25c51c No.1925
What do you think about chastity, /femdom/?
Subs; would you enter into chastity? If not, why?
Dommes; would you demand chastity of your slaves/subs? Why? What is the draw to it?
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25c51c No.1933
I'm not inherently focused on chastity especially because I haven't gotten that bored yet, but if my sub is aroused by it/isn't ultimately opposed to it, I would try it.
The only thing I'm concerned about is what damage the confinement can do in the long run.
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25c51c No.1936
>>1925I'd need a little convincing but if she really wanted to do it to me
and called me a good boy (those magic words) I'd be up for it
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25c51c No.1939
I would be up for it. Not for a massively long time, though, I just like sex too much. A few weeks – that'd be fun…
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25c51c No.1941
Sub here, I totally would. Orgasm control is already a hot fantasy for me (girl always cums first, she decides when and how you cum or if you have to go without). Chastity is just a more physical way of exerting that control.
I wouldn't be into it if it meant never having sex, but as a way of giving even more power over when and how sex plays out to my domme? Sign me the fuck up.
Not into the cross over into cuckolding that chastity porn often involves though, that would be horrible for me. It's the idea of knowing that your body (specifically cock) is her valued property.
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25c51c No.1951
I'm a switch here- I'd love either- hell i'd love both. I'd love to be locked up and teased to hell, and later lock her up and give her a taste of her own medicine. I think it'd be interesting if we were both locked at the same time. One of us would try to get the other to break first.
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25c51c No.1988
Orgasm denial/control is hot as fucking hell, but there's simply no way I could handle a long term denial situation. For me I prefer short term binges with a nice long downtime before going again.
Few examples. Was in a long distance relationship(left for college), and we were still kind of experimenting with BDSM. Anyways, 5 days before I'm flying back, she tells me I'm not allowed to orgasm or cum until I see her. She also convinces me(like I'd say no…) that whenever she texts me, unless I'm in a social situation that I can't extricate myself from, I have to go and immediately masturbate to the edge of orgasm, and then stop, get dressed, and resume going about my day. She texts me over 50 times over the course of the next few days at the most random fucking hours. THEN she starts sending me specific porn and giving me directions to edge for X minutes or to edge while doing something demeaning to myself or some shit.
Over those 5 days I feel like I'm literally going crazy from libido and having trouble thinking straight because I'm permanently fucking horny. She even just sends me teasing nudes and shit at other times when I can't masturbate(or she's worried I can't control myself anymore) just to keep me on edge.
See even with the distance being a factor, it was STILL hot as hell. That kind of short binge chastity is a great way to drive a sub insane. Would do again.
What I'd want to try is to go between extremes. Basically condition me to become addicted to sex, with directions to masturbate like 10 times a day for a month, then cut me off for a week while still teasing me. Just ridiculous shit like that.
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25c51c No.1990
>>1988Two more fun little games. Get sub to edge, then just fucking roll a die. She liked a 10 sided tie because nerd. On a 10 I get to cum. On a 2-9 nope. On a 1 ruined orgasm. Would wait til I was on edge after building me up for over an hour before rolling. Basically femdom for dummies.
Another fun thing was basically edging until you can't think straight then giving you some ridiculously difficult mental task when you can't concentrate. Something dumb like a riddle or a complicated math problem, with a time limit. The knowledge that you can come if you can manage to think straight for a few seconds makes it all the more agonizing when you fail. The best part is she'd choose things she know I'd be able to get if I was clear headed, just to completely fuck with me. Was incredibly fun.
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25c51c No.1991
>>1988>>1990holy fuck that sounds amazing
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25c51c No.1992
>>1991Spoiler: It fucking is. Sadly, I'm single and can't find a girl who's into bdsm right now. Hell even that girl wasnt into bdsm much, but the right games can be done even by the most vanilla girl in existence.
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25c51c No.2101
>>1925Question about chastity cages: Is it hard to go to the bathroom wearing one? - Do you have to pee sitting down?
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25c51c No.2102
i just got mine a couple of weeks ago, the girlfriend was reluctant at first, but now she is really starting to get into it. we were apart for 5 days, last night she came back and i was seriously expecting her to let me out for a fuck, but all she wanted was a 2 hour massage session with fingering and licking, and then she just turned over and fell asleep, i went crazy, still finding it really hard to stay sane this morning.
>>2101yes, you have to sit down to take a piss as that shit is like a firework. When my gf noticed that she just gave of a sly smile and told me that was perfect as there would be no seat left up again… i think shes really starting to like this.
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25c51c No.2366
I'm a male switch and I've never really had a dominant partner. I don't know if my femdom interests are purely just a matter of low self esteem, too much time, or the desire to find the next thrill, or a combo of all of them, or perhaps something else I don't fully comprehend. I tend to go from being submissive to dominant, not really shameful or regretful about either but not being solely devoted to one or the other either. I've had a couple of girls into some light submissive play, tying down, spanking, name calling, dirty talk, costume play, that sort of thing, but haven't had a dom in my life. Unfortunately IRL doms and I don't tend to work well together, I'm not interested in being a full time sub and they're not interested in being a part time dom. I'm not exactly Brad Pitt, so those that might be willing can probably find more attractive partners. Ultimately my interests are purely part time, sex oriented rather than lifetime oriented.
That being said for my birthday I bought myself a few items, one included is a chastity belt, this one in particular
http://www.amazon.com/Popular-Stainless-Chastity-Device-Restraint/dp/B00J1YS44K/ref=sr_1_32?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1423747808&sr=1-32&I'm not the most well endowed guy but it is still a tight fit with the 2 inch diamter, they make 1 inch ones that I imagine must be terrible unless you’re especially small. I use the device typically while either listening to erotic hypnosis or while using a butt plug to massage my prostate, or both, though sometimes I use a dildo while watching porn as well. I am able to orgasm anally, or at least experience a similar sensation through prostate stimulation, though it’s not the only way I cum.
Ultimately it's too large and cumbersome to be an everyday thing, it looks like I took a shirt and stuffed it down my pants. It’s not comfortable but I suppose it’s a feature, not a bug. I like it for masturbation, I'd even enjoy having a partner to enjoy it with, but I couldn't see doing it as a lifetime thing, or wearing it much in public as it either looks bad or is uncomfortable.
It's a fun sex toy for what it is. I'd recommend using a condom as any attempts to get hard will force your skin against tight metal walls of the device. A drop or two of lube inside the condom wouldn't hurt either, but there may be those into pain.
A chastity device is more about the symbolic, I've found myself, quite unintentionally, able to pull myself out of the device without much difficulty. Pull may not be the right word, fall out of, is probably closer. Ultimately the permanent aspect of it is like everything in dom/sub relationships, the submissive has the control in the relationship as to whether or not they'd like to actually do it, the idea of being locked up and having your orgasm controlled has to be something that the sub wants to do more than what the dom wants. And in the end enough friction inside the cage or vibration with a massager will result in an orgasm, at least in my case. But I’m the kind of person with the patience to orgasm anally, and I routinely go days or a week or so without masturbating so the unable to masturbate aspect is not as big of a thing for me, but each until thine own. If you masturbate twice a day, everyday (hey I was one of those guys for a long time) then you may get more out of this. Or less perhaps, depending on perspective.
tl;dr a fun sex toy if you’re into it but not for lifestyle subs
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25c51c No.2403
>>2366I have that one as well, its not bad but i can masturbate in it, which kind of pisses me off… after some research i have the cb3000 with poi coming in to test it out a bit, got it of aliexpress for 15 dollarydoos, just as a toy to see if its any good. but i think my next purchase will be the khd x3 , as that shit looks secure, comfy, and stealthy. Also, to wear the steel worx you need to wear tight boxer briefs if you plan on leaving the house with it.
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25c51c No.2426
>>2403How's the shipping from Aliexpress? They have some stuff I want, but I don't want some stupid worker in a sweat shop writing BDSM SEX TOY all over the box.
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25c51c No.2433
>>2426>>2426the sex shops allways write if they are discreet, the guys sent me a photo of the package before he mailed it just so i could be sure of what it looked like. i also told him to write present on the package just in case for customs. Was very kind and all, top quality customer service in my opinion. but the product will probably be plastic shit when it arrives :), not that i care, i just want to test it. but i did find a metal cb6000s yesterday and now that looks really interesting.
http://www.aliexpress.com/item/Top-Quality-Male-Stainless-Steel-Metal-Chastity-Cages-Cock-Men-s-Virginity-Lock-Penis-Ring-Adult/2030989831.html Disclaimer: this post and the subject matter and contents thereof - text, media, or otherwise - do not necessarily reflect the views of the 8kun administration.
25c51c No.2683
>>2433http://www.aliexpress.com/store/product/Top-Quality-Male-Stainless-Steel-Metal-Chastity-Large-Cages-Cock-Men-s-Virginity-Lock-Penis-Ring/1420076_2030974707.htmlWell, I just got this one. I guess the ring size was too small because my balls were constantly red and even darker when I got hard. Also, after about half an hour I had a very wierd red mark on the head of my dick, still not sure what caused that. It also sucked when I was squeezing out of the vents on the side.
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25c51c No.2687
>>2683>>2683Sand it down a bit around the vent holes, contact the seller, and ask him to sell you all the rings and spacers he has for that model, there should be around 3 of each, but keep in mind you allready have one. And as for the red mark on your glans, its the sensetive skin , youl get used to it, i had that to, gone in a week. But it took me 2 weeks to figure out the ring size and spacers for my cb3000. had some really bad ball burn in the first week or two, now its gone completly. And i settled with the largest ring and smallest spacer but having the spacer on the outside by the padlock to push the cage all the way back.Also as i have accustomed to the largest ring, i think i could move a ring size down now without any problems apart from morning wood.
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25c51c No.2688
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25c51c No.2693
>>2102>tfw you will never experience this level of torture Disclaimer: this post and the subject matter and contents thereof - text, media, or otherwise - do not necessarily reflect the views of the 8kun administration.
25c51c No.4674
>>1941
i'm with you on this one, bud
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25c51c No.5290
>>1925
I've tried it a bit with one of those homemade systems you shouldn't be trying. (Nothing bad happened)
The device is definitely a big part of it. Honor system just means you won't fap, but a device limits your erection itself. It feels different, it's not lack of feeling.
Now I'm really interested. But She is too worried with important IRL things, and doing it on my own is just sad.
>>1941
You left me without stuff to say
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25c51c No.5469
I've been in chastity for just over two months. The first few weeks are the most difficult but now I'm getting used to it. You have to be careful about pissing in public because you definitely have to sit down and accidentally cumming, typically in the night, but otherwise it's more bearable than I thought.
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25c51c No.5477
>>5469
In those two months, how often did you cum accidentally and was there a change of attitude or were you feeling relieved?
Also, can you get blue balls when you are in chastity?
What device?
I am being locked up by my wife as soon as it comes per mail, so excuse the flood of questions please.
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25c51c No.5478
>>5477
It's a definite attitude changer. When getting used to sleeping in it, you'll feel irritable and chastity requires a lot of focus so there'll be times when you feel drained, mentally. I have a metal CB6000 so getting used to the weight and having it under your clothes takes a while too.
Accidentally cumming is probably down to how horny/big your sex drive is but I found I was pretty much having wet dreams as soon as I could sleep through a whole night. It's happened once in the day too when I was bored and couldn't stop thinking about fucking. It pretty much felt like a ruined orgasm. I've told my mistress about it and she doesn't like it but it's a natural side effect so nothing that can be done.
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25c51c No.6288
Wouldn't excessive chastity be like nofap in that it cures your brain's dopamine receptors and makes you less inclined towards degeneracy thrillseeking?
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6560b1 No.9166
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c14c39 No.9167
>>5477
OP provides us with updates as soon as that happens!
How did you decide to do it? whose idea was it? plz tell us about the backstory
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c4ade6 No.9169
I would be scared about prostate cancer, but I'd be totally down to it if she'd milk me with ruined orgasms to take care of that.
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ad3255 No.9170
I'm really into certain aspects of femdom, but chastity isn't part of it so far. I'm not even a big fan of pictures of sissies with them, because it draws so much attention to that part of the picture, whereas a tiny penis I can much more easily just ignore. I'd probably do it for the right domme for short periods of time though, or to follow through with nofap better. When I go a couple weeks with nofap, I can cum hands free from a strapon dildo, which would be nice to make more frequently.
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f681a4 No.9171
It's a shit fetish. I lived it and it was a nightmare. You feel like a garbage human and you are one. Never attempt, just go nofap and live as a monk.
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3cdc61 No.9173
>>1925
> Subs; would you enter into chastity? If not, why?
It depends, for a play session definitely. For a period of time though? Only on an honor system, I could not imagine wearing one of those things through the day or let alone over night. I know there are stories on the internet of people wearing a device for months or even years, but I think that's all they are: stories.
I have a knockoff Holy Trainer v2, but I only use it for buttplay (solo because TFW no GF) so I don't get distracted by penile stimulation. Supposedly it is possible to cum from just prostate stimulation alone, but I never managed to, at best I have been able to squeeze out some precum.
The big problems with chastity cages are comfort and hygiene. A genuine Holy Trainer is probably better manufactured than my knockoff, but I cannot imagine it being that much better. The problem is ironically not the erection, if the cage is tight enough your body will get the message and stop getting hard, whereas if the cage is too loose you can get semi-hard, which can be uncomfortable. The real problem is that the ring starts chafing the underside of my balls, which makes long-term wear impossible, and doing any activity while sitting is a pain. And if your penis happens to shrink even a bit forget about ever aligning it again without taking the whole thing off.
Hygiene is impossible in a closed cage. There are little vent holes to the side, but they do nothing. Go on the toilet once and you will have residue urine trapped there. Cleaning in a shower is impossible when your penis is encased in solid plastic, and you cannot get the buildup from under the foreskin either.
Maybe an open cage from metal could be maintainable, but you still have the comfort problem. I think a chastity belt would be more manageable for women from the comfort side, but hygiene would be even worse because it goes around the butt.
>>1951
>I'm a switch here- I'd love either- hell i'd love both. I'd love to be locked up and teased to hell, and later lock her up and give her a taste of her own medicine. I think it'd be interesting if we were both locked at the same time. One of us would try to get the other to break first.
You are describing my dream fetish, especially the last part. Chastity belts on girls are so fucking sexy. Sissyfags and cuckolds are ruining the fetish by turning it into abuse-glorification.
>>9171
Chastity is not neglect.
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6809f8 No.9176
>>9173
Yeah it is. There's no, "but she smiles at you so it's okay." It isn't.
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ec1f88 No.9291
>>1941
100% agree
chastity is my uberfantasy, but strictly no cuckold shit
i want to be a sexual slave for girl and to crossdress so we can pretend we are a lesbian couple and since girls don't have cocks, i just lick her pussy and she sometimes pegs me, no orgasms allowed for me
i got diamonds
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ec1f88 No.9292
>>9169
>prostate cancer
what are wet dreams anon
prostate cancer is bullshit
>>2102
god please i fucking need this kind of woman
but sometimes i am afraid that my fantasies might come true
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08597d No.10176
I've only been locked in chastity for a week and I have constant attempts at erections and I can't stop thinking about sex. Does this eventually go away? I don't think I can do this
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9ce9b4 No.10201
>>10176
Get castrated and the urges will drop significantly.
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360e5b No.10209
needs to go the way of the dodo like findom and cuckolding, it's fine if you're into it but it shoehorned it's way into mainstream femdom and needs to go back to it's fucking corner.
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d9c0d2 No.10217
I've been locked in chastity and I enjoy the challenge of having to beat however the longest I've gone before. And when I finally get released, the orgasm is always intensely mind-blowing.
That being said, I would definitely despise being locked up and cucked or something like that. That shit is not for me. It's hot if she is masturbating while I am suffering, but that is different. I also wouldn't want to be in chastity all the time unless released. It might be days or weeks before I am in chastity again and that works fine for me. Keeps it interesting that I don't know when I will be ordered back in.
I wouldn't recommend wearing it 24/7 if you are going to wear it for days. At least not a metal one, which is what I use. When in chastity for multiple days, I am freed to take cold showers and keep clean (as well as clean the device), and I might get other breaks as well, I just can't cum.
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d4573f No.10218
>>10217
Plastic ones suck for 24/7 in my experience, I heard that metals ones were better?
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8d40a5 No.10259
The shittiest of all fetishes, the fetish of being an incel. You can feel worthless and not have sex without having a woman jabber on about it.
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a9c7e9 No.10445
>>1933
As long as nothing is pinching or catching skin anywhere and you clean inside the cage and around the base ring regularly you'll be fine.
Unless the cage being used isn't fit for purpose and the bloodflow is restricted (in which case things will quickly start to turn purple).
This is why finding the right size cage can be a difficult and drawn out process if you're looking to do the whole thing long term.
I've found that a hollow penis plug for urination with a CB curve is great for me personally because i'm pretty big when fully erect and sometimes have issues with curling back up into the cage when soft.
There is one thing to say about the confinement though, or rather just the lack of use of a penis. They can shrink in size marginally but i don't think it would be anything to worry about. It's not like you'd get someone who's 5 inches to go down to 2/3.
You'd need regular cleaning anyway so if the sub was erect during this brief period of freedom, i doubt there would ever be a chance for the penis to shrink at all
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a9c7e9 No.10446
>>2366
Massively disagree with that tl;dr.
Coming from someone that isn't actually a lifestyle sub, being read by someone who is a lifestyle sub, your comment held no real merit.
I would agree that it is symbolic in a way though and that the sub should want to be in chastity. Most people into chastity as a way to represent their servitude will spend time and money finding the right device for them that they don't fall out of or that they can easily pull out of, especially wearing it day to day which real lifestyle subs would generally do since it isn't something that's purely based on sex for those who want it to be a part of their lifestyle.
It's also interesting that you refer to it as a sex toy. I've been into chastity for years and i've never once thought of it as a toy in any sense. more of an implement that enables a certain type of play in a D/s relationship/session
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a348d7 No.10498
>>1925
Never been in a femdom relationship but if I was I'd probably be willing to do it. As long as I was let out often and I was still aloud to do things like eat her out then I feel like it would be enjoyable. Only problem I see with it is the ones that are more covered up seem like they'd be gross to wear for too long
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8970bb No.10503
Chastity is one of my favorite kinks. If I orgasm I lose interest in sex and the whole femdom dynamic for at least a few hours. Chastity means I can serve whoever I am with for much longer periods of time.
I would appreciate being allowed to cum maybe once a week or so, though. Otherwise I would go insane with arousal.
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0066e7 No.10523
>>1925
I'd like it if it were possible for me to wear it at night, but my unending nocturnal erections make chastity a literal impossibility for me. I always wake up at night in immense pain, not even like a full 2 hours after dozing off, it's horrible.
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427fa7 No.10542
It would only really work out if she had me locked up during weekends. Friday and Saturday nothing but teasing before sex the next day.
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