/doomer/ - Doomers Club

>>27117

>use faith as escapism to my beta personality

and Friedrich Nietzsche nailed it

if you are interested in that topic research what nietzsche said about religion. he said alcohol and christianity are the worst inventions of europe.

It is all one giantic cope. Basically they take all the bad characteristics of people and elevate it into something holy or good

>you are unable to have sex

>well then you are pure

>you cannot beat the bullly from school because you are a coward

>no you are in fact kind for forgiving him what he did to you

>you see successful people walk past you but you are happy with the little you have (poverty) and see no reason to become like them

>wow, you clearly have no gram of envy inside you, what a pure heart you have

This is what he means. It was a very interesting thought to me and funny how you fit that description on the religion stuff

>post-fap repentance

>feeling like shit

Schopenhauer describes this phenomening like this:

<and after ejaculation, devil sits right next to you and laughs about you

If you are interested in those philosophical aspects, I recommend you to research Schopenhauer and Nietsche

However, if you are seeking for a solution to suffering they will not give it to you. Both of them were life time shizo weirdos and died alone in poverty in their appartements. There is no solution for when you are fucked in the head so much that normalfags want nothing to do with you anymore

Now to your question

>I really love her but I really don't know what to do

Did you talk to her?

If you love her and she loves you then why don't you just enjoy your time together.

I don't understand the obsession with sex. If your dick is really exploding then just find a hooker or something or fap until your dick is sore.

And I doubt your gf thinks of fapping as cheating on her. But I think you should tell her you think of her when you fap.

And very important is for you to find out if she faps too. Because if she does, she can obviously not be an asexual.

Maybe she has one of those complex things about thinking she is not beautiful enough for sex or something.

Maybe she is just scared and if you take away her fears everyone is happy in the end.

Literally the best you can do is to just openly talk to her and find out your both positions and what you want from life

If you are too different about what you want in life then you have no future anyways and it is best to not waste each others time

For example if you want children but she doesn't you will not have a future as a couple but it does not mean you can spend quality time together and have a good time

In any case I wish you good luck in this story and I hope we get at least one happy end story done

Make us proud

>>27130

Nietzsche is shit. I don't understand why all philosophers have been sucking his dick since the 19th century.

>>27151

But his main principles that religion and alcohol prevent you from being the person you would like to be (i.e. the type of person you are envious about) is generally right.

We find gorillions of excuses why we are not Michael Schumacher or Lloyd Blankfein

And then even more excuses why we never tried at least being half as good. Or 10% as good as them

He did get this thing right. There is no progress from fetishizing your weakness.

But of course, as I said, most these nihilist type of people were as brain damaged as your modern day *channer.

I am sure if they lived today they would have been Anime Neets wasting their lives just like us.

But being born in their times where there was no internet and escapist media to waste time on, they could use their mental gymnastics to write books and build theories and crap like that.

So did you talk to her already?

I wonder what the reason is for her "asexuality"

>>27157

Just to be clear I'm not OP (I didn't see the flag)

the reasons why I hate nietzsche don't fit with /doomer/ or chans in general. he advocated a a rigid hierarchy based on hereditary talent. but he didn't see this hierarchy as being aligned with sex/race/class/nationality/culture/whatever nor did he think it requires a state. this is why lefists love him despite his obvious elitism. Aristocratism but not fascism in other words, while I advocate genetic equality through gene selection. So yes, maybe he's right ON THAT PART and that part only but not on the rest.

nietzsche was still a blackpilled philosopher btw though not in the same way as schopenauer. it's very clear that he believed in a rigid genetic hierarchy (though not in a racialist or classist way unlike spencer) of a few geniuses dominating a large mass of mediocre people, ulike what you seem to imply when you say "even more excuses why we never tried at least being half as good. Or 10% as good as them" there is no "progress" with niztzsche

also OP is aware that religion is a cope so it's not an excuse. but yeah you're right that today's incels would probably

>>27117

did she seem to express real romantic interest in you? if not, then asexuality might have been an excuse to get rid of you. If yes well then it's up to you to decide if the relationship is worth it. If you decide that is is then tell her clearly that you're not asexual, that you have sexual thoughts about her and are going to fap to release it. but in any case don't give up fapping you won't support it.

I fucking hate people who have or had sex.

OP here! Sorry for late reply lately I hardly frequent the IBs.

I must admit that while writting the post I was too blackpilled and dramatic.

>>27130 I understand the posture of Nietzsche but I am not looking for an excuse for my bad habits but to do good and have a simple life with good values and maybe something altruistic. In fact in the past I wanted to be a pilgrim or priest but in the end I decided not to due personal reasons.

I find Schopenhauer interesting and I will investigate.

>I don't understand the obsession with sex.

It isn't that I am obsessed with sex but that when I put it aside from my life for a good time (2 years) this feeling returned to me in a romantic, non-hedonistic way and knowing that it wasn't possible gave me a good kick in the balls in addition to a mental confusion.

She dosn't fap and watch porn neither.

>Maybe she has one of those complex things about thinking she is not beautiful enough for sex or something.

That's what I thought at first but the more I talked about it with her the more I realized that it is not so, even became bother at my insistence on the subject. Probably and I hope it's like you say that its just a self-esteem thing.

We have our differences for tomorrow but I will do my best to solve them, thanks for the good wishes.

>>27157 I also detest nihilism, if life has no purpose I create myself one and seek to give the best for myself and for others.

About his asexuality… well, I wondered the same thing several times until I discussed the whole thing with her. I'm her first boyfriend too and I think she may have a hormonal problem or just think she's ugly and doesn't deserve good things given her depression and shit like that. Be that as it may, I help her emotionally on a daily basis and try to protect her.

>>27207 >did she seem to express real romantic interest in you?

Of course, if in fact she is very afraid and insecure that I leave her or cheated on her and I don't want to hurt her in any way, she knows i'm not asexual and she find sexual relationship gross and is afraid of it.

As I said before, the point is not that I'm obsessed with fuck but the mental impact on something that I leave and return make me feel confused and anger. Maybe I could be with her without sex but I should have told me before, although I have to admit that as a man controlling these impulses is going to be difficult and above all weird and abnormal in a relationship, I am not hedonistic either but I just want a normal relationship.

Thanks you for reading.

>>27117

Honesy maybe she'll let you fuck her to make you happy, maybe seeing you happy will make her happy. I don't know how it works, may e she w9n't be the best in bed but she'll still enjoy it in a way? Or maybe she won't I don't know. I guess she loves you so she isn't aromantic. Maybe you can work around it, or be in a romantically monogomous relationship while you guck hookers. You should talk to her more about it, you may as well ask

>>27224

what's the point of ur post/this video I don't get it

>>27247

I'm guessing that's that weird army veteran faggot that fucks whores in malaysia, i haven't been on this site/kept up with this shit in years

>>27221

Having sex with a person who doesn't enjoy sex is like sleeping with a fish. Not enjoyable at all. OP has to either go with the flow and simply accept that he will never have a normal sexual relationship with this particular girl or simply find another one. So_einfach_ist_das_mann.jpg

>>27259

>As rule in life, never be together with a person who you want to change. That's a bad start and unfair in the end. Either you accept the person for who they are or you search for someone who you like how they are RIGHT NOW

now this actually makes sense. Pot and kettle must fit else you are just wasting each others time and have no future.

>at an asexual convention

wait, what, this really exists? convention just for asexuals?

truly in today's economy there is an event for everything in life.

I never heard of anything like that. thank you for telling me about it. It was a good story

>He in turn went on to go to Asia to drown in yellow pussy.

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SEXTOURIST

But this phenomenon gets even the high tier normalfag beta white guys.

I know of one bank manager. He was married for about 20 years with a Singaporean Chinese.

A few weeks ago I see him with a new girl. Looks South East Asian and is 20 years younger then him.

He was like a teenage boy all lovey dovey. I wonder if they really prefer oriental brides or if they just cannot get okcidental wives

>>27117

SHE4S NOT ASEXUAL

YOU ARE NOT THAT HANDSOME DUDE

>>28302

this