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 No.194581

I see hot guys all over, I also see plenty of gross old dudes. I see my fair share of sexy girls, but I have never come across an unattractive female character. Why is that? It seems so very weird to me, consider how popular gross slob male characters are when paired with young beautiful women. Why isn't the opposite nearly as prevalent?

Is it because the people who play females aren't interested? Do they think they'll get no approaches? Is it because there is a drought of art on the subject and the scarce few examples available online aren't really ugly per se? Pic related, closest I could find was girl not wearing make-up Are the blue players simply not interested in anything other than busty chicks with DD boobs, flawless skin and perfect teeth?

Scars, braces, mental disorders, pimples, cellulite, skin blemishes, stretch-marks, boob larger/smaller than its counterpart, nasty slob habits. These are common IRL but so rare on RP, it can't be solely because people want to escape into a fantasy world where everyone's perfect, otherwise why would male slobs be around and get play?

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 No.194596

Unattractive women are always less valuable than attractive ones. Sure, they can have skills and knowledge far more useful than just being pretty, but no one wants to fuck them. Traditional narratives use women as plot devices or rewards for heroism. If a homely woman attracts someone it's because they're easy. They can't get good dick because they're ugly, and if a handsome man offers them a pitty fuck they will be grateful. They'll show real affection whereas a hotter, better looking woman always thinks she could find someone better than you.

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 No.194598

Mental disorders are fun as fuck to play with. My worstgender is a bit psychologically fucked with some BPD-esque traits and it's really fun to play it up with the right partner. Granted people usually just say 'hi miss can u fuck my ass pls ;)' and ignore that shit RIP

I like playing characters with something inherently wrong to them. Not physically ugly, but some psychological scar or issue that will explode into a horrible mess sooner or later.

No uggos, though. Sexual attraction is important in /erp/ and sex in general. Beauty might be in the eye of the beholder, but 99% of people like 'conventional beauty'. The giver doesn't matter unless it's also another woman.

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 No.194602

Ugly male characters are usually ugly to "punish" whatever girl character they have sex with. It's a part of the humiliation kink. That same kink does not really seem to exist in reverse. Sex with an ugly girl doesn't have as much value as sex with a pretty girl, but it isn't considered to "devalue" and humiliate the man who has sex with the ugly girl.

That said, I try to play relatively average-looking girls since I like to play reverse traps and don't want them to be girly. I might play girls with physical flaws–buck teeth maybe, or braces, or scars or something–but the idea of playing an ugly girl just isn't as fun.

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 No.194627

>>194596

Great incel post.

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 No.194629

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So, this is my fetish.

>>194602 is more or less correct in regards to the dominant themes of this scene. It's all fat_bastard types because the most common take on this by far is to humiliate or degrade someone by subjecting them to a guy like that and making fun of how much they're portrayed liking it "deep down" or whatever. We could argue the armchair psychology and lobster heirarchy "biology" all we like, and project our weird views onto humanity as a whole a la >>194596, but the gist is that ugly people aren't attractive inherently and are relegated generally to the role of demeaning someone else who is attractive, which traditionally means grossnasty dude, pretty anime lady.

There's a huge amount of value in this personally for me though because I'm nonvisual as hecc and way too in the heads of the characters involved in whatever scene I play. The idea of characters coming together over some kind of gradual tension brought on by circumstances and chemistry, spending enough time together that it wouldn't matter, etc. is basically the only way I can get "into" hscenes anyway, and the idea of having that with a character that's genuinely not pretty at all and making them feel pretty anyways oh my gosh only exaggerates and plays to that for me. I'm genuinely scared there's something wrong with me, because I'm massively attracted to broken, ugly characters or, alarmingly, people and the thought of helping them feel better about themselves/becoming better-looking. This applies to mental illness, which is a decently well-represented kink, as much as to just… Not pretty people, women that never learned makeup, generally unlovable things in people and otherwise, centipedes, wasps, etc. God have mercy on my soul

If I had to wager a guess it's because masculine attractiveness is massively conflated and attached to abstract things like power and wealth, in addition to generally being a lot scarcer, difficult to define, and fleeting, whereas female attractiveness is more biological, base, and generally more… Widely distributed, in actual women. There's a hell of a lot more nasty dudes than nasty women, as best I can tell. Maybe that has something to do with it. I don't think anybody is qualified to know and I have enough screwed up double standards that anything I think of it should be taken with a grain of salt,

but Jesus Christ, please give me a genuinely unattractive peasant woman to rope into some big dumb overarching plot, I'm jonesing.

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 No.194640

Why would I want to play an ugly girl or with an ugly girl? The point of RP for me is to escape the realities of the shitty life we live.

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 No.194663

Unattractive qualities work better with more context and as means for creating emotional attachment, they are fine in longer stories. I'd wager a guess that majority of scenes played aim to create an attractive mental image to get off to in short term, where details that don't build towards the goal easily become distractions. Unattractive qualities are nice as leverage for making someone feel good and can make for some very emotionally intense sex. Male or female, characters that are too perfect become more quickly narratively exhausted. I think it's about picking the right tool for the job.

Many of the points mentioned by other posters are also good.

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 No.194666

>>194627

I'm voluntarily celibate, thankyouverymuch. I don't blame society for my inability to get laid. I know I can't get pussy because I don't go out and I don't pursue relationships or friendships in general. I just don't care.

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 No.194667

>>194666

Maybe the worst answer you could have given if you're not just trolling.

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 No.194668

>>194667

How so?

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 No.194696

>>194602

>Ugly male characters are usually ugly to "punish" whatever girl character they have sex with. It's a part of the humiliation kink.

This.

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 No.194729

>>194629

We have a strange amount of overlap in interests, MiAnon.

Anyway, I tend to prefer making less conventionally attractive characters in general. RP sites tend to be filled with wish fulfillment "smoking hot 10/10 bombshells" no matter where you look. Huge dicks, amazing abs, massive racks and sweet asses. That's fine, there's nothing wrong with making and playing what you want.

Typically, however, I prefer more narrative to my play and two perfect people being perfect together just feels fake and pointless. It's more fun when characters interact and develop. Learn to like one another instead of just going "you're hot, I'm hot lets fuck" asap.

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 No.194750

OP's lady looks way better without the makeup, she just needs to stop makin ducklips.

Regardless, there's definitely qualities that are universally unattractive like acne, versus those that aren't deemed optimal, but not necessarily off-putting like buck teeth or poor fashion sense. Different beauty standards and stuff, I definitely find myself gravitating toward characters that don't look normal.

>>194629

good post

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 No.194782

>>194696

I wouldn't have phrased it the way they did but as someone who plays pink subs and enjoys having ugly blues force themselves on my characters the extra humiliation and revulsion is pretty much the whole reason I like ugly partners.

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 No.194784

>>194581

>pimples, cellulite, skin blemishes, stretch-marks,

To be fair I don't know of any ugly male characters that go into any detail on any of those. They might be fat but cellulite and stretchmarks tend to be ignored. Things like warty dicks are about the closest I've seen to pimples.

>Scars, braces, mental disorders boob larger/smaller than its counterpart, nasty slob habits.

Braces are a fetish. Reasonable amounts of scars as well. Mental disorders - everybody wants to fuck a crazy chick. The boobs thing simply doesn't have much art for it and 'Lazy slob gamer girl' is a fairly standard trope.

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 No.194785

Same reason why "butherface" porn is by no means the most popular genre. Personally, some people like me enjoy it for the extra humiliation factor of fucking ugly chicks just for their body, but most people prefer average. To run through some of the things you mentioned though, some are actually more popular than others.

>Scars, braces, mental disorders

People like these, I see these on kink lists often enough.

>Pimples, cellulite, skin blemishes, stretch-marks, boob larger/smaller than its counterpart, nasty slob habits

These though seem to be pretty universally disliked. Even when we're talking about old fat men, most of them seem to have gotten out of their acne phase.

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 No.194786

>>194785

I've met plenty of people into blemishes, cellulite and stretchmarks.

Stretchmarks, specifically, tend to be more of a weight gain/pregnancy thing though rather than part of simply being ugly.

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 No.194817

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>>194629

>We could argue the armchair psychology and lobster heirarchy "biology" all we like

>which traditionally means grossnasty dude, pretty anime lady.

It seems to me the whole point of the thread is to understand why this is the "traditional" thing, and I don't think it's very helpful to go "no use talking about it."

>>194596 is a bit rough, but he's right; just like women are inherently more valuable than men, pretty women are inherently more valuable than ugly women (in a sense, that's what being pretty means), and you may not like it, and you may think it's a bunch of armchair psychology, but these are very well documented evolutionary truths, and I don't get why people are so stubborn about such a simple concept. Since a woman can only be impregnated by one guy at a time, while a man can impregnate many women in a short period of time, the woman loses a lot by carrying children with inferior genetics, meaning that, by extension, they tend to dislike mating with males they deem unattractive, and that's where the degradation comes from; on the other hand, if a dude impregnates (has sex) with an ugly female, he won't care much either way, since he can just move on. So basically, the perception of the woman as valuable is important for the scenes and stories to be impactful, and this means that ugly women really aren't that great as catalysts of emotion, since, quite frankly, nobody really cares about them, in a way.

I'm really into heavy psychological stuff in my smutt, so writing or playing ugly females sounds kinda fun, in a way, but I can't imagine it working in a degrading sense; more so in stories about love or something like that.

Unless of course we're talking about "ugly" (read, exotic-kinda-strange-looking-at-first) women, and not plain ugly human women.

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