suppose.

I realize now that we're likely describing the same process – or at least, similar ones. I guess I just don't really dig the idea that it's somehow "fake". In the conman situation, the confidence is real, even though the content of his speech is bullshit.

It might be coincidence that "confidence" and "competence" sound so similar, but the connection there is hard to deny. Competence breeds confidence. After writing all of this, I think I need to revise my statement about how to become confident regarding some aspect of life: You have to be willing to suck at something for a while before you become good at it. The confidence will come naturally with the development of the skill. This means that to be confident in every day life, you need to go out there and make mistakes and develop your social skills. It's gonna be uncomfortable at first, but it'll get easier.

Do you think I'm bonkers? Am I spouting a bunch of nonsense? Thanks for reading. Please respond. And n

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7b6a76  No.149637

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>>149404

Biggest muscles = biggest insecurity. Insecurity = unsexy.

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61aff3  No.149643

>>149617

Yeah it makes sense. I get what you're trying to say. You got to learn to take Ls to know how to attain Wins. Building real confidence sounds better than faking it. I think faking it would only work on a group of mentally slower individuals.

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7887d3  No.149644

>>149617

>Every time I tried to fake it, everyone could tell

That's because you didn't fake it good enough. IME "faking it 'til you make it" is a skill in an of itself that, like all that are non-innate/-instinctual, must be learned and trained. Incoming spoilered blogpost: Learning how to act then be social is what I had to do as a diagnosed autist, for whom personal interaction is like riding a unicycle after being born without the little bones & organs in my ear canals necessary for balance. But I did it and continue to do it thanks to decades of effort (ie going out there and practicing) after reading up on how social interactions and human hierarchies work including books like How To Win Friends And Influence People and The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective People; shit tons of blogs and boards by so-called introverts, aspies, and auties (my favorite being the Kingdom of Introversion blog on Wordpress from the trve patron saint of /r9k/); and even benefiting greatly from sifting through the shitpiles and finding many tootsie rolls from the likes of PUAs (The Game and Rules Of The Game by Neil Strauss were eye-openers for me, if nothing else for convincing me never to fully commit to the PUA route but still worth cherry-picking all the tidbits that were made exactly for people like me: total social retards who grew up never seeing a nipple), "not-PUAs" eg the power-tripper behind Manhood Academy and infamous radio shock jock Tom Leykis (his Leykis 101 bit is for teaching men to "become the jerk and asshole women can't get enough of" while [most importantly] being an absolute dating miser; if nothing else, even if you're a moralfaggot uninterested in Leykis's more cutthroat hookup tactics, EVERY man ought to learn how not to empty their bank accounts in pursuit of pussy!), MGTOWs, MRAs, and other similar guys who for the most part wrongfully get massive shits on their heads.

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303960  No.149666

Very few men think freakish physique of female bodybuilder desirable. Women who look at male bodybuilders think similarly. It's not that complicated. Keep in mind modern bodybuilding spawned from combination of commercial genius and homosexual fetishes in 1960s.

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5a0b41  No.149808

>>149617

Tru.

>>149581

I too decided to 'man up' and just turn red, get sweaty, and be uncomfortable. Logic holds true, my co-workers are not a danger to me. I am strong, smart and able. My physical and mental reaction to social interactions are not logical. I should not be entering a fight or flight mode when in no danger.

After some time. things got better. I still sweat a bit or fell my ears turning red if I say something silly or notice I missed a social cue.

Every day I am a bit better at interacting, and those that now know me better are also more comfortable around me.

My quiet and to myself nature is welcomed and not awkward. People speak freely to me and are happy with a short, simple response. I am not expected to continue 'small talk'

Exposure is a great tool to combat your autism and be confident.

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d30a69  No.149842

>>149644

Thanks for this post Korea.

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7896d8  No.149847

>>149643

>I think faking it would only work on a group of mentally slower individuals.

For example: women.

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2d248d  No.149885

You have no clue. Trannies always want the chad and are really good at sex

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7e742e  No.149897

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>>149404

Face > body

it's not that hard. If you are fat then losing weight will facemax if you have decent bone structure.

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000000  No.149977

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4ef1c1  No.150005

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>>149420

>A handsome manlet to them is on the same level as a tall normalfag.

In which fucking country do you live ? Women would fuck a handsome manlet like Tom Cruise over a lanklet obvisouly.

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7bfa0e  No.150080

>>149573

0/6 gonna go jerk off and sleep now

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