No.18933
What was the reason your last relationship ended?
I couldn't maintain the level of emotional intimacy they wanted. I got to a point where I really just didn't give a shit and wanted them to stop bugging me about their problems.
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No.18934
Fell in love with her potential of who I wanted her to become, not who she was becoming.
Also discovered nofap/semen retention and Christianity halfway through our 4 year relationship and then every time we had sex I would notice I wasn't happier, just tired and less ambitious.
When I told her I didn't want to have sex as much, or at least try and not ejaculate during sex, she would make fun of me and say I'm being stupid.
"All guys like to cum, what's wrong with you lately?"
She would also make fun of me for reading the bible and praying, because when we first started dating I was agnostic and she's an atheist.
I feel I'm on the righteous path now but it was difficult and sad to fall out of love over different morals.
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No.18935
I wish I knew OP
>>18934
good job anon. Based and stoicpilled. Its really hard I suppose when you want to see the best in someone but they just don't measure up.
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No.18951
>>18933
>implying I was ever in a relationship in the first place
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No.18952
>>18951
Was a polite sage for being borderline /r9k/ fag.
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No.18959
>>18933
>Shit communication.
>Tastes/values drifting apart.
>Impatience and frustration with each other
>political bullshit on top of all that.
>pic rel
wtf happened to our public intellectuals? They used to have style, now they're either slobs or bugmen. One of the many reasons why the world has gone to shit.
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No.18960
>irl
I've never tried to get involved with girls. thanks to autism.
>online
i wanted to be alone. they were nice with me. they wanted us to continue and meet irl. but depression made me stay away. they trusted me and i broke their hurt. i shouldn't have ghosted them. the problem was in me. in my head.
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No.18961
She had a psychological break and reverted to a child like state. Then one day while I was at work she tried to kill herself. I stayed with her for six months after that, she never got better. I got depressed, and she came to resent me, and threatened that she would/could start cheating on me if she wanted to. I kicked her out gave her money to travel to get to her parent's. Her mom called me 4 days later and said she tried to kill herself, and I'm to blame.
To be fair I met her when she was living in her car, but she was 12 years younger than me tiny and cute.
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No.18967
>>18933
She told me she had cancer to… check my loyalty, I guess?
The lie became obvious pretty damn quick since someone in my family had cancer, and both the signs of undergoing treatment and not undergoing treatment are pretty fucking obvious.
I should probably stop trying to find a woman fundamentally broken enough to be completely molded by me, they tend to be more than a little crazy.
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No.18973
the last attempt to be with a woman was 2 years ago i think and then i just lost interest. this girl lived far from my hometown, and after 2 or 3 months of talking on phone we were going to met at some shitty music festival (local bands here in argentina, all of them crap to me), but some inconvenient didn't let me go. day after that she was on twitter posting shit like oh i fell in love with this dude (not me of course, some dude she met there), and i didn't make an attempt to write to her, i just leave it there.
then i stalked her and they weren't together not even for like a month. the last time i checked her profile it was suddenly converted to a fan account for these korean crap music groups, so im actually glad that i'ven cucked
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No.18983
She started to stop meeting blaming it on depresssion and after 3 or so months of not meeting her at all I talked to her about it and broke up with her on a whim then pathetically started bugging her about how I wanted her to tell me what her problem was with me and got overly clingy
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No.18985
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No.18989
>>18933
No clue. During last year of relationship we pretty much only argued to a degree I was trying to avoid her so I don't even know what was the real issue. I'm not sad about it though, as if all those years never happened. She was different than me in every aspect and all we had was blind love and a bit of sexual attraction.
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No.18996
>>18985
iktfb and I wish I didn't
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No.19124
Same with every other one, i get centered on the idea of them more than the actual person. And have self destructive tendancies to push everone away and sit alone in my own shit drinking and trying to be sad until they don't want anything to do with me. All because that hole in my chest i keep ripping open and that real sadness is like a fucked up high i keep chasing.
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No.19125
Same with every other one, i get centered on the idea of them more than the actual person. And have self destructive tendancies to push everone away and sit alone in my own shit drinking and trying to be sad until they don't want anything to do with me. All because that hole in my chest i keep ripping open and that real sadness is like a fucked up high i keep chasing.
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No.19136
like every other one, the woman was unfaithful. except one, I was falsely accused of rape.
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No.19379
My last girlfriend is 8 years younger than I am. We dated briefly between 2013 and 2014. It was just a fling that began one August and ended when she gave me the clap. She was a hot little slut too. Dominican and Cambodian, it was in her blood.
I hooked up with a few girls after that but just for one night stands. I just became too miserable. Haven't had any involvement with a woman in 5 years.
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No.19504
Lost interest in parties and weed. Turns out we were never an item, just two people who didn't wanna get fucked up alone.
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No.19507
>What was the reason your last relationship ended?
never was in one, never tried one
>I couldn't maintain the level of emotional intimacy they wanted.
sad but true. most stories in life do not end like hollywood tells us
instead you get the unhappy end
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No.29640
>>18934
>Posts obviously fake story full of buzzwords/muh wimminz BAD
>claims to be a Christian and talks about morals
>Posts on a site that's directly against everything Jesus, His Apostles, and all the saints, martyrs, etc are against.
Yep. Just another privileged boomerlennial from the suburbs larping to brighten his ho-hum life with a little illusion.
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No.29642
>>29640
Idk. This one doesn't sound like that. This sounds legit. Notice how he's not blaming women?
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No.29668
>>29642
Why would a self-respecting Christian post on a den of sin and vice like 8kun? And why would a Christian be a doomer? This reads a lot like Churchanity to me, not the real gospel.
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No.29669
>>18933
Deeply entrenched pessimism, shitty guesswork, and a refusal to communicate.
She never said one nice thing about me, but was always eager to outline all the amazing things about her ex. Thus, I got it in my head that I wasn't her type and, therefore, she was with me for the sake of having *a* boyfriend, regardless of who it actually was.
So far, solid. The problem is that I discounted the possibilities that I may have badly misinterpreted something, or that her feelings could have deepened.
In the middle of a conversation about the relationship, I broke up with her because this visceral wave of pessimism came over me, convincing me it was pointless to stay.
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No.29719
>>18961
>To be fair I met her when she was living in her car, but she was 12 years younger than me tiny and cute.
This is why men always get fucked over. Because they fall for "youthful beauty/innocence".
Is it too much to pursue an older mature woman?
All you doomers whine about the abysmal state of women yet you keep going for the toxic ones.
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No.29720
>>29719
>All you doomers whine about the abysmal state of women yet you keep going for the toxic ones.
Because for all their talk about muh foids, it's basically them being the male version of the women who think they can fix the bad boys. Every time I see a "doomer" or some other "anti-mainstream" person talk about themselves, I see more and more that it's basically just the male equivalent to "I'm not like those OTHER girls" shit. Every single time, too. I mean, take the whole "normie" shit for example. You consoom the same product they do, but you think you're better than them because….?
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No.29746
>>29720
George Carlin was right: Women are crazy, men are stupid.
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No.29811
Unfaithful. I tried to provide the moon to her but then pulled back when she acted all weird. That eventually lead to her cheating. Probably using me from the begining. Hopefully I can find love in a foreign land.
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